In Love with a Chinese CAT150 Girl. Is it Possible to bring her to Singapore & Marry?

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Woah! This is a pretty serious statement, before further comments, can you qualify the scope where it applies? i.e. does the preamble of this sub-forum limits it to only whores or you meant it across the entire human race?

The so called "true love that will last forever" that many experience at during the first couple of years of a relationship that makes the love struck individual do the most irrational things isn't real.

However, after this initial period, it is replaced by a feeling of genuine affection and mutual respect PROVIDED:

1. There is reason for both parties to respect each other.
2. A genuine friendship has developed and the couple share common interests and enjoy each others company.
3. The affection goes beyond sexual attraction.

If a couple come from different cultures, don't share common values, don't have compatible intelligence levels and don't enjoy common interests, chances of an enduring relationship are remote.

How do I know this? The answer is simple. I speak from personal experience. I was once "truly in love" with a cosmetic sales girl. She was very pretty and was fantastic in bed. However, she was also a real bimbo. She used to go on and on endlessly about the most inane issues on earth. Lipstick colours and eye liners were far more important to her than the latest Steven Hawkins theory or the findings of the Mars explorer.

I did the required soul searching and decided that there was no way I wanted to breed with this woman or have to listen to her rambling on and on about fashion accessories, shoes and cantonese drama videos for the rest of my life. I therefore called it quits before it was too late.

I have never regretted my decision. I saw her a couple of years ago. She's now fat and ugly and she's STILL a bimbo with the same IQ. Being married to her would be my worst nightmare.

[puyinthinai]

I am seriously surprise that the Richard Gere story still exists in members mind..

Bro,

Read my post:

http://sammyboyforum.org.nz/showthr...=88454&page=54

U can RTF as long as u want..but know when to apply the 4 F's

No offense indeed bro, I am happy for u if it comes true..but it is not easy...what are the odds that u will live happily ever after....

Memories are good but they are worth nothing on eBAY when u blow all your money bringing her in...n supporting her....

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I speak from personal experience. I was once "truly in love" ...

A rarity for u (as forum owner) to share personal experiences... Always a good thing for us members to know you better through these, especially with your strong stand on certain issues.

I never like girls to put on heavy make-ups which usually hide lots of flaws. Great that you cut-lost, at least time-wise, and had great sex still.

Only thing is that to base the "no true love" idea on one example seems a little weak. BUT I get your point on the crucial need for sustainability in any r/s

[ilovesingapore]

PRC whores, once they get their citizenship, they bangseh you liao. You think they want to have kids with a LOSER like you? I hope Singapore government are not so stupid to let you bring CHICKENS in our country. I rather they bring in foreign talent, foreign workers and not foreign CHICKENS!!

[mrsg]

Originally Posted by ilovesingapore

PRC whores, once they get their citizenship, they bangseh you liao. You think they want to have kids with a LOSER like you? I hope Singapore government are not so stupid to let you bring CHICKENS in our country. I rather they bring in foreign talent, foreign workers and not foreign CHICKENS!!

Who are consider loser? I think even local gals do that

[roadster33]

Originally Posted by puyinthinai

I am seriously surprise that the Richard Gere story still exists in members mind..

Bro,

Read my post:

http://sammyboyforum.org.nz/showthr...=88454&page=54

U can RTF as long as u want..but know when to apply the 4 F's

No offense indeed bro, I am happy for u if it comes true..but it is not easy...what are the odds that u will live happily ever after....

Memories are good but they are worth nothing on eBAY when u blow all your money bringing her in...n supporting her....

very well said.if a woman can sell her body for money,u think she will talk love with u?dont give them money got only 1 outcome,turn face!

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

However, after this initial period, it is replaced by a feeling of genuine affection and mutual respect PROVIDED:

1. There is reason for both parties to respect each other.
2. A genuine friendship has developed and the couple share common interests and enjoy each others company.
3. The affection goes beyond sexual attraction.

great reasoning.
once the honeymoon period wears off, the real test for the rs will begin.