Tears For A PRC Prostitute

[colins]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Bros,

It's actually quite easy to tell if the FL/WL is sincerely interested in you and not your wallet. That is...MONEY is never in the picture.

Ever heard of stories that those FL BFs, treat them like shit and use thier money? Yet they still kwai kwai stick with them. Why, love lor. If the gal really likes you, it means she enjoys your company and time etc. Money is never in her thoughts and she may even spend on you, like treating you to meals of gifts.

Provided the bro is not already smittened with lies and actually believe the FL/WL. Sometimes self-worth is heightened during the KC, and it is addictive to continue to live in that matrix. Reality is bleak for a lot of us who can't get what we want.

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by colins

Provided the bro is not already smittened with lies and actually believe the FL/WL. Sometimes self-worth is heightened during the KC, and it is addictive to continue to live in that matrix. Reality is bleak for a lot of us who can't get what we want.

Bro,

That's precisely the problem why so many bros gets trapped. The feeling of being wanted and loved during the KC process which is just an illusion. Must really snap out of it and come back to reality.

[colins]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Bro,

That's precisely the problem why so many bros gets trapped. The feeling of being wanted and loved during the KC process which is just an illusion. Must really snap out of it and come back to reality.

Thats why, after seeing so many willing victims, that I believe the main problem lies with self-worth. Everyone knows FL are in for money, most of the bros know once they give in, they become carrot heads. All these are very common knowledge.

But like what you said, dun give money loh, so simple. One solution solves all problems, right?

Again if you look deeper, seriously its not about buying sex liao. Its about buying what the victims deemed as priceless, but now has a price. So they willingly pay, knowing that even if they pay, it will only last for a while. Even when they know they will suffer, like drop from heaven afterwards, they still hung on. Then this is no longer money. This is like drug or a compulsive gambling habit. Like when you gamble, you start thinking that all your money is your capital.

So I believe for those helpless bros, viewing KC trap as a form of reality will help them. Show them it is a dream, but the process of dreaming is a reality. You are fulfilling a need to dream. In that respect, it might be easier to bring them down before the big fall. So the best way is to show them lots of examples, hopefully they will know whats inevitable and make a wiser choice.

[ekemono]

Sex is easy and dun carry it's worth for long. It is the false sense of belonging a guy cultivate in his mind.
Day-in-day-out from work, nobody gives a shit about him. Then a fav. WL comes in and swept him off his feet. She knows exactly what he needs, and she has exactly what he needs. And the KC trap is set.

Sooner or later the guy demanded more, because sex alone is short-lived, he needs the companionship and the closer interaction and involvement from the WL to fuel his percieved sense of belonging, that's is also when the WL starts to reap her harvest, thru monetary compensation.

The guy is either already seriously "thirst" for her, and gladly gave in to the demand, or constantly pumps in money/gifts to ensure this "lifeline" does not snap away.

It is a very painful experiences

[colins]

Originally Posted by ekemono

Sex is easy and dun carry it's worth for long. It is the false sense of belonging a guy cultivate in his mind.
Day-in-day-out from work, nobody gives a shit about him. Then a fav. WL comes in and swept him off his feet. She knows exactly what he needs, and she has exactly what he needs. And the KC trap is set.

Sooner or later the guy demanded more, because sex alone is short-lived, he needs the companionship and the closer interaction and involvement from the WL to fuel his percieved sense of belonging, that's is also when the WL starts to reap her harvest, thru monetary compensation.

The guy is either already seriously "thirst" for her, and gladly gave in to the demand, or constantly pumps in money/gifts to ensure this "lifeline" does not snap away.

It is a very painful experiences

Kudos...one experienced bro. Couldn't have said it better than you man. Looks like you were very clear headed when (if) it has happened to you.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by colins

Kudos...one experienced bro. Couldn't have said it better than you man. Looks like you were very clear headed when (if) it has happened to you.

Honestly i was also a victim once
many many donkey years when Sentosa complex(JB) was the in-thing for SG guys. Fell for a KTV gal, spent all of my savings on her, supporting her every other day. Passport literally chopped to the last page. In returned, one fine night I got a call from her (she was not at workplace), she couldn't make herself clear so she handed the phone to her boyfriend, and the guy ask me to stop disturbing her. No threats, just man to man talk.

My mind gone blank, took a "pah wan" taxi to Woodlands, pack some bottles of beers and hid myself at some dark carpark area sitting on the back of a Nissan pickup truck, cried the shit out of myself the whole night.
My heart was very painful, literally like the chinese says it "thousand arrow pierce the heart". Fortunately I didn't dare to die.

I have never step into Sentosa Complex ever since.

[colins]

Originally Posted by ekemono

My mind gone blank, took a "pah wan" taxi to Woodlands, pack some bottles of beers and hid myself at some dark carpark area sitting on the back of a Nissan pickup truck, cried the shit out of myself the whole night.
My heart was very painful, literally like the chinese says it "thousand arrow pierce the heart". Fortunately I didn't dare to die.

To be frank, I think we are more a man after such ordeals. I have no right to comment on your case at all, you clearly been through much more. Thanks very much for sharing.

