Originally Posted by MrFuck (Post 20232402)

I think a lot of bros can relate to this; the feeling of being a lonely chiongster. Most of us live double lives; in our public persona, we are probably seen as someone decent and no one would actually believe we are paying for sex, but well, we are.

For myself, I'm from a decent middle class family, and I've always seen as a "good boy" in everyone's eyes, from schooling days all the way to my working place. Everyone sees me as the good innocent boy. At the same time, I am pretty undesirable, I'm everything opposite of the ideal image of a man. Opposite of tall, good looking, rich, talents, and normal. None of my dates go beyond the 1st date, I've been ghosted countless times both in real life and online, I've never been in any relationship before, and none of my friends are keen on introducing me to anybody. In that sense, no one pays attention to my love life, I'm just an unimpressionable good boy in their eyes whom they will deem not good enough for their friends, and that I will eventually find someone, but nobody wants to be that someone. That's okay, I've accepted it.

But I got to say, I foresee my road ahead to be a pretty lonely one, I will continue chiong because I have pretty high sex drive, but it will all be off the radar. Hopefully I will be able to maintain this double life for as long as possible.

Any bros out here living a "double life" as well?

Originally Posted by runman (Post 20237430)

Hey TS, just wanna say I am in the same situation as you. It can definitely get lonely at times, especially when you look at the "happy couples" everywhere.

I myself haven't been in many relationships in my life. Personally, I've grown to like being alone, doing my own thing and answering only to myself. I have always been introverted. But it is getting increasingly difficult because society at large expects us men to find girlfriends, get married and have kids, just like our ancestors have done all these while. I would be lying if I said that I absolutely do not care how society perceives me, so I definitely feel the pressure to "settle down".

You are not alone. :)

Originally Posted by pearlnjewel (Post 20237530)

Here the only place single desperate helpless guys can freely share their thoughts and seek solace.

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Originally Posted by MrFuck (Post 20232402)

I think a lot of bros can relate to this; the feeling of being a lonely chiongster. Most of us live double lives; in our public persona, we are probably seen as someone decent and no one would actually believe we are paying for sex, but well, we are.

For myself, I'm from a decent middle class family, and I've always seen as a "good boy" in everyone's eyes, from schooling days all the way to my working place. Everyone sees me as the good innocent boy. At the same time, I am pretty undesirable, I'm everything opposite of the ideal image of a man. Opposite of tall, good looking, rich, talents, and normal. None of my dates go beyond the 1st date, I've been ghosted countless times both in real life and online, I've never been in any relationship before, and none of my friends are keen on introducing me to anybody. In that sense, no one pays attention to my love life, I'm just an unimpressionable good boy in their eyes whom they will deem not good enough for their friends, and that I will eventually find someone, but nobody wants to be that someone. That's okay, I've accepted it.

But I got to say, I foresee my road ahead to be a pretty lonely one, I will continue chiong because I have pretty high sex drive, but it will all be off the radar. Hopefully I will be able to maintain this double life for as long as possible.

Any bros out here living a "double life" as well?

Originally Posted by lotsfits80 (Post 20239350)

It's really not good to fake an entire relationship where the wife put her trust in her husband to be faithful but the husband eats outside without her knowledge.

Originally Posted by nanahoriuchi (Post 20251395)

I myself is almost the same as you bro i'm in my mid thirties this yr & never had a gf, was short <160cm. Got rejected by colleagues at 2 different wk place. Feeling lonely especially during friday night & weekends. Ppl would see me as a boy next door person, but pre covid i would visit gl almost every week, some times even when i don't hv the urge. Would like to join bros for outing if there is any pls pm me ya

Originally Posted by nanahoriuchi (Post 20251395)

I myself is almost the same as you bro i'm in my mid thirties this yr & never had a gf, was short <160cm. Got rejected by colleagues at 2 different wk place. Feeling lonely especially during friday night & weekends. Ppl would see me as a boy next door person, but pre covid i would visit gl almost every week, some times even when i don't hv the urge. Would like to join bros for outing if there is any pls pm me ya

Originally Posted by sshelterz (Post 20251944)

I feel for you bro. Cheer up. Let's be friends

Originally Posted by pearlnjewel (Post 20251956)

Hi big bro, feel for you. We can do a chengdu trip or Bangkok or Vietnam trip after border opens. Missing all the babes, and I'm sure the babes miss the money too.

Pm me for overseas chionging. Malaysia and Cambodia also

Originally Posted by runman (Post 20237430)

Hey TS, just wanna say I am in the same situation as you. It can definitely get lonely at times, especially when you look at the "happy couples" everywhere.

I myself haven't been in many relationships in my life. Personally, I've grown to like being alone, doing my own thing and answering only to myself. I have always been introverted. But it is getting increasingly difficult because society at large expects us men to find girlfriends, get married and have kids, just like our ancestors have done all these while. I would be lying if I said that I absolutely do not care how society perceives me, so I definitely feel the pressure to "settle down".

You are not alone. :)