Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by nkyc

Why need pay for RM rental? Go budget hotel each time when stay over cheaper?

It is her lodging, room rental which I am paying monthly.

[nkyc]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

It is her lodging, room rental which I am paying monthly.

I see... Ok la technically if she slp there anytime wanna slp tgt just go over

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by nkyc

I see... Ok la technically if she slp there anytime wanna slp tgt just go over

No. Room rental usually is no guest allowed in the tenancy agreement. Furthermore the landlord are staying in the flat. At $500, this is just a rental of a small room. Some is rental of shared room at this price.

If want to rent some place where you can sleep over anytime with the ML/FL, you got to look at whole unit rental or maybe condo room rental without landlord staying. Such rental will set you back $1800 to $3000 per month. Not worth paying

[nkyc]

Thks for sharing... Didn't know that

[bumblebuzz]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

There is always this one ML that we like more compare to other ML. I don't know what the ML say to you. I assume is some flirting and gfe conversation.
Are you expecting fj from her by visiting her more? Then you got to play the game right especially ML from Cat1 spa. If is it ML/FL from f joint, then I dunno what you expecting liao.

From my personal experience with the ML from Cat1 spa whom I have a complicated relationship. Initially is all about happy enjoyable flirting gfe/bfe conversation between us during the session, flirtatious suggestion of greater service in next visit. Small gesture of bubble tea or banh mi is always accepted happily. As if it is still part of her work to make the customer feel appreciated and to visit more.

As our relationship develops more into the next stage, it become a more serious conversion and mostly is about her 90% of the time. i.e. her problem, her logistical needs, her issues with colleagues and bad customers, etc. When trying to flirt, she will say it is nonsense. When buying bubble tea or snacks for her, its a waste of money as she prefer other drinks/food. This is definitely not a better treatment in terms of service.

Also nothing is free. You can see my past few post on the amount spent in a short 7 months.

Thanks for the advice. It’s from Cat1 spa kind.
Kinda advance to quite close but I was thinking I can’t be the only one too. I will buy drinks, food, etc,
That day suddenly ask about buying bag. But I said something else, changing subject then never ask already.
I was thinking if buy, then what will be the appreciation or reward. I’ll just be another carrot. End day, I also don’t know what to expect. Meet outside or something? But think hard. Once we become more emotional, they will use that against us as they are pro in pulling the strings. Haiz

[similang]

Originally Posted by bumblebuzz

Thanks for the advice. It’s from Cat1 spa kind.
Kinda advance to quite close but I was thinking I can’t be the only one too. I will buy drinks, food, etc,
That day suddenly ask about buying bag. But I said something else, changing subject then never ask already.
I was thinking if buy, then what will be the appreciation or reward. I’ll just be another carrot. End day, I also don’t know what to expect. Meet outside or something? But think hard. Once we become more emotional, they will use that against us as they are pro in pulling the strings. Haiz

don't forget, we can't afford to go everyday but everyday they are meeting new customers. its a never ending hole that u will be sinking in. treat yourself better.

[SEX11]

Whenever you receive their message such as 在吗 ?
Don’t be too happy that they care for you.
After a few chat or call…
GQ come, not offering special service to you hor
They will ask special loan from you 😂
Finding ourselves left as poorer man instead of a happy man

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by bumblebuzz

Thanks for the advice. It’s from Cat1 spa kind.
Kinda advance to quite close but I was thinking I can’t be the only one too. I will buy drinks, food, etc,
That day suddenly ask about buying bag. But I said something else, changing subject then never ask already.
I was thinking if buy, then what will be the appreciation or reward. I’ll just be another carrot. End day, I also don’t know what to expect. Meet outside or something? But think hard. Once we become more emotional, they will use that against us as they are pro in pulling the strings. Haiz

How long you are with the ML and how close you are with the ML, only you know. You have not meet her outside of her work?

Buying food and drinks - definitely you are not the only one. Many players or suitor will buy.

If you can afford the bag (hopefully not branded), maybe ok if only you are sure you are the stand out one she want among the suitors. But the request maybe more and more which you have to negotiate or reject. Rejection is a test to see if she really into you. Maybe you can use this request for bag as a test.

For my experience with the current ML I seeing, I helped her in her previous stint and do things for her without any expectation in return. When she was back, she contacted me, I help her to settle down without any expectation in return also. All these are time and money spent.

Is she pulling the string knowing I am good to her? I observe and observe till I confirm she is good one and let the relationship develop.
But develop into what? Mistress, sugar dad, sugar babe? Process is good but it will still be a no good ending since I am no longer single.

[SAWgunner]

Heheh, who here fall in love with OT Mary and her 38DD boobs?

[bumblebuzz]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

How long you are with the ML and how close you are with the ML, only you know. You have not meet her outside of her work?

Buying food and drinks - definitely you are not the only one. Many players or suitor will buy.

