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Thank you bro Warbird for your continuous and insightful sharing regarding self-mastery.
I'm trying to absorb and internalised as much as I could. Many times, I believed I had made a break through... but when the time comes to action and application, often I still fumble. For example, I took up the courage to approach a gorgeous gal and we exchanged contacts. (Actually I managed to approach a number of gals and got their numbers, which I was afraid to do in the pass. Thumbs up to myself). Anyway, things were going pretty well and we had lots of fun texting and teasing each other. I've read and learned not to hide my sexual interest from the beginning and she does not seems to run away... good start . Recently, we arranged to meet up and she suggested in a joking manner that we go to some "ulu" location. In my heart I was like yahooo.... ON liao. But... that's also when my weakness/fear kicks in... Ok, the problem (real or imaginary I don't know yet), but here it is... She's still in university, and I'm in my 30s and reaching 40 soon (although i'm still relatively fit and people say I still look 20s). She does not know my age yet, only know I've been working a number of years. I'm not surprised if some were to ask why so late then come out and play and why still so noob at this age... well, long story short but suffice to say I'm finally honest with myself of what I want, and no longer ashame to go for it. So back to topic, I knew in my head that self-mastery involved accepting myself for who I am, and I should not lie about my age. But I'm still just so insecure abt it and worry that she cannot accept it. I also know in my head that I can always walk away if she can't accept and look for another chick. But THERE MUST BE A BETTER SOLUTION. I mean I just can't keep walking away from these chicks until I find one who doesn't mind, and miss out on so many opportunities. I'm sure some of the bros here have encounter similar situation, and how do you guys managed it? Is it advisable to just lie abt your age, get the sex first, and talk later.... or what? And on avg, how many percentage of girls accept or reject your age (for bros in 30s and also 40s)? Any expenerices or thoughts? I hope to get some advise from the senior bros here instead of starting a new thread because I trust the bros here a lot more for the quality of the replies. Hope I don't get any violent objections . |
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To bro MoralEpitome,
Nobody is implying that uni gals are young and foolish or they're not horny. With due respect, but I don't get your point... cause they may be horny, but are they still horny once they know your age is 40+ (just an example cause I dont know your age). I guess the answer is yes and no. It is obvious that many of you senior bros here are still banging young chicks, so the question really is how (beside showing lots of cash)? Bro sexonair, thanks for making some really good points. I do understand that girls generally prefer mature guys... but we're taking abt 21-22 yrs girls and the guy is not 5, but more than 15 yrs her senior. Anyway the background to this discussion is to just have fun together and don't want commitments. I'm not rich but making above average income. You know, as I typed this... my mind start to clear and it seems like I found the answer to my own question. I have half a mind to just delete everything, but decided to post it anyway. It's useful to review my own progression, and perhaps others may find it useful too. So the answer actually digs deep into who I REALLY AM... goes back to the question of self-mastery. It's not about Age, but about how one behave and carry himself that projects confidence and value that makes one attractive. And if I still get myself worry over the opinion of a girl (or a few girls), it only means I have much to improve upon myself. Cause if I'm not there yet.. it simply means I'm not there... and I'll still not get the girls I want even if I'm 10yrs younger. In other words, its not the age but who you really are that matters. Make sense? |
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Let me add on with an example... We men generally wouldn't even look at women in their 40s, but there're some women in their 40s who still look very gorgeous and carry themselves very well... and young men have no qualms about bonking them. What makes them so attractive? The same theory applies to us men.
