Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by hdfd2r

Well, no choice. As the title of the thread suggests, got feelings means got feelings.

I spend money to patronise her every 2-3 days, she also reciprocate with caring responses and text massages. Fair deal.

Just must know when to let go as this relationship has no future.

No meeting outside after close shop?

[hdfd2r]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

No meeting outside after close shop?

She wasn’t keen.

I’m married so also have limitations on timing and activity, so as not to be spotted outside

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by hdfd2r

We have been texting each other everyday and visiting her every 2-3 days to support her

Just enjoy the process while it lasts. And know when to let go.

Otherwise, financially it is a bottomless pit.

its really bottomless pit
I spend 2 days a week supporting this Cat1 shop ML. sometime 78+100, sometime 78+50
Average already $1500 per month. Then 2 off day per month go out have meals and shop around. 2 to 3 night time per week after work go out eat supper, having lunch/dinner in between work... about $2K per month.

since mid Apr till now... 6 mths

say knowing about when to let go... soon to have a long break from this complicated relation... till next year to re-start.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by hdfd2r

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I’m married so also have limitations on timing and activity, so as not to be spotted outside

same same, married.
but this time, I took a high risk especially going out on her off day to busy shopping area

[hdfd2r]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

its really bottomless pit
I spend 2 days a week supporting this Cat1 shop ML. sometime 78+100, sometime 78+50
Average already $1500 per month. Then 2 off day per month go out have meals and shop around. 2 to 3 night time per week after work go out eat supper, having lunch/dinner in between work... about $2K per month.

since mid Apr till now... 6 mths

say knowing about when to let go... soon to have a long break from this complicated relation... till next year to re-start.

Sometimes just need to manage ownself emotions. I was clear to myself what I want out of this from the start

Admittedly, sometimes she tells me about other clients doing this and that with her, I do feel some jealously, I just need to manage myself

I’m prepared for the day if she picks up a richer guy and turn cold. Hence enjoy while it last

[hdfd2r]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

same same, married.
but this time, I took a high risk especially going out on her off day to busy shopping area

It’s great to have this experience and turn out well, as in high risk, but no major repercussions

I would have yearned to date her out too, but sometimes must balance risk and desire

[Jasperdo]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

donkey years back lah. I was single and also fucking aound then. We did not dump each other. Just parted when she no longer can come sillypore. Still kept in touch once awhile.

I did not dump her because she is a truthful and straightforward person without me needing to suspect or 2nd guess what she doing and where she is. Actually thinking back, its amazing memories.

Hardly come across such FL/ML of such character till last year when I know this one ML

Is the ML still around? How’s this new relationship? Sounds like a good one to have. Can trust.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Jasperdo

Is the ML still around? How’s this new relationship? Sounds like a good one to have. Can trust.

that good one is a FL hooked from pub. No longer in Sillypore. She went Sarawak then now in Dubai.

Relationship with new ML complicated, erractic at times due to my married status. Overall we are good. If cannot trust her, think won't hold on this relationship till now. Although I know her last year, we started only 6 months ago when she return to Sillypore

[Jasperdo]

That’s good to hear. I hope everything works out. I am also going through something with an ML.

I did manage to persuade her to leave this line and not come back ever.

[Wee0502]

Originally Posted by Jasperdo

That’s good to hear. I hope everything works out. I am also going through something with an ML.

I did manage to persuade her to leave this line and not come back ever.

You gonna have a deep pocket. If not you are just wasting their time, they are basically exchanging youth for money since they have no other skills.

[Jasperdo]

Originally Posted by Wee0502

You gonna have a deep pocket. If not you are just wasting their time, they are basically exchanging youth for money since they have no other skills.

Somehow this ML I find is different, maybe is just my naivety but I think i am quite good at looking at a character. She should not be in this line. Though I am not a veteran or expert here but this line does take something from a person, especially the ladies. Not material but mental, emotional and in character.

I am not on some moral high horse but I can’t bear to see her walk down this path. At the start she had quite a struggle so she really isn’t suited and I feel it would do her lasting harm.

But like you said, deep pocket. So I do support her financially in someways but not like a fixed monthly payment. That’s just my 2 cents.

[Jasperdo]

But having said that…this would be the one and only ML I am helping this way. It is too heavy emotionally for me and I know I am not suited for this for another time.

[Colorwoofff]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

same same, married.
but this time, I took a high risk especially going out on her off day to busy shopping area

Don't play with fire, once PI sent by your wife tail you, you habis bro

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Jasperdo

Somehow this ML I find is different, maybe is just my naivety but I think i am quite good at looking at a character.

But like you said, deep pocket. So I do support her financially in someways but not like a fixed monthly payment. That’s just my 2 cents.

Different people different character and only when we look deep to understand then we say "This ML is different" where the character attracts you but not others. Eventually and definitely financial support is part of the game be it monthly rental, food, necessities, visits to support, etc.

Looking on the surface and pretty face, many will say all ML same. Lazy, relying on this trade to earn or cheat money. All about money.

Originally Posted by Jasperdo

But having said that…this would be the one and only ML I am helping this way. It is too heavy emotionally for me and I know I am not suited for this for another time.

Enjoy the process. Too early to say if there will be another on, another time,
From the last FL from pub i hook and let go (12 years ago), I told myself to stop and maybe move on with MP scene, settle dead pay money and done.
Been doing this for a good 10 years till this one ML comes along...

[hdfd2r]

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Enjoy the process while it last bros

And really know when to let go