If you can afford the bag (hopefully not branded), maybe ok if only you are sure you are the stand out one she want among the suitors. But the request maybe more and more which you have to negotiate or reject. Rejection is a test to see if she really into you. Maybe you can use this request for bag as a test.

For my experience with the current ML I seeing, I helped her in her previous stint and do things for her without any expectation in return. When she was back, she contacted me, I help her to settle down without any expectation in return also. All these are time and money spent.

Is she pulling the string knowing I am good to her? I observe and observe till I confirm she is good one and let the relationship develop.
But develop into what? Mistress, sugar dad, sugar babe? Process is good but it will still be a no good ending since I am no longer single.

Yup hard to determine if you are the special one among the rest.
They are all professional actresses. Whatever we expect or want it to develop into will not have a good ending either way. I’m also not single and she sorts of guess it too.

Will be away for holiday soon. So maybe take this time to get away and not contact. And if there’s no response, it’s some good indication to wake up😅

[Moshimosh]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

not advocating that we can fall in love with ML/FL.
A good ending is only marriage and getting her out of the industry.
0.01% chances yah.

1) you must make yourself standout among all the suitors. (how? -> $$$)
2) you must be able to clear off all her debt, her family debt and relative debt.
3) you need to be financially sound, earning way above $3K (for successful LTVP and PR application)
4) you must be financially sound to support her, her family and relative after
5) most importantly, she must be willing to forgo her high income (above $10K) and high living standard to live a normal life and have family with you.
6) you need to sustain the relationship (how? -> $$$)

This is my real life experience to share. It should be similar to ML.
In this world, no money don't talk honey.

Its takes too much committment in terms of time, money and emotions to do this. Money to satisfy the ML/FL and emotions to accept she is serving other customers too. Why need to go thru this kind of sufferings?

3k is not the bare minmum to enter this game, i would think around 10 to 15k a mth of income is required. Then u be stress to keep wanting to earn much more in case a richer robert comes along and play the game.

I doubt these ladies lead a high income life in china. They also know this kind of income is short term and wont last ad they age. Most of them are either jobless, come from countyside or just earning 5k rmb (1000 sgd) per mth or below. Things are not rosy as they painted and china economy is definitely not doing good for the common ppl. But girls from countryside are definitely more willing to serve and appears more real to me then those from the big cities.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by bumblebuzz

Yup hard to determine if you are the special one among the rest.
They are all professional actresses. Whatever we expect or want it to develop into will not have a good ending either way. I’m also not single and she sorts of guess it too.

Will be away for holiday soon. So maybe take this time to get away and not contact. And if there’s no response, it’s some good indication to wake up😅

Enjoy the process of "chasing" girls again then. But don't let it affect your family. You will always need to know when to move on.

Holiday is definitely good time to concentrate on family and forget about the ML for a moment. Do you exchange daily messages?

[bumblebuzz]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Enjoy the process of "chasing" girls again then. But don't let it affect your family. You will always need to know when to move on.

Holiday is definitely good time to concentrate on family and forget about the ML for a moment. Do you exchange daily messages?

Yup this feeling of chasing makss one feel alive again.
Usually exchange daily messages but with me sending the first message. Asked why she dont send the first message, reply is that i have family so will be better for me to send first.

Was thinking to take this time as a break and see if have difference. Coz i have been texting everyday and visiting every week for the past 2months. Aint cheap either. Hopefully clears the mind😅

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Moshimosh

Its takes too much committment in terms of time, money and emotions to do this. Money to satisfy the ML/FL and emotions to accept she is serving other customers too. Why need to go thru this kind of sufferings?

to get away with the emotion that she is serving others, the best straightforward way is to bao her, send her back home then prepare marriage soonest possible. This means a lot of money commitment.

I shared I use to have a very truthful "number 2" working in ktv. She told me I cannot afford to feed her so she need to sleep with customer often. Many times I personally fetch her to the hotel and waited the 1-2 hours. I would rather that the emotional suffering is just that 1-2 hours rather then suffering daily thinking if she is playing games and if she is seeing any other "boyfriend" then me. She is the best number 2 I ever have. Till today, probably 15 years already.. she still look out for me. Somewhere this year, I posted a "emotionally affected" status. She straightaway contact me via the social media although we never communicate for long time.

The current ML i am with is also very truthful without me having a second guess.

Many people may not be able to accept the fact that its part of their work to serve. So best is not to fall for ML/FL in such case.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by bumblebuzz

Yup this feeling of chasing makss one feel alive again.
Usually exchange daily messages but with me sending the first message. Asked why she dont send the first message, reply is that i have family so will be better for me to send first.

Was thinking to take this time as a break and see if have difference. Coz i have been texting everyday and visiting every week for the past 2months. Aint cheap either. Hopefully clears the mind😅

As married man, we have the extra time when kids grew up. we seldom have the sweet nothing with wifey now. we may be feeling empty for a certain reason.

The reciprocate to our chase and the consistent reply to message is the killer to make us go on and on with the chase.

Just don't ever let it affect the family