Being Alpha, we shouldn't place too much importance on any particular woman. Being Alpha also means we should not compromise our own integrity for the sake of some young pussy. Yes, we may sometimes lose a few chicks who have a certain age preference, but lying about our age is like considering ourselves not good enough for her. And I refuse to believe that. |
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You're welcome! You r young compared w/ me. I'm a lot older than all my gals' parents. Of course my mistresses r all "bot meat." Even for non-WLs n I assume ur uni gal is a non-WL, ur perceived ranking on the Dominant Male Scale is the sole determinant of ur attractiveness to them. Period. "Perceived" is the key word here n ur ranking is manifested by ur attitude, voice tone, eye ctc, facial expressions n body language, etc. And what is the secret ingredient of ur perceived dominant status n body language which is so attractive? The caliber n depth of your Dominant Self Mastery and Emotional Control. Everything else is secondary. Tell her ur DOB. Whatever her conscious response, including outright rejection which is very unlikely, remain unfazed, unmoved n unflappable, hehehe. It's a great oppty to show her ur manliness n ur awesome self mastery/emotional control. It will set u apart from the pretenders who r nothing but boys w/ aging bodies. Her subconscious response (which she herself may not even be aware of ) will shock u. You will get her pussy. She can't help herself... Cheers! Bro WB Quote:
A young n virile man like u? It must be psychological. If u can last an hr, it would be a great blessing. I wish I could. Or perhaps u r fxking the wrong women. Forbidden fruits? I hope they r not married women or ur relatives. Everyone else is fair game to me, hehehe. Bro WB Quote:
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Excellent posts. You hv answered ur own questions. I like to reiterate that nothing else matters if a man has formidable Dominant Self Mastery n Emotional Control. Cheers! Bro WB |
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CNY resolution huh... nice to see all still active at DC
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As for happiness despite any possible betrayal, I think "self mastery" remains the valid technique to use. For instance, if the friggin WL really decides for one reason or another to back out or really delivers a back stab, with the mental confidence that one can just get another and better one quick as she can say 我错了, we can just tell her to FO and move on. Better still, it would be the right time to start promoting any others in the reserve list up ($$ allowing, I have often found it good to have a reserve list of different styles/ characters and sex habits). After honging around with PRC MM for some time and going through a number of MM one learns pretty soon that better prospects are always around and coming from the mainland so there is NO REASON to shed a tear or sink into depression or recrimination if any of us run into a setback. If anything doesn't turn out right, just say say "fuck it, it don't mean nuthin - drive on". I am assuming of course that we're in this for the sexcapades and not for a life long partner. I think the same kind of devil may care attitude gives the baoee a lot to worry - and that is a power tool over her too. She needs the $$$, the pressure of work is less, keeping her worried that easy money is gonna dry up real fast is a major deterrent against betrayal unless some guy in Bill Gates' league offers to bao her!!! HAPPY NEW YEAR ESTEEMED BROTHERS! |
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Wat to do.........but when your sifu tells u, dun like also must do.....
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In my trigger happy 30s I usually had to discard load 1 real quick - so after using the finger/tongue routine to get her to have multiple cums, I would ram her quick and shoot. Load 2 would naturally take a while so had no problem lasting. My old boss then, watching porn with me in London one day, was commenting that the dude dicking away, musta shot his load sometime back and was being filmed on Load 2 ... always remembered that comment and could relate to it. Now that the clock has moved me into the next decade, I somehow developed some dickhead immunity so can go pretty long without shooting. For instance, when back for fuckathons in China with my mainland baoee, the first hour is pretty quick - once she cums, I'm shooting wild all over her ovaries. In the loast trip, we were in bed the whole am after landing at Pudong, shot twice - headed for a meeting in the pm, charged back to the room by late pm, dicked her without coming for an hr. We headed out for dinner a movie and was back tearing her clothes off for a 2 h session before shooting and sleeping. The rest of the days were more like as follows: start off with a good morning poke (might as well, since I almost always get up with an early am erection - but, no cum for me), off to breakfast n work (she is the type that gets shagged into stupor by orgasm - so I order in for her). Back by the pm and a repeat of the 1st day pm/night routine more or less. 1 shot a day usually, after day 1. The China baoee is a real long term investment - checked out clean and so we do it w/o CD and in every style possible. Contrasted with the cautious moves here with potential baoees, ST flicks, FBs with no commitment etc back here, I kinda notice the sex quality is different and my interest in bonking is less intense than with the mainland baoee. it may be the following issues that also affect our "lasting" - (a) CD effects - dun like the way the bloody sensation, especially when entering, is dulled by the CD barrier. With my mainland baoee, one of the best sensations we have is in keeping the dickhead right at her entrance when she's wet and rimming