Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

Hi all, please dont flame me. (I know go out play shouldnt worry so much, but looks like I am just one of those idiots). I used to chiong but stopped since a few months ago but on a recent ML visit - stupidly diid a short 3-4 mins BBBJ on Friday afternoon and regretted it ever since. Since Saturday, I been really anxious, kept thinking about the consequences + didnt sleep too well, and my body feels warmer (no fever as its 36.8 to 36.9 degrees) and been getting some mild body aches throughout my body and slight headaches every now and then. Any advice guys?

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

Go for a check up to allay your fears.

For details regarding what can be transmitted via oral sex refer to https://www.verywellhealth.com/is-or...fe-sex-3133091

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

Should I be very concerned sighs

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

No you should not be very concerned but you should be prudent so go get tested after the window period.

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

I guess I have to just wait for 4 weeks to go for a check for all the hiv and std testing then

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

You don't have to worry about HIV.

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

Ok just not so sure why I feel a bit more lethargic than normal... + mild aches everywhere on my body which is just making me anxious...

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

I also visit the gym a few days back and did a swim, but the aches are occurring at every part of my body it seems..

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

You're imagining things.

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Just really odd that I am getting these symptoms post the exposure last Friday.

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

So what's with all these symptoms? Only a medical professional who has tested you can tell you for sure. But I can tell you over the years I've seen shame and anxiety create many such symptoms. Our minds are incredibly powerful, and if someone feels guilt or fear about sex, and then has sex, those brains can often produce some very real psychosomatic symptoms.
If I were you, I would be more concerned of other things.

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

What you mentioned aren't really symptoms unless there is some sort of discharge you have almost nothing to worry about all bro

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

Your state of mind is influencing how you feel.

Change your mindset and think positively and your lethargy will melt away and you'll feel great.

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

Thanks guys, feeling better today but still have some aches randomly across the body.. hopefully I will get better as the week passes

Re: Concern over 1 BBBJ experience with ML
 

Indeed because sometimes our minds can make us think we caught something when it did not happen at all