Mistress

[justime]

Hi Bro Warbird, pardon me for usurping material from the “Picking Up Gals Outside KTV” thread. I thought it expedient to string together how NLP principles can be applicable in the KTV context. It is like a ‘model answer’ in praxis and is anchored in real life.

May I point out that Bro Warbird approach to his prospect is one of playfulness and discovery. He is NOT overly stressed on overcome per se (although he obviously wishes it to be favourable to himself).

I would also like to underscore that an important aspect of his apparent progression in the art of mistressing and interaction with gals in general rise not only from diligence in imbibing psychological principles but also rooted in praxis – hardcore (definitely an innuendo here) practical experience in the trenches so to speak.

For people who are not familiar with NLP whatsoever, let me give an encapsulated treatise on it. Essentially people respond to three ways:

a) visual (sight/vision/seeing)
b) auditory (aural)
c) kinesthetic (touch/action/movement).

Basically if you communicate to them in their preferred way (also called modality), the chances of you establishing rapport is very strong. And good rapport engenders an intensification of feelings for you. It will also make your prospect more susceptible to suggestion. (I actually got my first anal sex using the NLP principles!)

Here, I present to you Bro Warbird’s real life application of NLP in the art of mistressing:

Originally Posted by warbird

Met a song bird (not a singer) last nite at DC HH. She is a 20 yo (born 1989) student of hotel management at a major school. I picked her from many gals outside the rooms primarily bcos she is 170 cm w/o shoes n quite chio. She has rather big boobs n nice ass for a tall gal. Wt abt 52 kg. She was born in Suzhou but grew up in SH.

………. She has been in the nite scene for only 1 month.

I was pleasantly surprised that she could speak American-accented English!! And her singing of both Chinese n English songs was fantastic!! She is very articulate n has a very charming voice. She sang most of my favourite songs well.

Her dominant sensory representation is clearly AUDITORY n so I tried to build rapport using primarily auditory words. And I did my best to speak slower n w/ deeper voice n try to vary my tone....

I'm looking forward to meeting her soon. My mission is to deepen my rapport w/ her...and try to use words to evoke her emotional responses n arouse her...it will be a fun journey for me, regardless of the outcome

Originally Posted by warbird

Booked her (let's called her SS) to sit w/ me last nite. I salivated over her proportionate figure n long beautiful legs. She got meat in all the right places. BTW, she is 53, not 52 kg. We conversed in English 90% of the time. I deepened my rapport w/ her by using auditory words, listening to her n her singing...praising her sweet voice, etc. She was unhappy that I dun sing ....So I recited some famous Chinese poems to her. Wow! She was most impressed w/ my command of English n Mandarin Chinese. I also told her my former n current profession/business n that I hv doctorate degrees from top US universities, hehehe.

When the time was right, I popped the question.

Warbird: Is any man taking care of u?
SS: What do u mean?
Warbird: Do u hv a BF or some man who is BY-ing u?
SS: No, not now.
Warbird: U had one before?
SS: Yeah, I had a SGP BF for 2 months, not an exchange n I didn't ask for any money. But he paid my rental ($800 monthly) n some living expenses.
Warbird: What happened to him?
SS: The first month was good. He treated me very well (I guess she means that he made love to her many times a wk) for one month, then he was seeing me less n less often. Then he avoided my calls. He got bored w/ me.
Warbird: Wat a fool. Unlike him, I believe in long-term RS (a little harmless lie). BTW, How old is he n is he married?
SS: He is 35 n single. Since our breakup, I came to work here 1 month ago.
Warbird: I like u n want to BY u.
SS (looked a bit shy n embarrassed): I never thought of being BAO-ed by a man.
Warbird: U r financially secure?
SS: My parents pay for my tuition n living expenses. I'm here to earn some extra pocket money.
Warbird: OK, I'll treat u very well (I hope I dun need to fxxk her everyday to qualify) n u sing my favorite songs everyday. I'll give u 6K a month...
SS: No no, that is way too much!! (first time a PRC MM says I'm paying too much!!).
Warbird: Yeah, too much. Sounds too much like an exchange. All right then, I'll pay u only 4K a month.
SS (nodding her head): Hmmmm...

