Tears For A PRC Prostitute

[Darkstorm]

Sorry for borrowing this thread:

- Thanks to those who increased my points. I'll try to increase your points in return as soon as I can, but it would take time as I think I can only increase one person's points per day.

[testarossa]

it's a shame that things didn't work out.
i wish you both the best, and hope neither of you will ever look back in anger.

[lovemachine]

I didnt think much about the incident and as much as possible try to go about my daily life with much success until she called 15mins ago.

"How are you?"

- Silence on my side -

"Ok, you woke up pretty earlier today huh?" - i replied

"Nope i didnt - as i didnt sleep last night"

"Overnight booking?"

"Nope"

- Silence -

"I was thinking about us, so i couldnt sleep" She said

- Silence -

"What about us?" i asked

"Im sorry for what i said, i didnt mean it. I still care for you"

"Ok. Is that all?"

- Silence -

" I gotta go. Work on hand. Bye" I hung up."

And here i am feeling sianz.

Prolly call her later in the night. I just hope this will end but inside me, kinda itching to meet her (not sexually itching but emotionally).

[lovemachine]

Originally Posted by 5stars

Hey TS, could you share with us the kind of tricks they install for us?

Would be helpful when we deal with them in future.

Thanks!

sure i will. will pen down in details later. been busy with work too. :P

[lovemachine]

Originally Posted by the_e_ones

Bro lovemachine, thanks for sharing your story... i always believe that by sharing (telling someone) you can actually heal the wound (if any) faster. All is not lost as the sweet memeories remain.

I have upped your points for sharing, do continue.

thanks a lot but i cant up you. still a newbie.

yeah sweet memories.

[civiccat]

thanks for sharing TS lovemachine

Camping here for more... hope to have a happy ending

[seeknewss]

Originally Posted by lovemachine

I didnt think much about the incident and as much as possible try to go about my daily life with much success until she called 15mins ago................

Prolly call her later in the night. I just hope this will end but inside me, kinda itching to meet her (not sexually itching but emotionally).

I think you are already really "IN" love with her with overwhelming emotional than sexual feeling. Let her go and time will heal...

[colins]

Hi lovemachine, finally get to read your story after I chanced upon this thread. I couldn't remember giving you much help last time during our PM exchanges, though I remembered you as sincere and very much wanting to see a clearer picture of the situation that you were in, at least I thought being rational is probably the first step into being learned enough for you to deal with such emotional turmoil.

Starting this thread is a good idea as I am very much learning as well, though I feel that I'm too old to get into such relationships anymore. Many bros are sharing their precious experience and you probably get 100x more help here, and of cos I'll learn together with you.

Sometimes, the way in which 2 person meet determines their future becos of the relationship they started. At times we may see a different route, though you may not trust that you're doing something unique from everyone else. My choice, is in giving up. My ex isn't WL or even if she was, the problems are the same - 2 person with complete different background coming together. Pick up any girl in China and you'll still see the same issues taking place. Love crosses boundaries, and objectively, even people who spend their entire lives within the same boundaries can be so different in their perception of being in love, and giving love. Find any gf in Singapore and you'll know this. But while you're at it, anything you classified as love is your own call, you run your life. Bros holding on to different parts of the elephant will tell you how it is like, but only you define the love in which you can accept.

When I was with my ex, I too see many facet of their lives. Like you said, many of their BFs are established people in the society, I got to know many bosses going ard in mercedes and BMWs thru her. If you ask me, why and how they get along with their own prc gfs is beyond me, some even married them.

To me, the datum is pretty simple. Are you happy and if you are, how long do you think she can continue to make you happy. Any girl should be given the same considerations. This is the relationship part of our lives, but should be placed with equal priorities with our career and family life as well. I guess for many bros, sacrificing one for another, thinking that it will fulfil their entire life is silly. So while you work, you must also think about love. While you fall for any girl, you must also get motivation to work. Drop anyone of those, and you will become irresponsible to yourself. Cos if shit happens, you have at least two thirds of your life still going on. If you learn how to balance, you wont go into depression no matter how much shit hits the fan.

