Hanging Flowers Joints

[gangjian]

Originally Posted by dirty69warrior

have been following this thread and would like to contribute just a little. actually, i used to a great fan of such joints. i prefer singers than ktv gals; which i do not quite understand why then. think about it now, it is a waste of money at such joints. drinking a glass of coke at kopi tiam is $1.20 whereas drinking a glass of coke at higher class places cost $12. but they taste exactly the same. of coz, some will say the comfort and amosphere is different. what i am trying to say is whether they are singers from china or ktv girls from china; there is no diff. anyway, these places are for ppl with plenty of money but nowhere to spend or ppl using "ah-gong's" money (entertainement allowance). for those with limited budget and have not ventured such places, i would say "don't bother lah.... stick to your KTVs; more economical, and fun". furthermore, such places can be 'dangerous' in some smaller joints! somehow, most pleasant looking singers tend to have someone behind them. i do hear ppl saying many of these smaller joints are thug-owned. i was ever mistakenly ambushed before for touching somebody's girls?!?! crazy, right??? anyway, the choice is still yours. it is just a little contribution. occasionally, i will still popby the 50s, Ching Bar or de Artists for a couple of drinks. these are safe and comfortable places for drinks and just to listen to songs. if you have money, the singers can be just as good, though! haha!

A philosophical discussion! That I like!

Here is my 2 cents:
1/ high-end joints definitely have better singers than the low-end ones. Occasionally you can find a gem or two at the low-end joints, but most of the time, those singers were even worse than girls at BS! So better just go to BS, and you can do more.

2/ At the high-end joints such as DC, yes, it's expensive, but you do get more with what you pay. There are just something special about these singers that makes at least myself and my buddies willing to pay more just to talk to them. I've been hanging flowers for almost 3 mths now, and so far have met 4 college graduates, 2 professional models (both over 175cm!), 4 professional dancers or singers. These girls were highly saught after in PRC and some of them very much regret coming to S'pore to work in these joints (the higher income notwithstanding), which "lowered" their status.

3/ Bros should know you're getting into. Well, if you just want to squeeze some boobs or rubba-rubba, these are the wrong candidates! But if you're into appreciating other "beauties" of the female gender, then these singers definitely give you more than the girls you rubba-rubba at BS or TH or XTD.

Conclusion: if bros have some money to spare, and do appreciate other qualities and talents in women, then talking to and getting to know singers at the high-end joints can be a rewarding and addictive activity!

[deleted_nil]

Basically too many joints of these now ... 1 thing correct is some singers are sort of so call "Bao" ... for small joints i agree there are gems and some even are dangerous coz some joints are so called used to lanuder money i guess which i heard and not sure... some open for fun by rich ppl who too much to spend and unable to disclose the money... i agree that if u into some rubba action these joints cfm not for it ... there are also quite a number of small joints which is quite ok ... for me i into this for only abt 1 yr and frankly for my age is sort of not usual coz maybe i am in my 20s and shd not be coming to it ... I went around quite a number of places till now and spend quite some money ... not coz i am rich but maybe fresh to me... nowadays seldom go too much ...

[dirty69warrior]

bro 'nil', if you like this sort of places, then dun quit. you have your advantage; your age! but be wise your money. you might realize that these singers are for the more elderly one, there are many singers out there are looking for young chaps, no joke! very often they talk to the senior ones about 'jing'(gold), whereas to the younger ones about 'xing'(heart)! the senior ones are customers whereas you are treated as friend. you might find that there is no need for you to 'throw' unnecessary money like them. these singers (like other young gals) also hope to be loved and feel good with a young man! like what bro gangjian said "occasionally, you will still find a gem or two in the low-end joints". not all good and pretty singers prefer places like DC or TAM. these are high pressured and political places! some prefer to sing freely at low-end joints! i may not have been in such places for very long but i have seen and experiences quite a bit. but toning down a little lately. good luck, and enjoy! but, be wise in the way you spend with your hard earned money!

[deleted_nil]

thanx for the advice ... will take note of it ... true in what u say coz i once have a relationship with a singer and not really into money at start but later on her true colours emerge i guess or maybe i feel too pressurize ... there are a few singers whom i am quite gd frens with and don really spend much on them ... so what ya say is quite true but however must always be careful of things and cannot be too navie...

[Loss in Space]

Originally Posted by dirty69warrior

bro 'nil', if you like this sort of places, then dun quit. you have your advantage; your age! but be wise your money. you might realize that these singers are for the more elderly one, there are many singers out there are looking for young chaps, no joke! very often they talk to the senior ones about 'jing'(gold), whereas to the younger ones about 'xing'(heart)! the senior ones are customers whereas you are treated as friend. you might find that there is no need for you to 'throw' unnecessary money like them. these singers (like other young gals) also hope to be loved and feel good with a young man! like what bro gangjian said "occasionally, you will still find a gem or two in the low-end joints". not all good and pretty singers prefer places like DC or TAM. these are high pressured and political places! some prefer to sing freely at low-end joints! i may not have been in such places for very long but i have seen and experiences quite a bit. but toning down a little lately. good luck, and enjoy! but, be wise in the way you spend with your hard earned money!