I then embraced her n kissed her. Later I squeezed her boobs, which were soft n quite a handful. When she stood up, I held her very tight w/ my body n my two hands were checking out her butt which was very fleshy n very firm (at least 35 plus).

I could hv her cunt last nite w/o paying. It would be a feat for an old chi pek. Unfortunately, my battery was so low n needed recharge for at least 2 days. I told SS we would start our new RS when my Fujian GF (whom she met the day before) returns to China in less than a wk.

We agreed to meet again very soon.

……
Many gals may say they want a young, tall n handsome man. But a man's perceived rating on the Dominance Male Scale is the sole determinant of his attractiveness to women, at the subconscious level (where it really counts). They can't help it, hehehe.

The other factor is how one uses words n body language to establish rapport n trust n seduce her...knowing her dominant sensory representation system is a vital 1st step.

Not all KTV gals will do ST, though most of them will like to be BAO-ed by the right man at the right price.

Originally Posted by warbird

…..
I like to thank all esteemed bros n experts here for contributing ur strategies n sharing ur pickup n BY stories w/ all of us. These case studies need not be limited to KTV gals n may include any gal as long as she has a real pussy. FRs on ladyboys n transvestites/transexuals r not welcome.

I'll update my onging saga w/ SS who is providing a good case study on some of the strategies I hv expounded.

Even though I met her less than 4 days ago n I hv not consummated the RS, we r fast becoming soul mates.

She initiated the many SMSes to me beginning yesterday AM. She gave her QQ no n password to me. She then emailed her pics n then we spoke on the phone for a long time. I was the one who terminated the call.

Perhaps my strategies hv been too successful on her. Since I recognized within the first hr of meeting her last Thu, while she was still sitting w/ my young fren, that she is extremely auditory, I hv become MR. AUDITORY. I also slow down everything including my movements, speech, eating, etc. I hv used my voice as an hypnotic DRUG.

I also know that a gal like SS will judge my attractiveness as a man based SOLELY on my voice n how auditory my words r. Even my perceived rating on the Male Dominance Scale is of secondary importance……

Her father is very musical n auditory as well. Her given Chinese name is rhythm/waves!! Like her dad, she is obsessed w/ voice, sounds n spoken words.

To date, she has not said a single no to anything I want or ask of her. And she has fulfilled promptly everything she has promised. As u recall, I offered her 6k a month to be my GF. She declined saying I was paying way too much!! So reluctantly, I offered her 4k a month n she gladly accepted it. She will NOT work at all. She wants to be w/ me as much as possible outside her school hrs.

I must confess that I hv never had such perfect rapport, such intimacy, such harmony in sharing n free flowing n exchange of my words, thoughts, feelings, emotions, aspirations, etc w/ another human being as I hv w/ SS. I even told her that she looks n sounds very dear n familiar as if I hv met her before, perhaps in past lives, dreams or fantasies or during meditations!!

Frankly, I'm having such a wonderful time w/ her that I want the current journey to continue as it is, indefinitely. I'm worried that this current state of perfect bliss n euphoria may end, at least for me, when I taste her pussy in 3-4 days.

My other mission is of course to field test the validity of the assumptions, beliefs n strategies expounded by some ANG Mo gurus on RS n love. Whether by executing some of these operations, an old chi ko pek can make a chio SYT FALL in love w/ him, as these gurus hv reiterated n reassured. Just like scientists designing n building a nuclear weapon, they will never know if it will actually work unless n until they conduct a real test (the big explosion!)

[warbird]

Originally Posted by justime

Hi Bro Warbird, pardon me for usurping material from the “Picking Up Gals Outside KTV” thread. I thought it expedient to string together how NLP principles can be applicable in the KTV context. It is like a ‘model answer’ in praxis and is anchored in real life.

May I point out that Bro Warbird approach to his prospect is one of playfulness and discovery. He is NOT overly stressed on overcome per se (although he obviously wishes it to be favourable to himself).

I would also like to underscore that an important aspect of his apparent progression in the art of mistressing and interaction with gals in general rise not only from diligence in imbibing psychological principles but also rooted in praxis – hardcore (definitely an innuendo here) practical experience in the trenches so to speak.

For people who are not familiar with NLP whatsoever, let me give an encapsulated treatise on it. Essentially people respond to three ways:

a) visual (sight/vision/seeing)
b) auditory (aural)
c) kinesthetic (touch/action/movement).

