How to jio girl be my girl friend without spending too much time?

[LovePotion]

Originally Posted by owl888

No $$$, no looks, no fun, worst no time........then juz stay at home pcc lor!

Hahas. True.... He is looking for like a pet than a gf

[jlee620]

Got money got talk ...

[KCisBad]

Aiya some times i also have this fantasy, like u lazy, cant be bothered etc.
Everything about u is bad, but still one altogether perfect girl is by ur side always..

Sure i have that fantasy and that dream and hope it happens, but i know it aint gonna happen.


And i manage to pin point a finger on where that idealogy creep into my mind.

1 word..

HOLLYWOOD !

But sadly, at least they qualify for 1 criteria, they all are good looking! hehe

[abugga]

I ever had a few... Known a few girls for like a week or 2? Before they became my girlfriend. Some for a few months and some for years, and no, they aren't the easy sort of girls either.

But I don't know how to tell you what to do , not because I don't want to, but because... really... there's no fixed route, all I can say is...

You need inner charm, be driven in life, be the sort of person that turns dreams into reality. The rest will come naturally. Goodluck. lol.

[wodemama]

Originally Posted by soulblader

I want to find a girl friend, I am not secondary student, I am a grown adult..always have difficulty trying to xian the girls

I want to get a gf leh...some of my female friend reject me say I am not fun enough

They say I look okay, just that "no feel", what should I do? I cannot change my personality

I am a nice person...how I talk to girl....so that she can be my stead without much consideration?

I don't have much $$

Summary of what you are saying is; you want gf, you look normal,you are a nice person,you have no money.

1) Having girlfriend doesnt matter whether you adult or student. Difficulty in finding one could be due to many reason the main being shyness. You being shy to ask for a date results in you not getting one.

2)Feel is something you cultivate with the girl, done by talking, showing concern and other what-nots. its the little small things you do for them that builds up their "feel" towards you.

3)you wan a sure win phrase that all girl hear already will become your stead? wake up your idea please, no one goes into a relationship without consideration. even NSA fb also need to consider the risks and benefits of having one.

4)no $$$ no honey. hear before? dont sabo the women if you cannot afford to provide for them.

if you are for despo for love yet not willing to sacrifice anything. you can wait till doomsday and be sure that still no ladies are willing to be your "stead"

[KCisBad]

Simple la.

Ask yourself.

Do you want a girl, not pretty, no money, not fun going, no time to spend, but "nice". You want?

Ur answer will determin whether u got hope a not.

[soulblader]

Ok...can you all tell me, how to be "fun"?

I don't know what is "fun " leh

I can only be myself...

[SimpleGirl]

Hahaha this is a crap thread

[Uzzi]

That depends on your idealogy of fun...

Play monopoly? Go swimming in public pool?

Go jogging also can pick up girls ma....

All these things dun cost a lot , but finding someone to do it with you is the main thing...

If you just wanna sit in front of computer and watch porn and pcc and cry father cry mother then who can help u?

If u can't even think of one person to call ( even if its a guy) to go out with you then you really are in trouble....

Initiative , kiddo...

[Barracuda]

Are u a shy type of person? If u shy type then dare not make bold moves to go after the girl then maybe u need some alcohol to push your self confidence up.

Dun keep thinking that u have no money, you wanna xian char bors then u need to set aside more for them and lesser for yourself, somethings like going out for meals, guys have to always pay full one. This is standard and she wants to eat what just let her choose.

But you need to play smart also, you know you cannot afford expensive meals then the location of your date dun go and choose those atas places like MBS lah.

Definition of fun can be anything, some girls like guys which are outgoing, can party, some girls like guys which can make them laugh as they are funny.

But if you are not fun, no excitement, not good looking then u better be super rich.

One more thing, being a nice guy is good but girls like a little bit of bad boy in us also.

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by soulblader

I want to find a girl friend, I am not secondary student, I am a grown adult..always have difficulty trying to xian the girls

I want to get a gf leh...some of my female friend reject me say I am not fun enough

They say I look okay, just that "no feel", what should I do? I cannot change my personality

I am a nice person...how I talk to girl....so that she can be my stead without much consideration?

I don't have much $$

You already have your answer which you just refuse to acknowledge.

Get more $$$ first and the girls will come to you automatically, specifically Singaporean and some PRCs

[saintdevil]

I suggest if you no time to jio gf, to pick up a viet bride or try your luck at matchmaking agency. But even then you will need to spare some time and money. Every woman wants to feel like a queen first before they will make you feel like a king. As mention by many bro, no free lunch in this world.

[Neal]

Originally Posted by soulblader

I want to find a girl friend, I am not secondary student, I am a grown adult..always have difficulty trying to xian the girls

I want to get a gf leh...some of my female friend reject me say I am not fun enough

They say I look okay, just that "no feel", what should I do? I cannot change my personality

I am a nice person...how I talk to girl....so that she can be my stead without much consideration?

I don't have much $$

If you are still looking for suggestions.
What I think you should do is show confidence like don't act scared. Don't out of the blue ask for GF. Invite her on a date. if she don't want then attend a social event together. Then get to know her more. Then go on date. First date. first half of the date go in for the kiss. end of the date must be like sex or ensure 2nd date will happen with sex.
After a few hook ups. Say you love her. she sure say yes de!
And also. This must happen within a week to no longer then 2 months. Drag too long then you gg. There's no nice guy end last. Nice guy can fuck off if they act like pussies.
For more info. check out my blog. Nealwong.blogspot.sg (:

[concern]

The power of love is sweet talk and be nice, most importantly be yourself. And you'll shine like a sun shine.

[soulblader]

I just want to know how to be more "fun" and out going