The quick all-around guide to Chionging

[SingleAA]

The quick all-around guide to Chionging
Understand and tame your visceral pleasures - SingleAA
Version 0.2.4

For the latest version: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1...it?usp=sharing
Truncated sections with ~ to keep within limit

You are here for one thing
You know why you are on this forum. Sex. The visceral pleasure from the release of hormones such as endorphins is like a drug, an important one that drives us to continually seek to procreate and create more offspring. Ensuring that the human species lives on.

~ This quick guide is written from my research and experience bonking on and off over the years. Remember to think with your head first, not your dick.

Should you visit a sex worker?
There are many benefits to visiting a sex worker instead of trying to pick up a girlfriend or fling, but there are also dangerous drawbacks that you should be aware of. ~

Reasons to visit a sex worker
Simple transaction for pleasure
The most obvious is breaking it down to a simple transaction for pleasure when visiting a sex worker. This means you do not have to hang out throughout the night and end up with potentially no dates and sex. ~

Sexual fantasies
Depending on the type of girls you manage to pick up, you might not be able to fulfill various kinds of sexual fetishes and fantasies: bare blowjobs, cumming in the mouth or face, ass play, sadism and masochism. Sex workers are likely to the more open to these fetishes. But even if the one you visit is not into such acts, you can simply find another one easily.

Reasons to not visit a sex worker
Improving your social or sexual skills
Although you can definitely improve your social or sexual skills by visiting sex workers, I personally feel there are better and more meaningful ways to do it. ~

Dependency and addiction
Once you start to understand that you can simply pay for sex, there is a danger that you might be dependant and addicted to it. Instead of forming meaningful relationships, developing yourself as a great person, and having passionate sex with your partner, you might end up simply working your day job to get enough money to splurge on this ‘past-time’. Repeat ad infinitum.

Biological health
If having a long and healthy life is one of your priorities, you might want to carefully assess the health risks before engaging in one. A typical sex worker has a lot of physical contact and exchange of bodily fluids compared to a normal human being. ~ Risks can be managed with protection and good habits, but they cannot guarantee a complete protection.

More information:

• All you need to know about STD - Big Sexy | https://sammyboyforum.org.nz/showthread.php?t=29801

Alternatives to sex workers
I am pretty sure everyone here has masturbated before. Of course nothing beats a real pussy. But with the help of some sex toys and/or VR goggles, you might be able to get better orgasms without going through all the money and trouble of visiting a sex worker.

Legality
~ In Geylang, a number of houses are allowed to operate as a brothel, albeit with many limitations. If you meet with a sex worker through another mean (freelancers, health centers, massage shops), there is a chance that you might be raided by the anti-vice department in between your session. Though you cannot be arrested for engaging a sex worker (from what I know), it certainly turns a great time into a terrible day.

More information:

• All you need to know about Offences relating to prostitution under the SG LAW - Big Sexy | https://sammyboyforum.org.nz/showthread.php?t=41631
• Sg law on sex related isuue and and some of the most asked questions in the forum - Big Sexy | https://sammyboyforum.org.nz/showthread.php?t=42477

Different ways to get sex
In Singapore, there are 3 primary ways to get sex from a sex worker: visiting a brothel in Geylang, arranging with a freelancer directly or through a pimp, and visiting a massage or health center. Each has their own benefits and downsides.

Geylang
Geylang is Singapore’s iconic red light district. Not only does it have many brothels within this area, it also has many great eateries within walking distance. Thus you can be seen around most parts of Geylang without worrying too much.

Accessibility
Geylang is highly accessible by public transport, but sometimes it might be hard to find parking in these cramped and narrow roads.

Identifying a brothel
To visit a brothel, simply head down to the Lorong roads in even numbers (6, 8, 10, 12). There should be hotels, apartments, and landed houses. To identify a brothel from a non-brothel property, it normally has huge RED NUMBERS to indicate the house number. It also typically has an open or closed sign or indication somewhere. The doors are usually dark, clouded, or tinted. You might see some men sitting outside and possibly touting to visit the brothel. Some of the better renovated ones might have fancy lighting or Thai/Vietnamese/Chinese decorations at the door. The brothels are typically open from late afternoon to late at night.

Prices and types of brothels
In Geylang, different CAT or categories usually has different prices and service duration.

• Cat 40: 40 Singapore dollars for approximately 20 minutes
• Cat 50: 50 Singapore dollars for approximately 25-30 minutes
• Cat 80: 80 Singapore dollars for approximately 30-45 minutes
• Cat 150: 150 Singapore dollars for approximately 60 minutes

Certain roads will have more of one type of price categories (e.g. Lor 6 has a lot of Cat 50s). I do not know if there is any way to gauge the price category of a brothel from the physical appearances alone. There are typically more Thai and Vietnamese girls on the lower categories and mainland Chinese girls on the higher categories. Foreigners are typically charged more, it is a good idea to ask for the price first to ensure you are not getting ripped off.

