In Love with a Chinese CAT150 Girl. Is it Possible to bring her to Singapore & Marry?

[joker88]

Originally Posted by sun814

haha, there are ups and downs ................ she is very spend-thrift and really puts the family's interest in the first place at all times. i believe i am really fortunate to have marry her.

Originally Posted by sun814

i am 100% singaporean, my wife without "" is an ex-fl, so ICA has no records of her, so we are staying happily in singapore now, and she's got her PR status.

Dear bro sun814

Sorry for the "" for your wife. I type too fast. My apologies.

Since your wife is an ex-FL, then your case is not in the context of this discussion.
This is just her part-ime job and there are no records.
So for her case, ICA will not treat it as a special case.

I wish you both a blissful marriage and be blessed with many kids.

You mentioned that she is "very spendthrift"? I think you are trying to say she is "very thrifty", is it?
I dun think you are trying to say she spend money extravagantly or improvidently, right?

BTW, why you did not apply for SIN citizenship for her since you are legally married?

Since you did not mention, I presume she did not come to SIN to work before that.
If she does, then the nature of her work permit is important though.

[joker88]

Originally Posted by kurenaine

Hi bro
Thank you so much for taking the time to reply the email. Let's say if we do not get married, can she then come to Singapore after 2 year period is up?

Bro, getting married is the biz of two persons in love.

The marriage cert is although important in certain aspects, I think it is a piece of paper which does not change the facts.

Like what boss Sammy mentioned, the marriage is a change from hourly rental to long term lease.
I advise you to think carefully.

As I mentioned previously, after the 2 yr period is up, she can apply for re-entry to SIN at any SIN ambassy in China for VISA processing.
However, given her previous ICA records, the chances are very slim unless she has very very good reasons.
Even so, she can only stay here for not more than 14 days and someone has to be her guarantor and ensure that she dun engage in unlawful activities.
Who in his right mind would want to do that?

Actually I am curious as to why you would want her to come here.
There are hundreds of men here who know her for reasons obvious to you.
Are you sure you can take the mental stress and overcome your suspicion and jealousy.
It is almost certain that she will get in touch with some of them and you will be suspicious, jealous and mentally stress out.

Think carefully, bro.

I wish my own countrymen will not to be conned by them out of love.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by joker88

Dear bro sun814

Sorry for the "" for your wife. I type too fast. My apologies.

Since your wife is an ex-FL, then your case is not in the context of this discussion.
This is just her part-ime job and there are no records.
So for her case, ICA will not treat it as a special case.

I wish you both a blissful marriage and be blessed with many kids.

You mentioned that she is "very spendthrift"? I think you are trying to say she is "very thrifty", is it?
I dun think you are trying to say she spend money extravagantly or improvidently, right?

BTW, why you did not apply for SIN citizenship for her since you are legally married?

Since you did not mention, I presume she did not come to SIN to work before that.
If she does, then the nature of her work permit is important though.

haha sorry for the typo error, i m trying to say that she is very thrifty.

applying for citizenship is also not that easy, must get PR for at least 2 years (that's what the ICA letter states), but i don't think she wants singapore citizenship.

she was a pdmm on LTVP when i know her, so i have a step-daughter as well.

i know that wl and fl is different, so there is no ICA issues as long as she was not being caught before.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by joker88

Actually I am curious as to why you would want her to come here.
There are hundreds of men here who know her for reasons obvious to you.
Are you sure you can take the mental stress and overcome your suspicion and jealousy.
It is almost certain that she will get in touch with some of them and you will be suspicious, jealous and mentally stress out.

Think carefully, bro.

I wish my own countrymen will not to be conned by them out of love.

haha, for me, i don't really care whether some men had known her before (so what??) she is now my wife legally, and in marriage or a "normal" relationship, mutual trust is of utmost importance, and is between 2 parties. won't give a damn if she met one men she knew. in fact i never mentioned her previous trade as a fl after i know her for some time till only a few months ago, where she casually mentioned it, actually i felt a sense of relief that we are able to talk about it. so ts, even if she is able to come back to singapore, if you don't have a heart and mental capacity as strong as mine, just give it up and move on ... even if both of you are truely in love with each other.

[joew2005]

whoa ... hope tat not all marriage r a change fr hourly rental 2 long term lease ...