Maybe I have gone irrelevant to the topic, but I'm speaking of this after re-reading your PMs. And I really hope it helps you in any way. Do continue to update us on your situation. Nothing beats reality.

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by colins

Hi lovemachine, finally get to read your story after I chanced upon this thread. I couldn't remember giving you much help last time during our PM exchanges, though I remembered you as sincere and very much wanting to see a clearer picture of the situation that you were in, at least I thought being rational is probably the first step into being learned enough for you to deal with such emotional turmoil.

Starting this thread is a good idea as I am very much learning as well, though I feel that I'm too old to get into such relationships anymore. Many bros are sharing their precious experience and you probably get 100x more help here, and of cos I'll learn together with you.

Sometimes, the way in which 2 person meet determines their future becos of the relationship they started. At times we may see a different route, though you may not trust that you're doing something unique from everyone else. My choice, is in giving up. My ex isn't WL or even if she was, the problems are the same - 2 person with complete different background coming together. Pick up any girl in China and you'll still see the same issues taking place. Love crosses boundaries, and objectively, even people who spend their entire lives within the same boundaries can be so different in their perception of being in love, and giving love. Find any gf in Singapore and you'll know this. But while you're at it, anything you classified as love is your own call, you run your life. Bros holding on to different parts of the elephant will tell you how it is like, but only you define the love in which you can accept.

When I was with my ex, I too see many facet of their lives. Like you said, many of their BFs are established people in the society, I got to know many bosses going ard in mercedes and BMWs thru her. If you ask me, why and how they get along with their own prc gfs is beyond me, some even married them.

To me, the datum is pretty simple. Are you happy and if you are, how long do you think she can continue to make you happy. Any girl should be given the same considerations. This is the relationship part of our lives, but should be placed with equal priorities with our career and family life as well. I guess for many bros, sacrificing one for another, thinking that it will fulfil their entire life is silly. So while you work, you must also think about love. While you fall for any girl, you must also get motivation to work. Drop anyone of those, and you will become irresponsible to yourself. Cos if shit happens, you have at least two thirds of your life still going on. If you learn how to balance, you wont go into depression no matter how much shit hits the fan.

Maybe I have gone irrelevant to the topic, but I'm speaking of this after re-reading your PMs. And I really hope it helps you in any way. Do continue to update us on your situation. Nothing beats reality.

Nice post. I feel like increasing your points, but can't do so now. Thanks for sharing.

[colins]

Hey bro darkstorm, take it easy man. It's the thought that counts. Hope it does help you as well.

[lacoruna69]

Originally Posted by lovemachine

The story, at this point in time i believe has come to an end.

It's over as of last night after a talk we agreed to have.

She has made a very hurting remark which has set us on the path of no-return.

I'm sure you will come out of this relationship a stronger and wiser man.

[X_plorer]

Bro Heart Break Kid

Thanks for your comment.. Cheers!!

Bro Roamersg,

You are right. There are still good PRC gals in Singapore.. I've just encounter 1 but only too bad that I'm married, otherwise she would be my ideal wife.

Bro lovemachine,

Dun be too sad now.. Let me tell you a short story of mine encounter with this PRC gal which i mention to Bro Roamersg, it happens to me only 2 days ago. It is really an un forgettable day..


I know this PRC from a chinese restaurant, I've been there for quite a long period of time, around a year plus. Then got 1 night, i saw this new PRC waitress working there. Just as per normal, having my dinner there with my wife and my baby. She looks quite petite in size, average looking but sweet when she smile. After having meals there for a few times, which everytime maybe chat with her and other waitresses also since I'm a regular there and most of them they also know me. She jokingly ask "Can you bring me around in Chinatown or Orchard if you can spare the time because from the day she reach Singapore till now, I've been to the working place nearby only."(because she know my office is near there that's why she ask me that question) As for me, i replied "No Problem" And i gave her my namecard and ask her to call me.. Of course there are many details in the mid of from the 1st meet till the day she ask me, at 1st also didn't talk at all, only after around 1 - 2 months time then got talk more..