Basically if you communicate to them in their preferred way (also called modality), the chances of you establishing rapport is very strong. And good rapport engenders an intensification of feelings for you. It will also make your prospect more susceptible to suggestion. (I actually got my first anal sex using the NLP principles!)

Here, I present to you Bro Warbird’s real life application of NLP in the art of mistressing:

Hi bro justime:

I'm sure by now you're actively engaged in fixing the monumental business screw-up. I wish u the very best! I hv postponed my return to Gotham City for a few wks n hope that we could meet again.

I'm quite flattered that u hv actually taken some material from my thread as a case study, hehehe. You make my day!! Your profound understanding n expertise in NLP is most impressive.

As u know, I'm a newbie in BY game despite my theoretical knowledge. I'm long in theory but short on practice (or shall I say praxis?). I hv made some small progress in the last few wks.

Yes, my approach to all areas of life, including my quarries, is one of playfulness n discovery. And I try to stay emotionally detached. I believe it's the right mindset. Life is ephemeral n I'm not going to take things too seriously.

Cheers!

[ansonsohna]

Dear Bros,

Its been qte a while since there are any new postings in my fave thread. Waiting to learn new tricks ....

Bro Justime, hope everything is well with you & tat u quickly settle yur situ. Hope to hear from you real soon.

anyway i am posting here to share a lil milestone in my life. last nite is the first time i do ONS (One Nite Stand). With a beer aunty somewhere in the north of Singapore.

anyway, the story is like tis: my fren and i no money to cheong KTV, so decide to lim kopi at kopitiam. got one beer aunty abt late thirty to forty there. she is frm malaysia and divorcee with two kids still in m'sia.

my fren and me got finish off 12 bottles. Everytime got new order of beer, i flirt w beer aunty. ask her wat she wl do for me if i order one more bottle.

i still not sure how the nlp thing works but basically use something like bro warbird - use 阿谀奉承 (sweet talk words), & do something like the video posted by werewolves say.

anyway kopi shop abt to close liao, i ask her i go back wanna to share cab. she say okay. along the way, ask her whether she want supper. i say she work so hard at kopi shop but never eat maybe hungry. (she reply tat the kopi shop food lao yah). i say tat food may be 食之无味 but customer like me good. she smile.

anyway, we go newton for supper where i continue buaya & aso add on 打情骂俏 (flirt by teasing/showing displeasure). disturb her wear skirt so short give ah pek heart attack, i aso say that by right i prefer carlsberg but bcos of her drink tiger.

finally makan 完, say tat so full go home aso cannot sleep. why not go someplace to 聊天 and watch tv first.

i suggest go balestier nearby. she say okay.

basket, singapore friday nite so horny one. balestier got so many love shack but all occupied. kena wait for nearly half hr before finally got one.

in the meantime, i order 02 cans of beer, plus condom at 7-11 at balestier and then sit just outside the bus stop wile waiting for room to be ready.

finally went to room. she shower while i channel surfing to find good tv program. me quickly shower next & then proceed to the action.

for forty yr old. body not bad. the neh neh qte big with dark twenty cent size brown nipple. dam shoik to suck. anyway kiss kiss a bit then put on condom and screw away missionary position.

after i come which is abt three minutes (any masters to teach my how to tahan longer?....) , i still feel a bit horny so pleaded her to bj me.

now bro pls don't laugh, but when she bj me half way, she like choking like tat. i know my kukujio not big so ask why. knn, her say she dentures out of position. she then took out her denture & continue to blow me. qte shoik i must say altho qte disgusting.

when i look around as she was bj me, i suddenly see her denture by the drawer on the bed. then my lan cheow go a bit soft liao, so i tank her, give her a peck on her lip (cannot french, so disgusting, i picture that bo gay sure got a lot of drool come out one).

we then shower & then took a cab to send her back home.

all in all very memorable & interesting experience. i finally know wat is it to experience ONS first hand.

again, i look back. i see tat frm total beginer i move a lil toward intermediate level. i not sure wen or how or wat, but i tink tat i large reason is tat i am a little more confident now & so can use a little bit of 舌灿莲花 to get a gal open her flower to me.

got far far more to go (virgin experience of ONS got denture somemore ... wah lao!) but for tis lil bit of 进展, this lil bit of progress, i have to thk bro jus, bro warbird, bro dybj & all otr masters here.

kum siah. kum siah. kum kum siah!

have a good day bros!

