Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

[silverug]

Originally Posted by otherOne

Same here, the closest would be mistress belle who is 29 this year. But many of these new young dommes become dommes as a way to 'make money while playing', and most of them are those ah lian/party slut types that guys up to the age of 19 would go crazy for. So yeah, you spoke harshly but i get your points.

I beg to differ....i have sessioned with Mistress Raine and found her to be genuine. She has amassed lots of tools since becoming a Pro Domme and based on FR of others that had visited her multiple times, it can be concluded that she invest her time to prepare for a session and always find ways to make future session much more sexciting . In any case, Pro Domme is also service provider, so, there no reason to do it for free. Why would someone meet an unknown and uninteresting guy just because she loves to dominate someone?

[assmanager]

Originally Posted by dominion

It’s probably you who is not doing yourself any favour.

Objectively, no prodomme will satisfy everyone. Each of us are different persons and have different preferences. The saying that one man’s meat is another’s poison is very apt.

However, while you’re not wrong in differing in your assessment or preference, your attempts to paint a popular prodomme in a bad light and nitpicking on minor points come across as malicious. There are lian-ish prodommes, the jiak/kantangs ones and the atas ones. No one needs to be attacked for being whom they are fundamentally .

The fact that people disagree with you strongly enough and in such numbers is probably testament to how erroneous you were

Please do enlighten me how or where I have been erroneous. Popular opinion does not equate to correctness. I provided an unpopular opinion that I am entitled to provide, no need for you holier than thou attitude around here.

No need to try and be a white knight, we are all entitled to share our experiences.

[otherOne]

Originally Posted by silverug

I beg to differ....i have sessioned with Mistress Raine and found her to be genuine. She has amassed lots of tools since becoming a Pro Domme and based on FR of others that had visited her multiple times, it can be concluded that she invest her time to prepare for a session and always find ways to make future session much more sexciting . In any case, Pro Domme is also service provider, so, there no reason to do it for free. Why would someone meet an unknown and uninteresting guy just because she loves to dominate someone?

Actually for the record I wasn't talking about Raine, never sessioned with her. I was addressing the individual comments assmanager had about his likes and dislikes in dommes, and commenting on the trend of all these really young girls becoming pro dommes.

[raygoat]

Guys cool, I understand where assmanager is coming from.
First of all, I believe this is a public forum where people can share their views on the topic.
However , if it evolves till people afraid to share their views on a bad session or encounter due to the popularity of a particular mistress. Wouldn't it defies the purpose of the forum.

10 good reviews doesn't mean 100% good as there might be 1 that doesn't work out. Then if 1 doesn't work out share his experience and getting zap by those that think otherwise , then in future who dare to share bad or unpleasant reviews?

Reviews are reviews , can be good or bad unless the good ones are written for the shake of creating interest for a particular mistress like some other massage thread. Then very soon this thread will turn into another marketing tool just like the so many massage thread out there where it is very obvious a OKT thread which I have since stop visiting . All either fake advertising FR or asking for contact thread.

Nowadays I only come back here for a few particular discussion where people are genuinely share FR good or bad .

People that is here long enough know I been around for sometime and sharing quite a few report but I am not that butterfly as I tend to stick to a few particular mistress only. I don't try many mistress. Not KC but due to more comfortable with mistress I served before.

I hope I am not boring you guys with my baggy post as I had a bad day for the past few days but I hope this thread can remain as it is before , sharing true and real FR good or bad.

Sorry about the grammar and spacing as I don't understand why I can only type with my phone with half the screen is used for the keypad and the balance 1/3 Is use for the icons and another 1/3 Is use for the battery and time and all sorts of nonsense status of the phone .
Basically I can only see 4 lines of what I am typing in a small reply box which automatically moves left and right when I type......sigh.....I must be getting old.... Sorry for the bore I must be going crazy ....

