Tears For A PRC Prostitute

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by slider_72

That is my current frame of mind right now. I don't think she cheated me during the period we were together and I believe that she had some feelings for me too although not as strong as how I felt about her. The issue about her having a bf in China, well, she told me once that she had a bf in China in the past. To me at this moment, whether that was in the past or still current is no longer important.

I am trying very hard to let it all go and thanks to bro DYBJ, I think I've made tremendous improvement today. To steal a phrase from bro DYBJ I've just learnt, 我们永远一起，但是我们永远不会在一起。 My interpretation of this phrase is different form his though, to me it means that she will forever be there in my memories, but we will never be together physically. I wish her well in her life ahead.

For the past couple of months, I've totally neglected my work. In the few days after she left, I merely stared at my computer in the office and was unable to concentrate at all. Today, I managed to worked my ass off without once looking at her photos. Hopefully this is the start of my recovery. Next step is to delete her contact details. I've already deleted all the smses she sent me in the past.

Good that u tink through it, pat from me. Noe it is not easy, here we are typing, it is easy, but l do understand how u feel and how hard it is to move on. l guess we are jus too emotional sumtime. l am one too

Ya la, she had already left to her hometown le. Time to get refresh back and concentrate on ur work l wish u all the best bro!!!

Haiz, Sumtime l jus feel that whatever happen between the gals and us, how happy and memorable it is, how great the chemistry and feeling is, it can jus be part of memories in our brains. Nothing much of a outcome. End of the day, she will jus hav to go back to where she belong and lead back to her own life.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by wodemama

Bro longwinter have a good point there. Enjoy the times that you spend with thoese PRC but do not deceive yourself becuz it aint worth it.

Its really difficult to find true love in this field, especially when the whole thing started off as a sex business. But there are some exceptions,yet again thoese are probably the last few exceptions that we will hear/see.

With the ever increasing GST/price hikes and standard of living, be very sure that it would cost more to get them have a continued interest in us. Always remember why they are even here - money.

ya, very hard to find true love. The whole r/s is built up on $$$ and sex. And after sumtime, when u are really into it, u mite jus feel gulity of the whole r/s.

For me, l really feel tis way. l feel bad. no explaination for that. Even when we hav lovely dovey moments, but deep in my heart, l feel bad and l jus feel that the r/s is not a right one, abnormal bah. There are exceptions cases, but rare. And mst imptly, if u really wan to be wif her, are u "DARE" enuf to take up the challenges and the obstacles. Can u really trust her and stop doubting her. It will be very tiring and draining if u cant cope it well.

[Wooden_Handle]

Bro DYBJ, good for you to move on now without any more mental burden to carry.

Choose to embrace the forest instead of a single tree.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

What's most important is, I am finally free...and this time, total without the thorn in my butthole that i carried for 7 months and boy does it feel good!

[Maxcock]

Originally Posted by slider_72

...Today, I managed to worked my ass off without once looking at her photos. Hopefully this is the start of my recovery. Next step is to delete her contact details. I've already deleted all the smses she sent me in the past.

Bro, just to be honest with u, I still have the photo of the girl who breaks my heart not long ago. But that is bec I intentionally kept it. Y? Bec I challenge myself that one day, when I can look at her photo without my heartbeat pumping faster just by one beat, that will be the time I can delete the photo bec it means I have completely overcome the KC trap. One can always delete away all photos upfront, but if the images still remains in the heart, then it is useless.

Today, when I look at her photo again, I really wonder why I fall for her in the first place? Stupidity. Btw, I still did not delete her photo, even though it has no more meaning to me. I kept it is to remind me not to be an idiot again to fall for another KC trap.

But then, u need not have to follow my method. Do what u think best. I can sense that u r in a much better state now, and your progress is amazing! Much faster than mine lei.

Wish u a speedy recovery!

[Wooden_Handle]

I agreed very much with this part.

But I think time will heal and let bros move on, later those old pics, her personal thinsg will be just move to another corner and there will be no feeling erupted afterwards.

Originally Posted by Maxcock

when I look at her photo again, I really wonder why I fall for her in the first place?

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by Wooden_Handle

Bro like 11 years old her dad died, then 15 years old her mom died too, then she started working in sweatshops then.....

She did told me her dad died, which I later found not to be true!

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by longwinter

for that moment, l did thought whether she refering to my manly an quan gan but too good to be truth la. l look up and down at myself, why no local gals or even my ex gf tell me this before leh...

wah, den u got touched or moved by wad she says bo? Tink she can be a scriptwriter in TCS or act in sum lovely dovey dramas, if not waste of talents.

Maybe she feels you can protect her.

Her script so good of course got move a little lah!

[Wooden_Handle]

I dont know why they all have the same stories, come on PRC also quite creative but their composition needs a lot of improvement.

Originally Posted by justl00king

She did told me her dad died, which I later found not to be true!

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

You should appreciate them calling you dear & hubby.. my whore dun even call mi that even I spent quite a lot on her.

For those who kana KC trap should move on their life unless you want to marry that WL as your wife & apply long term stay with ICA for her.

Nevertheless we should thank the PRC WL for their past contribution here
as they do not belong to this country (Sg)

This type just to have some "fun".

Call you dear or hubby so will RTf mah more biz for them!

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by justl00king

She did told me her dad died, which I later found not to be true!

wah own father oso can cursed. Good classic one.

actually l find some of them kinda stupid. why want to lie. Think They oso not that stupid. They noe the existence of SBF this forum and brothers here are revealing info here and there. And if they wan to tell lies, it is easy to be exposed.

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by Wooden_Handle

I dont know why they all have the same stories, come on PRC also quite creative but their composition needs a lot of improvement.

when I found out it wasn't true, I was thinking because of $ they can even bring out their family members and curse them dead.

what else they can't think of or do?

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Maybe she feels you can protect her.

Her script so good of course got move a little lah!

lol, l dun tink so leh..

but anyway after l noe this gal better, turns out that she is another very realistic and $$$ grabber person. Sad to say, she lied to me fro the start to the end. But l am happy in the end tat l managed to see thru her true real colors.

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by longwinter

wah own father oso can cursed. Good classic one.

Precisely, wonder if they still feel anything for anyone deep inside?

Think bros here all already aware of what's happening but like another bro mentioned here, many still plunge in hoping theirs is an exception or buying the sweet moments till they are gone.

KC addiction?

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by justl00king

This type just to have some "fun".

Call you dear or hubby so will RTf mah more biz for them!

l listen until l immune liaos, sumtime feel like asking those who call me hubby or dear, whether can change new interesting lines bo?

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by longwinter

lol, l dun tink so leh..

but anyway after l noe this gal better, turns out that she is another very realistic and $$$ grabber person. Sad to say, she lied to me fro the start to the end. But l am happy in the end tat l managed to see thru her true real colors.

Good for you bro,

Glad you did not fall into their trap. Just have all the fun with them and discard for better ones. you will find it's so much more fun than to entangle yourself with their issues.