Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Botarbolampar]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

the more you test the more confuse you are.
flirting in internet world is nothing lah...
you should not expose you terry identity... it will make things worst.
shd will say you do mot trust her and will end the relation
faster marry her so that she won't be lonely and hook up white man

In life "There's no right or wrong" but "Our thinking make it so".

[banana81sg]

[QUOTE=KangTuo;8771081]the more you test the more confuse you are.
flirting in internet world is nothing lah...

bro may i know why you think is flirting.......i mean she admit to terry she is seeing me ( the real me) and doesn't like me.........so u mean is normal to admit that they are seeing A already when they are flirting with B?

no offence just wan to hear more b4 decide wat to do tks


tks 2 all bro who hve comments

[banana81sg]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

the more you test the more confuse you are.
flirting in internet world is nothing lah...

you should not expose you terry identity... it will make things worst.
shd will say you do mot trust her and will end the relation

faster marry her so that she won't be lonely and hook up white man

bro may i know why you think is flirting.......i mean she admit to terry she is seeing me ( the real me) and doesn't like me.........so u mean is normal to admit that they are seeing A already when they are flirting with B?

no offence just wan to hear more b4 decide wat to do tks


tks 2 all bro who hve comments

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by banana81sg

bro may i know why you think is flirting.......i mean she admit to terry she is seeing me ( the real me) and doesn't like me.........so u mean is normal to admit that they are seeing A already when they are flirting with B?

no offence just wan to hear more b4 decide wat to do tks

seems like you already made up your decision...pls come back here to let us know when she dumped you...haha...i rest my case...

listen to KT and marry her...then go for bitter divorce proceeding when you knew she is flirting/committing adultery with internet or real men...you knew what is wearing green cap on your head by then...

you better read KT history...haha...

the above is just my opinion...hope you dun mind...

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by banana81sg

Hi guys

Is been a month+, just follow up on my post.

Fake acct set up, call myself Terry, from salt lake.

She say she single and even say she bored becaz she single. She say she like white man. She hasnt met the right man

( This i didnt know)She say she got 1 viet bf b4 n she work s waitress b4

Using ways, she admit to terry she seeing me nw ( the real me) but she dont like me. She with me becaz she worry she cant find another good man like me ( i feel like spare tyre sigh)

Now i dont know is she tellin terry the truth ( from hasnt finding right man, 1 bf etc) or tellin me the truth when she say she has feelin 4 me.....so confuse

Bros, what will you do now? Though not a good idea ( my colleague say) but Shld i expose to tell her terry is me? Or Shld i test her further?

Advice / comments/ opinions?? Good / bad no matter or any question u guys think is good to test do tell too.

Apologize bro who feel this a waste of bandwidth

I agreed with Hurricane. Don't waste anymore of your time and effort on her. Just dump her and get a new one. She just using you that all. Don't ever think of marrying such woman. There are many good one out there. Many of the VB like to compare. In the past, I had a gf like to compare their house against their neighbour. Telling me they have this that, and hope her house can have those too. I told her to compare those who dont have a house to stay.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by banana81sg

Now i dont know is she tellin terry the truth ( from hasnt finding right man, 1 bf etc) or tellin me the truth when she say she has feelin 4 me.....so confuse

I dun have your history but most SG guys have the same situation. Have you committed yourself to her? Have you planned something and discuss with her? She did nothing wrong, she is a lady. She can't stay in Vietnam and waste her time waiting for someone with no promise or commitment, someone who visits Vietnam, few times a year. Distance relationship is very very very difficult.

On your side. No point wasting time, thinking. If you have doubt in her now, how will u deal with more doubts in future? Why not just move on with life? If u can ignore this incident, then be prepared to deal with more.

When relation involves the heart, it is always painful to part.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by FireShark

I agreed with Hurricane. Don't waste anymore of your time and effort on her. Just dump her and get a new one. She just using you that all. Don't ever think of marrying such woman. There are many good one out there. .

