Sex addiction
 

Hi. I’d like to know where I can look for help for sex addiction. Not just sex but going for frequent massages when I shouldn’t be. Tks for any advice here.

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Go IMH....There is a counselling ...Guess is also mental illness too.

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There is absolutely nothing wrong with having sex. Humans were designed to have sex wherever and whenever possible.

Without a strong sex urge mankind would have become extinct a long time ago.

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Go get a wife or gf. Lol

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I have Wife. But we don’t have sex anymore as we are no longer on terms. My problem is I can’t stop going to WL or FL. I would like to stop this (at least limiting these visits), not only for health reason but also for finance. We have often read of overseas celebrities going to rehab to treat such illness. But I’m not sure if we have such in spore. Any bros have this info, please kindly advise.

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If u are now working, dun go for conselling. No company will give u time off to go for that. And if u take leave often, u will get even more trouble.

It depends on your mindset and willpower. No doubt, life is stressful, but u have to find a way to curb it. Meet up with frens, mingle with your colleagues etc. Disclipine yourself.

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Try this. Sex and Love addicts anonymous

http://www.sg-slaa.com

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No worries bro, I was like you before. few times a week, FL, massages, KTV. Really spent a lot $$$. Dont know why and how, the habits stop by itself. Now, only occasionally.

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Wow didn't know such things existed, nice share!

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thanks for sharing :D

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Switch to watching porn and pcc:D

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So when you are free, you don’t automatically think about going for those anymore? I Guess it takes a lot of restraint and discipline to not think of those.

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Thanks. This is interesting. Have you or anyone you know tries if? Does it involve a lot of money to be involved in it?

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Ya I tried. The more you watch and pcc, the more you want to try the real stuff after that.

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try regular exercise? takes your mind off everything for that moment.

whenever got urge, pcc it away.
got urge jus pcc it away
1 time your cock stand, faster go pcc it soft again
rinse and repeat, dont let yer cock remain stiff

drink alcohol till u pass out (and need to drink fast), your cock wont even stand:D

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Then try doing the opposite, don't watch porn and don't PCC :D

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Bro u too free already. Keep yourself busy to make money even if it means to get 2 jobs. I am also like you but not so hardcore. Once in awhile go is good for relaxing and some release because we need some release or u will die of a male sickness when getting older. Now instead I have a FB on a regular basis and we do other things together that get my mind off certain things. I am also married but am not really happy with one because I am a man.
Anyway don't stress yourself too much. We all have needs, some are more than others. Didn't you read the article about Australian men? They do it everyday if possible.

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Bro, it's a good first step in accepting the fact that you have addiction in visiting ML/FL (same goes with any other forms of addiction curbing), despite that there is nothing wrong with having sexual desire and needs.

Try keeping yourself busy with other stuff or hobbies to keep your mind off the addiction. If you are determined, you can also start by setting a limit to how frequent you gonna visit FL/WL, then slowing reducing it further progressively. Sometimes it is not about having complete abstinence immediately, but as long as you can learn to have control/limit over the activity, that is a progress.

Otherwise, like other bros have mentioned, find a new gf or fb.

Take care!

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Thank you guys for all your advice. Especially the kind ones who emphasize on me. Yes I need to curb the habit myself. I guess no one can help except myself.

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I think taking up new hobbies really helps. Or take up part time jobs, course or activity that will keep you occupied so you don't have so much time to think of sex.

If you like gaming, it is also a good way to keep you focus.

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I guess the most important to make sure you are busy. When you are busy you will not think so much. I also having a mild addiction and i realises it is because i too free. So try finding things to do ya?

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Study how to make money money and more money. Trust me, the urge NO MORE once you start making. Lose too bad hor. Start with this book titled RICHEST MAN IN BABYLON for starters. Don't go such places too often. I only go when overseas but I go all out.

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Other way to make money. Try learn how to post on pornhub. You can have sex and vid it down and still make money. You can make as many videos and post online to get money there...

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Bro, I think i am worst.I really need to do something abt my addiction.Sometimes i really feel ashamed about myself n seriously think i m sick in the head.

Am always feeling horny.Have a wife and gf,yet still visit MLs.I can be so horny that sometimes i have the urge n i quickly pcc while wife in shower or fast asleep.

Working time feel urge only say go meeting i go ML n come back..I can go on for days like this bro.M really v v worried abt myself.

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So you have a wife AND a gf, and still need to visit MLs even during work and pcc often?

I think you should go see a psychiatrist/psychologist, it is serious

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Your addiction is not alone. FMoney is the cause of visiting to the ML which I did.

How to stop myself, withdraw money which is enough for myself and not to go for ML. Leave atm cards, credit card, debit card or any other cards that can use it for you to withdraw money when you are out. This is one method of visiting ML becoz you dont have money to offer one.

Since you have wife and if you trust her with your money, pass her your atm card and ask her to give you allowance instead.

Just my humble suggestion

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Simple, just volunteer your services. Sperm Bank.

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I just masturbated to porn.

The desire went away.

I have been struggling for a long time with sex addiction.

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There is such a thing as sex addition but its hard to define exactly. If you go by society expectations, normal male desires when expressed are classified as "addiction". Simply wanting to fuck multiple women is not addiction. However, if sex is the only thing you think about, if you get into trouble because you can't restrain yourself from criminal activity (like peeping tom or groping or self exposing etc) or if you use sex as the only way to deal with stress, then it could be an addiction. I have explored this area in detail and can tell you that many people in the programs are not really addicts, just guys being told by their wives or partners to go "fix" themselves. There are a few real addicts in there who need the help. So if you believe you are really out of control then go seek help. if you are going by what women or society is telling you but you feel ok about what you do then you are fine (as long as its not criminal behavior).

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I don't know if medically it is classified as an addiction or not.

But I have been paying for sex for the past 20 years on and off.

I know it is not good for me and want to stop.

But somehow the urge come again and I succumb.