[Havanna Slicks]

Originally Posted by raygoat

Guys cool, I understand where assmanager is coming from.
First of all, I believe this is a public forum where people can share their views on the topic.
However , if it evolves till people afraid to share their views on a bad session or encounter due to the popularity of a particular mistress. Wouldn't it defies the purpose of the forum.

i agree with you totally bro, yes u're a senior, i totally respect that...
point to note here, posting a negative FR or comment has to warrant something like attitude, skills and play, that is fundamentally something we're looking for, not on looks, accent or
otherwise which is what the domme is, cant change that, if he finds looks and accent not his type, den juz move on, y is that a need to criticize a domme for being lianish and having a
fake accent, again i might be biased but i dont find Raine lian or purposely putting up a fake accent, perhaps one or 2 sentences here or there but generally she's comfy with english,
chinese or even dialects... swop over, if we were to comment that his favourite mistress (we all know who is it) that is act atas, show off expensive branded goods (being materialistic),
fake accent to show she got drink ang moh ink? how would he feel? her butt got how many hair we also know, not that i've seen before but make sure get that clear before commenting...

Raine is a mistress who takes effort to cater to subs needs, take myself for eg, every session gets better in the sense she will fine tune it closely, seeing that she doesnt have to tools
for my fetish, she faster go and buy to get ready for my next session, electro is a very niche fetish, some dommes dont even cater for it after many yrs in the scene, after one session
w me, Raine went to get, not one but 2 and i think now got 4 or 5... of coz not juz for me but for other bros with the same fetish... mind u electro toys are not cheap to come by, go by
few hundreds to a k at that, seeing how her toy collection is growing, how many dommes are willing to invest such amounts juz to make her subs happy?

generally i would refrain from posting negative FR or comments (after 20yrs i've only posted one) because one man's meat is another's poison, i have bad experience, doesnt mean others
will encounter the same, again to reinforce my pt above, i will only point out pertaining to attitude, skills and play (in that order), if attitude is goner, 5 mins into the session i sian half
already, skills and play still can close one eye if attitude is good, considering Raine is just 2 mths into the scene, her skills are right up there with the big names, so i really do not see
the point of assmanager's post, not saying that he cant comment freely in an open forum, but make sure he knows what he's talking about rather than a small boy (or girl) trying to
flame other dommes...

[doctor sex]

Originally Posted by Havanna Slicks

i agree with you totally bro,
.......
make sure he knows what he's talking about rather than a small boy (or girl) trying to flame other dommes...

Your first line and your lastline seem to contradict. If you had understood raygoats post or at least read it, you would have noticed he was calling for respect for other’s opinions and preferences.

For what’s its worth, I thought ass managers original post was reasonably balanced. He said she was cute, had a great body, did good ball busting, he didn’t regret the session and thought it was money well spent. Yes, he also pointed out what he considered to be some downsides but said that was just his preference and identified that other people feel differently.

[Havanna Slicks]

Originally Posted by doctor sex

Your first line and your lastline seem to contradict. If you had understood raygoats post or at least read it, you would have noticed he was calling for respect for other’s opinions and preferences.

For what’s its worth, I thought ass managers original post was reasonably balanced. He said she was cute, had a great body, did good ball busting, he didn’t regret the session and thought it was money well spent. Yes, he also pointed out what he considered to be some downsides but said that was just his preference and identified that other people feel differently.

i understand his post totally, juz that i feel his downsides were uncalled for...
not that i have anything against him or his views, everyone is entitled to their views, no issue on that...
juz that i highlighted comments has to be justified and not making a personal attack...

personally i have a soft spot for OLs, juz becoz a domme doesnt look like the OL he desires, doesnt means cmi...
saying a domme lacks the x factor (what is he looking for?), knows little of what she's doing (depending on what he requested-this equates to personal attack imo)...
gaze and voice not to his liking also attacking personally...
again i'm have nothing against u, but before commenting that his post is reasonably balanced, read again...

[wujifoot]

Originally Posted by doctor sex

Your first line and your lastline seem to contradict. If you had understood raygoats post or at least read it, you would have noticed he was calling for respect for other’s opinions and preferences.

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Yes very much agreed.

Is it only me feeling this? This thread now resembles a Football team thread, where fans starts criticizing rival fans when their team is attacked.

I think its alright to defend the mistress if you feel that way, however to make personal level critique (and also deduct points) on fellow brudders who happened to give a less than positive comment, I think it's not necessarily.

