How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[newbieboy]

i have insufficient experience with BY-ing, but i like how esteemed bros here talk about pussies like shares... lots of parallels. essentially you're injecting equity into her life, you have an amount of voting rights in her, and if you're looking to transform the company you can even rally, suppress, or buy out the other decisionmakers in her life like Icahn does.

of course while a company is supposed to act in the shareholder's best interests, this is often not the case. even less so for BY pussies. equities are unlike other asset classes in that sense, where ownership (especially partial) does not equate to a proportional share of decision-making, specifically referring to her daily operations. thus charisma plays a bigger role than money. in essence, i always believe the lack of time will hinder an effective ROI in BY-ing. therefore, if i have more time and money in the future, i'd take up an active management and monitoring role in the BY, which i suspect many bros here do not, seeing how busy they are with their businesses or high-flying jobs. as i am starting out in my career, i have even less time than most bros here, so BY is out of the question. it is good to learn now though, i'm certain the experiences you have shared here will benefit me now and later on in life

[Loving_Dickhead]

Hmmm, guess pussies are like commodities. Can be bought, can be found OTC, can be used/eaten, can be sold in public, can be traded, price fluctuates with supply & demand and there is an expiry date!

Hahahaha, just learn this last night from a buddy friend. I am no expert in commodities but sounds like very similar.

Cheers,
LDH


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Originally Posted by newbieboy

i have insufficient experience with BY-ing, but i like how esteemed bros here talk about pussies like shares... lots of parallels. essentially you're injecting equity into her life, you have an amount of voting rights in her, and if you're looking to transform the company you can even rally, suppress, or buy out the other decisionmakers in her life like Icahn does.

of course while a company is supposed to act in the shareholder's best interests, this is often not the case. even less so for BY pussies. equities are unlike other asset classes in that sense, where ownership (especially partial) does not equate to a proportional share of decision-making, specifically referring to her daily operations. thus charisma plays a bigger role than money. in essence, i always believe the lack of time will hinder an effective ROI in BY-ing. therefore, if i have more time and money in the future, i'd take up an active management and monitoring role in the BY, which i suspect many bros here do not, seeing how busy they are with their businesses or high-flying jobs. as i am starting out in my career, i have even less time than most bros here, so BY is out of the question. it is good to learn now though, i'm certain the experiences you have shared here will benefit me now and later on in life

[besafe]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

Now I noticed that most of the power Bao-er seem to be self-employed rather than employed....so is being self-employed a more probable way to riches rather than being employed??

For those who are self employed.. there is a chinese saying: 福不过三代。

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by besafe

For those who are self employed.. there is a chinese saying: 福不过三代。

Simple bro...create a trust instead of transferring ownership to the next generation....

[MillerV]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

Now I noticed that most of the power Bao-er seem to be self-employed rather than employed....so is being self-employed a more probable way to riches rather than being employed??

Bro MoralEpitome,
There is saying in Chinese, 行行出壮元, doesnt mean one have to be self-employed for a better chance also. Being employed at a good career can also lead to riches. The MMS at LV probably make a helluva lota mollas themselves. The Ang Pai-s potentially in the top 5% income groups also. All tax free. :P

Often, IMHO, its much like investment, 'Time in the Market' vs 'Timing the Market'. Even for the self-employed, its alot about time in the market to accumulate the experiences and network. of coz, any endeavors requires lotsa dedication and passion.

Having said so, there are certain advantages being self employed. There's the tax advantage. As self employed pay income tax after expenses while an employee pays income taxes before expenses.

More importantly its the power to manage your own time. This can allow one to meet people and learn things that interest oneself. Spiderman said "With great power comes great responsibilities", so with power over one's own time, one does require quite a bit of self discipline to manage one's work and one's time efficiently. The many sifu here are naturally master of self-mastery and time management would have to be a must too.

my 2c
MillerV

[Hooters666]

Bro Dragonkeep,

Besides eateries at GL and Tiong Bahru, you can explore Hoi Kitchen at Traders Vic, Zion Rd Hawker centre, Gallery Hotel Jap Food, Tanjong Beach Sake Teppan outlet, Re Hotel at Pearl's Hill and Paradise Seafood at Flyer. Besides Zion, the rest are pretty quiet during mon to thurs dinner time. These are relatively less risk in terms of meeting pple you should not be meeting with your baoee but not no risk. I am only concern about meeting relatives, friend's wifes and female colleagues. These are the most kaypoh of the lot.