Entering a brothel and getting a girl
Once you enter, you will be able to view the girls, normally through a glass screen (akin to a fish tank, thus the name). If none catches your interest, you might want to try asking for a recommendation or just simply leaving. Do be wary that some of the OKTs (Orh Kui Tao, pimp) can get quite pushy and physical to get you to stay and pick one. If you like a particular girl, just tell the OKTs her number. Pay up to the OKT, then follow her to her room and enjoy the session.

Typical session
A typical session would normally involve a quick chat, a shower, intercourse, another shower, and a short chat or massage if there is still time left. The showers are built into the room, so you need not worry into bumping into your mates naked. Condoms are to be used for all kinds of sex. But depending on the sex worker and your closeness to her, she might be willing to do oral without a condom (technically not allowed) or more. Sexual intimacies differ from person to person. Some workers might outright refuse to kiss whereas some might be open to having a cunninlingus.

Field Reports
It is illegal for the prostitutes or OKTs to advertise the brothels. So instead, some sex punters might write a FR (field report, review) online (on this forum or elsewhere). Take these with a pinch of salt. Some of these FRs might be outright falsified. But even if they were true, your experiences with a certain sex worker might vary widely. She might just have a bad day on the day you visited her, or she simply dislikes your face.
If you had a particularly good session, do a community and the girls a favour by writing a FR. This helps bring more business to a girl and helps the other punters avoid a bad session with an unknown sex worker.

Freelancer
Freelancers typically refer to sex workers found online via an escort agency/pimp. The ones found on the street are technically freelancers, but are often called streetwalkers instead.

Sourcing listings
You can find listings on sex forums like this, less regulated classifieds, or straight from the web. I had never tried arranging for one outside of this forum, but they seem dubious to me.

Inside a listing
The titles of these posts will typically include the name of the stable (brothel), model’s name, followed by what kind of services she does or what kind of character she possesses. There will be some pictures to get a representation of what the girl will look like. Do note no matter how trustworthy the stable, the pictures has been edited to some extent. Heck, even most normal photos are edited before they are put online. Of course with the stable that is more trustworthy, there is less image manipulation and thus it you will get an idea of what the model looks like.

Fake pictures
A good way to identify fake pictures is to do a reverse image search by uploading a picture on the search engine and trying to find copies used elsewhere. If the images are used elsewhere, it is highly likely they have been stolen and used to falsely advertise.

Statistics
Other than pictures, there is also a copy of the model’s name, and some information about her body statistics (normally fake), and services provided (normally just copy-pasted and not accurate). Most important are the rates and contact information. It is typically arranged in: PRICE/DURATION/SHOTS (how many orgasms).

Booking for a freelancer
Booking is typically done through messages. Whatsapp is the most commonly used these days but some might accept LINE or WeChat. Simply send a message to the operator requesting a booking. If they are a stable from SBF (SammyBoyForum) these stables will typically want to verify your authenticity in the forum. Not too sure what they are checking, but my best bet would be the amount of posts, points, and recent post history. Once you have been verified and the booking is confirmed, they will provide you with a generic address to head to first.

On appointment
Nearing the appointment, is it a good idea to do another confirmation with the operator in case of delays/double bookings/scheduling mishaps. Once you are there, send a message to the OKT. Do NOT enter the building on the initial address, it is almost always a generic location nearby. It is a good idea to message once you are on your way there and not while waiting, as it might bring some attention if there is a trend of people are waiting awkwardly outside an apartment and suddenly getting access in. Once it has been confirmed you are around the area and that the sex worker is ready, you will be given instructions and directions to head to the den.

Apartments or hotels
It is a good idea to arrive early since it normally takes 5-10 minutes to navigate to the location. With bad instructions and a confusing apartment complex, it might take 15-30 minutes to navigate correctly. If you are unclear about anything, just ask away. Appearing lost or trying to enter the wrong apartment will attract a lot of unwanted attention. If you are entering a transit or sex hotel in an illicit area, the reception might require a registration process. Do clarify with the OKT if you need to. If you are entering a proper hotel, do clarify with the OKT on the ways to evade the registration / counter staff. Once you are at the door of the apartment, ring or knock as instructed. If the address is correct, a door will open but you will see no one. The sex worker normally hides behind the door. Do not make any loud noises or say any greetings till the door is closed.

Action
A session with a freelancer is similar to one with Geylang and most other sex acts, but since there is usually more time involved it is not as rigid.

It is a good idea to pay after the session, so the worker would have to 'earn' her share. If the worker insists of payment upfront beforehand, it usually signals that the girl is just here for a quick fuck to grab your cash. Since the money is in their hands, they can perform poorly without repercussion (other than missing on repeat customers). Not always the case as some of the high-end escorts require a deposit or full payment upfront.


