Tears For A PRC Prostitute

[uobboss]

Bro TS,

My 2cts on the above dilemma .

1)90% of PRC WL/ktv/waitress/factory worker are here to earn money and hopefully hitch a local and get SG PR status . Even a coffee shop helper here is getting much more than what they could earn in china .

2)From this thread i gather that you did love her as a gf but the difference in background and reports of prc gals scamming money ,is holding you from giving 100% feelings back . But from the posts above i guess that she is the 0.5% rare breed with true feelings for you as a person and not as robert . Her loss of income with you for 2 weeks w/o compensation and income is not what a WL would dare risk if they are not true to you . They are here to earn some money fast when they are still young and cannot be in this line forever . I have heard stories from FL/WL that they need to raise money fast for their family biz after the earthquake .

3)My guess is that she is really in love with you and was not treating you as robert but as a soulmate . Most of the WL would not have borrow/give the money she borrow/give to you for your business . 7k is around 2mths of her fl's income (i hope TS had offered to return the kind gesture of the money as 7k means a lot to a PRC . If she does not want to take back the money you will know how she feels for you) Even if she does not want the money back try to remit it back to her parents and inform her afterwards . So that you will not feel indebted to her later in life and can move on .

4)My guess is that most of the bros here are with some unhappy marriage/sex life and are out for a short/long term fling/relationship . But if i was not prepared for a relationship with the PRC i would not have taken up so much of their time and feelings to misled them into thinking that i would take them as wife . Even though they are in the sex trade they are also human beings after all and deserve our respect .

5)For a average looking/income sg man hitching a beautiful/sexy sg lady is tough luck especially if the girl is 1.72m with "c" fair skin . Better chance of striking toto than finding a local tall,beautiful,sexy,fair sg lady who is not looking for 5 c's which you could not afford the branded stuff they want .

Pls feel free to add on comment and i sincerely hope ts could move on as the chapter had already closed .

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by uobboss

Bro Glooper,

The street walkers are watched 24 hrs by the okt to prevent them from earning w/o a cut . Most of the street walkers under okt accommodation are arranged by the okt's and got spy there . Even when the wl wanna go chinatown got okt bodyguards accompany them .

not jus street walkers, those working in joints as well.

they cant anyhow go out wif customer one, even if they do, oso must secretly one. actually find it very funny, why those okt or mafu dun allow the gals to go out wif customers.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by kiko

True love is all about: Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails!

A classic.
1 Corinthians 13 4-8a (NIV)

[uobboss]

Originally Posted by longwinter

not jus street walkers, those working in joints as well.

they cant anyhow go out wif customer one, even if they do, oso must secretly one. actually find it very funny, why those okt or mafu dun allow the gals to go out wif customers.

The mafu think that if the gals go out with customer , the girls are trying to FL w/o giving the mafu a cut .

They will give all sorts of excuses like dangerous if they got spot check,the girls dun know how to go ard sg so they will assign a bodyguard just to be safe that the girl dun do FL's .

[glooper83]

Originally Posted by kiko

True love is all about: Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails!

Very very nice paragraph but highly doubt that i will be able to find my true love. At best, my future girl and i can work towards this ideal but for it to happen naturally, it would take a 'miracle'. Nonetheless, i have always envisioned for this "miracle", hope it will come one day.

[uobboss]

Originally Posted by glooper83

Very very nice paragraph but highly doubt that i will be able to find my true love. At best, my future girl and i can work towards this ideal but for it to happen naturally, it would take a 'miracle'. Nonetheless, i have always envisioned for this "miracle", hope it will come one day.

Sincerely wishing you all the best in finding miracle soon .

No doubt we had never met , but it is with my truest blessings .

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by uobboss

The mafu think that if the gals go out with customer , the girls are trying to FL w/o giving the mafu a cut .

They will give all sorts of excuses like dangerous if they got spot check,the girls dun know how to go ard sg so they will assign a bodyguard just to be safe that the girl dun do FL's .

lclc, l did go out wif a gal before on her last day, but jus plain accmpying her, shopping wif her, didnt do anything else liaos.

hmm but the feeling is very different la, l must say. When she is outside, she is jus reacts and act like a normal gal. Altot the time spent is short, but l am really happy enuf to accmpy her for her last day in singapore .

