Tears For A PRC Prostitute

[Paradigm812]

Nice story

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by monster.cookie

Live a day, learn a day. I hope not to fall into similar traps i set for myself anymore.

Sigh... For my case, fate play a nasty joke on us, tying both of us up in an invisible chain. Both of us knew. If it is meant as a test, she might pass the test, but i failed miserably.

[Paradigm812]

Originally Posted by X_plorer

Bro ekemono,

You are damn right.. That's why i didn't maried a sg gal.. They must be thinking they are so great.. A lot of SG gals out there just looking for 5 Cs husband and bf, people with high end cars, how many of them are really earning high income, whereas these sg gals they themselves are earning not very high income.. But 1 important things is, not all the sg gals, but i would say quite a lot, especially office gals, and those working in big organisation, thinking they are very big but in fact nothing to boost about.. Even they are manager, supervisor, so what unless they are the CEO, VP etc.. so their circle of friends also not the same, in fact the higher their position, they are not looking upon 5 Cs, but in fact true love.

Previously when i just finished my studies and awaiting for NS, i also kena this kind of gals. I really remember 1 phrase which she told me till now.. At that time, i was driving my dad's old car as he change a new car already. I've been fetching her to and fro work everyday, and bloody shit, she work in Raffles Place, the ERP charges can kill liao.. After a period of time, my car was sold away, as it is also near to scap. Then i told her i will pick her up in a van, but she said dun ever drive this kind of vehicle to fetch her. After broke up, quite a period of time later. I drove my friend new Merc and call her. She was shock when i picked her up, she thought that i bought, and immdiately that next day called me up to pick her for a ride..

Till date now, i still remember this which really boost my morale and finally made a bit of results in my career life, even if I'm able to afford a BMW or whatever car, it doesn't matters. Anyway if the car can brings me from Pt a to Pt B, that's it. But of course a more decent car on the road.. But anyway, i just sold my normal car and change to a weekend car.. See no purpose to drive, but having a weekend car to standby just in case. Taking MRT could be a enjoyable process, got so many pretty gals to look at..

Thanks to her that i able to climd up to this stage, though not a very high income, but able to feed my family, buy my car, and house later all by myself, i think that should be enough for me. Leading a normal life with no financial stress is good enough liao..

Hahaha....Just something interesting to share. Maybe Bro ekemono can show it to SG girls

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A young and pretty lady posted this on a popular forum:

Title: What should I do to marry a rich guy?

I'm going to be honest of what I'm going to say here. I'm 25 this
year. I'm very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above. You might say that I'm greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York. My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married? I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you? Among those I've dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit. If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden (?), $250k annual income is not enough.

I'm here humbly to ask a few questions:

1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list
down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)

2) Which age group should I target?

3) Why most wives of the riches is only average-looking?
I've met a few girls who doesn't have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys

4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can
only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)

Ms. Pretty

Here's a reply from a Wall Street Financial guy:

Dear Ms. Pretty,

I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyze your situation as a professional investor. My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I'm not wasting time here.

From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to
marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain. Put the
details aside, what you're trying to do is an exchange of "beauty" and "money": Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square. However, there's a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can't be prettier year after year.

Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciating asset, and you are a depreciating asset. It's not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worse 10 years later

By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position,
dating with you is also a "trading position". If the trade value
dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term - same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or "leased". Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income.

This has better chance than finding a rich fool.


Hope this reply helps. If you are interested in "leasing" services, do contact me

signed, J.P. Morgan

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by Darkstorm

Hi,

mind if I ask how long did it take you to learn to speak Vietnamese? What methods did you find best for learning the language?

Hey Bro, i do have a Viet wife but i still dun know how to speak Viet, maybe will learn a bit more in future.. I just only know a few words only.. Didn't bother to learn..

Now is 6.50am, flying to Ho Chi Minh City in 3 hours time, maybe when go there and when my wife is not around me, ssing upon pretty gals can siao kian a bit. I only know in this for Viet language..

Haha..

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by slider_72

The idea of re-discovery is I think, the best advice I read so far in this forum.

In my quiet moments, I too think that this relationship with my "gf" is absurb. There is absolutely zero possibility of a happy ending. I often question myself what the hack am I doing. Notwithstanding the fact that I am fully aware that I am running into a wall, I can't seem to stop myself from speeding up.

I think we are living in a multi-dimension world, not only 2D, it really depends on which angle are u looking at things.