Reviews
Like with Geylang, there are numerous FRs out there. But a lot more fakes since this is one way to lure potential customers to pick the workers in their stable compared to the competition. A good tip is to check on the number of reviews, account age, and the post history for those users.

Health and massage centers
These are convenient and discreet shops that might look like a normal massage place but is in fact a sleazy place where the golden question pops all the time. I have less experience in this field, but I hope my experience with this helps some newbies.

Raids and checks
From my impression, it appears more raids are done on health and massage centers compared to freelance stables operating from hotels or apartments. So bonk with care.

Identifying and finding a sleazy massage center
The first step is to locate and identify a sleazy health and massage center. These places typically have strong tinted or cloudy doors that makes it difficult to see through. Instead of a reputable brand like Healing Touch, or Kenko Reflexology, they typically have a generic name like “Lian Xin Wellness” with a stock photo of a massage. Once inside, the interiors are also typically darker than a normal massage place. The simple massage rates are also usually on the high side, and typically does not match the slightly dilapidated look of the establishment. Do note that instead of walking in freely, some of these places found on WeChat and requires an appointment booking first.

Get massage
Once you agreed on the price and massage, you will be told to go to a room. They will send a masseuse over in a short bit and they will give you a massage. If you have correctly entered a sleazy health and massage center, you will be likely asked the ‘golden question’ for more sexual services. Discuss the rates and services you would like. I typically find the rates on the higher side compared to a Geylang or Freelancer session.

Comparison and Summary
From my experience, these are the noteworthy points I have found from comparing the different avenues of getting paid sex.

Geylang

• Consistent and experienced service | They have a lot of customers and as a result know various methods and ways to please.
• Low entry cost | Initial cost of 40 or 50 dollars can be a good way to gauge if a certain sex worker is to your liking.
• View before trying | No photoshop here. You see the product with your own two eyes before deciding.

Freelancers

• Lottery | Can be a hit or miss depending on the girls and stables.
• Discreet | The locations are usually quite discreet and should not raise any alarms even if you are spotted by someone you know.
• Time | Sessions are typically arranged in 60 or 90 minutes, which gives you more time to form proper connections with the sex worker.

Health and massage centers

• At least a massage | If for some reason you do not like the massage lady, you can simply leave the place with at least a decent massage.
• Testing the waters | Likewise with Geylang, the initial cost for the massage can be quite low and a good way to see if the massage lady is to your liking.
• Convenience | All over Singapore. You might even consider walking in during your lunch break and getting a happy ending.

My step-by-step process in getting a good bonk
In the grey and shady world of the sex trade, there is no customer satisfaction guarantee, refunds, warranty, or any form of consumer protection. You are on your own if you end up with a bad service. Planning, and having a good pick will reduce your chances of ending up with a dud. This is how I do it. Link to the post -- (https://sammyboyforum.org.nz/showpost....6&postcount=14)

Tips for better sex with sex workers

• Bring food | Sometimes these sex workers can get too busy to eat properly or have low quality food available (instant ramen). Small delicious snacks like chocolate is not only a great energy booster to get through the day, but it is considered sweet and delicious to most.
• Treat them like humans | They are not objects or abuse or a plaything for your sexual desires. If they do not like anal penetration, do not force it on them.
• Looks is not everything | Sometimes I might get a really attractive girl, but the session usually ends as a dud because she does not communicate that well and does not have the sexual skills to please either … often like a dead fish.
• Protection | Stay safe, use protection. Many diseases can be transmitted via unprotected oral sex. Understand the risks before proceeding on your own volition.

Glossary and useful Terminology
Link to the post - https://sammyboyforum.org.nz/showpost....1&postcount=15

Ending Notes
I hope this has been helpful to you. If you find any errors, do not hesitate to contact me. If you need some advice, you can head to the sexual health sub-forums or message me. Reputation points not needed, but always helpful.

All the best to your sexual adventures. Bonk fun, chiong safe.

- SingleAA

[Kovovo]

Kindly add to glossary: DATY , TARMA
Thks

[SingleAA]

Originally Posted by Kovovo

Kindly add to glossary: DATY , TARMA
Thks

Done. But come to think of it I do not exactly know where the term Tarma originates from ... hmm

[cuscorex92]

Originally Posted by SingleAA

Done. But come to think of it I do not exactly know where the term Tarma originates from ... hmm

can it b a canton slang: 打孖（上）,meaning "to go in pair"

[garion]

Do you think you'll be able to provide the meaning of 'Dragon Service'. Thanks.

[Steventan]

Thanks, for the write up. Very detailed.
Some power to you.

[SingleAA]

Originally Posted by garion

Do you think you'll be able to provide the meaning of 'Dragon Service'. Thanks.

I am not 100% sure, but I have added my definition of it.

