Hi Bro, not that bad, one singer say hi to me, but you can see her heart was not in it at all. Sat for a while, then filtered off... and i spent about 2,700 on her in total over 2 weeks.
Reminds me of my USA vendor.
"It does not matter, how good you did for me last quarter or 2quarters ago. I only care about the current quarter alias flowers for this month
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That's why. We must not see these creatures as Human at all.
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Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom
As i write this, one of the friends in met, is still heavily stucked.
He reports to work at the HFJ around 8 plus with his girl, stays there till 3am, then brings the girl back.
Basically he is marking his babe very tightly, but no way he can concentrate on his career or even money making opps right now.
Tried to tell him a bit but its super defensive.
So its hard to wake up, till the bender ends...
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There are many suckers around digging their money and career grave. They often thought that we are exploiting the girls and that all these girls also have parents (which is kinda of stupid cos not related in whatsoever at all)...etc..... They fail to realise that it's the other way round and that they and their resources are being exploited in the amazon jungle instead. Perhaps, they are collectors of expansive cards - Mr. Nice Guy cards or Best Pumper Awards or something.
Grouchycabi is 1 such stupid sucker!!
42 years old man with a mentality of a Cabbage!!!
Get used to it and you will be much happier. Anyway, ask yourself what's the point of getting a lot of attention and face in these places? The more attention and face you get means the more money you have to spend on hanging flowers or on drinks. Is there really a point to this at all?
Glad to see that you have finally straightened out your thoughts and hopefully get your life back in order in future. I have quit the KTV/HFJ scene for so many years that I no longer miss them...
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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki
Look at it this way: Singer's contract is between 6 months to a year. Money is central to all of them. Nothing could be more fair than life as they are living it, it's either true to oneself or true to money. Many people mistaken that the singers fall in love with them or they are the Special Someone to Her. In reality, To them (Singers), appreciation and love, and alignment to that which is Source (Customer) is the ultimate “giving back,” (sex) so to speak, for in their pain or struggle, they have nothing to give back.
HFJ is always Flower 1st (Money), Talk later. Money Talks, Sweet Talks Bullshit Walks. These Boots Are Make For Flowers.
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Originally Posted by MoralEpitome
We can only advise but it is often fallen on deaf ears...I try to save money but my gf told me I can't bring money to my grave anyway so might as well spend it..
Well the veteran singer told me this， in reference to why i should hang more than my monthly pay.
Singer: See how the customer LB loves Singer B, he gives her so much flowers every night.
Me: That is because he is rich.
Singer: NO he is not rich, but he cares for her, loves her. Plus you do not know what the future will bring..... <Hinting that i should spends money like there was not going to be a tomorrow.>
Bro, i read this message a few days ago, and it reflects the core issues.
The singers can only give the following.
a. Illusion of being interested in my conversational skills.
b. Makes me fill good that pretty babes are willing to talk to me....
c. They are willing to eat supper with me.
d. They are willing to speak for hours on the phone with me ( I use SKYPE to save money la. SGD20 a month, 166 hours)
e. Plus, the cherry on top of them all. Picking their cherry (Metaphorically speaking)
The dynamics are super raw, primodial not covered up by dating, marriage etc.
A resource for a Resource...
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I always tell my friends, when you go to KTVs or HFJs, remember it's all an illusion. Nothing is for real in these places. The only real thing is that you will spend a lot of money there...especially if you are suckered into believing that all the lies told by the gals are true...
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Well the veteran singer told me this， in reference to why i should hang more than my monthly pay.
Singer: See how the customer LB loves Singer B, he gives her so much flowers every night.
Me: That is because he is rich.
Singer: NO he is not rich, but he cares for her, loves her. Plus you do not know what the future will bring..... <Hinting that i should spends money like there was not going to be a tomorrow.>
Me: Speechless.....
Just tell the veteran singer:
Veteran Singer: NO he is not rich, but he cares for her, loves her. Plus you do not know what the future will bring.....
You: Yes, he is not rich and he believes that the singer loves him but in future he will know that the singer loves his money only and if he continues hanging like this, he will be broke. So the future is very simple, the gal will get rich and the guy will become a beggar...