This is a place we can agree to disagree. If everyone felt the same about every mistress, and say only positive things, it's a boring place too.

[Lugakuga]

Yes these forum are meant for more inputs from different perspectives so people can share what they truly feel. This way those who are considering between the different choices could be more informed before making any decision. Assmanager comments were his own opinions on this mistress despite popular opinion, so these adverse reactions targeted against him were totally uncalled for. Knowing the pros and cons of the doms can really help a newbie decide which is really the most suitable for them.

[rogerkink]

Personally had two sessions with Mistress Raine.

Would say that she's one of the prettier doms out there with a sultry look. Very good at orgasm teasing. Was also pegged by her and the way she moves her hips is just wow!

Overall I think she's doing pretty well for a domme that is starting out. Sadistic and pretty, what more can you ask for?

[Seta]

No need to fight...try le don't like don't find...those like continue to find...hit or miss one mah...

[elementz]

So many white knights around lol.

We are open to share about our experiences, be it good or bad. Assmanager did not say she is entirely bad just that it does not match his preference in terms of looks and personality. I dont know why some are so triggered about it

Everyone have their own say this domme looks chio but to another guy it is not. Or she is just a local ahlian party girl or local well educated OL and it makes a huge difference if people share this cause not all dommes personality/background attracts them especially if they have never tried that domme before.

I find it is important also to share the kind of vibe, looks and personality the domme is and not just because their fetishes matches with theirs, which is why good reviews appears here. I am sure theres bad reviews for them but they dont dare post because of you white knights and they will end up being bashed instead

Doesnt mean the domme able to deliver well in terms of fetishes means she is an all rounded domme. I think you guys miss the point here. The definition of a dominatrix isnt there to just fulfill your fetishes. She can buy whatever plenty of toys or clothes but her attitude or personality is a turn off then no point.

I met international dominatrices and there's a contrast in terms of personality between them and local (Not all). Some local dommes are comparable to overseas dommes but obviously those reviews here in sbf theres no doubt being "publicized" especially for the new ones which is why you dont see veteran dommes who been around for more than a year, their reviews in this thread. If they have established themselves, people will naturally go to them and dont need people to angkat them here

edit: lol the more you bros talk about her she enjoy the attention but lurking ones can tell whats going on. Not taking sides with any dommes but is what I honestly feel that the thread become a way for subs to "review" their fav mistress but we all know is the mistress who ask them to post

[ROTROTROT]

I have seen Mistress Raine too and I have had great sessions with her but I think I can agree that she may not be everyone's cup of tea; definitely my kind of tea though. I do feel she puts in effort in her session to be creative and attentive to you reactions which to me shows a dedication to her craft. There is nothing worse than meeting a dominatrix that is lazy and repeats the same steps like clockwerk and trust me I have met such dommes too; who just lay there and rinse and repeat the same things. There are some bro who like syt dommes to bully and dominate them while there are others that are into those OL mature types that is more common in western countries so to each their own.

Bro Havannaslicks, I have much respect for your contributions to this thread and grateful for your numerous FRs but I hope you realise that you're too harsh on bro Assmanager and I thought his critique was in a respectful manner with regards to mistress Raine. If we aren't allowed to criticize anyone then the thread itself has lost its purpose.

Of course we have to be careful of trolls and jealous dommes who might use an opportunity to smear their competitors and believe me when I say that I know some of the dommes share intense dislike for their fellow counterparts. 10 different people seeing the same domme may not result in the same type of session as there are numerous factors such as chemistry, prior relationship, types of fetishes involved so on and so forth.

We all must learn to accept that as individuals, even our most favourite domme who we might we think to be the most beautiful, perfect person to ever walk on the face of this earth may not be able to deliver a great session to other bros.

