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Kongsh 26-11-2021 08:33 AM
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Let's find FL at Johor after Johor open lane for all residents from Singapore instead of vtl

subidowa 26-11-2021 08:42 AM
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Settle this weekend first la. Where to drink

pinkcheese 04-12-2021 08:25 PM
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Originally Posted by HaoJiaoXiangQi (Post 20946470)
Prefer to watch Ole's on the wheel, so fun :D
So sad, no more Ole :(

HCKing 08-12-2021 05:47 AM
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Originally Posted by SadLoser (Post 20874867)
QFT.

Just sharing my humble opinions on this- there's absolutely nothing wrong for a guy to be paying for sex or companionship in any form. Cos it's damm hell difficult for an average joe to get any actions from normal gals these days.

In this era of social media & dating apps, any average gal will get lots & lots of validation online and endless messages/prepositions from guys all the times. They simply have to sit back, eat popcorns and pick the best dude from the lot - whether is it for dating or for a casual fling.

Being a gal in today's society is literally life on easy mode. Being a pretty gal literally is like the world is handed to u on a sliver platter. Spoilt for choice, receive endless validations & support from simps etc

For a guy - u really gotta stand out in terms of looks/height/wealth to be even given a chance.

So of course many more guys go for commercial sex as compared to gals who can find companionship much much easier
these days looks or wealth might not even help to land you a chiobu gf liao.

the thing abt modern generation girls is technically they dont really need a guy around. girls are actually happier hanging out with fellow charbo on girls night out, shopping, eating and gossiping to their heart content. financially they are already independent, unlike the older generation lao charbo that feel 'very proud' getting married with wealthy guys and shake legs be housewives.
these days girls earn alot and also spend alot on themselves, of cos can maintain their looks much better than the lao charbo.

only time they thought of finding a bf or companion to be specific is when they feel really bored and need an opposite sex to entertain them. simps are useful in that aspect. giving lots of attention mah, which girls wont enjoy them? just try stop giving them attention for 3 days and the chiobu disappears, lol. but then again, these simps could also be wasting their time and effort and ultimately get friendzoned when the chiobu hooked up their dream ang mo hunk for a romantic sexcapade.

so need not feel down or jealous of couples out there, in a modern society, things are moving like fast food, the fantasy of getting together and live happily ever after is outdated. ppl are only looking to fulfil their own desires. the couples you see outside might not be everlasting or real love as well. so chill man.:D

Peacekeeping 17-01-2022 01:19 AM
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Originally Posted by pearlnjewel (Post 20896524)
Sorry to hear that, glad you avoided the flirty girl and moved on.
There are a lot of wrecked playgirls flirting around for attention. *Not saying all girls are bad*. Too bad the girls got what they want but guys are left hanging. :cool:

Obligation to the country, will have many others think otherwise. Especially frustrated single guys.

If you dwell deeper into this topic, a country without families is not a strong country. As more and more singles in the country, the country will fall apart.
I worry for my country too. Being moneyminded and practical kills romance. Many people have no emotions or they are numb to it. Afterall passion is a stored value card only :D

onsenmaster 04-02-2022 01:08 AM
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I have been actively chionging ever since I broke up with my long time gf. Have no desires to find anyone and cannot imagine loving anyone else at this point in time (and I foresee for at least the next year). So I just simply chiong to hearts content and don't feel any guilt at all. When I was with my ex, I did chiong a bit but each time I did (on the rare occasions) I would be filled with guilt

My problem is I have been visiting the same ML for past few months, at least 4-5 times a month. I haven't been KC because I don't speak very good mandarin and it's difficult for us to communicate. But whenever I'm with her, I'll close my eyes and pretend she was my ex. After an hour, the deed will be done and I'll go home and sleep it off. Rinse wash repeat

I don't know what I'm doing with my life also. At times I do feel very lonely because I have nothing else to do

Datingafter35 04-02-2022 10:30 PM
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43 do cold approach. Creepy? Dress the part. Do cold approach creepy?
Recently learn about red pill. From China TV.

Pretty hard to change for an old dog. But I did cold approach in Thailand when I was 38. So maybe Singapore pretty hard.

fallen11 05-02-2022 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Datingafter35 (Post 21083854)
43 do cold approach. Creepy? Dress the part. Do cold approach creepy?
Recently learn about red pill. From China TV.

Pretty hard to change for an old dog. But I did cold approach in Thailand when I was 38. So maybe Singapore pretty hard.
higher chance you'll be facing a police investigation for doing this in singapore nowadays. more & more girls really getting delusional

Datingafter35 08-02-2022 12:11 PM
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Originally Posted by fallen11 (Post 21085124)
higher chance you'll be facing a police investigation for doing this in singapore nowadays. more & more girls really getting delusional
I've tried when I was 38 in public places and clubs. But of course you need to be reasonably dressed.