it, entering a few cm only in and out and gently rubbing against her lips until we both buay da han and then ramming it home: the way her eyes flick wide open and her gasping - wow, million dollar moment. If the gal in SG is not the wet type, damn, it's always a challenge and a sex thrill killer for me to have to try to re-enter and probe. Get sian quite fast. (b) Firing position: I started noticing that whilst I could last, there were times I was having trouble shooting. Finally discovered with the mainland baoee, that there was a certain position, missionary style, where I had to have her head off a pillow and flat on the bed, grabbing her chest and she hooking her arms under mine and hugging real tight, her legs being straight and on the inside and mine just outside, but pressing her legs inwards and increasing the tightness round her lovehole. Whilst ramming continuously and frenching, I found that I could crack didi's resistance and shoot real fast. Tried that with a couple of FBs in SG and seems to be the right firing position. So that's what I avoid if I wanna go on and on without shooting. Handy to know a good firing posn 'cause when having a few STs early this year and finding myself unable to fire, it was kind of frustrating as the WL would be shagged out, throwing up reasons to end the fuxk session and I would be finding it unsextisfying to leave without shooting. (c) Sex thrills: was with a SYT stunner in SG once, had dinner and ego boost with the number of heads turning and went off to bonk. Dicked her with CD and all, she came kinda fast a couple of times but with my sensations dulled I did not cum. Stupid a/c was kinda low so I was dripping a little and she was obviously a little sensitive to the beads of sweat on her. Got kinda sian and stopped to adjust the a/c. Re-entry was challenging and from the way she was sending body lang signals, could tell she was being a bit reticent. Can't really blame her as we are new to each other. She wasn't too much into advanced sex: frenching (3/10 type). Cunnilingus? Couple of flicks and she jams her thighs claiming not to be used to it, too degrading for 老公 to go tunnelling below etc etc. Lil bro was soon on strike. Diplomatically maneouvred an end to the session. Got a little troubled thinking if the problem was with me. Decided to do an experiment: on way back, called one of my regular massage FBs, got there - told her I was tired, she gave a good sexy rub, BJ and before long, under all the sexy moves and thrills, lil dickie was like the cock of my 30s, capped and was ramming her till she was calling for mercy after cumming a few times. I adopted firing position and voila - done, one big load fired off. Now re-assessing whether to continue with the SYT. There was some discussion some threads back about whether sex with MILF/ SYT was better - the drawback with SYTs (at least those that I had) has been their frigidity and lower inclination to experiment. Trouble is I think a lot of sex is mental: so if the gal is acting real sexy, lasting is not gonna be an issue. If only finding sex kitten SYTs weren't so hard for me in SG ... |
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Have been quited interested by the reference to perceived male dominant scale etc here by Sifu Warbird and decided to google for more info. Came across two ebooks by a Mike Pilinski called "Without Embarrassment" and "She is yours for the taking".
Anybody has any comments on the usefulness of the books? Thanks. |
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Well said. I'm keenly aware that there r many, many SYTs of my type in PRC, whereas there r very few here in SG. The value of a SYT drops by at least 70% once she is back in China. So many STYs want to spend 3-4 nights w/ me in HK n China! The list includes my 1st BAO-ee XW, hehe. She is already 23 n is of little value to me at this time. My new year resolution: Move to PRC within 12 months n spend at least half my time there every yr. Cheers! Quote:
Ths for sharing ur experiences n insights. Dicked her for over an hr? You're very fit! It would be too tiring for me unless the gal is on top. Even a young healthy 19 yo gal like KK would be completely exhausted after being on top for abt 30 min. Cheers! Quote:
I'm a lifelong student, not a sifu. Yes, I read the old edition of "Without Embarrassment" which is good for men who r naturally timid n shy when interacting w/ pretty women. I hv the new edition n the new ebook "She is yours for the taking" but hv not read them yet. Mike Pilinski is certainly above average among the many, many Ang Moh gurus. I also hv his audio program "Kickass Confidence in 18 Days" but I hv been too busy to listen n practice. You could purchase them online. IMHO, all seduction n sex programs will work if u hv confidence n self mastery. Nothing will work if u dun. Hv a great day! Bro WB |
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Well said! However a word of caution. They are on home ground. Never let your guard down. Bonk Bonk !! |
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Dear bro Warbird, thank you for your input. They're always hitting the nail on the head. I wish I now have that level of self-mastery you talked about, so far, I only have a slight gleams of what it's like. Nevertheless its a good goal to work myself towards.
Bro MoralEpitome, I'm just looking for an open relationship without commitments. I prefer sex with some emotions but nothing too serious. I believe in not cheating the gal's feeling in the process of having fun, hence will be up-front with her before the sex. Bro Dragonkeep, do you know how many people wish to have that kind of "super power" like yours. Ability to f*ck for hours and giving the girls orgasm after orgasm... i can't believe you're actually complaining . Much to learn from all you masters |
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