Cheers

[Dragonkeep]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro Dragonkeep,

Ths for sharing ur ST n BY experiences.

Hi bros ME, besafe, smartke n newbieboy,

Ths all of u for ur expertise in investing n trading.

IMHO, it's an exercise in futility to try to forecast the market. Buffett has never met a man who could do it consistently.

In long-term investing in equities, the only way to make money consistently is to buy undervalued stocks of high quality companies, n hold on until they become very overvalued. It may take 10 yrs. But one must know the co n its value very well.

Market crash? It's great news! I'm waiting to buy on deep discounts n I'll back up the truck (or shall I say lorry?).

Great to see this thread double-up as a quasi-investment guru resource too. Kudos to ya Mr WB for nurturing it.

IMHO the old adage, "buy low, sell high" generally makes sense. However, just like the Art of Bao, easier said than done.

The other wise saying to invest "when there's blood in the streets" is also a great piece of advice. I recall when SARS hit in '03, Changi Airport became a ghost-town and Iraqi War II started at one go, SQ stocks dipped to 9.00+/-. Imagine having the spare cash then ... heard that the Kennedy family made it all thanks to stock bought during the 1929 Great Depression!

So, keep some piggy bank money around when you hear the markets getting spooked, Al-Queda getting adventurous, Europe wobbling, the Kims playing dangerous games at the Korean borders, etc. - short of total national (not likely to happen to SG for the time being) or catastophic global financial collapse (govts seem to be on guard against a reprise of 2008), events like that signal a good time to buy, contrary to the general mayhem and panic around us when these things happen. The trick is to assess the resistance level to the "bad" event in question. Again, IMHO, seldom does a speculator get the exact level right ... just before my last honeymoon with my FZ baoee in SHG, I closed an exploratory buy of 5 SQ lots at 15.60 not long after the North Korean shells landed on the wrong side of the ceasefire line, the next day the friggin stock continued to sink, to the 40s. But sure enough, with some good US data emerging and the Irish debt contained and with the markets still fluid, the price was back in the 90s and touching the low 16s, I dumped the SQs.

BTW to all the experts out there, do share any good locales for discreet (i.e. fairly safe from "cover-being-blown" places) but fun outings for PRC baoees ... I sent my "local" baoee home to Sichuan to facilitate my year end sojourn with OC and my descendants and she'll will come back to SG after X'mas (so I told her) - need to have some fun nightlife with her outside of the bedroom ... still have a couple of FBs in attendance in this period in case of a need for carnal variety pending her return, but I kinda like taking that tall, leggy Sichuan babe with a sweet smile out 'cause of her aesthetics, especially when she dolls up.

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by Dragonkeep

BTW to all the experts out there, do share any good locales for discreet (i.e. fairly safe from "cover-being-blown" places) but fun outings for PRC baoees ... I sent my "local" baoee home to Sichuan to facilitate my year end sojourn with OC and my descendants and she'll will come back to SG after X'mas (so I told her) - need to have some fun nightlife with her outside of the bedroom ... still have a couple of FBs in attendance in this period in case of a need for carnal variety pending her return, but I kinda like taking that tall, leggy Sichuan babe with a sweet smile out 'cause of her aesthetics, especially when she dolls up.

Brought a girl to Kallang Leisure Park before...got bowling alley, a cinema, arcade,coffee places as well as Thai SharkFin as well as K Box there...even the jewelery shop is cheap there in case your bao-ee suddenly wanna buy some diamonds.....usually don't see anyone I know....hehehe....

[besafe]

Go JB... I guess no one will see you.
Unless you are like Phua Chu Kang - famous in Singapore , JB and even Batam.

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by besafe

Go JB... I guess no one will see you.
Unless you are like Phua Chu Kang - famous in Singapore , JB and even Batam.

hahaha....that's a good one...but I tell you if you sway you sway....even if your oc's frens see you they can sms her to let her know where you are...and when she sms you and you lie...that's it....

[besafe]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

hahaha....that's a good one...but I tell you if you sway you sway....even if your oc's frens see you they can sms her to let her know where you are...and when she sms you and you lie...that's it....

