Need a help(Serious Issue)

[l337House]

I question your judgement to ask questions like this on a forum dedicated to people out to pay for sex. This isn't a PUA (pickup artist) forum, neither is this a self-help forum. But I'm sympathetic to you, so I'll help you out a bit

18 was right about the time I was worried I won't ever get laid because I was overweight, I was Chinese (in the American School), and I was heading back to the US. However, once I got there, I realized that it just wasn't about the looks. Some of these guys are right; the most butt ugly Jew in the US probably snagged the hot chicks all the time. Why? Money. Women are attracted to wealth. I'm not saying you should just go up to a chick and say, "Hi, I'm fat but rich...", but that money gave the Jew a great boost of confidence, because he was rich and he knew it.

Then, after I knew I wasn't about to win the Powerball (US version of your 4D, and yes, in my ignorance, I played for a few times), I decided that there had to be something else. Living in LA, you see hot people all the time. Good looking white guys, good looking black guys, good looking yellow guys, good looking brown guys. Even the majority of chicks were hotter once you entered L.A. County. So maybe I thought if I looked better, it'd all come to me like flies to shit. I got a gym membership, went on Atkins, lost a bunch of weight. It worked a bit. I looked better, I felt more confident about myself, and more girls talked to you. But then, I couldn't close the deal! I knew I talked to more girls. I had a bunch of girl-friends (not girlfriends) that I hung out with, etc. But I just didn't play my cards right. So where do I go from there? I handled looking better, I got some self confidence, and I'm a slick talker, but I couldn't close the deal. One fateful day, I stumbled across a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss. Some of the people in this community might have heard of it.

After I read "The Game", everything changed. I didn't put my weight back on, because it boosted my confidence. Confidence was half the battle, and I knew that I found a great resource to improve my game. Being able to really communicate your interest and generate attraction was one of those things that few men instinctively knew. I scrapped together as much about the PUA community as I could to learn the methods that great PUAs and PUG (pickup gurus) were using to great success. I learned them rote, memorized them, and then.....

I realized that the real key was being able to talk to girls, being smooth, and knowing how to build attraction. I fell on my face a couple times, I embarrassed the hell out of myself a lot. I stammered, spilled my drink, and retreated to the bathroom in shame. I would walk up, try to talk to girls, and made friends. But I didn't make no lovers. After much practice, trial, and especially error, I started to get the hang of it. One success shocked me.....a one night stand, and I'm an Asian dude! WOW....It changed my life.

But after the 2nd, the 3rd, the 4th, and all that, nothing much about my looks have changed. I'm not famous, I'm not good looking. But I can talk smooth, I feel confident about myself, and I strive to improve my game. Just because you've got money doesn't mean anything. You're looking for some sort of acceptance from a girl who will like you for you, and not your wallet. So maybe you should think about what you really really want. You want a good looking girl? You want to get laid? You want a hooker? Or you want to change your image?

You can't get it all at the same time, but you can certainly set your ducks up in a row. Do what you can first, like work out, lose weight, and change that mother-trucking hairdo. Once you look better, you'll feel better about yourself. Once you feel better, you'll do better with the girls. You might be a smooth talker now, but you can't do it around girls because your insecurities keep popping up in your head. Take a few shots of liquid courage (booze of choice) and talk to girls. Talk to guys. Talk to strangers. Old. Young. You'll learn how to interact with people. And then you can start learning about gaming. What to say, when to say it. How to build attraction. How to carry yourself.

But yea, it'll take awhile. You're better off studying a lot now, since you Singaporeans love yourself a good education. Work out in the meantime. Jerk off to relieve stress. Run 2 or 3 miles a day. Stop eating junk food. Before you know it, you'll be 20 and you'll be looking much better than your 18 year old self. And during this time, go out. Don't sit and hang out at some arcade. Go to a club. See how the guys that are bringing home the pussy interact with girls. See how they dress. See how they carry themselves. You're honestly just a really insecure kid. You can overcome this crap if you just set your mind to it. And your expectations have to be spot on. Set goals for yourself. Are you just out to get laid, or are you out for a LTR?

And honestly, you expect to get good advice from people who pay for sex?

Dude......I mean, come on......

As a matter of fact, I'm willing to bet there's plenty of guys out there who are on this forum that can't pick up a girl to save their life without a fifty dollar bill.

[hallehluya]

With your personality (forum-wise), I wouldn't like you even if you look like Tay Ping Hui.