[cablesnwires]

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

again, i look back. i see tat frm total beginer i move a lil toward intermediate level. i not sure wen or how or wat, but i tink tat i large reason is tat i am a little more confident now & so can use a little bit of 舌灿莲花 to get a gal open her flower to me.

got far far more to go (virgin experience of ONS got denture somemore ... wah lao!) but for tis lil bit of 进展, this lil bit of progress, i have to thk bro jus, bro warbird, bro dybj & all otr masters here.

kum siah. kum siah. kum kum siah!

have a good day bros!

Bro ansonsohna, well done, another milestone achieved. It's important that you are enjoying along the way of discovering yourself a little more.

Keep up the good work, bro!

[Rolec]

Bro Anson
Congrats n Jia You!!!

[ansonsohna]

Originally Posted by cablesnwires

Bro ansonsohna, well done, another milestone achieved. It's important that you are enjoying along the way of discovering yourself a little more.

Keep up the good work, bro!

Originally Posted by Rolec

Bro Anson
Congrats n Jia You!!!

Thks bro cables & bro Rolec for yur encourage. me take baby steps to improve my life. as long as 自强不息 constantly make improvement, will be better & some day got success like masters here in terms of $ and gals.

i now realize tat there are qte a few lonely gal out there who wud make gd fb - if we go beyond looks.

ah yah, who don't want 沉鱼落雁 beauty or syt iso of forty yr old gal? but looking at positive, mature gal is lil less inhibited and easy. i can practice KC skill too in the meanwhile ...

here's to all of us making steady improvements in love, life & money making ability.

cheers bros!

... hey guys as i writing above post, i realise here tat actually my ONS is cougar. more mature gal makan younger man!

[justime]

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

......
here's to all of us making steady improvements in love, life & money making ability.

Hi bro anson, I have been reading thru some of your posts and come away impressed. You are indeed making amazing progress (hey even in this forum your rep points have improved significantly. I distinctly remembered that your points were a measly ten when we last met up and that you were so upset when you got zapped from this low base. Well, even in this forum (as in real life), understanding of “Rules of Engagement” certainly helped didn’t it?.

Now let's enumerate your progress since we last met up:

1) You have tasted what it is like to negotiate with WL in your experience with EE. The most important thing here is that you are able to state what you want in the transaction (instead of passively hoping or assuming that the other party will take your interest into consideration). This is important in many negotiation scenarios.

2) You have actively sought out and dated instead of merely passively waiting for chance encounters. Like any skill, meeting and asking a gal out requires an element of practice and some basic strategizing.

Don’t know whether you have found the gal of your dreams or not, but the most important thing is that you have been creating choices and opportunity for yourself. (For some people, you may later realize that the elusive gal of your dreams is someone you already know/knew- it just takes a situation and context whereby you have that epiphany (“aha moment”) that the gal you know is actually the dream gal that you have been coveting.

3) The practice sessions on collecting rejections did you a world of good I reckon. It thickens you skin (“ego protection”) and inures you against a non favorable reaction over time.

I think you are now more emotionally equipped to handle 'rejections' vis-a-vis the last time we met.

If you think back, I am sure that you will feel nonplussed on the fact that you actually feel so affected with the gal who played ‘hot and cold’ in retrospect. You were needy then – and seriously short of options. That is why every positive and negative act of hers gets an amplified response in you.

“Options and choice gives you freedom and will empower you. At the very least you can decide on a course of action (rather than being a passive reactant of circumstance).”

4) I noticed that you have cheonged in New Beijing and that you have offered to repay me my “Loan” (it’s a gift btw). This suggests to me that your financial situation is improving.

Timely Reminder just in case you forget my adage: do NOT ever get into debt to indulge in vices. Debts incurred must always have a “positive return” when you clear it.

5) You didn’t post much about your work situation. I hope you have imbibed my little treatise on ‘gentle’ assertiveness (powerful paradox used by the most powerful people of all time including founders of major religions) when handling difficult / bullying colleagues.

