genuine platonic friendships with women?

[Ladyrain]

Originally Posted by Yakuza

Unbelievable .. u must be a holy monk reincarnation ..

Either that, or he's just not into her.

[Archerguard]

Originally Posted by korean

One word: amazing

lol! Thank you!

[Archerguard]

Originally Posted by Yakuza

Unbelievable .. u must be a holy monk reincarnation ..

lol! when comes to the matters of sexuality, i can often detect whether the woman is doing it purely to rid the urge, purely to bring us both to cloud9 or to do it because of obligation, just to make her man feels good only.

Originally Posted by Ladyrain

Either that, or he's just not into her.

hi! it is a hidden test that forbids anyone of us to go further. it is a hidden test that only allows me to being genuine platonic friendship with her.

this is a right thread for me.

[hugs]

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Originally Posted by Archerguard

let's just say i invested time and effort to befriend a woman, established a connection followed by a relationship. she raised the level of the relationship just below sexual intercourse. meaning to say, the relationship will not involve sexual intercourse and i agreed. i continue to invest time and effort to maintain the healthy relationship. one day, she attempted to do a b_j on me and i stopped her. no thanks from me.

eventually, my body language became more and more unavailable to her but we still adore each other. we ended it graciously.

how many words do you have for me?

one word. U won't like that word. Why sabotage yourself? Too bored with life?

[Archerguard]

Originally Posted by hugs

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one word. U won't like that word. Why sabotage yourself? Too bored with life?

hmm... word is still a word after all. it is not really about sabotaging. it is about jumping in too fast without a blissful vision.

does the above phrase sounds difficult to be understood?

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by Archerguard

lol! when comes to the matters of sexuality, i can often detect whether the woman is doing it purely to rid the urge, purely to bring us both to cloud9 or to do it because of obligation, just to make her man feels good only.



hi! it is a hidden test that forbids anyone of us to go further. it is a hidden test that only allows me to being genuine platonic friendship with her.

this is a right thread for me.

so it looks like whether male or female wants to cross the boundaries the other one do not wishto, the friendship is doomed.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by korean

3 words: selfish, ego, challenge

thanks for this 3 words.

either most men are like this or I was unlucky or have poor taste in choosing friends.
it has got to a point that I question if the friendships were even real to begin with. those hanging out, sports, hobby time, talking etc. are those just an act to get sex? that sounds incredible too cos sex is available everywhere easily either commercial sex or FB or wife/gf. there is no need for any men to put in that much effort n time n sex is not even guaranteed. maybe the challenge? but its v clear if u are in the friendszone no hanky panky. humans are v complicated?

[Yakuza]

Originally Posted by Edyta

thanks for this 3 words.

either most men are like this or I was unlucky or have poor taste in choosing friends.
it has got to a point that I question if the friendships were even real to begin with. those hanging out, sports, hobby time, talking etc. are those just an act to get sex? that sounds incredible too cos sex is available everywhere easily either commercial sex or FB or wife/gf. there is no need for any men to put in that much effort n time n sex is not even guaranteed. maybe the challenge? but its v clear if u are in the friendszone no hanky panky. humans are v complicated?

Sorry .. not only man .. its the whole human race .. Humans aso belong to or a part of the animal chain .. natural instincts .. tts d law of nature ... 3 cycles- born wif it .. live wif it .. die wif it .. only diff is .. animal hv sex as a necessity to breed .. but human got a higher intrigue sexual brain .. the only animal tt hv sex for the fun n thrill of it .. no?

[Donrico]

Are you trying to tell us that you're super hot?

Originally Posted by Edyta

thanks for this 3 words.

either most men are like this or I was unlucky or have poor taste in choosing friends.
it has got to a point that I question if the friendships were even real to begin with. those hanging out, sports, hobby time, talking etc. are those just an act to get sex? that sounds incredible too cos sex is available everywhere easily either commercial sex or FB or wife/gf. there is no need for any men to put in that much effort n time n sex is not even guaranteed. maybe the challenge? but its v clear if u are in the friendszone no hanky panky. humans are v complicated?

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by Yakuza

Sorry .. not only man .. its the whole human race .. Humans aso belong to or a part of the animal chain .. natural instincts .. tts d law of nature ... 3 cycles- born wif it .. live wif it .. die wif it .. only diff is .. animal hv sex as a necessity to breed .. but human got a higher intrigue sexual brain .. the only animal tt hv sex for the fun n thrill of it .. no?

well said! law of attraction n the sexual brain!

[Donrico]

You thinkso? Take a look at this video http://www.thebuzzmedia.com/monkey-h...y-with-a-frog/

Originally Posted by Yakuza

but human got a higher intrigue sexual brain .. the only animal tt hv sex for the fun n thrill of it .. no?

[Archerguard]

Originally Posted by Edyta

so it looks like whether male or female wants to cross the boundaries the other one do not wishto, the friendship is doomed.

hmm... the friendship is doomed? the friendship is actually very safe. it will continue to sail for many years to go.


Love <--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------> Stranger


this is how a number of human minds worked. the tendency of either hate or love is so high that what's in between both... is often neglected. some people termed it as a process. when one manages a relationship well, there is still room for friendship. i am still in contacts with my X-es.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by Archerguard

hmm... the friendship is doomed? the friendship is actually very safe. it will continue to sail for many years to go.


Love <--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------> Stranger


this is how a number of human minds worked. the tendency of either hate or love is so high that what's in between both... is often neglected. some people termed it as a process. when one manages a relationship well, there is still room for friendship. i am still in contacts with my X-es.

friendship with exes is a whole topic by itself! but many members here have shared beautiful stories of gd friendship with the exes. Personally I think friends with exes depends on how the relationship went n how it ended. If its a major character flaw then i guess its not even worth to remain friends after breakup.

[Summerhillt]

Cuddling or spooning

[hijav]

Originally Posted by Edyta

friendship with exes is a whole topic by itself! but many members here have shared beautiful stories of gd friendship with the exes. Personally I think friends with exes depends on how the relationship went n how it ended. If its a major character flaw then i guess its not even worth to remain friends after breakup.

Personally, I wouldnt stay friends with exes because its a HUGE mistake imo.

I know because I stayed as friends thinking that we could reconcile our relationship. Huge mistake and I got friendzoned instead.