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I always tell my friends, when you go to KTVs or HFJs, remember it's all an illusion. Nothing is for real in these places. The only real thing is that you will spend a lot of money there...especially if you are suckered into believing that all the lies told by the gals are true...
Actually hor...sometimes hard to say one...I got 2 frens who are happily married with them leow...
While we are at this HFJs thread and the talk about mindlessly supporting singers - lets do a litmus test.
1. How many of you are in debts?
2. How much percentage of your monthly salary do you hang for your singer or past singers?
3. Returned benefits and rewards?
4. Price / ROI per FUCK?
Reflect, please reflect!
Cheers,
LDH
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Well the veteran singer told me this， in reference to why i should hang more than my monthly pay.
Singer: See how the customer LB loves Singer B, he gives her so much flowers every night.
Me: That is because he is rich.
Singer: NO he is not rich, but he cares for her, loves her. Plus you do not know what the future will bring..... <Hinting that i should spends money like there was not going to be a tomorrow.>
Me: Speechless.....
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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki
Just tell her: The future will bring total destruction!
While we are at this HFJs thread and the talk about mindlessly supporting singers - lets do a litmus test.
1. How many of you are in debts?
2. How much percentage of your monthly salary do you hang for your singer or past singers?
3. Returned benefits and rewards?
4. Price / ROI per FUCK?
Reflect, please reflect!
Cheers,
LDH
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After much reflection, think I will print this out and go into my boss room and ask for a raise afterwards.
(Also need to collect from him , his flower money that I helped him to hang the other day )
While we are at this HFJs thread and the talk about mindlessly supporting singers - lets do a litmus test.
1. How many of you are in debts?
2. How much percentage of your monthly salary do you hang for your singer or past singers?
3. Returned benefits and rewards?
4. Price / ROI per FUCK?
Reflect, please reflect!
Cheers,
LDH
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ok let me answer since i am the only honest one who can admit i screwed up...
1) i owe my banks 730k at last count
2) Half my salary
3) time perceived love and company
4) negative roi
i am also to be truthful
i am known as a stingy person and never any-o-how hang.
Hence, my spending is really little but there were with me exclusively during their time in Singapore with some occasions going makan with customers. thats all.
Total spent on hfj 2 years 3gf.
1st knew her in her last 2 mths spent $8K once
2nd knew her on her 2nd mth, spent $29K include gifts and 2 holidays back in china countless times
3rd knew her on her 1st week spent $32K include on a holiday back to china with her 10-12 times
Total spent : maybe $70-80K
But the time spent and the feelings is too valuable and not able to be described in dollars and cents......
While we are at this HFJs thread and the talk about mindlessly supporting singers - lets do a litmus test.
1. How many of you are in debts?
2. How much percentage of your monthly salary do you hang for your singer or past singers?
3. Returned benefits and rewards?
4. Price / ROI per FUCK?
Reflect, please reflect!
Cheers,
LDH
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Well, no shame in sharing.
1. How many of you are in debts?
Count me in, debt of about 220k
2. How much percentage of your monthly salary do you hang for your singer or past singers?
Over 300%, sometimes 30k a month, and i earned only 13k.
3. Returned benefits and rewards?
Good lesson learned in life.
4. Price / ROI per FUCK?
Ah no laugh, about 70k/fuck...
i am also to be truthful
i am known as a stingy person and never any-o-how hang.
Hence, my spending is really little but there were with me exclusively during their time in Singapore with some occasions going makan with customers. thats all.
Total spent on hfj 2 years 3gf.
1st knew her in her last 2 mths spent $8K once
2nd knew her on her 2nd mth, spent $29K include gifts and 2 holidays back in china countless times
3rd knew her on her 1st week spent $32K include on a holiday back to china with her 10-12 times
Total spent : maybe $70-80K
But the time spent and the feelings is too valuable and not able to be described in dollars and cents......
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Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom
Well, no shame in sharing.
1. How many of you are in debts?
Count me in, debt of about 220k
2. How much percentage of your monthly salary do you hang for your singer or past singers?
Over 300%, sometimes 30k a month, and i earned only 13k.
3. Returned benefits and rewards?
Good lesson learned in life.
4. Price / ROI per FUCK?
Ah no laugh, about 70k/fuck...
Thank you both for sharing...now I actually don't feel so bad about myself!
17-02-2011, 12:45 PM
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