6) Your ONS adventure is good (and hilarious). I think you are beginning to appreciate that there are certain dynamics in every interactive situations. From your narrative, you seem to be able to generally apply certain NLP principles. Continue doing what you have done.

(NLP talk for those interested):

Note that by being conscious of communication patterns that are favoured by a person, you are already one step ahead. Your Beer Aunty is an aural person, she likes to “hear” when communicating. Match her speed of talking, repeat some of the phrases she uses, and subtly mirror her gesticulations - it will get you some rapport with her.

Not sure if you deliberately apply this technique or just stumble upon it. Whatever it is, well done and congrats on achieving this milestone!

I would also like to call to reader’s attention here is that (again extrapolating from anson’s narrative) bro ansonsohna confident demeanor when dealing with her. This is a very attractive trait in a male.

Forget NLP and whatever Masterstrokes - just remember to be appear confident (not cocky) when dealing with people. Act out "confidence" if need be (even if inside you is quivering).

Anyway, do continue with your field trips (and get experience engaging people). You now have an awareness of communication patterns (however vague or subtle). Just continue to be aware of it and try to occasionally ‘identify’ what these patterns are. Whether this person is a visual person, a aurel person or kinesthetic person.

Sorry for the abrupt ending to this post as I got to attend to some matters.

Meanwhile bro ansonsohna, you have my congratulations on your stellar progress in the personal development front.

[ansonsohna]

Originally Posted by justime

Hi bro anson, I have been reading thru some of your posts and come away impressed. You are indeed making amazing progress .......Now let's enumerate your progress since we last met up:
........
2) You have actively sought out and dated instead of merely passively waiting for chance encounters. Like any skill, meeting and asking a gal out requires an element of practice and some basic strategizing.
.......
3) The practice sessions on collecting rejections did you a world of good I reckon. It thickens you skin (“ego protection”) and inures you against a non favorable reaction over time.

I think you are now more emotionally equipped to handle 'rejections' vis-a-vis the last time we met.

If you think back, I am sure that you will feel nonplussed on the fact that you actually feel so affected with the gal who played ‘hot and cold’ in retrospect. You were needy then – and seriously short of options. That is why every positive and negative act of hers gets an amplified response in you.
.....

“Options and choice gives you freedom and will empower you. At the very least you can decide on a course of action (rather than being a passive reactant of circumstance).”

Bro Jus, compliment coming from you mean so much to me. Thank U (Blush! Blush!)

1) U are correct, the more I practice, the less fearful & stress I get when interacting with strangers (esp gals). Now instead of heart palpitating, sweaty palms, I can take a deep breathe and cheong/charge ….. still nervous though (but like you told me, even seasoned show veterans like Michael Jackson (bless his soul) also nervous but go out & perform “in spite of his nervous”.

2) Bro, yur collect rejection stroke very powderful. Some bros here aso got try this out.

Yah lah, now I see her so got no feeling & think how on earth I so goondu and let her affect me like that. We all move on – hopefully to something beta …

Having options is like having “kotex” .... (don’t know if younger bros can associate or remember, but Kotex is a woman sanitary napkin whose advertisement say “NEW FREEDOM”.) alamak …. Me macho man - must talk abt “Kotek” (dick in Malay) instead of “Kotex”. Soli for lau yah joke, but me feeling a little siao today. I tink kena haze ... feels like hoong ki smoke

Originally Posted by justime

4) I noticed that you have cheonged in New Beijing and that you have offered to repay me my “Loan” (it’s a gift btw). This suggests to me that your financial situation is improving.

Timely Reminder just in case you forget my adage: do NOT ever get into debt to indulge in vices. Debts incurred must always have a “positive return” when you clear it.

Yah, like u suggest, I pay myself 20% whenever I got pay/salary. Then take care of family expense, then budget for cheong (twice a week max for now – including date, the rest of the days play internet & watch TV …)

BTW, I also manage save up quite a bit by quit cold turkey my quiting my hoon ki habit. A week already … personal best record since I pick up the habit. Still ‘shiver’ like vibrator especially after meals, when drinking or during pang-sai and sex in longing for a puff!

Originally Posted by justime

5) You didn’t post much about your work situation. I hope you have imbibed my little treatise on ‘gentle’ assertiveness (powerful paradox used by the most powerful people of all time including founders of major religions) when handling difficult / bullying colleagues.

