Economy Bad, PRCs look for Roberts to feed

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

So long as he is happy and fine with the consequences.. good enough.. regardless of how "wierd" his reasons may sound to us.. it makes sense to them

When one is lost in darkness, every path he takes looks straight to him.....COS HE CANT SEE SQUAT hahaha

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

When one is lost in darkness, every path he takes looks straight to him.....COS HE CANT SEE SQUAT hahaha

It is like 指鹿为马

They can see but they prefer to inteprete it differently loh...

Some people like to be the Chef, other the knives or even the meat on the stove (waiting to be cooked)

It is a matter of choice and the concept of 舍。。。

[Smeagol]

Originally Posted by warbird

it took me 8 months to bed her.

Wah..... If I can't bed a KTV girl after 8 days... I change target leow.... buahhahahahahhaha.

Hmmm,.....or should it be 8hrs instead???

[warbird]

Originally Posted by ilovelife.now

WTF, why look for love(?) from an FL? You are offering yourself to be screwed or what, don't be dumb a$$ bro.. tell her you can't - there are so many flowers!

Hi bro,

I didn't look for love n she is not a FL.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Never ever, as you've mentioned, trust what you hear from anyone in the night scene, must give major discount.
Remember, those mummies depend of these gals to make a living. They'll say anything to make you come back to patronise more......

I hv violated my own rule.

[/QUOTE]You already know it, good for you bro WarBird.
Since you know it's messy, dun u tink it's time to get things trim & proper again before it becomes an irreversible mess????[/QUOTE]

Thx bro. My KC for her is waning fast. Dun worry, I'll be perfectly fine when u return next wk.

Originally Posted by Smeagol

Wah..... If I can't bed a KTV girl after 8 days... I change target leow.... buahhahahahahhaha.

Hmmm,.....or should it be 8hrs instead???

Hi bro,

I admire ur gungho spirit. Would like to watch u in action.

Well, variety is the spice of life. Eight months to bed a gal is the most extreme for me, even though most of that time was spent overseas. The chasing was actually a big part of the fun. The other extreme is of course going to a brothel or massage parlour...8 minutes later I'll be banging the gal, hehehe.

Goodnight!!

[kenny_bob]

Originally Posted by DirtyOldMe

Life is very ironic. A friend of mine, a samster, once told me this: we guys, from young to the old, whether we go to GL, KTV, HC, FL, etc, we are all looking for the most priced thing - the GFE. But in the end, it is just their job to give us that GFE.

Why I say ironic? We pay them to KC us and give us that GFE but in the end, we get KCed and controlled by them and pay even more. And then we blind ourselves and refuse to believe their feeling for us is not real but we forget it was us who paid them for it in the first place.

Another friend of mine advise to just turn on a little emotion but not all the way. But its easier said than done. If any bros have baoed a KTV gal before, he will know it is an emotional rollercoaster ride not for the faint of heart.

So, unless you have the time and money and know that the relationship will not last forever (and not real), you should not go for it. Especially if you are married, because it is very diificult to maitain and go undetected for prolonged period of time.

good post bro.. meaningful.. im still waiting for enough money to bao my first ktv girl.. waiting for her to come back currently.. haha..

my fren told me that im not that "hard" inside to play the KC game so better dont try.. deep inside i know it's true but well, life enrichment is part and parcel of growing up aint it.. Luving the cheongsters life..

[roamersg]

Originally Posted by DirtyOldMe

Life is very ironic. A friend of mine, a samster, once told me this: we guys, from young to the old, whether we go to GL, KTV, HC, FL, etc, we are all looking for the most priced thing - the GFE. But in the end, it is just their job to give us that GFE.

This is indeed very well put! Certainly applies to me. Given Warbird's other posts, I am not worried about this bro. Some of us (like myself) enjoy the illusion precisely b/c of the desired GFE. Maybe some of it is even true, but I don't worry about that. Have I gotten attached to some? Yes. Did I ever think about doing more than supporting her while in SG? No. I don't read Warbird's situation as different from that, except he was willing to chase one girl for 8 months, which far extends beyond my patience. But on other hand, I've known singers for over a year and never bonked them (nor tried), so I can see having a long 'friendship' and then trying to make it sexual.