Originally Posted by Steventan

Thanks, for the write up. Very detailed.
Some power to you.

Many thanks. Still about halfway done though, thus version 0.2.x.

[oxeso]

Originally Posted by SingleAA

Still about halfway done though, thus version 0.2.x.

Ups u for sharing.

[skyleg]

Good share TS, thanks!!

[Leilou5034]

does it mean that i cant use disposable phone number to contact OKT? I wanna keep myself anonymous. if OKT verify your authenticity in the forum, but i have low post, point and recent post history. Will still able to book anot

payment are to be paid first before services is pay to OKT or FL?

[numb3ers]

Fuxk. I read wrongly. And tot it's a guide to Chongqing. Lol.

[LittleGiant]

Originally Posted by numb3ers

Fuxk. I read wrongly. And tot it's a guide to Chongqing. Lol.

Same here China i tot

[myluckyguy]

interesting videos but need to understand mandarin

[SingleAA]

My step-by-step process in getting a good bonk
In the grey and shady world of the sex trade, there is no customer satisfaction guaratee, refunds, warrantys, or any form of consumer protection. You are on your own if you end up with a bad service. Planning, and having a good pick will reduce your chances of ending up with a dud. This is how I do it.

Pre-planning
Ask yourself at least 3 things that turns you on and write those down. Big breasts? Small breasts? Round breasts? Floppy breasts? Be specific. The more specific, the better. If would be great if you can write more than 3, but anything less than 10 would be awesome.
Order those written desires in terms of importance. When searching for a bonk, simply keep in mind about these desires you have written beforehand to simplify your decision making.

Research
Like with every important purchase or decision, it is wise to do some research. Now that you have decided what points to look out for, you can focus on what matters most and spend less time on things that does not affect you.
I would start searching in Geylang if I wanted a quick and straightforward session, freelancers if I am a little adventurous, and massage and health centers if I feel sore and I am looking for a good massage.
Regardless of the source of paid-sex, I will always try to gauge the authenticity and quality of the brothel, stable, worker behind the listing; and the reliability of the reviews (if any).

[SingleAA]

Glossary and useful Terminology

• 69 - A sexual position 69 | 69 is a sexual position where oral sex is done on both parties simultaneously. The 6 and 9 represents the head at the tails. The classic 69 is done sideways, but it can also be done vertically (top-bottom).
• AJ - Ass/Anal Job/Jam | Intercourse by penetrating the ass
• AR - Ass Rim | Licking around the ass as foreplay
• Abalone - Pussy/Vagina | Abalone is a colloquial way to describe a pussy/vagina
• BBBJ - Bare Back Blow Job | A blowjob without a condom
• CIM - Cum In Mouth | Finishing and ejeculating in the mouth
• COF - Cum On Face | Finishing and ejeculating on the face
• COB - Cum On Boobs/Body | Finishing and ejeculating on the breasts or body
• Commando - A Commando service | Typically means the sex worker is more engaged in providing a great service. Typically she will be in control of the pace of the sexual acts and does them to please you automatically. Might be akin to sending a commando unit to deal with the crisis with no issues.
• Catbath - Catbath | Licking and teasing your body
• Cap - A little cap for your penis | Another euphemism for condom
• Dead Fish - Like a Dead Fish | A sex worker who is not willing to put in any effort and simply lies like a dead fish
• DATY - Dining at the Y | Cunnilingus (oral sex) performed on a woman. The 'Y' looks like the area of her thighs, crotch, and vagina.
• FR - Field/Fuck Report | A review or report of a sexual encounter
• HJ - Hand Job | Your partner masturbates for you, typically with a variety of hand techniques
• MMF - Male Male Female | Sex with two males and one female
• OKT - Orh Kui Tao | A pimp, literally “tortoise head”
• Outcall - Outcall sex | Instead of having a session done in an apartment, brothel, or worker’s hotel, it is done at your place or hotel instead.
• SBF - SammyBoyForum | A popular sex related forums for Singapore
• SYT - Sweet Young Thing | Someone who looks young and sweet
• Swallow - Swallowing cum | Finish a blowjob in the mouth and swallowing the cum
• Stable - Horse Stable | Another term to describe a brothel. Typically for freelancers
• Safety gear - Safety gear for sex | Refers to condoms for protection (thus safety)
• Tarma - Tarma (Daa Maa) | Booking two (female) sex workers at the same time. Likely to come from Cantonese: 打孖 which means to go as a pair. (information by user cuscorex92)
• Ting Tong - Ting Tong / Ding Dong | ‘Silly’ in Thai, typically refers to someone fun, silly, and spontaneous.
• Yi Tiao Long (一条龙) - One (Line) Dragon | Shortened from Yi Tiao Long Fu Wu (一条龙服务), which stands for one-stop service. It means that a certain brothel or escort is able to do a wide variety of services.