Why 'absolutely zero possibility of a happy ending' ?
If going through this relationship let you understand the meaning of re-discovery, let you remember how u used to feel abt your wife, which in fact enhanced your marriage life, is it worth it?

If this relationship can affect you so much that u might wanna quit cheonging and retire, isn't it good for both u and your family?

By going through this relationship, you have a lovely memories with your gf, re-discovery or re-kindle the love with your wife, and happily retired from cheonging. Isn't it a happy ending? If u are given the choice to turn back the clock, would u have done the same things?

Now let's put ourselves in her shoe. Where is her happy ending?
Money? Given the fact that she is working here means that she is in some kind of circumstances, situation. Are you able to solve it for her? If no, how to be happy, and why does she stick with u?

Security? She knows that marriage is impossible coz already married with kids. What else can she hope for? I was talking to her abt striking the 8 million toto would solve a lot of things. She asked what would i do. I replied that she do not need to work anymore. She looked into my eyes and asked, '然后呢？' I was thinking of keeping her as a mistress but i couldn't say it out. There was a moment of silence. Until she said, '我们还是在干坏事'. She knows what's in my mind and even the 8 million toto couldn't help the case.

Other than the limited love, little care and concern that we can give, what else can we give that can justify a happy ending for her? A little LV bag?

Bro, u are not the only one running into the wall, why is she running with u?

Just my thoughts, more like telling myself.

[aces68]

bro lovemachine, is this the end of your story..or do you have more installments in plan ? camping here

[slider_72]

If I can quit cheonging, enhance the relationship with my wife, etc, that is a good thing that may come out of this experience. Unfortunately men are greedy creatures. We always want the best of both worlds. I am sure the thought of keeping her with you, even as a mistress, had crossed your mind as it did mine.

Someone once said to me that if a problem can be resolved using money, then it is not really a problem at all. Modesty aside, if my "gf" is able to remain in Singapore on a long term basis, with my current income, it should not be too difficult for me to maintain her financially. That however does not solve the problem but instead create a bigger problem.

If that happens, inevitably, there will be one day when the affair is discovered. Then what? It would mean marital strife and potentially a divorce which I am not prepared to go through. Although the sparks and excitement of the relationship are long gone, I have a very good relationship with my wife. It is not as if we are going through a tough patch.

Even if I can keep the affair under wraps indefinitely, I imagine that it would be emotionally very draining, not to mention time-consuming.

With that in mind, in my logical moments, I see that a happily-ever-after scenario between me and my "gf" is impossible. We will have to part one day, if not now, perhaps a couple of years later. It is also unfair on her to expect her to be the little kept woman without any certainty when her man can come by to visit her.

Your gf is absolutely right when she said that striking the $8m toto is not going to solve the problem.

In the past, the conflict was always between the big head and the small head. Now the conflict is between the big head and the heart. The big head says "don't be stupid" whilst the heart says "stab me with that knife". Its crazy.

And to your question why is she running into the wall with me, I think at the moment, that is at best an assumption on my part. I cannot be absolutely certain that she feels the same way for me as I do for her. There is always a nagging feel at the back of my mind that perhaps I am just a guy granted the "most favoured customer" award.

Bro xyz1001, perhaps we are both masochists, enjoying the pain that comes with having a PRC WL as a "gf".

Damn, I thought I outgrew this sort of infatuation issues a decade ago...

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by slider_72

I am sure the thought of keeping her with you, even as a mistress, had crossed your mind as it did mine.
Indeed, more than once

Someone once said to me that if a problem can be resolved using money, then it is not really a problem at all.
I used to tell that to my wife, I'm not that rich, but i just there are many other things that money cannot solve. If it is money, i have plenty of ways to raise it.
Modesty aside, if my "gf" is able to remain in Singapore on a long term basis, with my current income, it should not be too difficult for me to maintain her financially. That however does not solve the problem but instead create a bigger problem.
Likewise, financially can be arranged. Yes, we can, but we shouldn't

If that happens, inevitably, there will be one day when the affair is discovered. Then what? It would mean marital strife and potentially a divorce which I am not prepared to go through. Although the sparks and excitement of the relationship are long gone, I have a very good relationship with my wife. It is not as if we are going through a tough patch.
Same situation too.

With that in mind, in my logical moments, I see that a happily-ever-after scenario between me and my "gf" is impossible. We will have to part one day, if not now, perhaps a couple of years later. It is also unfair on her to expect her to be the little kept woman without any certainty when her man can come by to visit her.