Anyways, as bro Warbird has been lied to before as he tells us, I can't imagine he is at danger. Worse danger is throwing money at her and finding out she lied, but it's only money. As long as family life not endangered (the biggest danger by far besides STD), then OK

[RegularJoe]

Originally Posted by kenny_bob

wah, bro, ur line sounds familiar lei... is it from the same person that we know of?

yes bro.... same person....hahaha....狗改不了吃屎。。。

[RegularJoe]

basically....ai song loh ho.... mai song until dun know wtf is happening and end up bruised and lost...then....fuck lah....enjoy lah.... can pay...then play... can know white from black...then cheong...so simple...

cheong cheong.... but use brain .... then all will be ok....

[DirtyOldMe]

I bedded mine only after 6 months. My frind was like: "come on! even in a normal BGR you guys would have done the act already so what's holding you back!?" I didn't really woo her because the feeling towards each other was mutual and we just couldn't have enough of each other. She liked me a lot and didn't ask for much in the beginning. But they are all like that aren't they? They don't say: "爱不是用嘴巴说的... 是用钱来表达的" they say: "爱不是用嘴巴说的... 是用行动来证明的” and then the sucking process will start.

It is the exclusiveness, the fun in the wooing process, the GFE, the special TLC they shower upon us, and not just the bonking that make us want to bao them. The thought that from out of so many men, you are the one she picked to be intimate with also gives the ego a nice boost but if you want to survive and tell your story, your head, the big one that is, must be very clear and you don't trust everything she or the mamasan say. Why? Well, do any of her mamasans or customers know she's been bao-ed by me? Nobody knows of my existence. And, if you are married, will your wife be aware of the gal you bao-ed outside, even though you go home every night to her? If you can hide from your wife who sleeps beside you every night and who gets most of your time, how much easier would it be for your gal to hide things from you?

Many times I have caught my gal lying or switching off her HP but what can you do other than forgive her and move on? What can you do about it when you are at home and can't go out? You are so KCed by then and don't want to lose you "investment" and you tell yourself you still enjoy her company and then ask yourself what could you possibly give her? A family? And that is when it gets too dangerous and you risk being sucked in deeper and deeper until you lose your mind. I'm lucky I came out of it.

[DirtyOldMe]

Sigh, my posts are so slow.

Anyways, to warbird, I am like you, almost 40 and wonder why I'm so attractive to this gal? It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that she wants the $$$ (although she's been staying here for 6 years already). True, she may have feelings for me and I for her, but end of the day, everyone needs $$$ to survive, no? Why would she reject higher monthly maintenance sum and pick me? Was she lying in the hope that I will give her more or was it because she really liked me? I'll never find out. But do I really need to? The fact that she's hot property and works in the highest end of the KTV and get woo-ed by the richest customers yet willing to be your GF really make your day but if you don't have such a big head, don't wear such a big hat. It doesn't only require lots of money but also lots of time to maintain the RS, not to mention the tremendous task to stomach jealousy when she goes to work or goes to paid dates with customers, especially the same customer so frequently.

She works in KTVs but KTV gals are also human and they too have emotions/feelings. Many times we quarreled and many times I scolded her and said unpleasant things (out of anger/spike and spur of the moment) that were quite insulting and she would break up with me. Many times I confided with my friend and every time he would tell me: "don't worry, she'll come back". I didn't believe him at first and every time I would feel so lousy having lost her but true enough, she would make the first move and call or sms me (except for once I initiated the patching up). They can't afford to lose us (actually the $$$) really. No matter how little the money seems, to them, an extra $1K a month IS STILL an extra $1K a month! Who in this world is stupid enough to forgo this monthly sum? And what makes you think you are the only special one? Remember, its virtually impossible for you to find out if she has special arrangements with other customers or guys. And how much can you afford to pay her to stop her from working? And if she stops working, can you give her your undivided 24/7 time to keep her companied because otherwise, she would be so lonely at home?

So to warbird, your KC may be waning fast for now, but as long as you are still with her, the KC will grow and if you don’t manage her expectations and yours properly, you’ll get hurt. No doubt we are built to fuck around but we guys have feelings and emotions too, that’s why we get KCed and trapped by these beautiful SYTs.

I am not against BY, but you must have the right expectations and the ability – monetary, time and emotionally strong. She knows very well the RS will not last forever so she’ll try her best and all means to suck as much $$$ in as little time and effort as possible. That’s how it works.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by DirtyOldMe

Life is very ironic. A friend of mine, a samster, once told me this: we guys, from young to the old, whether we go to GL, KTV, HC, FL, etc, we are all looking for the most priced thing - the GFE. But in the end, it is just their job to give us that GFE.
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Another friend of mine advise to just turn on a little emotion but not all the way. But its easier said than done. If any bros have baoed a KTV gal before, he will know it is an emotional rollercoaster ride not for the faint of heart.

