Local girls you bedded from bumble/cmb/tinder dating apps

[fnulnu99]

One possible scenario is, the "girl" will initiate a chat with you and it may end up to be sexual over Whatsapp.

A few days later, another person, could be husband or bf, will message you with screen capture of the chats and blackmail you...

Most ladies in these platform will not reveal their Whatsapp or mobile number for privacy reasons. In case, the guy is a psycho etc Same goes for me, I would never share my personal number with a girl I don't know at all....

If you smell it's a scam, treat it as a scam and move to another target.

Originally Posted by owen10

I have a question for bros here.
This often happens in TANTAN.
The other party (I’m not even sure if it’s a girl) would often make small talk first asking you where you from, your occupation, what you looking for in this app, and then they would ask you for your WHATSAPP (rarer ones ask for IG and Wechat).
If they are real scammers what can they do if they have your WHATSAPP (or even IG or WC)? What is their motive? Is there any way they can hack into your phone and steal data like passwords or sorts?
Hope bros with the expertise can enlighten.
Thanks 🙏🏼

[Asianavocado]

This chick from Hinge

[Freshguy]

Originally Posted by Asianavocado

This chick from Hinge

Niceee. Her boobs look amazing

[hahab]

Originally Posted by danesama

Just started using tinder, CMB today but not getting much matches. Is this normal?

Normal la, usually is bui bu or cmi like you only. A lot of scammers around in dating apps.

[owen10]

Originally Posted by fnulnu99

One possible scenario is, the "girl" will initiate a chat with you and it may end up to be sexual over Whatsapp.

A few days later, another person, could be husband or bf, will message you with screen capture of the chats and blackmail you...

Most ladies in these platform will not reveal their Whatsapp or mobile number for privacy reasons. In case, the guy is a psycho etc Same goes for me, I would never share my personal number with a girl I don't know at all....

If you smell it's a scam, treat it as a scam and move to another target.

That’s a sound analysis bro.
I usually don’t engage in conversations that are too personal or intimate with the lady, until after weeks or months later which we are comfortable,
There are scammers who really did their homework, made it look so real they can even tell you where they work and show you the photo.
Of cos I didn’t bother to go down verify but certain things they mentioned in their WA really made me sceptical. I stopped communicating with the persons after awhile.

[fnulnu99]

I had one personal experience before. Happened in Dubai around 2020 or 2021.

Was communicating with a "girl" who was offering FL service but did not close the deal. Can't remember why.

Long story short, a few months later, I got a whatsapp from an "official" looking account, supposedly from the Dubai Police. With screen captures of the conversations.

This person wants me to meet near a police station for further questioning. But I smell something fishy because Dubai Police or any police for that matter, do not conduct their investigation via Whatsapp.

They will call you from a landline should it is official, from what I gather.

And the meeting place is "near" a police station but not in a police station. Another red flag.

So, I said thank you but I am not interested to meet. And I blocked both the Whatsapp account used by this so called "policeman".

Nothing happened after that. So, I have to enforce the rule of not using any mobile number that can identify to you directly no matter what. The peace of mind is worth it.

Originally Posted by owen10

That’s a sound analysis bro.
I usually don’t engage in conversations that are too personal or intimate with the lady, until after weeks or months later which we are comfortable,
There are scammers who really did their homework, made it look so real they can even tell you where they work and show you the photo.
Of cos I didn’t bother to go down verify but certain things they mentioned in their WA really made me sceptical. I stopped communicating with the persons after awhile.

[hjlee]

hi bros, I'm pretty new here. Trying to swipe a little at Tantan and got quite some matches, but mostly seems too good to be true. You guys have any tip to share on how to filter off scammers

[fnulnu99]

This is my ground rule:

1. If the photos are not masked off, be extra cautious. Since legit gals would prefer to keep their face confidential

2. Do not share your mobile number via Whatsapp on first communication

3. Never transfer money via paylah etc when a meetup suddenly got postponed due to one reason or another. The gal will give all sort of excuse and need "urgent" money for school or whatever. Stand your ground and never transfer money. Always COD.

Good luck.