6) Your ONS adventure is good (and hilarious). I think you are beginning to appreciate that there are certain dynamics in every interactive situations. From your narrative, you seem to be able to generally apply certain NLP principles. Continue doing what you have done.

….. Not sure if you deliberately apply this technique or just stumble upon it. Whatever it is, well done and congrats on achieving this milestone!

...- just remember to be appear confident (not cocky) when dealing with people. Act out "confidence" if need be (even if inside you is quivering).

Anyway, do continue with your field trips (and get experience engaging people).
……..
Meanwhile bro ansonsohna, you have my congratulations on your stellar progress in the personal development front.

Work wise not so good. Up and down. Sometimes okay & then suddenly jialat. Wat to do when company aso struggle …… I now able to sometimes empathise with boss a lil’ instead of always seeing him as a CB Kia all the time. But overall still find him very irritating & hao-lian.

I tink it is really ONE nite stand. Cannot get round the dentures thing. Hope I not permanently psychologically scar and cannot perform. Sekali next time see kawaii syt with Japanese crooked teeth (yum! yum!) think abt dentures.

Promise u tat I will go out into the fields – not only for cheong but aso for job/career/potential biz …….

And for all my “stellar progress”, bro jus you are the one person who deserves the most credit. Kum siah, kum siah, kum kum siah!

[Rejuvenation]

Originally Posted by justime

5) You didn’t post much about your work situation. I hope you have imbibed my little treatise on ‘gentle’ assertiveness (powerful paradox used by the most powerful people of all time including founders of major religions) when handling difficult / bullying colleagues.

bro can elaborate on this?

[justime]

Originally Posted by Rejuvenation

bro can elaborate on this?

hi bro rejuvenation, just got back from a particularly challenging situation business wise. As such, will later elaborate this principle (maybe bro ansonsohna would like to try his hand?) as I do not want to delve into the profound at this moment.

“Levity-wise” my gals on hand are only my Singapore & Thai (Paeng) gf. One is perpetually busy and the other is ‘faraway’ in the LOS. No any other mistress or BY presently. Still receiving the occasional SMS from CG (ex PRC waitress) but looks like she is getting along fine without me (and my patronage) ….

So with this little down time mistressing wise and generally starting with a “clean slate” (although I may BY Xin2 later depending on whether I can find someone suitable), esteemed bros like warbird, dybj, ldh etc … have all superseded me and left me trailing in their wake.

And to bring a little romantic dalliance and Joie de vivre in my life (romance does really sweeten the quality of your life – best fountain of youth available), I will be in a ‘hunting-courting’ mode during this period of relative lull.

BTW, I do enjoy the chase/pursuit aspects of courtship/mistressing in itself. Ipso facto, you can expect me to trawl the Nite-club and KTV scene these couple of days in search of interesting prospects. I will also be looking into regular gals (including Singaporeans into the mix) for my next would be mistress.

Remember, whatever the outcome, whether I am able to find some interesting prospect or not – I will NOT obsess over the outcome. I will just treat the chase as an intrinsically enjoyable and fun activity in itself.

And since I don’t have to maintain any BY currently, I can do an outright BY and not the budget version i.e. the mistress need not work save her being a ‘sex-cretary’ to me!

Cheers … hope to have some nice story to share. Also will continue expatiating on some of the concepts talked here soon!

wat a great post. pls keep it coming

[Moria]

good 1, thanks for sharing

[justime]

Originally Posted by Moria

good 1, thanks for sharing

Originally Posted by Portgas

wat a great post. pls keep it coming

hi Portgas & Morio, thanks for kind words. Appreciate it.

Sorry for the sub-plot in this thread for now, but I shall enumerate the litany of activities since I got back home and then generate two salient points of discussions. It will relate this to overarching principle of being empowered and creating choice for your self I promise.

Since I got back, I have covered the following in the span of five days:

1) DC (met up with several bros here, among them Bro Warbird, Bro DYBJ, Bro Loving Dickhead, Bro LKY etc ……. Enjoyed myself immensely. Thanks for your company guys!)