So, unless you have the time and money and know that the relationship will not last forever (and not real), you should not go for it. Especially if you are married, because it is very diificult to maitain and go undetected for prolonged period of time.

Hi bro,

Excellent post! An emotional rollercoaster ride is exactly how I would describe my RS w/ my gal.

When u BY a PRC for an agreed X amt every month, it's a given that she will try to squeeze out more money from u. Often her frens n "sisters" will give advice on how n what she should do. I deeply resent that. I dun like to be pressured n any additional money should be a reward given willingly, w/o her asking for it.

Originally Posted by roamersg

This is indeed very well put! Certainly applies to me. Given Warbird's other posts, I am not worried about this bro. Some of us (like myself) enjoy the illusion precisely b/c of the desired GFE. Maybe some of it is even true, but I don't worry about that. Have I gotten attached to some? Yes. Did I ever think about doing more than supporting her while in SG? No. I don't read Warbird's situation as different from that, except he was willing to chase one girl for 8 months, which far extends beyond my patience. But on other hand, I've known singers for over a year and never bonked them (nor tried), so I can see having a long 'friendship' and then trying to make it sexual.

Anyways, as bro Warbird has been lied to before as he tells us, I can't imagine he is at danger. Worse danger is throwing money at her and finding out she lied, but it's only money. As long as family life not endangered (the biggest danger by far besides STD), then OK

Hi bro,

You're right. My KC for her is waning. What remains is mostly lust. I pursued her for 8 months bcos I lived overseas.

I hv been lied to more than once. Several months ago I spotted a new Rolex (genuine) gold/steel watch on her left wrist. She said it was fake but refused to let me take a closer look when she knew I also owned Rolex watches. She was obviously lying. I told her it looked genuine, she then said it was paid for by a close relative in China. On my return from overseas last month, I noticed that she was not wearing a watch. I asked what happened to the Rolex n she replied that she had thrown the bogus watch away!

Cheers!

[DirtyOldMe]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro,

Excellent post! An emotional rollercoaster ride is exactly how I would describe my RS w/ my gal.

When u BY a PRC for an agreed X amt every month, it's a given that she will try to squeeze out more money from u. Often her frens n "sisters" will give advice on how n what she should do. I deeply resent that. I dun like to be pressured n any additional money should be a reward given willingly, w/o her asking for it.

Cheers!

Thanks Bro! That was speaking from experience and I hope you get the most out of your BY experience.

And yes, that's exactly what happened to me. Even after I agreed to her request for a fixed monthly sum and even after promising me she will not ask for more in return I would not interfere with how she spend the money, she will still have things she wants me to buy for her. Eg, facial packages and gym membership that she wants me to use my credit card to sign up for (cos got promotion and can opt for monthly interest-free repayments), and pester me for a supplementary card but promised to spend carefully.

I didn't want to leave so much paper trail behind and risk being discovered and I know there will be no end to it. So I rejected her requests and her attitude towards me changed. It took a long and difficult struggle within me - whether to give in and give her more to satisfy her in order to satisfy my own agenda/lust but I finally gave up because of her poor attitude. No doubt she's aloof and charming and all but this is never ending. She used to tell me how her girlfriends' boyfriends paid off their housing loans, buy them expensive watches, give them $100K to shop at one go, etc etc. Makes you feel inadequate, hahaha! Economy is bad, so its time to let go.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by DirtyOldMe

I bedded mine only after 6 months....

It is the exclusiveness, the fun in the wooing process, the GFE, the special TLC they shower upon us, and not just the bonking that make us want to bao them. The thought that from out of so many men, you are the one she picked to be intimate with also gives the ego a nice boost but if you want to survive and tell your story, your head, the big one that is, must be very clear and you don't trust everything she or the mamasan say. Why? Well, do any of her mamasans or customers know she's been bao-ed by me? Nobody knows of my existence...

Many times I have caught my gal lying or switching off her HP ....And that is when it gets too dangerous and you risk being sucked in deeper and deeper until you lose your mind. I'm lucky I came out of it.

Hi bro,

Thx for sharing ur BY experience. I dun completely trust what mummies say.

BTW, all KTV gals lie.

Originally Posted by DirtyOldMe

Anyways, to warbird, I am like you, almost 40 and wonder why I'm so attractive to this gal? It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that she wants the $$$......It doesn't only require lots of money but also lots of time to maintain the RS, not to mention the tremendous task to stomach jealousy when she goes to work or goes to paid dates with customers, especially the same customer so frequently.