Originally Posted by hjlee

hi bros, I'm pretty new here. Trying to swipe a little at Tantan and got quite some matches, but mostly seems too good to be true. You guys have any tip to share on how to filter off scammers

[hjlee]

Originally Posted by fnulnu99

This is my ground rule:

1. If the photos are not masked off, be extra cautious. Since legit gals would prefer to keep their face confidential

2. Do not share your mobile number via Whatsapp on first communication

3. Never transfer money via paylah etc when a meetup suddenly got postponed due to one reason or another. The gal will give all sort of excuse and need "urgent" money for school or whatever. Stand your ground and never transfer money. Always COD.

Good luck.

The girl send me a link to another Whatsapp business ACC, said to help her do some task. She did paid for it but ask me to fill info for refund, sounds scammy. haha
I told her not comfy to reveal my info then she like not happy said "you got see scammer give u money before?"

[fnulnu99]

LV for $100? This is a red flag bro

For $100, you may lose thousands more

If you smell a scam, treat it like a scam. There are plenty of PRC fish out there. Just move on to another target.

Originally Posted by hjlee

The girl send me a link to another Whatsapp business ACC, said to help her do some task. She did paid for it but ask me to fill info for refund, sounds scammy. haha
I told her not comfy to reveal my info then she like not happy said "you got see scammer give u money before?"

[hjlee]

Originally Posted by fnulnu99

LV for $100? This is a red flag bro

For $100, you may lose thousands more

If you smell a scam, treat it like a scam. There are plenty of PRC fish out there. Just move on to another target.

well said. just post to share what i encountered. Really too many this kind of scammy girl on dating app. All seems too good to be true, haha

[WhoIsDat]

Originally Posted by WhoIsDat

Met this girl up again for a day session, however decided to drop her.

No effort from this girl. Kinda just lays there after she gets her orgasms.
She doesnt bj so its gonna be tough get yourself hard after a few rounds.
Plus i am getting weird vibes from her. Many other fishes in the sea.

Still prefer my minah. Doesnt look as nice but way better connection on bed.

Did drop this girl, however she msged me a few weeks later. Kinda suprised that she msged me coz i was pretty direct when i told her that we won't be seeing each other again. Says she misses my dick.(maybe i alphaed her) Still prefer my minah but then this girl wasnt that super terrible. Can be groomed. Decided to keep her in my stable. Better to have a spare just incase my minah decided to ghost me.

Match with another lady.. local mixed. Saw in photo.. a lil heavy but seems ok to me. Msged her and found that she's nympho. Did a quick meet up with her and found that she aint my type. My standards aint high but then.. she has a big belly.. like a pregnant look but not pregnant. i dun think i can get aroused with her. She's begging me for a session and i am still deciding to go for it or not.

[owen10]

Originally Posted by hjlee

well said. just post to share what i encountered. Really too many this kind of scammy girl on dating app. All seems too good to be true, haha

You know most of the time it’s too good to be true if she’s young and pretty.
Logic will usually tell you that if she has rigid criteria she probably won’t join the app liao unless she’s just been ditched or broken off. If not there must be conditions or money motive.

I managed to date one syt fr Bangkok who just happened to be in SG for holidays few days. Went out with her 2 days, just eat and shopping (on her own la), that’s it. Too bad she’s the educated, clean and proper type who knows her stand so no hanky panky.

[hjlee]

Originally Posted by owen10

You know most of the time it’s too good to be true if she’s young and pretty.
Logic will usually tell you that if she has rigid criteria she probably won’t join the app liao unless she’s just been ditched or broken off. If not there must be conditions or money motive.

I managed to date one syt fr Bangkok who just happened to be in SG for holidays few days. Went out with her 2 days, just eat and shopping (on her own la), that’s it. Too bad she’s the educated, clean and proper type who knows her stand so no hanky panky.

noted. I do appreciate a good chat or getting know a friend or having a date, anything beyond that is just a bonus to me. Just hopefully don't fall into trap will do, haha

[lalaliang]

Originally Posted by hahab

Normal la, usually is bui bu or cmi like you only. A lot of scammers around in dating apps.

how do u guys filter out scammers..?