Tears For A PRC Prostitute

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by Wooden_Handle

Bro,

Damned bright on this side, here is like returning to MAKER lor...

Good that your side bright and sunny. All KC comes you will see very clearly.

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by longwinter

l also can offer KC leh, can l qualify too?

dun noe if they wan my KC anot.

Can lah...

I now also currently in KC games with some gals. The try to KC me so I also KC them in return lor.

Some will ask for some money which I rejected, but surprisingly got few till now haven't action on the $ part yet. We just exchange sms daily or meet up for meals like normal friends outing.

[justl00king]

Bro Slider,

If any gal really likes you, they will think for you on your behalf. Like try to make you happy and not too spend too much money etc etc etc.

If she dares to open mouth and ask for $ or presents, in my book it means you think I look like carrot head si bo?

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by Wooden_Handle

With WLs, I am afraid the best rule is to maintain the PAID SEX attitude,

That's the rule I try to maintain.

I've had offers of FREE sex from some WLs after getting to know them better. My reply to them was you are here to make money, better I pay you for the services so no strings attached.

i rather pay than later get one big and long bill for her needs and wants!

[Wooden_Handle]

Yes Sir, I also always maintain.

Originally Posted by justl00king

That's the rule I try to maintain.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by justl00king

That's the rule I try to maintain.

I've had offers of FREE sex from some WLs after getting to know them better. My reply to them was you are here to make money, better I pay you for the services so no strings attached.

i rather pay than later get one big and long bill for her needs and wants!

bro, I agreed that this is one alternative to prevent getting into messy situation. However, if we understand Mashlow's hirarchy of needs, we see that emotional needs are above physical needs, where physiacal needs can be duly fulfilled with money. Some folks associate emotional needs to physical needs closely, so whatever assets or financial capability they gained and possess it satisfy the emotional needs, temporary. We can akin these to a typical WL whose think likewise.
But when they wear off, we find ourselves going back to the drawing board to find new sources to revive the emotional needs. That is also when one is not careful, will get into bad situations, regardless a cheongster or WL.

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by ekemono

However, if we understand Mashlow's hirarchy of needs, we see that emotional needs are above physical needs, where physiacal needs can be duly fulfilled with money. Some folks associate emotional needs to physical needs closely, so whatever assets or financial capability they gained and possess it satisfy the emotional needs, temporary. We can akin these to a typical WL whose think likewise.

bro,

Very the chim-o-logy for me to comprehend.

I only need to satisfy my little bro's needs.

Think to be fair, those WL also needs $ to feel secured. For me, it's ok if the WL earns a "honest" living. It's those that's out to con bros money and also feelings that I will be pissed about.

We are just normal blokes with a small "glass" heart and cannot sustain this kind of impact.

[Wooden_Handle]

I think Maslow's needs may be too simplified, as we can imagine most WLs wont be starving, but they choose to work so as to fullfil the basic needs for food, shelter, their wants for companion and their wants for may be a big house at home, new condo, or latest Gucci bag they saw.

Becos during Maslow's time, the knowledge of the brain was limited and now we know so many transmissions for just a simple stimulus within brain itself and so much biochemcial changes when someone in love compared with someone alone. May be one of the NNI PhD student can do a research papaer to compare the biochemical and EEG of WL after meeting client and normal lady after meeting the their bf.

Originally Posted by ekemono

if we understand Mashlow's hirarchy of needs, we see that emotional needs are above physical needs, where physiacal needs can be duly fulfilled with money. Some folks associate emotional needs to physical needs closely, so whatever assets or financial capability they gained and possess it satisfy the emotional needs, temporary. We can akin these to a typical WL whose think likewise.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by justl00king

bro,

Very the chim-o-logy for me to comprehend.

paiseh bro, I am bad with my grammer hence it looks difficult to understand.

