And why assume all ML patrons fall into one specific mould? How about those who are single and just treat this as any other hobby? There are those who enjoy this within their means, and what's wrong with that? christian morals time?
the useful tools is probably gonna be the bible or something
that said, one thing i agree with is that STDs is one thing all bros should be concerned and careful about
Greetings fellow brothers,
It is not easy for me to finally decide to share and post this. Very briefly, my sharing shall cover the following, and I ask that you please bear with me.
First I would like to appeal to sammyboy to allow me to post this, as a warning to our fellow bros especially those who are new and unaware of the dangers and pitfalls :
1) Who am I – I am 40+ typical Singaporean Chinese Male, stay in a condo with car, married with good wife and kid and with good job. I started ML lifestyle 1 year + ago, ended up crossing the line, almost lost my job, lost much money, contacted STD, got arrested during a police raid, could have ended up in jail and eventually found out by my family and almost lost them. Actually I almost lost everything that I have and owned….Don’t end up like me or worse. By the grace and mercy of God and much needed forgiveness of my loved ones, I am trying to rebuild my life and regain my self respect as a man.
2) How I started ML and prostitution
3) Why am I doing this and what do I hope to achieve in posting this –
a) I think there are many walking down the same road as I am, some have not start, some halfway some way ahead of me….would like to share my plight, don’t end up destroying yourself
b) What porn and this lifestyle had change me over the last 1 year + and what could have happen to me
c) There some good within each of us, we can pick ourselves up again to become respectable/useful men to our family, friends and society. Our family and society need us – more on this later
d) Some ML are not all bad, it’s a quick buck option and I also have terrible encounters but almost none like to do what they are doing and most have low self esteem, from my talks with my regular MLs. Appeal to treat them with diginity
4) Am I trying to be a saviour or some sort – Definitely not. I have betrayed my wife and children, failed in my role as a husband and father, I am not fit in any sense to be anyone’s saviour. I have received forgiveness and grace to pick up my life again from where I left off and I just want to warn guys that are or may be walking down the same path as I am to turn around and save themselves from further destruction.
5) Am I off this ML lifestyle and have I overcame the temptation?
I have stop visiting MLs for the last 8 months, Have I overcome the temptation and lure of the ML? No, the temptation and lure is there, I have to deliberately keep myself away. There are some useful tools that my counsellors and psychtrist had shared with me that I belief would be useful to you as well. I will share this further later. So, I am not someone who has overcome this and now stand proudly saying that if I can do it, you can do it. BUT I am someone who is also struggling with this temptation every now and then, the same temptation and struggle that you are facing. Lets fight this and restore our self respect.
6) Why should you read this ?
To be continue...
how can u even get std from ML if its just massage and hj ??
Well, reason why some say money is the root of all evil, when one has attained a certain level of spending power they lost the ability of self control in which his case, inside the game of lust and unfortunately he got burnt badly.(taking it with a pinch of salt)
For most of the men, they need to kenna once to experience it before waking up to enlightenment towards KC trap, that includes myself. Those holy saviour past legendary preaching ain’t going to help a single bit.
Now I view MLs differently than what it used to be, last time it was “Hero saving the damsel” , “giving it my all(fortunes/attention/time) for the one and only hot lusty Girlfriend I booked an hour for $110”
Then it becomes “I view them as an double edged sword”, one side to kill my lust and the other side not to get stabbed by them. Done my deed and stay far far away until the next meeting.
My lovely Gf is the only one that will remember my birthday, buy me gifts, spent her holidays in my room and do all the silly housekeeping stuff for me. That steers clear of what my priorities are.
this story is more believable me myself still cannot get past " saving the damsel " phase but I know my limits. Probably I will stop soon , can't take the feeling when ML left then totally cut off communication with you
He's probably fishing for attention ba this guy.
So many holes in the story, and this thread is probably not the best place to post this kinda advice, if you want to be taken seriously.
The best advice which helped me not get KCed, is just get a separate phone which you only use to contact MLs when you want a session.
Limit your conversations to just arranging sessions.
Use an extra phone and double encrypt everything (phone is encrypted, sms and calling apps also encrypted). Do everything you should do to prevent getting caught by GF/Wife!
Today, 12:50 AM
me myself still cannot get past " saving the damsel " phase but I know my limits. Probably I will stop soon , can't take the feeling when ML left then totally cut off communication with you
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