[longwinter]

Decided to share sumtinz wif u guys, l hav been keeping tis in my heart for sumtime le.

Up till today, l am still tinking abt this gal. call me foolish or silly. Even she go liaos, l jus gt the feeling she will be back again. And l did save part of my $$$ for her in case she return and l will go visit her.

dun noe if she treat every customer in this manner oso, but when l am wif her, l feel happy tat she show her inner self to me, l jus can feel she took off her mask for a short period of time. And she told me alot of things. At times, l visit her, not jus to hav sex wif her, jus to talk and makan together and l feel good oso. Can feel tat she do put attention to me whenever l talk and etc

On her last day, she did ask me out, to be frank, l was kinda shock, l mean why me? out of her so many customer, l am sure there will be guys tat are more rich and yandao than me. She could hav jus asked them out. l am jus so ordinary, nothing special abt me at all.

and when we are out, she didnt really chop me in anywhere, jus accmpying her ard to buy her stuffs, l jus pay for simple food and cab fares, tat is all. l was happy enuf le.

l noe l am sounding stupid here, altot she left le, sumtime her image jus flash occasionally to me. haiz

[uobboss]

Originally Posted by longwinter

On her last day, she did ask me out, to be frank, l was kinda shock

and when we are out, she didnt really chop me in anywhere, jus accmpying her ard to buy her stuffs, l jus pay for simple food and cab fares, tat is all. l was happy enuf le.

Normally they would like to spend their last day some quality time with their 最爱 or if they did not find one 最爱 their robert .

Originally Posted by longwinter

l noe l am sounding stupid here, altot she left le, sumtime her image jus flash occasionally to me. haiz

Memories is good but try not to linger on to impossible hope .

[glooper83]

Bro Longwinter, i guessed you just got her companionship and was very happy about it. Its a very nice feeling no doubt, but try to keep your feet firmly on land. As i have written before, they are pretty, sexy and hot. Going out with them is like a huge ego boost, to have them treat you like a friend is like an HonoR! You dun need sex to get the feeling of companionship, just being beside that lady is satisfying enough. Then this is where the feeling gets mixed up because you no longer lust for her, you think it has become love. Do not get confused, do not get carried away. Go out have fun, and the feelings will be lost after a few days. At least, that is what happened to me.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by uobboss

Normally they would like to spend their last day some quality time with their 最爱 or if they did not find one 最爱 their robert .



Memories is good but try not to linger on to impossible hope .

haha 最爱, l never tink so la. l tend to look at the negative side den the positive.. maybe she jus treat me as a companionship bah?

seriously, if u ask me, wad outcome l wan to achieve wif her, l really dun noe. l dun noe how to answer tis question

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by glooper83

Bro Longwinter, i guessed you just got her companionship and was very happy about it. Its a very nice feeling no doubt, but try to keep your feet firmly on land. As i have written before, they are pretty, sexy and hot. Going out with them is like a huge ego boost, to have them treat you like a friend is like an HonoR! You dun need sex to get the feeling of companionship, just being beside that lady is satisfying enough. Then this is where the feeling gets mixed up because you no longer lust for her, you think it has become love. Do not get confused, do not get carried away. Go out have fun, and the feelings will be lost after a few days. At least, that is what happened to me.

ya, indeed l am happy abt it. anyway hope she wont come back in this line again. If she come back, l oso scared that l will lose control and jus keep looking for her, which l dun tink is good oso.

l will be happy if the feelings is jus lost after a few days. she had oreadi left quite sum time le, till now l still tinking of her, altot not as much as she jus left. But still l do miss and tink of her image sumtime.

[kiko]

Bro glooper83 :

Dont worry , god has plans for every man in their life.. he will make sure u will find your miss right one day !

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by kiko

Bro glooper83 :

Dont worry , god has plans for every man in their life.. he will make sure u will find your miss right one day !

That sounds REALLY pathetic.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by glooper83

Going out with them is like a huge ego boost, to have them treat you like a friend is like an HonoR!

What ego and honor do you lack that you seek in women?

Do you behave and response to women based on those words you said?