[asdfghjkl]

not a serious issue.. just the perception is different, u will understand better once u grow up and realize even girls are feeling the same way.

[joker88]

Originally Posted by shuaige84

bro i think u need to brush up on ur communication skills. like how to engage in a lively interesting talks ..............................

Agree bro. Communication skills are important.

[sexhorny]

seriously in sg no looks no money no sweeet talk u can never find a decent girl friend execpt those girls that no one wants. based on my 9 years experience

[hallehluya]

Originally Posted by sexhorny

seriously in sg no looks no money no sweeet talk u can never find a decent girl friend execpt those girls that no one wants. based on my 9 years experience

Singapore girls are too materialistic. But there are always exceptions lar, I guess. Just have to depend on your luck really.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by l337House

I question your judgement to ask questions like this on a forum dedicated to people out to pay for sex. This isn't a PUA (pickup artist) forum, neither is this a self-help forum. But I'm sympathetic to you, so I'll help you out a bit

18 was right about the time I was worried I won't ever get laid because I was overweight, I was Chinese (in the American School), and I was heading back to the US. However, once I got there, I realized that it just wasn't about the looks. Some of these guys are right; the most butt ugly Jew in the US probably snagged the hot chicks all the time. Why? Money. Women are attracted to wealth. I'm not saying you should just go up to a chick and say, "Hi, I'm fat but rich...", but that money gave the Jew a great boost of confidence, because he was rich and he knew it.

Then, after I knew I wasn't about to win the Powerball (US version of your 4D, and yes, in my ignorance, I played for a few times), I decided that there had to be something else. Living in LA, you see hot people all the time. Good looking white guys, good looking black guys, good looking yellow guys, good looking brown guys. Even the majority of chicks were hotter once you entered L.A. County. So maybe I thought if I looked better, it'd all come to me like flies to shit. I got a gym membership, went on Atkins, lost a bunch of weight. It worked a bit. I looked better, I felt more confident about myself, and more girls talked to you. But then, I couldn't close the deal! I knew I talked to more girls. I had a bunch of girl-friends (not girlfriends) that I hung out with, etc. But I just didn't play my cards right. So where do I go from there? I handled looking better, I got some self confidence, and I'm a slick talker, but I couldn't close the deal. One fateful day, I stumbled across a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss. Some of the people in this community might have heard of it.

After I read "The Game", everything changed. I didn't put my weight back on, but I knew that I found a great resource. Being able to really communicate your interest and generate attraction was one of those things that few men instinctively knew. I scrapped together as much about the PUA community as I could to learn the methods that great PUAs and PUG (pickup gurus) were using to great success. I learned them rote, memorized them, and then.....

I realized that the real key was being able to talk to girls, being smooth, and knowing how to build attraction. I fell on my face a couple times, I embarrassed the hell out of myself a lot. I stammered, spilled my drink, and retreated to the bathroom in shame. I would walk up, try to talk to girls, and made friends. But I didn't make no lovers. After much practice, trial, and especially error, I started to get the hang of it. One success shocked me.....a one night stand, and I'm an Asian dude! WOW....It changed my life.

But after the 2nd, the 3rd, the 4th, and all that, nothing much about my looks have changed. I'm not famous, I'm not good looking. But I can talk smooth, I feel confident about myself, and I strive to improve my game. Just because you've got money doesn't mean anything. You're looking for some sort of acceptance from a girl who will like you for you, and not your wallet. So maybe you should think about what you really really want. You want a good looking girl? You want to get laid? You want a hooker? Or you want to change your image?

You can't get it all at the same time, but you can certainly set your ducks up in a row. Do what you can first, like work out, lose weight, and change that mother-trucking hairdo. Once you look better, you'll feel better about yourself. Once you feel better, you'll do better with the girls. You might be a smooth talker now, but you can't do it around girls because your insecurities keep popping up in your head. Take a few shots of liquid courage (booze of choice) and talk to girls. Talk to guys. Talk to strangers. Old. Young. You'll learn how to interact with people. And then you can start learning about gaming. What to say, when to say it. How to build attraction. How to carry yourself.

But yea, it'll take awhile. You're better off studying a lot now, since you Singaporeans love yourself a good education. Work out in the meantime. Jerk off to relieve stress. Run 2 or 3 miles a day. Stop eating junk food. Before you know it, you'll be 20 and you'll be looking much better than your 18 year old self. And during this time, go out. Don't sit and hang out at some arcade. Go to a club. See how the guys that are bringing home the pussy interact with girls. See how they dress. See how they carry themselves. You're honestly just a really insecure kid. You can overcome this crap if you just set your mind to it.

