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Hmmm... bro you reckon I should also go look for my girl to say a final farewell in order to remove the demon in me? Or is that playing with fire? Your experience with no. 4 is quite inspiring, to part with no strings attached and no further burden on your shoulder.
I am imagining a scenario where I can see her face to face and tell her that we should part ways forever. Perhaps the conversation may go like this;
me: I need a break...
she : Break? You mean as in break up?
me: [sob sob and nodding the head] Yes... break up. You had me at hello... you had me at hello... [sob sob some more]
You must remember though what happened to me happened to me, is yours the same?
If it makes you feel better that you really released this person from you life, then by all means go ahead...just make sure you make the entire situation very comfortable, inspiring and very non harsh like where it'll be taken like a blow thus the SOB SOB sessions but not too comfortable like you gonna put candles soft music like u gonna screw her la hahahaha
Your scenario is what i mean by harsh bro
Draw her focus there slowly and gently
Make her feel she has to end this too...then the SOB SOB scene will not happen and you both will walk away smiling and happy and glad to have crossed each others path and the memories will be there forever.
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1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！
人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
Bro, do not fear meeting her...recover and return yourself back to its riteful owner...yourself
so my bro, she or even ur ZH GF will always have a space in your heart, just keep it there.......but you must face her again to proove to yourself if you're really moved on....its for your own closure. Take care man
Ya.. i know that but muz steel myself before that.. preparation is always better than none.
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Why do you say that bro?
Looks do not last us a lifetime. Isn't it how we carry ourselves being more important for a guy? The best weapon a guy can have to made your gal go crazy is your charisma.
It is juz that we 1st started, she said I not her type mah... Anyway, the exercise bit is to make me fitter and more energetic as well as pass time, doing weights and cardio-exercise really makes times fly.
Strange enuff, I used to attract those younger girls (Fresh our of poly or interns) who like to stick to me... Juz cannot stand them after a while... I prefer more mature thinking ones (SYT looks preferred though)
Nowadays, I tone down and steer away from the younger gals in my office so that lesser trouble...Was counselled a few times by my HR director in my previous "company (Govt ministry)" for being too close to those MMs till tongue wag in the office..
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Wow bro tonsil attack can lost 10kg? must be very bad, how long you stayed in hospital?
And exactly, once you moved on, there is no hard feeling after all.
I remembered one old saying: For a woman there is only one love at a time, but for a man can share their love with many women at same time.
Hope this will help you.
Down for 1.5months, in hosp for 4 days and popping all sorts of anti-biotics so can only drink soup and survive on fruits.
Well, I dunno. She din reply my last sms so I am wondering if she will sms me when she is in Malaysia...
冤孽。。。
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If i have not rtn your up, please pm me. The CP page may have been refreshed and i can no longer see your details
Either you cant read, which i can see your command of the language is ok leh???
Either you got too much unreleased semen that is overflowing out from your brain that makes u not think straight
Either you are very insensitive
Either you got lost in the forum and ended up in a place where people are pouring out their broken hearts then asking for FL ctc
or either you're just a plain IDIOT!
-ve rewards to your points!
Open your eyes dude
aiyo, sorry sorry lor...thought maybe the bro might feel better to know got someone in bolehland can keep an eye on her. i guess the way i posted ended up being too cheeky... really got semen in my brain, cos preoccuipied with this FL, whom i gonna see again today!
aiyo, sorry sorry lor...thought maybe the bro might feel better to know got someone in bolehland can keep an eye on her. i guess the way i posted ended up being too cheeky... really got semen in my brain, cos preoccuipied with this FL, whom i gonna see again today!
Have fun ya
__________________ The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！
人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
Bro uoip & HBK, maybe its a matter of understanding what's wrong rather than to say our bros' emotional turmoil is disdainful as stupidity ensures well-deserved pain.
Yes, they dun follow 'rules'. They din heed advice. Maybe they haven't seen other bros' painful experiences posted here. And they went ahead.
Well my perspective is kind of different. Besides having a stronger stomach, I think the matter of the hearts is much tougher to decipher than formulae. It has a lot more facets that if you are interested in examining, reveal facts to the root of problem in why sg men suffer from KC traps. But of cos, once you decide that those are worth your time, you will cure your nausea automatically.