She works in KTVs but KTV gals are also human and they too have emotions/feelings. Many times we quarreled and many times I scolded her and said unpleasant things (out of anger/spike and spur of the moment) that were quite insulting and she would break up with me. Many times I confided with my friend and every time he would tell me: "don't worry, she'll come back". I didn't believe him at first and every time I would feel so lousy having lost her but true enough, she would make the first move and call or sms me (except for once I initiated the patching up). They can't afford to lose us (actually the $$$) really....

So to warbird, your KC may be waning fast for now, but as long as you are still with her, the KC will grow and if you don’t manage her expectations and yours properly, you’ll get hurt. No doubt we are built to fuck around but we guys have feelings and emotions too, that’s why we get KCed and trapped by these beautiful SYTs.

I am not against BY, but you must have the right expectations and the ability – monetary, time and emotionally strong. She knows very well the RS will not last forever so she’ll try her best and all means to suck as much $$$ in as little time and effort as possible. That’s how it works.

Good observations, bro. What I hv experienced is quite similar. My RS w/ my gal will be short-lived bcos I lose interest quickly in any gal once I own her body. The challenge is gone.

BTW, you're much younger than I n my gal is only 21.

Originally Posted by DirtyOldMe

And yes, that's exactly what happened to me. Even after I agreed to her request for a fixed monthly sum and even after promising me she will not ask for more in return I would not interfere with how she spend the money, she will still have things she wants me to buy for her. Eg, facial packages and gym membership that she wants me to use my credit card to sign up for (cos got promotion and can opt for monthly interest-free repayments), and pester me for a supplementary card but promised to spend carefully.

......So I rejected her requests and her attitude towards me changed. It took a long and difficult struggle within me - whether to give in and give her more to satisfy her in order to satisfy my own agenda/lust but I finally gave up because of her poor attitude..................

Good for u. Was giving her up emotionally painful?

My gal wants me to pay her the same money every month AFTER she returns to China in early SEP! For how long? Until she gets married. She says she would try to return for another yr of study. Here is going to be my reply: "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn." Hahaha.

Good night!!

[DirtyOldMe]

Originally Posted by warbird

Good for u. Was giving her up emotionally painful?

My gal wants me to pay her the same money every month AFTER she returns to China in early SEP! For how long? Until she gets married. She says she would try to return for another yr of study. Here is going to be my reply: "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn." Hahaha.

Good night!!

Giving her up was difficult because you are so used to having a beautiful SYT who is so good in bed for so long and the amount of time and money invested on her. After a while, you are bound to become emotionally attached, its human nature.

But the worst part is when I call it quits, she asked for $X0,000 分手费! WTF! And I can't tell her off like you would because she knows where I work (been to outside my office to meet me) and somehow I think she knows where I stay too cos I left some letters in my car and suspect she might have commit to memory my address. So I have to deal with this very carefully and I don't wish to offend her although I'm really pissed for being extorted and blame myself for being so careless.

Btw, I'm new here so I don't really know how this point system works but I can see that my points have increased so whoever added my points, I don't know who you guys are, but thank you very much.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by DirtyOldMe

Giving her up was difficult because you are so used to having a beautiful SYT who is so good in bed for so long and the amount of time and money invested on her. After a while, you are bound to become emotionally attached, its human nature.

But the worst part is when I call it quits, she asked for $X0,000 分手费! WTF! And I can't tell her off like you would because she knows where I work (been to outside my office to meet me) and somehow I think she knows where I stay too cos I left some letters in my car and suspect she might have commit to memory my address. So I have to deal with this very carefully and I don't wish to offend her although I'm really pissed for being extorted and blame myself for being so careless.

Btw, I'm new here so I don't really know how this point system works but I can see that my points have increased so whoever added my points, I don't know who you guys are, but thank you very much.

Hi bro DirtyOldMe,

Thx for sharing ur BY experience. If u are old, I'm extremely senile, hehehe.

I think most KTV PRC gals r addicted to money. They may even resort to blackmail. Never let them know ur true name nor home/office addresses, etc.

We want their young n pretty pussies, whereas they want our money. We want to pay the least, whereas they want to get paid the most. It's much more than a simple business transaction. It's a contest, a mind game or tug of war, hehehe.

My gal was so right when she said it wasn't a 交易. Bonking a CAT150 gal is a 交易.

BTW, you're an experienced cheongster but a newbie at SBF. Will up u when I regain power.

Good day!