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Re: Mistress

Y I always get singers instead of KTV, HC, TN, StreetWalkers or even outright hookers????
Simple.

This is a game.
Pure mental and physical domination.
Though my methods do require $$$, its the best safe bet.

As most bros have already alerted me to this thread in the very beginning, I have chosen to be silent and not comment, cos I have been following this thread in the very beginning and I must say, its for myself only, that I will not practise what is preached here, not that its not applicable, but the risks, i guess is too high.
Why do i say that????
I will elaborate below as I've had too much Chinese Tea wif Bro WarBird earlier at a HFJ wif his new BY toy and so, looks like another long nite for me.

Remember, this is bot meat! Not love.........
If you have a crush or sense that you're getting too emotionally attached to someone, RUN!
Remember the number of pussies coming through our Int'l Airport every other day.
As mentioned by TS, be in control, be the Alpha in the game.
You dictate, she submits...no compromise watsoever!!!!!!!
The minute you want her more than she wants you, you're as good as FUCKED!
She just became the Alpha!
So if you approached the topic wif her once, and she says no or outright dilly dally tactic, just say bye and walk off.
All these must be done in the face, never on the phone or sms....her expressions speaks more than her words....always look for little movements or changes in facial expression......

Dangers of getting Non Singers
When you have someone who has to run tables, suck man's dicks for a living, you can never control her activities.
She's got one million and one golden opportunities to give excuses for her disappearance etc etc, thus, did you really BAO her?
To me NO!
If you Bao someone, she's your back and call....nottin more nottin less
You just rented a hole that you preferred, that's all.
Most importantly, its a personal hole.
Want anything more, you're in for the ride of your life.

Why Singers??????
They have to report to work 7days a week and only 1 day off the entire month.
So, during working hours, she's literally in prison cos she cant disappear.
Next, be smart, know some of the staff there & always tip them generously, cos money in such places will go a long way.
Also, hang flowers for those that you notice that have weak flower ratings, dun seek sex from them, seek their EYES and EARS!
Do the above, and which ever customer comes, hangs how much, what your singer is doin etc etc, you'll always be informed.
For the staff, tell them outright that you'll take care of them and in return, they'll be your spies....this is also very important.
Know where the singer stays, cos if there's another singer staying in close proximity, she'll be your best friend.
Never support their room mate, cos they'll most definitely be in cahoots together as proven to Bro WarBird tonight hehehehe

Also, support someone who your singer hates on stage, cos this person will have no reservation watsoever to betray the singer you BAO...very political but very water tight.

Yes, remember, they're here for the SGD not lovy dovy.
A non singer has so much space to maneuver, thus its very diff to have outright domination on here, unless you BAO her a very generous amount and she just stays and home and spreads her legs for you everyday.......but what happen when you're working, or sleeping???? That's the blind spot!

For a singer, if you BAO her, you will hang generously, thus, news will spread soon and the big players will usually be informed who's BAOed and Who's not.
Only new or small palyers will not know such privileged intel.
It wont take long before the singer herself knows that she's being watched, thus this will cos her to have very little space to maneuver...this is when she'll decide to submit or RUN!

If you Bao someone for say, 2k a month, cmon, be practical, even for a local, how to survive?
What you got is not a steal, but a shared toilet. So in this light, is it really worth the little money spent let alone, sharing it wif someone else??????

Having a mistress, excuse me, is not a cheap thing, the entire game requires $$$$ and also, a thief to catch a thief mentality.
Always know, what you hear isnt real, to outwit them, you have to think like them. What would you do, say think to help you make more money????? This goes through their mind all the time.

In this game, there is always a looser.
If the man spends more than he wishes to get the meat, he lost.
If the gal submits to all your demands and has no bargaining power to squeeze you of more juice, she lost!

Remember, NO EMOTIONS!
Just treat them as whores and you'll be fine.
Once you allow their sweetness and charm to smitten you or have a crush on them, man, you're already dead............

Never tell them your location, movements, or when you're goin to be visiting her at her joint.
Just appear, and try to be as mysterious as possible, cos the minute she reads you like a book, she'll be able to play you without you even knowing it....
Actions like these will keep her on her toes, cos remember, when the cat is gone, the rats come out to play.....imagine the anxiety of the cat suddenly appearing.......u know what i mean...imagine living like this everyday n nite.......this would be the kind of pressure you want to instill in her mind
Common texts are:
Them: 老公, 你在干吗呢?
You :我需要报道给你吗?

Them: 老公,今晚回来看我吗?
You: 我想去就会去, 不用问


Them: 老公, 今晚我放工了我们去宵夜好吗?
You: 我还不饵, 看吧!
Appear 5 mins before they knock off work and say you're here waiting for her for supper.....hahahaha
Can you imagine how you'd feel if you were her?
There you go

The entire charade is to not allow them to pose anything to you, thus will always be placed in the backseat. You drive, they sit, so in very crude term, JUST SHUT UP AND FOLLOW!

$$$$$ is the root and most important fundamental of this game.
If you want a mistress, in my book, it's called personal toilet, be prepared to spend $$$$$$$
If you cant, suggest you save your money and get STs when avail rather than spending money on a shared toilet, just dun make sense............

These gals are very realistic, so shud we.......
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