Bros who like KC, whether it is habitually or unknowingly, are definitely guys who are a lot more rich in their emotions. They understand feelings better and those who posted their sufferings took the plunge to share their story. Objectively, they exhibit more guts and a sense of self-revelation, which in its purest form, is their own way of contribution. You can see that they do actively seek advice, in itself is already their way of becoming a better cheongster. If we aid them in that process, which I do think you surely could as well, aren't we helping them to help themselves? I believe that would be aligned to your objectives of showing them what is right and what is not so right. However, in retrospect, showing them what is WRONG without intending to concur with their pain, tends to make those insensitive comments very ineffective.
Just some clarifications which I think is in order for the purpose of an better forum culture. Cheers
Bro Collins I respect your opinions greatly.You have maturity and sense of the situation.At my level I cant say I am immature or carried away.My job requires me to make very important decisions for others.
I have retired after knowing my FL LX.I cant bring myself doing with other FLs other than my LX.All other FLs and cheonging basically was searching for this gap in my life.Now I told LX that I afraid of losing her.But if that happens I may have to accept it.
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Bro Collins I respect your opinions greatly.You have maturity and sense of the situation.At my level I cant say I am immature or carried away.My job requires me to make very important decisions for others.
I have retired after knowing my FL LX.I cant bring myself doing with other FLs other than my LX.All other FLs and cheonging basically was searching for this gap in my life.Now I told LX that I afraid of losing her.But if that happens I may have to accept it.
Thank you, I'll say the same thing to the rest of the bros here as well.
You have 2 failed relationships and now carrying the burden of your past, your children have to be an important part of your priority as well. Have you ever wonder if this 'feeling' that you are seeking so fervently be making a lot of decisions for you in your life?
Sometimes we can determine what will happen to us in our future. But at times when we place too much emphasis on satisfying just one aspect in our life that we let that aspect influence our entire life. It may be a simple solution, but the path we found make us turn round and round till we lose our way. In the end, we reach a point that we either continue to satisfy that need, or we drop everything else. You then find yourself alone in the world where nobody can understands your position and your tenacity in seeking what you want. It seemed right, but everybody tells you its stupid.
Put it this way, seeking what you want in life can't be wrong. Its what you live for. But placing it as top priority makes you do desperate things to get it. That, people will never understand. If you look for your true love at the wrong places, you'll get it but it will not last long. Your continual search then make you hop from one hope to another, neverendingly till your resource runs out. So in your life, you are always seeking but never possessing. You become a dreamer without a dream, a seeker without a cause.
Nobody has the right to judge you except those under your natural responsibility. Like you say everyday you decide important things for some people. Only they have the right to come back and tell you if your decision for them is right or not right. Likewise in life, only your ex wives and children have the right to judge you. When they do that, can you say that you have no remorse?
Bro DRSG, maybe you should stop in your track and think for a while. You know your current relationship is doomed, it might as well be over now. Be honest to yourself, is this really what you look for? Is this your priority in life where nothing else come close in terms of its importance?
When a person on the street walks into a man hole on the ground, there will be bystanders who laugh at his plight, or curse at his stupidity. If you are also a bystander, will you let him fall knowing that he eventually would?
Thank you, I'll say the same thing to the rest of the bros here as well.
You have 2 failed relationships and now carrying the burden of your past, your children have to be an important part of your priority as well. Have you ever wonder if this 'feeling' that you are seeking so fervently be making a lot of decisions for you in your life?
Sometimes we can determine what will happen to us in our future. But at times when we place too much emphasis on satisfying just one aspect in our life that we let that aspect influence our entire life. It may be a simple solution, but the path we found make us turn round and round till we lose our way. In the end, we reach a point that we either continue to satisfy that need, or we drop everything else. You then find yourself alone in the world where nobody can understands your position and your tenacity in seeking what you want. It seemed right, but everybody tells you its stupid.
Put it this way, seeking what you want in life can't be wrong. Its what you live for. But placing it as top priority makes you do desperate things to get it. That, people will never understand. If you look for your true love at the wrong places, you'll get it but it will not last long. Your continual search then make you hop from one hope to another, neverendingly till your resource runs out. So in your life, you are always seeking but never possessing. You become a dreamer without a dream, a seeker without a cause.
