Is there true love between us and PRC WL

[gniwgonwk]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Good for you.

Today I juz discovered that my presence will affect her from doing work. Once she sees me, she will feel like being with me and forget about work

So I decided not to visit her so often. Afterall, she needs to work since I can't pay for all her needs at current.

So Bro Shawn, Jia You to the both of US...

This is actually a general reply and my opinion to all the various discussions:

- it is tough for the ladies who come here to work - imagine yourself having to go away to another country, all alone maybe from a small village / farm to work - and in this kind of trade somemore!

- basically the girl is here to EARN MONEY - and they MUST earn enough within a very short time (working life maybe - 10 yrs) to support them till they are old

- the girls are also only human - and most are very young

- a lot of them, I believe have had a major breakup, divorce or something that greatly affected them emotionally before they turned to this line of work; otherwise many others have gambling or other debts to clear; others have been conned into this line

- if you like the girl, treat her nice, give what you think is fair and reasonable, if the girl asks for more and you want to help - same thing give what you wish to give

- the main thing is that both of you enjoy your time together - especially so if the girl has gone back and the opportunity for meeting is only NOT so often

- when away from each other, when one misses the girl, just telephone, no need to think so much

- if want to go China to work - do NOT go for the wrong reasons - find a good opening there and go for it - good working experience to work in China, very marketable now and also in the future BUT expect culture shock

- if one works in China and the girl is sincere, she would be able to go and join you regardless of the location in China

Sorry for long-winded post! Just my views on the matter generally.

[lustysex]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

For mi ... I will try calling my PRC gf everyday after lunch time at 1pm.
Just to ask her how is she doing for the day ?

This is another way to show care & concern in daily manner

bro, pardon me. my first post here.. really enjoy reading this thread.

u call her at 1pm? I thought she will just wake up?

[Krang]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

mi sincerely wish both of you find true love with PRC girls

You forgot to remind him to watch his wallet!

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by Insider

Bro, juts curious, wont she think you really interested in her and maybe want a long term relationship with her ,....

Like that ...good mah she register you into heart liao

[kam pei]

Originally Posted by gniwgonwk

This is actually a general reply and my opinion to all the various discussions:

The problem is when they chu pattern, grandfather sick lah, need money urgently lah etc .... most times lying.

Actually most of the gers are quite used to living away from family, their country not like SG, they are big and people work in different cities anyway. So they are actually quite street smart compared to us.

This being said, to each his own, it is really up to individuals to assess the relationship and see whether one is 'real' or not ...

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by gniwgonwk

This is actually a general reply and my opinion to all the various discussions:

Sorry for long-winded post! Just my views on the matter generally.

Make senses. Up u and let's all remember that they are human after all.

If u take enuff time to know them and build up KC...who knows wat may happen... afterall, some of us had SG GF who also kept asking us to buy things and stuff rite?

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by Krang

You forgot to remind him to watch his wallet!

Oh yes ... in pursue of true love please be reminded to watch your finances.

Plan & control your spending not just on PRC but also S'pore & Msia girls too.

[Babbvbo]

This so call true love only exist as the WL wants repeated business mah. Anyone who date/ chase a woman will know it's bloody hell no easy feat.

[79Guards]

It is true, sometimes we guys are so blinded by true love tat we forsake everything. Must really learn to be smart and wary.

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by lustysex

bro, pardon me. my first post here.. really enjoy reading this thread.

u call her at 1pm? I thought she will just wake up?

Yes.. girls normally wake up late (early is 11am) then she will bath, makeover and then look for foods before going to work.

If you daily call her at 1pm .. to talk & ask how is her today ?
She will be touch if one day you stop calling her. She will feel something missing in her life

[shawn_mib]

today, i got the most devasting news in my life, this afternoon i gave her a call and she was shopping with some1 and we agree tat i'll call her tonite, just now i gave her a call and she nv pick up and i send her an sms.

not long she reply that her husand from SG visit her and she will be getting married and when i tried to call her to clarify things, on the 3rd time she off her hp.

i'm really at a lost rite now, for bro that have followed closely to my story, why is she doing such things to me right now for the all the previous thing she have done for me?

all along she has been with this husband to be and she is also saying that she loves me too. During the time she is back in china, she still maintain contact wif me.

Was she toying with me after all??? Y she was albe tosay that she love me when she was in SG while she already have this other guy that she will be married to. She nv ask from me any $$$ or anything, i'm really at a lost....

[huaren]

Originally Posted by shawn_mib

today, i got the most devasting news in my life, this afternoon i gave her a call and she was shopping with some1 and we agree tat i'll call her tonite, just now i gave her a call and she nv pick up and i send her an sms.

not long she reply that her husand from SG visit her and she will be getting married and when i tried to call her to clarify things, on the 3rd time she off her hp.

i'm really at a lost rite now, for bro that have followed closely to my story, why is she doing such things to me right now for the all the previous thing she have done for me?

all along she has been with this husband to be and she is also saying that she loves me too. During the time she is back in china, she still maintain contact wif me.

Was she toying with me after all??? Y she was albe tosay that she love me when she was in SG while she already have this other guy that she will be married to. She nv ask from me any $$$ or anything, i'm really at a lost....

bro, i feel for you. how's ur feelling now?
forget this "relationship" and move on.

i guess that she was trying to be a Female Casanova. and now she conquered someone. IMO...

[colins]

Bro Shawn, very sorry to hear the news.

I guess you know what that means, it means the relationship has ended. If you want an explanation, do accept that fact that she has lied to you and you may never know the truth. With or without knowing the truth, you can only do one thing now, forget about her.

IMO, whatever she done for you in sg, was a fair deal for your willingness to like her. She stayed in contact with you becos she probably cared about you and you were an 'option' for marriage. Take peace in the fact that she din want further commitment from you, that showed that although she lied about 'facts', she din lied about 'feelings'. If she want to cheat your feeling, you would be in Beijing right now.

She actually cushioned your fall. But the fact remains, that she doesn't need you now. If you keep your cool for the time being, and stay out of contacting her for like a couple of months, she may reveal the truth to you once she felt less threatened by your persistent questions and by her guilt.

But, you will probably be alright by then. There may not be a point in knowing anything anymore. So the only thing you can do right now, is to find something else to think about.

Once again, so sorry bro, I know its painful right now.

Bro, I think you should let it go ..... no point clarifying ...

Originally Posted by shawn_mib

tWas she toying with me after all??? Y she was albe tosay that she love me when she was in SG while she already have this other guy that she will be married to. She nv ask from me any $$$ or anything, i'm really at a lost....

[dap26]

TS,dun think much ba,shld let go...