Yah, it is those bad lot that we must be weary of.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by Wooden_Handle

I think Maslow's needs may be too simplified, as we can imagine most WLs wont be starving, but they choose to work so as to fullfil the basic needs for food, shelter, their wants for companion and their wants for may be a big house at home, new condo, or latest Gucci bag they saw.

Becos during Maslow's time, the knowledge of the brain was limited and now we know so many transmissions for just a simple stimulus within brain itself and so much biochemcial changes when someone in love compared with someone alone. May be one of the NNI PhD student can do a research papaer to compare the biochemical and EEG of WL after meeting client and normal lady after meeting the their bf.

Now you really got me confused

[Wooden_Handle]

Yeah Bro, just want to confused you..

Out of curiosity, as mentioned before, if someone can compare the EEG finding of WLs with customer and the the same WL reading with stacks of $50 notes in front of her, I think then we can concluded that they are money face or not..

Originally Posted by ekemono

Now you really got me confused

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Don't like that say lah bro... I will definitely call you guys when I need the emotional support. But for fighting my own demons, I must be able to do it myself.

I finally received an sms from her after about 2 hours. It was a short message where she asked me whether I think by not going over to see her this time round, would it solve the problem? What if she wants to see me again?

I replied after about half an hour saying asking her whether she thinks it is worth it for her to meet up again with a guy who cannot offer her a lifetime together.

And hour and a half has passed and I have yet to receive any further response from her.

I guess I will never know whether I meant anything to her apart from the financial assistance that I gave her. If only this relationship meant something to her, something that she may hold dear, then I would say that all the pain and suffering I went through have been worth it and I have no regrets, even though I will not want to wish my worse enemy to go through what I went through.

Bro, look at your messages....you are harbouring the 希望stance.
Trust me, thats exactly what she's doing rite now and based on your messages, its definately working on you.
Yes, i know you know what you gotta do but there's just this tickling feeling that you wanna still be wif her.
Also, every sms takes such a long time to be replied to, it shows the level of importance you are plus how much effort she's gonna keep you. The indications are all there bro.
Let me now tell you wat i'm goin thru so you can understand.

Since my 4th left in Feb this year, I've been anxiously wating for her to return so as to act out our last impending chapter so that i can move on with my life.

When she finally sought me out last week, i met up with her with my shining armour. I've been waiting for 7mths for this day and man was i ready!!!!! As usual, my sifu was spot on...she sought me out on skype!!!!!

The initial 3 days has already been posted so i wont go into that area.
Just when i tot i have closed everything, i suddenly felt i wanted her back & yearned for her again.
That nite, i cried again.....twice to be exact actually......why? Nope, i wasnt crying cos i miss her & all that....I cried for myself.
I felt weak, also, how can a woman like her have such an impact on me....my whole of last week was so mentally draining coupled with the fact that after i told her to stop contacting me and she did...it still affected me.
1 sms reply to her led to a sms conversation that led to hours and hours of chatting on the phone......SCARY...

Yesterday, i was feeling that i'm gonna fall if i continued to harbour the feeling of hope, & trust me, my mind was at the state of wanting to take the gamble again.
To decide, as usual, i went to meet my sifu.
Here's wat happened:
She's back for obvious reasons but you must remember, it's fated that she's you're 4th wife but not meant to be.
She will never change, you think she's not coming back again since she has told you that this is her final stint here. Oh, dun worry, she'll be back.
She is still in love with you but also, she is still someone who believes in a quick lunch.
She looked u up this time for 2 reasons.......
The strongest reason is that now that she's in a lower end KTV, she aint doin well thus she's very stressed up............she needed some emotional & maybe even financial support....and guess when that happened, who did she think of to get this from.............YOU...best package deal to her....
Do not get involved with her again and you and your wives have done everything humanly possible to help & change this person, but she doesnt want to......she has chosen her path.
The final statement from him that really impacted my decision was......有些人值得我们的通情和帮助，可是，这世界上真的有些人不值得我们去通情的。他就是那种 人。Very strong words.
But you believe it, after all that, i can even request.....Sifu, can i bring her here & you try to drill some sense into her for the last time????? He said, my man you have to have a strong heart, yes though she's yours, she cant be.....ok tell you wat...if she wants to come, i will oblige to your request but let me tell you in advance....her answer to you will make you make a final stand.