2) Club Jade (Nice short outing with Bro Warbird again. Always enjoyed his company. Anyway the place and talent here is a write-off - although what is nice about this outing is that I get to meet another batch of samsters.)

3) Amani (some gems but in general WL mostly MILFY and not in line with my sense of aesthetics)

4) Club Infinitude (don't go too late on a Fri, not many choice as most of the A list gals will be booked by then.)

5) Las Vegas (overall standard not too hot vis-a-vis my last visit although I did meet an 'old' friend from Kabuki (PRC English speaking lass - now S'pore PR)

6) BS (Girls are very competitive and aggressive - but I do like it - feels like a rock star being mobbed. Sat with 10 girls, or more appropriately, I tipped 10 gals. Gave a little $10 note as a ‘red’ card to this particularly determined MIFY WL who clung on to me for the longest of time despite my refusal. It is a place that I intend to re-visit soon)

7) LG (an obscure Hanging Flower Joint. I met that elusive gal H that I was mentioning to Bro Warbird. H is one girl that had thus far refused to accept SGD 18, 000 to be BY. Now that I have interacted with her, unlikely that H is a “closet lesbian” or suffers from dyspareunia as suggested by Bro Warbird as reasons for her refusal. Will share with you an interesting story about H.

Also at LG, I met a singer who is probably one of best singers ever at a HFJ. And she is NEW – third day working there and apparently has formal training).

8) Attended two F1 rocks concerts on Friday & Saturday with Sin gf on both nites. Caught a little ZZ Top (we came late), No doubt & Beyonce (dam - missed Black Eye Pea as I came late again). Anyway, seeing Gwen Stephanie's nicely sculptured bod make me covet the ‘well tone’ body type. I shall seek it out at the next KTV joint I visit.

9) Easy 50, a joint at TP which is celebrating an anniversay there last week. Good music and operates on a "push/buy drinks system with low gal playability. BTW, I got a dancer here as my "gf" less than a year ago. Still in communication with her although she is back in China. (Generally difficult to administer BY here as many ah pek here do throw money to indulge the girls).

10) Serviced SIN gf & an old flame cum FB.

For my SIN GF, there is a heavy dose of Love wayangs with my SIN gf. Got to say that she is as good as Paeng, my Thai gf in her little own way. I sense a potential ‘emotional conflict’ percolating if I indeed have to choose one at the end of the day.

Oh dear, looking back at the past five days, I see the hedonistic lifestyle, the profligate and prodigal pursuit of women, the sheer wantonness of it all ….. but I LOVE IT!

[warbird]

Originally Posted by justime

hi Portgas & Morio, thanks for kind words. Appreciate it.

Sorry for the sub-plot in this thread for now, but I shall enumerate the litany of activities since I got back home and then generate two salient points of discussions. It will relate this to overarching principle of being empowered and creating choice for your self I promise.

Since I got back, I have covered the following in the span of five days:
.................................................. .................................................. .........Oh dear, looking back at the past five days, I see the hedonistic lifestyle, the profligate and prodigal pursuit of women, the sheer wantonness of it all ….. but I LOVE IT!

Yo esteemed bro justime,

I hv enjoyed ur company immensely. It's fortuitous that our preferred type of gals is quite similar. I was pleased w/ ur intro of JJ, the 173cm gal, remember? Fortunately, there r many of them around, otherwise w/ ur youthful good looks, height, mojo n money, I wont stand any chance.

You hv been more productive in the last 5 days than most men hv achieved in a month!

I'm impressed, bro. Dyspareunia is a word usually known only to members of a certain profession, hehehe.

BTW, I hv been indisposed w/ flu for the last 2 days but I'm much better now. I should be ready to up my gals on Wed.

Pls keep in touch.

Cheers!!

[Loving_Dickhead]

Originally Posted by justime

1) DC (met up with several bros here, among them Bro Warbird, Bro DYBJ, Bro Loving Dickhead, Bro LKY etc ……. Enjoyed myself immensely. Thanks for your company guys!)

Hi bro Justine,

Words cannot describe the fun, BY-ingness and the camaraderie that this group of esteemed cheongsters have been in!

Thank you for the new additional presence to the group, adding to the fun, strength and experience of this cohort. kekeke.

As usual, I am the rookie rook and look forward to the almighty SIFUs of the scene to guide me.

Best,
LDH