And honestly, you expect to get good advice from people who pay for sex?

Dude......I mean, come on......

As a matter of fact, I'm willing to bet there's plenty of guys out there who are on this forum that can't pick up a girl to save their life without a fifty dollar bill.

u did made some straight points out there,brother,but i dont need no sympathetic from u.

[hallehluya]

Originally Posted by The_Rules

u did made some straight points out there,brother,but i dont need no sympathetic from u.

Pathetic..

[shuaige84]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

A reminder if you missed it.


TS Information
Nick: The_Rules, a Maysia samster.


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bro u wan to matchmake for threadstarter ah

[colins]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Many bro here giving suggestion but must must know where he come from and where he is now mah. Can tell super alot about sg girls but he in maysia leh.

The reason he doesn't understand what all the bros are talking about, is NOT becos he is from Penang, bro.

[colins]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

555, don't need to be so straight forward mah~ he just 18 nia probably still a virgin boy undergoing puberty but he good enough to show his face and tell us he not on school holiday leh.

Exactly, after all the advice, turn around & brand everybody as losers. How many bros have written to help when he asked for it? 18 is already man enough bro to talk properly, speaking like this is like 8.

The showing of face is not to prove his genuity, it's for self-assurance. Whats with the holiday thing? Does that make any difference here?

[hallehluya]

Really shows his immaturity, fancy posting a picture of himself on a forum. Then revealing that he is from a local gang.

I hope his gang members don't frequent SBF.

[Bangster]

The more I read TS' posts, the closer to insanity I get.

The_Rules, you know what your problem is?

Like one bro stated here, all you wanted when you start this thread, is ASSURANCE. It's all very simple actually. And several people have told you that you look ok, shouldn't be a problem to hook girls based on looks alone.

But how have you reacted?

You did not accept it. You wanted to hear what you've wanted all along. You turned around and told us off rudely, to just go ahead and tell you the truth that you don't look ok and you were able to accept the ruthless fact!

Ok fine, you looked like shit in your friendster profile, ok? People are trying to be nice and honest, but you bit the hand that feeds.

You know what is so fucking ugly about yourself? Your absolute disgusting lack of self-confidence in life.

You have no balls. You have no guts at all. You are basically a coward these 5 years of so-called 'hell' that you've been living in.

You are so fucken timid that you have to resort to wearing sunglasses in your profile and tell the bros here you are from some sort of gang. So what? What fucking gang is going to make you talk well with girls? You have just made yourself another nuisance of society, a vermin, a bully, an obstacle to safety and comforts of living.

Chao botak, you know what's seriously wrong with you? You are desperate for a girl companion and yet, you are clueless as to what to do.

You don't just treat a girl like another form of human being. You treat her like a friend. You treat her like your buddy. You do talk well with your buddy, right? You do talk about sex, movies, girls, cars and night spots to hang out at. Why can't you talk about all these stuff with a girl? They are all very normal, YOU ARE THE FREAK WHO IS NOT NORMAL and get all fussed up about getting into contact with a girl.

Money. Yes, money is important. You don't have to show off your fucken wallet to a girl. You don't need to tell her your family can afford a good ride whatsoever. You only have to be generous when you go out. Not generous only with girls, but your normal guy friends also. What's so fucken difficult? You are the one who has drawn a line separating guys and girls as friends.

The longer you don't change your thinking and re-discover your self-confidence, the deeper you are going to sink into this scary bottomless pit of a depressive state.

And stop being rude to others who are sincerely giving you advice. And buck up your fucken english.

[=LatexDolly=]

This could not have been elaborated more succinctly. I applaud you, Bangster. RESPECT. 101%.

[Cheonging101]

A rich young college student, whom have studied very hard and is associating himself with a local gang, have problems hooking up with hot chicks because he has an ugly mug?

Actually, you bros not nice lah... why stop him from getting plastic surgery? He's rich! He can afford it. BTW, bro TS, please come to Singapore to get your surgery. Also, if you present an Ang Pow to me, I will be your Big Brother during your trip here. Kor Kor (me) will show you how to use your money to up any women you want. Of course, good things must share share, hor?

BTW, how come study so hard, English still so cockanathan?

Come to think of it, this sounds like a joke... or worse! A nutcase!