Singapore possible but not as receptive as Thailand. But Thailand. No piak. Only movies and makan. Sian. But my younger friends have tonnes of dtf from milfs.

MrFuck 26-02-2022 01:44 PM
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hello everyone, it has been nearly 2 years since i started this thread and i’m heartened that many bros saw this as an outlet where they can express similar feelings and thoughts.

2 years on, i will be reaching a milestone, age-wise, and life haven’t changed much for me. i’m still cheong-ing fls and mls stealthily and consistently, haven’t been on a date since 2019. Yet, i’m happy to say that my headspace is in a better place than when i first started this thread for a couple of reasons -

i got a new job, and i now, have a clear idea that i do want, in the future, to experience living alone for an extended period of time, and so i’m not looking for a relationship any time soon.

CookCrew 27-02-2022 01:25 AM
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Originally Posted by MrFuck (Post 21125190)
hello everyone, it has been nearly 2 years since i started this thread and i’m heartened that many bros saw this as an outlet where they can express similar feelings and thoughts.

2 years on, i will be reaching a milestone, age-wise, and life haven’t changed much for me. i’m still cheong-ing fls and mls stealthily and consistently, haven’t been on a date since 2019. Yet, i’m happy to say that my headspace is in a better place than when i first started this thread for a couple of reasons -

i got a new job, and i now, have a clear idea that i do want, in the future, to experience living alone for an extended period of time, and so i’m not looking for a relationship any time soon.
wow thats great to hear TS. Glad you were able to get your life figured out!

maleescort7 03-03-2022 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted by onsenmaster (Post 21082306)
I have been actively chionging ever since I broke up with my long time gf. Have no desires to find anyone and cannot imagine loving anyone else at this point in time (and I foresee for at least the next year). So I just simply chiong to hearts content and don't feel any guilt at all. When I was with my ex, I did chiong a bit but each time I did (on the rare occasions) I would be filled with guilt

My problem is I have been visiting the same ML for past few months, at least 4-5 times a month. I haven't been KC because I don't speak very good mandarin and it's difficult for us to communicate. But whenever I'm with her, I'll close my eyes and pretend she was my ex. After an hour, the deed will be done and I'll go home and sleep it off. Rinse wash repeat

I don't know what I'm doing with my life also. At times I do feel very lonely because I have nothing else to do
Never ever stuck to one ML/FL especially when you have pretty good money/job. If you pay, must change the taste. Dont ever think she is good/best.

zkdbec 23-03-2022 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted by MrFuck (Post 20232402)
I think a lot of bros can relate to this; the feeling of being a lonely chiongster. Most of us live double lives; in our public persona, we are probably seen as someone decent and no one would actually believe we are paying for sex, but well, we are.

For myself, I'm from a decent middle class family, and I've always seen as a "good boy" in everyone's eyes, from schooling days all the way to my working place. Everyone sees me as the good innocent boy. At the same time, I am pretty undesirable, I'm everything opposite of the ideal image of a man. Opposite of tall, good looking, rich, talents, and normal. None of my dates go beyond the 1st date, I've been ghosted countless times both in real life and online, I've never been in any relationship before, and none of my friends are keen on introducing me to anybody. In that sense, no one pays attention to my love life, I'm just an unimpressionable good boy in their eyes whom they will deem not good enough for their friends, and that I will eventually find someone, but nobody wants to be that someone. That's okay, I've accepted it.

But I got to say, I foresee my road ahead to be a pretty lonely one, I will continue chiong because I have pretty high sex drive, but it will all be off the radar. Hopefully I will be able to maintain this double life for as long as possible.

Any bros out here living a "double life" as well?
Ya... I'm a young bro mid 20s and successful career, manage to play play crypto and earn a decent living. All my friends totally different, very westernized and still getting started in their careers. I don't have problem with getting into a relationship but like addicted to the easy pleasure of buying sex and chiong FLs... Not sure what to do with life already

Peacekeeping 23-03-2022 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted by zkdbec (Post 21170521)
Ya... I'm a young bro mid 20s and successful career, manage to play play crypto and earn a decent living. All my friends totally different, very westernized and still getting started in their careers. I don't have problem with getting into a relationship but like addicted to the easy pleasure of buying sex and chiong FLs... Not sure what to do with life already
So young already addicted... buying sex is for bros who can’t get a gf or can’t get satisfaction from wife. Healthy relationship is still the best. Get out of the bottomless pit while you can.

Apollo 24-03-2022 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Peacekeeping (Post 21171328)
So young already addicted... buying sex is for bros who can’t get a gf or can’t get satisfaction from wife. Healthy relationship is still the best. Get out of the bottomless pit while you can.
young old rich poor, all man will get abdicated for SEX :D:D


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