[flcult]

TS, think I hv farked yr prospective bride on several occasions, she can really blow! Did my opening statement piss u off? Trust me, there'll be more to come from other brudders who actually bonked her. If u feel hurt, u r farked. If u r nt affected, then u prob dun luv her that much to give a damn.
U r In love so must get married? TS, u r one screwed up dude. Just enjoy the companionship first. See how yr "love" depreciates over time then decide if she is worth the effort. Marriage is all abt giving, not taking. Being with ex-WL is never a bed of roses, in yr case, it's all abt LOSING n not a chance of winning. Those who dun agree, who gives a tits-fark. Two words:grow up.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by flcult

TS, think I hv farked yr prospective bride on several occasions, she can really blow! Did my opening statement piss u off? Trust me, there'll be more to come from other brudders who actually bonked her. If u feel hurt, u r farked. If u r nt affected, then u prob dun luv her that much to give a damn.
U r In love so must get married? TS, u r one screwed up dude. Just enjoy the companionship first. See how yr "love" depreciates over time then decide if she is worth the effort. Marriage is all abt giving, not taking. Being with ex-WL is never a bed of roses, in yr case, it's all abt LOSING n not a chance of winning. Those who dun agree, who gives a tits-fark. Two words:grow up.

you should grow up instead as u write like a ten year old, u talk about love but don't know how to accept a gal for who she is, including her past. u can only probably marry a virgin, but are u one in the first place?

[mrsg]

Originally Posted by sun814

you should grow up instead as u write like a ten year old, u talk about love but don't know how to accept a gal for who she is, including her past. u can only probably marry a virgin, but are u one in the first place?

A person who truly loves another will give up everything for him/her w/o expecting anything in return except faithfulness. Accept a person for what he/she is and has done in the past first

[alan0338]

marrying a pro is not such a big deal if she is a better person than a cheating wife who will fuck behind the husbands back

all marriages have its own danger, just need to open up ur eyes and make proper judgement ( and not getting blinded by the pussy juice) before jumping into the pit ...

[flcult]

Originally Posted by sun814

you should grow up instead as u write like a ten year old, u talk about love but don't know how to accept a gal for who she is, including her past. u can only probably marry a virgin, but are u one in the first place?

Ya, I have much to learn about love that's why I married the one whom I trust the most. I cannot change the past but obviously u nvr gave a thot about the future. I am concerned abt the TS so he has to wake up to the tune of harsh facts before he spends a huge part of his life in remorse & regret.

Who the tit-fark are u to comment on what I think? U r not at my level to talk about such stuff. Fark off lah, ignorant prick.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by mrsg

A person who truly loves another will give up everything for him/her w/o expecting anything in return except faithfulness. Accept a person for what he/she is and has done in the past first

Let's put this to bed once and for all. There is NO SUCH THING as "true love". It's the stuff of fairy tales.

What happens is that the act of sexual union triggers a host of chemical reactions in the brain so after fucking a WHORE, many inexperienced whoremongers think they're "truly in love".

Regardless of what caused the act of "falling in love", the fact remains that the effect wears off after a few years and reality sets in.

Those who have ended up marrying WHORES will then wake up every morning wondering why on earth did such a stupid thing.

There's an excellent article on the chemistry of love at http://www.romancestuck.com/articles...stryoflove.htm

[Bebertov]

True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen. Quote by La Rochefoucauld, Francois De....

[Peacock29]

Originally Posted by sun814

haha, even though i marry one ex-fl, i am not really affected or offended by your opinion though, as believe i have married the 0.01% who is not out to swindle my $$$ or have no qualms about sleeping with another men. so

I am also the 0.01% perhaps. I am close to bankrupt and she stood by me. And help me using her limited means too. Mine is not WL but FL too.


To add,
But i have to agree, marrying a FL/WL really need to have tons of considerations, have a lot of understanding and courage. And you must really open your eyes before committing. Best way to see is when you are down and nearly out or totally out, she still stand by you.

Lastly, marriage is a lifetime issue. No matter WL/FL or any other ordinary woman, please take careful considerations and know the other party well before committing.
I am a divorcee, i splited half of asset to my ex-wife (SG citizen) even though i am not at fault. (maybe partially )

[CeiResident]

Quoted From Reaper

-Marriage is only about 2 things;

1. To ensure the continued existence of the Human Species.
2. Compromise.....

You could have married

- a one night stand
- a fling
- a wife or girlfriend of a buddy / best friend
- childhood sweetheart
- your boss / colleague
- a cousin
- matchmaked
- etc, etc

.....but is that person the one you loved most?

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Let's put this to bed once and for all. There is NO SUCH THING as "true love". It's the stuff of fairy tales.

Woah! This is a pretty serious statement, before further comments, can you qualify the scope where it applies? i.e. does the preamble of this sub-forum limits it to only whores or you meant it across the entire human race? (God's love aside, becoz let's not get into religious issues)

With this. I'm changing the quote in my sig henceforth
Notice there's some relation to "chemical effects" in it.