Is there true love between us and PRC WL - Page 13

ramses · #**181** 18-02-2008, 10:42 AM

Agree, this type not worth it, already proven is a liar liao, you want her to tell you more lies.

nycaloth66 · #**182** 18-02-2008, 11:00 AM

its diff to have true love with WL. From my experience in China, I think women who chose to walk that particular road care only about $$$. Sometimes they might think they have changed but unless you are really rich and can give them all the $$$ they can want, it will only be a matter of time before they go back to their old ways.

So you can be friends with WLs, you can even feel for them, but i would always keep some part of me aloof, so TS should really just let go

~|@|~ · #**183** 18-02-2008, 11:11 AM

true love itself is already very hard to find. it doesn't get easier when money and sex is involved

dirtyhairy · #**184** 18-02-2008, 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by shawn_mib

today, i got the most devasting news in my life, ... all along she has been with this husband to be and she is also saying that she loves me too. During the time she is back in china, she still maintain contact wif me. ...Was she toying with me after all??? Y she was albe tosay that she love me when she was in SG while she already have this other guy that she will be married to. She nv ask from me any $$$ or anything, i'm really at a lost....

Yo Bro TS, in life there are winners
and there are the losers
sure to lose is painful, and the feeling is awful
hopefully you are now wiser and your feelings, you wd lbe more discerning
but u shd never feel sorry even though it's so hurting
Uncle DHairy says perk yrself up and treat it as a lesson in love after all
bcos it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all
in time you will forget her and the hurt will subside
but should you wanna go "lovey dovey" again, open your eyes wide wide
me Uncle laobaby thinks you still young
so if u look hard enuf, you wd find worthy of you that special someone!
so pick up the pieces..start anew...and best wishes!

aczeta76 · #**185** 18-02-2008, 01:04 PM

Bro Shawn.. learn to let go.

I was juz telling my girl that sometimes the best thing I can do for her if I really love her is to let go.

Recently, things have grown quite close with us and she has also told me that she does not intend to quit so soon since she is young and can earn more.

In the future, perhaps.. So my option is to be her "safety blanket" if we are still in love then. She wants love and not sympathy so only time will tell.

Shawn--- shit happens in life and it can be no one's fault at times. Things don't always happen for a reason... so dun brood over it. Juz cherish your memories with her and wish her well.

rapebill · #**186** 18-02-2008, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by aczeta76

I was juz telling my girl that sometimes the best thing I can do for her if I really love her is to let go.

there is a popular song
有一种爱叫做放手

having said this, I still cannot let go
拿得起放不下
what can I do?

aczeta76 · #**187** 18-02-2008, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by rapebill

there is a popular song
有一种爱叫做放手

having said this, I still cannot let go
拿得起放不下
what can I do?

Bite the bullet and bear with it loh... time is the best teacher and medicine for all hurts and aches

#**188** 18-02-2008, 04:15 PM

I sympathise with bro, but then, you know in your heart it is gone liao, so no choice, get your friends to help out, by bringing you cheong more ....

gniwgonwk · #**189** 18-02-2008, 05:16 PM

Sympathies to you - but whatever all us bros say, it will be difficult for you.

Best thing to do is to take things into perspective and move on. Do NOT attempt to call or SMS her for at least a week or more. After that you can try but expect that she may have changed her HP number.

If she really had feelings for you, she will contact you in the future.

MOVE ON and look for someone who treats you better. You will hurt for quite a while - the more you had loved her the longer it will hurt BUT no matter what you will have to buck up and move on.

Do take care.

Heart Break Kid · #**190** 18-02-2008, 05:35 PM

bro shawn ... I am sorry to say move on lah. Look for other PRC girls around you and there will be better girls for you.

You still can call her whenever you like or you want. Don't restrict yourself.

mi had that feeling before just like a knife stabbing into your heart. Painful when she said that she got husband right ? Its ok lah.

As a man ..you should have at least dating 4 PRC girls then you can have the comparison of which one is better.
Don't stick to just one girl

bomarr · #**191** 18-02-2008, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by shawn_mib

today, i got the most devasting news in my life, this afternoon i gave her a call and she was shopping with some1 and we agree tat i'll call her tonite, just now i gave her a call and she nv pick up and i send her an sms.

not long she reply that her husand from SG visit her and she will be getting married and when i tried to call her to clarify things, on the 3rd time she off her hp.

i'm really at a lost rite now, for bro that have followed closely to my story, why is she doing such things to me right now for the all the previous thing she have done for me?

all along she has been with this husband to be and she is also saying that she loves me too. During the time she is back in china, she still maintain contact wif me.

Was she toying with me after all??? Y she was albe tosay that she love me when she was in SG while she already have this other guy that she will be married to. She nv ask from me any $$$ or anything, i'm really at a lost....

Bro shawn, since day 1 you started this thread. I had been silently camping & hope that your dream with her will come true. But alas it had come to an end abruptly.

It may be a blessing in disguise. As you mention when she is in Singapore time. You do know she working as a FL with lot of client. But all the time you didn't know she got another guy who got the same status as you are.

I do think her love for you is true. If not she will not maintain contact with you even when she's back in China. Except that perhaps the other guy got more time & $$$ than you. So between love & $. She still chooses over $ as her priority. Actually there isn't any right or wrong over love. She's not in the wrong & for you there isn't wrong to wanted protect & love her. You may want to look at the brighter side. She is telling you the truth now rather then later when everything with her almost finalise then you know it isn't it?

Just move on. A relationship is just like parking your car. If there isn't any parking lot move further on & soon you will be able to find a suitable lot for your car

bomarr