Actually , I was caught with a SYT in Holland village by a business acquaintance. I told him that she is my relative from HK !!! Did he believe? Of course not !

Another time , I was caught at West Coast Mcdonalds with another PRC Uni girl. I was really helping her with her project work. A friend was there for some exercise. I used the same excuse too.

[Dragonkeep]

Originally Posted by Hooters666

Bro Dragonkeep,

Besides eateries at GL and Tiong Bahru, you can explore Hoi Kitchen at Traders Vic, Zion Rd Hawker centre, Gallery Hotel Jap Food, Tanjong Beach Sake Teppan outlet, Re Hotel at Pearl's Hill and Paradise Seafood at Flyer. Besides Zion, the rest are pretty quiet during mon to thurs dinner time. These are relatively less risk in terms of meeting pple you should not be meeting with your baoee but not no risk. I am only concern about meeting relatives, friend's wifes and female colleagues. These are the most kaypoh of the lot.

Cheers

Thanks bro for the tips (been to some and agree they offer some degree of camouflage) ... same concerns as you dah. Hence the need for some info-sharing ... friggin island sometimes too small. Only thing going is that the peer n family group is aging and more westernised - so the heavy Chinese type locales are still "safer" - but you never know. A cheong buddy of mine is all-eyes alert when in GL for the simple reason his family really digs the place for makan joints ... wa lou, really high tension when out walking from carpark to henhouse ...

Just a couple months back, I was out for lunch (purely platonic) at a highly popular upmarket Jap restaurant with this knockout babe who happens to be an aesthetic doc and right at the next but one table was someone who happens to be her godma and someone I know ... confirmed x 10 over for me that I would still shy away from such places with my baoees except for the late unusual hours on unlikely days ... you only need one kaypoh to make life quite unwantedly roller coasterish ... some years back, I brought OC out and she was dressed somewhat sluttishly at Pan Pac Hotel. Friggin old acquaintance of mine was even slyly eyeballin OC n me whilst I made introductions, obviously harbouring suspicions ...

[Dragonkeep]

Originally Posted by besafe

Actually , I was caught with a SYT in Holland village by a business acquaintance. I told him that she is my relative from HK !!! Did he believe? Of course not !

Another time , I was caught at West Coast Mcdonalds with another PRC Uni girl. I was really helping her with her project work. A friend was there for some exercise. I used the same excuse too.

Hah hah. PCK indeed. Anyhow, I better rehearse some lines just in case! Need to think up one for a chance encounter with an actual extended family relative though!!

[Dragonkeep]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

Brought a girl to Kallang Leisure Park before...got bowling alley, a cinema, arcade,coffee places as well as Thai SharkFin as well as K Box there...even the jewelery shop is cheap there in case your bao-ee suddenly wanna buy some diamonds.....usually don't see anyone I know....hehehe....

Thanks bro ME. Will add to the notebook.

Have taken my baoee to Iluma for movies on a Sat night - mostly youngster, Chinese speaking crowd so uncle-era westernised folks like me practically zilch. Also been late on week nights (Mon - Th) to Marina Square movie-bowling complex ... kinda feels safe. Fri-Sat quite dicey as many working youngsters from round town and families around. Did a river cruise on Sat night once - mostly tour groups. Also seemed quite safe.

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by Dragonkeep

Thanks bro ME. Will add to the notebook.

Have taken my baoee to Iluma for movies on a Sat night - mostly youngster, Chinese speaking crowd so uncle-era westernised folks like me practically zilch. Also been late on week nights (Mon - Th) to Marina Square movie-bowling complex ... kinda feels safe. Fri-Sat quite dicey as many working youngsters from round town and families around. Did a river cruise on Sat night once - mostly tour groups. Also seemed quite safe.

Yup if you are old, go to young places, if you are young go to old places...if you are like me 32 and in between then bopian...hahaha.....any kudos to bro besafe for his excuses...unfortunately my oc is too smart for that....so best for me is don't cheat...I remember how she set me up once...and her fren saw me at a dodgy place and she kaykay ask me where I am....oh well....I really think it is luck....long long ago I saw my uncle with a different woman at the bowling alley at katong shopping centre...can you imagine this type of lok place also can be spotted?...although I was young then I know how to shut my mouth and he is divorce and with this woman now...