[Havanna Slicks]

Originally Posted by ROTROTROT

Bro Havannaslicks, I have much respect for your contributions to this thread and grateful for your numerous FRs but I hope you realise that you're too harsh on bro Assmanager and I thought his critique was in a respectful manner with regards to mistress Raine. If we aren't allowed to criticize anyone then the thread itself has lost its purpose.

bros, actually i do not wan to reply alrdy but since u direct ur post to me, i will post my laz reply here pertaining to this topic, Mistress Raine has told me to stop so i will respect her wishes...
most of you here are not privy to the underlying agenda behind assmanager's post, u can c i'm usually not such a person, i visit every available mistress in SG or from overseas alike, and i
post FR for every single one of them, i do not promote or angkat anyone single like u said... i been in this thread for over a year now, have u seen me shoot anyone like that before? nope never,
i alwiz try to help whenever i can, dommes and subs alike, anyone approach me, i alwiz go out of my way to help them within my means possible, any qn, any query, any bro PM, i spend time to
ans them, some add me on wechat so i add them to chat w them, explain and offer them help or wadever they need...

seeing this saga on the surface, yes it might seem harsh but absolutely necessary, if u search back assmanager's post, it's quite obvious this is a smear campaign from a competitor mistress on
Raine, which is why the few of us (so called white knights or wadever u wana call us)... which is why we have to clamp him / her down, how do we come to this conclusion u might ask? ball busting
not many subs request, so immediately mistress can pinpoint who is it, as far as assmanager goes, Mistress does not recall anyone with his name before coz we know the few bros who request so,
so by posting a fake FR, wad does that equate to, ur guess is as good as mine, so to the few salty / righteous bros who have commented on us, do go back and reflect on wad u have said, and think
deeper, not everything is juz c surface only, if u still think u're right, u're juz supporting an evil mistress's attack on an innocent one doing her job... if it were any bros here making a genuine comment,
review or wadever, no issues abt that, open forum, everyone is entitled to their own views, but y they can have their view, we reply back become we salty, they can have theirs but we cant have ours?
thats not fair right, everyone say wad they wan, juz any neutral party read already can decide for themselves...

to bro elementz, i didnt say juz becoz a mistress buys alot of toys and clothes means she is good, i'm saying she is willing to invest in toys to make subs happy, not many mistress does that,
some wait for pple to buy, some steal subs one (ya one domme tried to steal my toy lol), some milks subs to buy or for wadever reason but Raine doesnt, so this is juz a supporting point,
doesnt cover the attitude or personality part which i advocated earlier... then u said definition of dominitrix not to fulfil fetish, then wad is it u wan a dominitrix to do for u?

to bro robotrot, i agree w ur last 2 sentences, one man's meat is another poison, doesnt mean i find Mistress Raine good, everyone must agree w me or that everyone's session will be as good as mine,
this i totally agree... wad i'm trying to do here is to share my limited experience coz i went one round meeting every domme that i can so you bros no need to, so based on wad i have seen, i'm sharing
w all of u that Mistress Raine is THE domme to meet, most fun and she is attentive to cater to her subs fetish, juz like my electro fetish which i said a few times dowan to keep repeating to bore u,
i've had 3 sessions with her so far (u can read from my FRs), each one gets better than the previous one, although that also means i have to undergo more torture and have my limits pushed even further,
but i guess that's how we learn, progress and grow...

a mistress hot, yea sure will attract attention, positive and negative alike, competitors c alrdy jealous wana shoot her down, but not so easy la, actually sometimes i find saga create more
buzz and publicity so yea tks to both sides now mistress enjoy more attention lol...

[bitchoboi]

Originally Posted by rogerkink

Personally had two sessions with Mistress Raine.

Would say that she's one of the prettier doms out there with a sultry look. Very good at orgasm teasing. Was also pegged by her and the way she moves her hips is just wow!

Overall I think she's doing pretty well for a domme that is starting out. Sadistic and pretty, what more can you ask for?

agree with the sultry look.. just because she look nothing like the girl next door or an elegant OL doesnt mean she is lian. infact i feel she dont look local.
voice wise i dont really remember but its her tone that mesmerized me thou not as much as her stares (like burning into my soul)

maybe u can say she fake her accent but if she do it to get into the character then y not n how many singaporeans actually speak angmo like the angmos from young
would have to disagree with assmanager on her being the bratty type if u have seen her at least once u would know she is actually very nice girl out of sessions

or maybe because i see OLs everyday so she might not be ur type if prefer those but i definitely prefer hot syts like her