Nobody has the right to judge you except those under your natural responsibility. Like you say everyday you decide important things for some people. Only they have the right to come back and tell you if your decision for them is right or not right. Likewise in life, only your ex wives and children have the right to judge you. When they do that, can you say that you have no remorse?
Bro DRSG, maybe you should stop in your track and think for a while. You know your current relationship is doomed, it might as well be over now. Be honest to yourself, is this really what you look for? Is this your priority in life where nothing else come close in terms of its importance?
When a person on the street walks into a man hole on the ground, there will be bystanders who laugh at his plight, or curse at his stupidity. If you are also a bystander, will you let him fall knowing that he eventually would?
Wah! power post sia...power...power!!!
__________________ The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！
人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
Thank you, I'll say the same thing to the rest of the bros here as well.
You have 2 failed relationships and now carrying the burden of your past, your children have to be an important part of your priority as well. Have you ever wonder if this 'feeling' that you are seeking so fervently be making a lot of decisions for you in your life?
Sometimes we can determine what will happen to us in our future. But at times when we place too much emphasis on satisfying just one aspect in our life that we let that aspect influence our entire life. It may be a simple solution, but the path we found make us turn round and round till we lose our way. In the end, we reach a point that we either continue to satisfy that need, or we drop everything else. You then find yourself alone in the world where nobody can understands your position and your tenacity in seeking what you want. It seemed right, but everybody tells you its stupid.
Put it this way, seeking what you want in life can't be wrong. Its what you live for. But placing it as top priority makes you do desperate things to get it. That, people will never understand. If you look for your true love at the wrong places, you'll get it but it will not last long. Your continual search then make you hop from one hope to another, neverendingly till your resource runs out. So in your life, you are always seeking but never possessing. You become a dreamer without a dream, a seeker without a cause.
Nobody has the right to judge you except those under your natural responsibility. Like you say everyday you decide important things for some people. Only they have the right to come back and tell you if your decision for them is right or not right. Likewise in life, only your ex wives and children have the right to judge you. When they do that, can you say that you have no remorse?
Bro DRSG, maybe you should stop in your track and think for a while. You know your current relationship is doomed, it might as well be over now. Be honest to yourself, is this really what you look for? Is this your priority in life where nothing else come close in terms of its importance?
When a person on the street walks into a man hole on the ground, there will be bystanders who laugh at his plight, or curse at his stupidity. If you are also a bystander, will you let him fall knowing that he eventually would?
Thank you for your concern.I do get the gist of your advice.I have been providing very well for the entire family 1st and 2nd and will continue the commitment for the children.The only happy situation now is when in the company of my children and and also LX(the gal I 'm am wooing).Financially I am stable and can even support LX.What I need is a companion.I dont want to go fucking so many FLs again.LX has satisfied my lustful need period.What develops from there will eventually unfold in time to come.I will come back to this thread to heed the bros advice and opinions too.
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When I want a suit I go to Armani or Hugo Boss, if I should want to buy a watch I'll choose a Omega or Longines. Similarly in life when we want to find a life partner we go to the correct places to look for one. This is conventional wisdom. Life however does not follow a straight path at times. We have people who buy armani watches and ferrari laptops.
Choosing a WL as a partner is like going to Hertz and telling them "Hey I want to buy that Toyota Camry I just rented". Is there anything wrong with that? Of course in this world there exists those who will laugh at you for being a fool and then there are those who will empathize with you.
There are happy fools, sad sages, sad fools and happy sages. It just depends on which part you like to play. Frankly I don't quite get this thread. The TS wants to illustrate that true love can happen between chiongster and WL. What is the intent? To give people hope? An analogy is like saying "My armani watch is great and I don't regret buying it even though it doesn't tell time as accurately as my Omega and got water seepage after some months."
When I want a suit I go to Armani or Hugo Boss, if I should want to buy a watch I'll choose a Omega or Longines. Similarly in life when we want to find a life partner we go to the correct places to look for one. This is conventional wisdom. Life however does not follow a straight path at times. We have people who buy armani watches and ferrari laptops.
Choosing a WL as a partner is like going to Hertz and telling them "Hey I want to buy that Toyota Camry I just rented". Is there anything wrong with that? Of course in this world there exists those who will laugh at you for being a fool and then there are those who will empathize with you.