Very true, bro. A nice piece of advise too. Just my 2 cents worth, 'xing' can also be a very dangerous game to play. Sometime you can go to the point of no return especially if you have a family.....

[dirty69warrior]

Originally Posted by Loss in Space

Very true, bro. A nice piece of advise too. Just my 2 cents worth, 'xing' can also be a very dangerous game to play. Sometime you can go to the point of no return especially if you have a family.....

true, bro! i do have friends neglecting the family because of these singers. but not the singers' fault, though. i feel that my friends have lost control of themselves.

for bros who like such places to make friends, have good chats and company with them; and not just the thought of bonking, these are my recommendations. personally, i feel that you are really ok, nice girls. do note that chemistry has a role to play too.

Hoomiko (Mi Xue)
Tian An Men (Jia Xuan)
88 (Xing Xiu)
The 50s (Jia Qi)
de Artists (Xing Xing, could have left)
Purple Club (Shan Shan)
Ching Bar (Hai Di)

cheers!

[Loss in Space]

Originally Posted by dirty69warrior

true, bro! i do have friends neglecting the family because of these singers. but not the singers' fault, though. i feel that my friends have lost control of themselves.

for bros who like such places to make friends, have good chats and company with them; and not just the thought of bonking, these are my recommendations. personally, i feel that you are really ok, nice girls. do note that chemistry has a role to play too.

Hoomiko (Mi Xue)
Tian An Men (Jia Xuan)
88 (Xing Xiu)
The 50s (Jia Qi)
de Artists (Xing Xing, could have left)
Purple Club (Shan Shan)
Ching Bar (Hai Di)

cheers!

Thanks for your recommendation. Will try to visit these places once I can pull myself out from my current craze....... Actually I am also living dangerously, thats way I was speaking from 'experience'. The worst thing is that you know that it is dangerous but yet you do it with little regrets but with alot of remorse.

[teraterm55]

Originally Posted by Loss in Space

Thanks for your recommendation. Will try to visit these places once I can pull myself out from my current craze....... Actually I am also living dangerously, thats way I was speaking from 'experience'. The worst thing is that you know that it is dangerous but yet you do it with little regrets but with alot of remorse.

whatever your reasons are just play between your limit.
dont go crazy and hang overboard.
like what one bro has said to me "Objective based"

if your objective is for listening to music then hang 30 enuf.
if you want to fight for face or play mind games. 500 also not enuf.

as for singer who can entertain.. try Hoomiko pingping, she is cute young and damn playfull. had a ball of a time the other day just chit chat and talking.
her cheerfull smile and cute laughter..

[evo3]

Yes fully agreed with Bro, when we cheong Flower Joint we must know our limit and where to stop, else it will hurt our family. afterall those ladies out there are only for entertiament only, not our wives. Not unless those single guys than it should be alright for them, but also need to watch what they are doing dont get urself into hot soup like having heavy debt with the banker than it will be doom liao

[2nd uncle]

Last time use to know a Flower jiont meimei at LEX.... This meimei has an old man supporter who donate alot money to her... Infront of that old man like honey and bee but behind that old man she tell us he is her biggest ROBERT aka carrothead... If kanna these meimei gong tao die liao also dunno how...

[break78]

Originally Posted by evo3

Yes fully agreed with Bro, when we cheong Flower Joint we must know our limit and where to stop, else it will hurt our family. afterall those ladies out there are only for entertiament only, not our wives. Not unless those single guys than it should be alright for them, but also need to watch what they are doing dont get urself into hot soup like having heavy debt with the banker than it will be doom liao

I'm single so i can still go out all the way!! Of cos I limit myself though, but to get into debt is crazy... throwing your life into it... absolutely unacceptable...

[evo3]

Bro Break78 is nice to know that you really know where is ur limit and know where and when to stop this game. Once u hv G/F is best to stop all this bcos is not worth taking the risk if G/F find out than die liao

[break78]

No mah.. still can tell them cos they probably dunno what is flower joint... as long as it is not KTV.... Still can smoke gf abit...

[evo3]

bro break dont take risk, ok sometime hv to hide away from ur g/f, not unless she is a very open minded lady

[Loss in Space]

Originally Posted by evo3

Yes fully agreed with Bro, when we cheong Flower Joint we must know our limit and where to stop, else it will hurt our family. afterall those ladies out there are only for entertiament only, not our wives. Not unless those single guys than it should be alright for them, but also need to watch what they are doing dont get urself into hot soup like having heavy debt with the banker than it will be doom liao

Thank you for all the bros' advises. Still trying to restrain myself lah. The problem is always that you want to think that the one you try to sian is one in a million and damn different from the rest. Just cannot afford to let emotion runs in, after a while, entertainment also become no fun liao.