Your gf is absolutely right when she said that striking the $8m toto is not going to solve the problem.

In the past, the conflict was always between the big head and the small head. Now the conflict is between the big head and the heart. The big head says "don't be stupid" whilst the heart says "stab me with that knife". Its crazy.
I think in our logical moments, we both know very well what should we do. Yes, it is a constant battle between the head and the heart. Problem with me is that i favour the heart, so the heart has been winning. Perhaps the only consolation is that she is more logical than me.

Damn, I thought I outgrew this sort of infatuation issues a decade ago...
haha... me too

Somehow, i wish that she would ask me to quit cheonging, coz i think i would really do it.

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by Paradigm812

Hahaha....Just something interesting to share. Maybe Bro ekemono can show it to SG girls

__________________________________________________ _____________

A young and pretty lady posted this on a popular forum:

Title: What should I do to marry a rich guy?

I'm going to be honest of what I'm going to say here. I'm 25 this
year. I'm very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above. You might say that I'm greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York. My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married? I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you? Among those I've dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit. If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden (?), $250k annual income is not enough.

I'm here humbly to ask a few questions:

1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list
down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)

2) Which age group should I target?

3) Why most wives of the riches is only average-looking?
I've met a few girls who doesn't have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys

4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can
only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)

Ms. Pretty

Here's a reply from a Wall Street Financial guy:

Dear Ms. Pretty,

I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyze your situation as a professional investor. My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I'm not wasting time here.

From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to
marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain. Put the
details aside, what you're trying to do is an exchange of "beauty" and "money": Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square. However, there's a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can't be prettier year after year.

Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciating asset, and you are a depreciating asset. It's not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worse 10 years later

By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position,
dating with you is also a "trading position". If the trade value
dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term - same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or "leased". Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income.

This has better chance than finding a rich fool.


Hope this reply helps. If you are interested in "leasing" services, do contact me

signed, J.P. Morgan

Hey Bro Paradim812,

I like your story very much.. But add on top of that, pretty gals then to have more Bees buzzing around, so if the person is earning above $500k P.A., who or where got the time to look after her or even bonk her every night.. Unless that person is a Business Owner, and do not need to work everyday, but even business owners would be more keen to meddle with their businesses to expand even further rather than to spent so much time on her..

Though i've not reach that income yet but i got quite a few friends earning that income or more, i would say none of them is keen on finding a pretty wife but a good wife but pretty mistress, so i would say that pretty babes mostly would be eligible for rich men's mistress than wife..

[glooper83]

Originally Posted by X_plorer

Hey Bro Paradim812,

I like your story very much.. But add on top of that, pretty gals then to have more Bees buzzing around, so if the person is earning above $500k P.A., who or where got the time to look after her or even bonk her every night.. Unless that person is a Business Owner, and do not need to work everyday, but even business owners would be more keen to meddle with their businesses to expand even further rather than to spent so much time on her..

Though i've not reach that income yet but i got quite a few friends earning that income or more, i would say none of them is keen on finding a pretty wife but a good wife but pretty mistress, so i would say that pretty babes mostly would be eligible for rich men's mistress than wife..

I guess thats just the way the cookie crumbles. Good wife to manage the house. Pretty mistress for entertainment. Hardly... hardly... can find one woman to do both. Which is why i always wish for the good olden age of ancient china, but my friend constantly remind me that they din shave last time.

[starbliz]

good and a nice story

[lovemachine]

hi all, for those who are wondering where the heck i went.

i was at her place for the last 1 week.

And so many things changed. Will def continue to post here to update for those interested.

I dont go on SBF during office hours and i reach home really late.

Will do so asap. In the mean time, romance is in the air - still.

[lovemachine]

Apologies for not adhering to the rules here. :P

I got zapped cos i quoted unnecessarily, sorry becos i was just trying to be precise and wont do it again. :P

[colins]

Welcome back bro lovemachine. In that case, your last 1 week probably seem like 1 month for you. Dun worry the rest of the world hasn't change much. Awaiting your updates man. Take care.

[glooper83]

Originally Posted by colins

Welcome back bro lovemachine. In that case, your last 1 week probably seem like 1 month for you. Dun worry the rest of the world hasn't change much. Awaiting your updates man. Take care.

Wrong, the last 1 week was like 1 month for us. Cos we were anxiously waiting for updates.

The last 1 week was like 1 day for him. Cos he was enjoying/savouring every min of it.