There are happy fools, sad sages, sad fools and happy sages. It just depends on which part you like to play. Frankly I don't quite get this thread. The TS wants to illustrate that true love can happen between cheongster and WL. What is the intent? To give people hope? An analogy is like saying "My armani watch is great and I don't regret buying it even though it doesn't tell time as accurately as my Omega and got water seepage after some months."
I just need to tell you that I am unconventional and have purposely search for a FL(PRC only all else have lower IQ and standard mentally,my 2 previous ex have very high IQ!I cant imagine a Thai or Viet etc as a companion no offense but they appear "aboriginal to me") to be my future companion may this will clear some misunderstanding.I dont want a non FL GF!In this society this is crazy and wrong even for cheongsters here but this is the path I purposely chose just like I choose to abandon the belief of GOD.I dont need a next life.I want my life now if it is within my means and power financially.
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Thank you for your concern.I do get the gist of your advice.I have been providing very well for the entire family 1st and 2nd and will continue the commitment for the children.The only happy situation now is when in the company of my children and and also LX(the gal I 'm am wooing).Financially I am stable and can even support LX.What I need is a companion.I dont want to go fucking so many FLs again.LX has satisfied my lustful need period.What develops from there will eventually unfold in time to come.I will come back to this thread to heed the bros advice and opinions too.
Bro as long as you lead the relationship, and dun get dump, I guess you'll get what you want from LX. You sound clear headed, though there must be a lot of bitterness in your past which makes you 'special' now. Do post more, you offer a lot of alternative perspective useful to the relationship with WL issue.
Cheers
Pls understand this dept was not created to encourage threads that lead people to hold more hopes, it was meant to serve its purpose of letting bros who are involved with working gals have an avenue to let out thier thoughts, grief, worries, etc. So that other bros who had similar experiences can give advice. While somebody can choose to pen down thier story, you can choose not to read it or believe it. And that means you dun have to worry about the intention. Correct?
If you were to meant that this dept, or to be exact, this thread itself, bears the intention to influence readers to hold hopes upon thier affairs with a gal, and I would assume you had view it as disencouraging, then I would like to bring to your attention that even before this dept was created, other bros are already penning down thier concern to get advice from bystanders.
Do read all his postings in his thread to understand his starting with ICA regulation that evolve to the emotional aspect. And guess why Boss ported it to over here.
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Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate. ~Barnett R. Brickner
Pls understand this dept was not created to encourage threads that lead people to hold more hopes, it was meant to serve its purpose of letting bros who are involved with working gals have an avenue to let out thier thoughts, grief, worries, etc. So that other bros who had similar experiences can give advice. While somebody can choose to pen down thier story, you can choose not to read it or believe it. And that means you dun have to worry about the intention. Correct?
If you were to meant that this dept, or to be exact, this thread itself, bears the intention to influence readers to hold hopes upon thier affairs with a gal, and I would assume you had view it as disencouraging, then I would like to bring to your attention that even before this dept was created, other bros are already penning down thier concern to get advice from bystanders.
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Bro etherc's doubt is well placed, else this explanation wont come out.
Be brutally honest do you think the TS started this to get advice? Is he even griefing? This isn't some argument whether this is a sanctified "Oh I love a WL & now I'm hurt" rehab section. Yea I can choose not to read or question his intent but I have read and questioned his intent and that's the point of being in a forum. You can choose not to reply to my post but you chose to reply didn't you?
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Pls understand this dept was not created to encourage threads that lead people to hold more hopes, it was meant to serve its purpose of letting bros who are involved with working gals have an avenue to let out thier thoughts, grief, worries, etc. So that other bros who had similar experiences can give advice. While somebody can choose to pen down thier story, you can choose not to read it or believe it. And that means you dun have to worry about the intention. Correct?
If you were to meant that this dept, or to be exact, this thread itself, bears the intention to influence readers to hold hopes upon thier affairs with a gal, and I would assume you had view it as disencouraging, then I would like to bring to your attention that even before this dept was created, other bros are already penning down thier concern to get advice from bystanders.
Do read all his postings in his thread to understand his starting with ICA regulation that evolve to the emotional aspect. And guess why Boss ported it to over here.
05-09-2008, 11:38 AM
Re: Tears For A PRC Prostitute