Like what bro DYBJ likes to say, why afraid of telling people what you've been through? It shows that you're really done with it and learnt from it.

My respect. Thanks bro.

[ekemono]

yes. what doesn't kill us, makes us stronger.
Have long forgotton about it. Dun even think i remember her face. hehe.
I was young then... she was a SYT then... you know la ??

Nowadays old liao my ears got hearing problem so difficult to make out thier KC words. LOL.. but after decrease in sense of hearing, increase in sense of talking. Now i KC talk to them also.

Recently a month back at a Flower Hanging Joints KC-ed a PRC. I wasn't aware of her tots until i show up for supper with my gf. Can see steam coming out from her ears when she left abruptly.
Anyway, I didn't intend to do anything to her. KC-ing is just a a roleplay in the entertainment industry.
And you can't expect me to sit quiet quiet rite ?

[colins]

Originally Posted by ekemono

yes. what doesn't kill us, makes us stronger.
Have long forgotton about it. Dun even think i remember her face. hehe.
I was young then... she was a SYT then... you know la ??

Nowadays old liao my ears got hearing problem so difficult to make out thier KC words. LOL.. but after decrease in sense of hearing, increase in sense of talking. Now i KC talk to them also.

Recently a month back at a Flower Hanging Joints KC-ed a PRC. I wasn't aware of her tots until i show up for supper with my gf. Can see steam coming out from her ears when she left abruptly.
Anyway, I didn't intend to do anything to her. KC-ing is just a a roleplay in the entertainment industry.
And you can't expect me to sit quiet quiet rite ?

haha...I hope you din make her stronger too! Actually if you notice, in most cases where you try to KC them, they will give you a wide berth if they start to lose confidence. I think they can sense a player readily as well.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by colins

Actually if you notice, in most cases where you try to KC them, they will give you a wide berth if they start to lose confidence.

Hmmm., this one i dun know.
can elaborate, pls pls..??

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Kudos bro Colins & ekemono, you folks are the best.
Experienced learned like a thousand arrows pierce thru ur heart and up you ass....wow..hahahaha...trust me, I KNOW HOW IT FEELS!!! hahahaha

Well, came out stronger, yes, no afraid of death but too proud and too many unfinished business to settle...and lastly, i will doe for only me & no one else...that's why i'm here.

Good on ya matey

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by colins

haha...I hope you din make her stronger too! Actually if you notice, in most cases where you try to KC them, they will give you a wide berth if they start to lose confidence. I think they can sense a player readily as well.

Actually bro, most of the gals at a joint knows one another....
Unless you're kinda well known at those joints, like mua ahem...then all they gotta do is ask around and they'll know you rep in a jiffy...but then, still can KC them wan...hehehehe just gotta learn how to show them what they heard aint real that's all...meaning you gotta keep evolving till no one can read your next move anymore

I've learnt one thing, dun be too eager to go for the kill, make them feel SAFE i.e you aint a buayak! then it'll get em thinking whether what they heard was a rumour due to jealously....to me, it's all about mind fucking bro.....
The more experienced, the more fun to kill......that's also the kind i like, brainy scheming ones.....

[colins]

Originally Posted by ekemono

Hmmm., this one i dun know.
can elaborate, pls pls..??

Ok usually when I want to do this I'll do the following (not conclusive or extensive)
In KTV setting
- Observe them, make sure they know you are observing.
- Lead the conversation, respond to their KC attempt with just smiles (keep quiet)
- When they attempt to KC, like say good things about you and stuff, just reply "you too"
- When they continue to KC, change topic and say how good they are (can be singer, can be model, I love this dress...etc)
- When they get physical, say you want to play finger game or dice game
- Do whatever you say, and immediately. like if they are cold, ask them if they like a warm glass of water, then ask the xiaomei to get it there and then.
- Keep commenting on how good they are, when they return favour (like a kiss or smile), accept it.
- Ask personal questions concerning their well-being, you know questions which bf or some relatives will ask. can be whether they have taken their meals (if not, get the menu for them), to wider topics like whether they are comfortable in sg, what they aspire to be...sort of stuff.
- Make sure you do not ignore your friends, your friends always come first, whether in just replying a question or giving toast.
- Do not do anything that make them feel that you are trying to attract their attention.
- Maintain a happy composure to see them leave your table.
- Say thank you when you give them their tips

Hard to list down the rest, must go into the situation then will react accordingly.

[colins]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

I've learnt one thing, dun be too eager to go for the kill, make them feel SAFE i.e you aint a buayak! then it'll get em thinking whether what they heard was a rumour due to jealously....to me, it's all about mind fucking bro.....
The more experienced, the more fun to kill......that's also the kind i like, brainy scheming ones.....

Yeah la, I know you just like to mindfuck them left right centre. Nowadays this is probably the only thing that is giving you the thrills. See them suffer, you're the devil. haha...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by colins

Yeah la, I know you just like to mindfuck them left right centre. Nowadays this is probably the only thing that is giving you the thrills. See them suffer, you're the devil. haha...

Damn, i've been sexposed...time to disappear....CIAO!!!