Falling in love someone outside of marriage.

[RealTalk]

Recently met a lady and she was so charming and it felt so overwhelming like my first love and my ex gf.

I never had such feeling with my wife as I met her shortly after breaking off my ex-gf. Why we got married in the first place as her mother was rushing her to get married and back then thinking we went through so much she might be the one, but the feeling honestly was never there.

So confused right now, a part of me telling me to be rational to move on such feelings, the other irrational part of me telling me to gamble.

Have anyone been through such process before?

[Rubbaking]

I hope it will not but since you already have such feeling at such early stage of your marriage, high chance this will keep haunting on you. Try not to have kids dude.

[oxeso]

Childless, go ahead.. arbo wait till they mature.

[TenSanYi]

I am childless and everyday thinking of divorce too. just dont know how to act on it