Originally Posted by naemlo

On your side. No point wasting time, thinking. If you have doubt in her now, how will u deal with more doubts in future? Why not just move on with life? If u can ignore this incident, then be prepared to deal with more.

just dun understand why Singapore men are softies (also mentioned by some seniors in this thread)...I had mentioned many times here and in my thread...Vietnam gals dun like softies...be a man and they love you...

think many men here have not visited Vietnam enough to understand this cultural diff...to get your preferred gal you need to think like Viet man...

they are so many pretty woman in Vietnam waiting for you...all you need is just go there and pick one who loves you...

recently 2 gals who are acquainted to me wanted to have babies with me...hehe...I told them can but baby goes to singapore to study and they cannot see their babies often...both cried like no tomorrow...haha...

one of the gal woke up in the morning wanting to make love...I told her no cannot because you said you are pregnant now...then she turned around and said no not pregnant now...hehe...the rest is history...

the above are just experiences I had in Vietnam and dun apply to all...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by banana81sg

bro may i know why you think is flirting.......i mean she admit to terry she is seeing me ( the real me) and doesn't like me.........so u mean is normal to admit that they are seeing A already when they are flirting with B?

no offence just wan to hear more b4 decide wat to do tks


tks 2 all bro who hve comments

Why WASTE Time on such Testing ? WHat does it Benefit You ... WHat You wanna FInd Out ...

If you Don't have Time for Her ... So What IF she tell 'Terry" she LOVES you ...

Wake Up and Stops such Game ...

[Kim91]

[QUOTE=banana81sg;8772310]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

the more you test the more confuse you are.
flirting in internet world is nothing lah...

bro may i know why you think is flirting.......i mean she admit to terry she is seeing me ( the real me) and doesn't like me.........so u mean is normal to admit that they are seeing A already when they are flirting with B?

no offence just wan to hear more b4 decide wat to do tks


tks 2 all bro who hve comments

Bro u did what u wanted to find out.. If she is true to u. So now case proven.. U shd move on.
As bro said, dun mentioned to her u are terry.. She will throw u with lots of excuses n u b more confused.
Is not, just follow bro H88 said, go marry her n live happily ever.

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

recently 2 gals who are acquainted to me wanted to have babies with me...hehe...I told them can but baby goes to singapore to study and they cannot see their babies often...both cried like no tomorrow...haha...

one of the gal woke up in the morning wanting to make love...I told her no cannot because you said you are pregnant now...then she turned around and said no not pregnant now...hehe...the rest is history...

the above are just experiences I had in Vietnam and dun apply to all...

Bro Hurricane88

Having baby in Singapore is expensive, if both gals gave birth 2 babies each. You will need to feed 4 babies.

But one thing truth that these babies of yours need to get educated in Singapore. Not VN. Education systems in Singapore still the best.

[Genomes]

hey guys i know this is off topic
my gf brother is getting match made in vietnam
anyone know how it works
i am interested because of my own pockets
they are poor so how does it work?
does the brother need to give a dowry?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Genomes

hey guys i know this is off topic
my gf brother is getting match made in vietnam
anyone know how it works

this is not off topic but a topic no longer discussed much because match making is no longer fashionable now...here are two posts posted quite a few years ago which I searched in this thread...you may get some idea...but not sure how the match making scene is today...

this post 20-02-2007...http://sammyboyforum.org.nz/showpos...&postcount=378

this post 14-02-2008...http://sammyboyforum.org.nz/showpos...postcount=2715

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

this post 14-02-2008...http://sammyboyforum.org.nz/showpos...postcount=2715

Koaz... I didn't know that ss08 also got contribution here

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Koaz... I didn't know that ss08 also got contribution here :cool

you dun read and searched sure dun know...anyway more than 5 yrs liao...

your son is born...after your 5 yrs plus courtship...plus waiitng time...hehe...

[carmeo88]

Originally Posted by banana81sg

bro may i know why you think is flirting.......i mean she admit to terry she is seeing me ( the real me) and doesn't like me.........so u mean is normal to admit that they are seeing A already when they are flirting with B?

no offence just wan to hear more b4 decide wat to do tks


tks 2 all bro who hve comments

Dun't play play with her as base on what you have written, she may already have set to dump you anytime when the Right one comes along.