But waited for 2 months before she called me. We meet up and which she told me the purpose of calling me is that she is bidding goodbye to me because she is flying back to hometown as she had quit her job and she would like me to bring her go around Chinatown for a while because she do not know the way to roam. As se has been to a few places of interest with her friends the past few days only after she had quit. So i thought of bringing her to look around Singapore. She agreed to my suggestion.

So i bring her to see scenery of Singapore, travel to quite a few places. Mt Faber, Sentosa, Vivocity, East Coast, Labrador Park. She told me she likes to look at the sea, so brought her to all these places. She was very grateful to me that i bring her to these places which she had never been before and she has totally change her opinion of Singapore because she is always at workplace from morning till night everyday.

She told me her problems of her work and many others. She likes Singapore but wanted to find another Job here but to no avail. She wanted to make full use of the "Uni" cert but unable to speak English, so it is difficult for her to find an office position.

Through a lots of conversation then begin to know her a bit more, she is those type who is very independant. She didn't ask for her parents help even she needs of more funds to come Singapore again to look for jobs, but instead going back hometown to work and study some courses, save some money before coming again. I've offered to help her but also rejected.

Somehow after a long day, the last destination was east coast park. we sat at a beach facing the sea. Then she doze off and drop to my shoulder. At this point of time, how many guys can tahan this beautiful scene just right in front of you. I also begin to like her after a day with her, and never seen a gal becoming a little gal after seing so many places, looking so sweet and adorable. Just like seeing your gf enjoying herself at the beaches. English not so good, dun now how to describe more.. She is also very thoughtful and understanding type which is my ideal wife type, she really makes me think that i've married too early and regretfully. My marriage also not those courtship type, and very love each other then married type.. Mine is very complicated.. but since i'm married, whether very love or not, i must also take up the responsibility to feed my family and my wife's family in Viet..

She really makes me feel so great being with her for the whole day. eg like during courtship with my ex which was donkey years back.. really love and miss the feel...

Till now, i also dun have her contact number as Singapore's line has been cancel, also for hometown. When she go back apply already then can give me.

Though nothing happens between me and her the whole day, but the feel with her is just too great, it is not only sex will have this kind of feel..

Out of typical 5 "C" which Singapore gals want for their husband, i already have 3, and the 4th and 5th might be within 3 - 4 years only. I should say
i should be contented but i would say money cannot really makes a person haapy same as the day i've spent with her. Of course, without money.. GONECASE also..

So bros out there, what is conclusion in your mind? It's up to your thinking. As for me, maybe in the future. If i've a day to spent with her again not as a friend only but as lovers. I think if kill me after that. I'll not regret.. Anyway, i think that day is also one of the happiest day of my life. Even earning your 1st $10k in a month also not so happy..

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by lovemachine

Prolly call her later in the night. I just hope this will end but inside me, kinda itching to meet her (not sexually itching but emotionally).

Bro lovemachine,

I really hope things end up well for both of you. Courtships are always beautiful memories. Remember all the good times that you spent together, how much you enjoyed each other company. And leave your love (if you really loved) as that, don't let it turn nasty to even hatred. Too many times I heard my female friends saying that their bf was very nice to them when in love but changed when things didn't turn out well. It is easier to see someone true self when he/she is not in love with you.

And then just move on to next chapter of your life. We all got alot to learn.

Give u my humble pt as encouragement.

[playground150]

be it prc wl or otherwise,theres alwys a certain pattern in which e relationship goes.emotional attachment,emo blkmail,e games they play.tsk,tsk.most of e time at e end of e day e 'relationship' is onli temporary,they spin a veri thick web b4 u noe it u'll be stuck.ts,yr decision to end it will be e best decision u will hv made.all e best in yr future endeavors and take care.

[hyashi]

Bro Love Machine

I can feel you brother. All of us wish to have a WL as a girlfrd deep down inside. Why? cos they know how to please us in bed and do things which our OCs will never consider doing.

The only catch is of course she is after all a WL, and we all know that they need the money for whatever reasons they have underneath that pretty face. I believe in this age alot of bros dont mind the sexual history of their partners. We just have difficulty knowing the true intent of our WL flings.

I have read through all the pages of this thread and sincerely hope things turn out for the best for the two of you. I always believe in happy endings(not just from massage haha).

Do continue to update.