So made ctc with no.4 to tell her that my sifu wanted to meet her and i was shocked to receive this reply for.......
老公，你也知道我已经决定要走这条路了，去见你师父干嘛呢？
你也知道，他所说得我都会逃避的，所以，我不要去见他。
Damn!!!! Sifu spot on again & wif that, i have to do it.
Told her that since you've decided, so have i.
Thanks for your memories of being my 4th wife for half a beautiful year.
Thanks for you re-appearance...we've finally acted out our long overdue last chapter.
I swear to u, you will never hear from me ever again....and fyi, all your actions were predicted less than an hour ago....adios muschachos......that's it!
Now feeling no regret????? If i said yes, i'd be lying...but it isnt strong enuff to make me wanna go back or seek her out again.
Am i recovering???? Yup i still am....but wont take long cos the impact this time is only very minor compared to then when i nearly died
Do i miss her......OF COS I DO but the missing factor aint strong enuff anymore for me to want her back...........

Finally, it has ended, from a 3day to now extended 1wk roller coaster ride......as i type this message since i sent that sms to her this evening at approx 5+pm...there has been no sight no sound from her liaoz!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Well, this thread sure served its purpose...to me personally.
TEARS FOR A PRC PROSTITUTE

A very important lesson learnt for me...and will be a very good one to keep.
I learnt that, though many say there's no such thing in the WL world, I can say, they need money, yes, so do we but they have emotions as well........emotionally empty they all are....thus that'll also be their weakness.

Was at a KTV last friday and a close friend of my No.4 & me came and just said something to me....in a very neutral manner
两个本来要去骗对方，后来玩出火了，要好好记得这个教训

Many knows the basic rules of engagement that almost every bro here preach everyday, but SHIT does happen.
The ten golden rules, damn, in another thread, I can preach 101 but it still happened....all those that are going through or went to it can concurr wif me I'm confident but all those who has not, you might be next so dun be too proud to say you know the rules of the game.......I did but also became a statistic...............

If there's ever 1 golden rule i want to apply here, its that when you're with someone, anyone......once it becomes too emotionally & mentally draining, it's time to stop....cos that would signal that it's going against the laws of nature.......and nothing good will come out from it. Maybe...yes maybe it could but you better you dont die before that day comes hehehehe

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Paging for bro Lovemachine....damn he's gone to LaLa land and forgot to wake up from his dream is it???????

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by Maxcock

Bro, I have to gently remind you again that if you continue to harbour such "hope", the spark may revive and do you more harm again. It is important to check such thoughts, if not, subsconsciously you have not given up hope and the emotion baggage is still weighting onto you. Whether the relationship meant something to her or not is no longer important. You have some good times with her and that is enough. When it is time to let go, let go! You need to be in the upperhand now and be in control.

After reading bro slider post, i was tempted to try his trick on my gal. But after doing some thinking, i figure, what for?

If her reply failed, i am just inflicting more pain to myself so as to harden my resolve of letting her go?
If her reply passed, i give myself more false hope and make it more difficult to let go?

Looks like a lose-lose situation to me. Why don't i just choose to let time help me and slowly let go then. Whether the relationship meant something to her or not is no longer important. You have some good times with her and that is enough.

One bro told me that WLs have split personality, I agreed, or rather they NEED to have split personality to maintain their sanity. Is like creating another themselves to bear with whatever crazy things they have to do. Really, what so enjoyable and fun in bonking whole day with fat, ugly, old strangers. So in reality, who do you think u have been dating? the evil twin sister? Or perhaps who answer your phone call? the real self?

Just my thoughts