How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[michkim2]

Bro Aczeta76, DYBJ & WB,

Thanks to all your advice on my situation.

I will cut my losses and get out to look out for other SYT.

Maybe I was mistaken by the Xin2 episode where she was working during transition.

Need some advice on amount to pay as I am spending about 6-7k on allowance and etc. Wanted her to move out for more time together but she want to stay with her jie mei!

Time for me to move on. Again thanks for your advices.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by chenzong

I can understand it very well too, it's the same for me. Unlike you, though, I have gone past the "want to catch up" phase and am perfectly happy at my present situation: home-cooked food with lots of love. I am a very blessed man indeed.

Hi bro chenzong,

I'm very happy that u hv found ur true love. Yes, you're blessed.

Don't forget u are much younger than I n I had been in ur present situation for a very long time too...

But things change n people change...nothing lasts forever in this Universe.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by michkim2

Bro Aczeta76, DYBJ & WB,

Thanks to all your advice on my situation.

I will cut my losses and get out to look out for other SYT.

Maybe I was mistaken by the Xin2 episode where she was working during transition.

Need some advice on amount to pay as I am spending about 6-7k on allowance and etc. Wanted her to move out for more time together but she want to stay with her jie mei!

Time for me to move on. Again thanks for your advices.

Hi bro michkim2,

What you're paying is within the range, although slightly closer to the high end, for "part-time BY" when ur gal continues to work.

IMHO, the fact that ur gal doesn't want to move out to be close to u raises a red flag. She is hiding something n/or she doesn't value the RS...

I also hv a "part-time BY" (she is currently in PRC but will return soon). for whom I'm paying 6K a month plus some gifts occasionally, only when we r together in SG. She is a popular gal at TAM complex who works only SH. She wants to move to a master bedrm very close to me, which is quite far from Havelock rd. I said NO as my "lao po" is nearby...

She says I dun make love to her often enuff...last time we met, she said: 你亲我下面 (her pussy), 你很久没有亲我下面了 。。。I didn't even though she has very pretty pink abalone, she was very displeased. I normally dun do what they want me to so that they will crave me more, hehehe.

Cheers!

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Good morning!

A MAN who has masculine traits, self mastery n sexual mojo is very attractive to the most beautiful gals/women. He is very hard to find...

He must behave like what CL writes:

因为爱情这事，你越是勤快，投入越多，它结果就越差。只 有像懒人养花一样，爱搭不理，偶尔关心一下，才会新鲜。关心越少，爱的越久。当一个男人不爱一 个女人的时候 ，往往能把这个女人弄得神魂颠倒，觉得他特MAN，特够味儿，特浪漫，特霸道特酷特能掌控大局 。女人喜欢甚 至崇拜这样的男人，因为她们觉得有一种小鸟依人的感觉...

I may not want CL to come to SG when she turns 18 in June cuz she could be trouble for me. She will be too sticky n needy...it's better if I go to meet her in PRC or HKG n spend short time w/ her.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by warbird

But things change n people change...nothing lasts forever in this Universe.

Indeed you are right. Who would have known that "religious" guy like me would one day find himself in this forum! Nothing lasts forever in this Universe, and people change.

[tamelover]

Originally Posted by chenzong

Indeed you are right. Who would have known that "religious" guy like me would one day find himself in this forum! Nothing lasts forever in this Universe, and people change.

what's wrong with this forum bro ?

[michkim2]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro michkim2,

What you're paying is within the range, although slightly closer to the high end, for "part-time BY" when ur gal continues to work.

IMHO, the fact that ur gal doesn't want to move out to be close to u raises a red flag. She is hiding something n/or she doesn't value the RS...

I also hv a "part-time BY" (she is currently in PRC but will return soon). for whom I'm paying 6K a month plus some gifts occasionally, only when we r together in SG. She is a popular gal at TAM complex who works only SH. She wants to move to a master bedrm very close to me, which is quite far from Havelock rd. I said NO as my "lao po" is nearby...

She says I dun make love to her often enuff...last time we met, she said: 你亲我下面 (her pussy), 你很久没有亲我下面了 。。。I didn't even though she has very pretty pink abalone, she was very displeased. I normally dun do what they want me to so that they will crave me more, hehehe.

Cheers!

Bro WB

Many thanks Bro WB for yr advice. I am a newbie to BY and have much to learn. I believe and probably know I am paying over market rate. I will dump my current gal from DC. Too skinny and A boobs, although she has a pretty face.

Other than physical body proportion and face, I agree with senior bros that their performance in bed is most important!

I am doing her raw after medical test but she doesn't want to try anal. Already kick up an issue without emotion! Although she offer having sex in car but done that and not interest. Just give her cold shoulder since yesterday and she is smsing me. Not going to response to her.

I believe she will come begging for me to take her back but no can do!
Interested to look for new stock. Any recommendation or ctc?

[goodpartner]

OMG... Lots of tips and lessons from this thread. Where have I been? LoL
Camp!

Recently about 2 month ago got to know this KTV girl in China Doll during one of the session. Tall, slender, B+ Cupper, very sweet looks. She was not sitting with me but took the chance to give me her# and say she likes me. Tested her by jokingly ask her to go hotel with a $1000 note but she rejected...

Fast forward till today, still have not bed her. WTF :|

However, she initiated SMS and call me; came out for movies, dinner, where I offer to pay for her time; she asked for same amount as bao-ing her in room. Reason being that she's here to "work" blah blah... (new here, kenna cheated, etc.) Invited me to visit her "work place" (pub) for drinks, where she works PT & got her work permit.

So far, as per TS's doctrine I like to think I'm in "control" being the one that "care less", leaving her always to contact me first. But I do always follow-up with some teasing like "You're only interested in $$$" (she replied YES candidly), and I'll say "let's get married and have kids" (in which she answered :are you sure?), and "must I pay her time to have dinner with her?" (where she answered: I'm funny), etc.

After sending her back, she'll always pause before alighting, bend forward and give me a light kiss on my face; still no lips contact. Not that she reject any, but I also play cool so far.

So that's the game I'm playing now. The tension that's slowly building up when being challenged to bed her is so exciting...

Would appreciate any tips from all the experts here

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by michkim2

Bro Aczeta76, DYBJ & WB,

Thanks to all your advice on my situation.

I will cut my losses and get out to look out for other SYT.

Maybe I was mistaken by the Xin2 episode where she was working during transition.

Need some advice on amount to pay as I am spending about 6-7k on allowance and etc. Wanted her to move out for more time together but she want to stay with her jie mei!

Time for me to move on. Again thanks for your advices.

For havelock pricing, a PRC running table from HH to SH non stop can make 10k a month easy.
But she'll be tired to death.
Like what the Guru WB said, your 6-7k quite generous liaozzz plus she still works and not your back and call.
As for the part where she doesn't want to leave her jie mei's, it's so that she has lots of space to maneuver and they can be her alibis and you have no grounds to control or challenge them.
In future, be STRONG and be FIRM.
6-7k a month terms and conditions are:
1) No Work
2) Stand by by a place rented by me for activation
I leave the rest to the other bros to teach you.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by michkim2

she doesn't want to try anal.

Oldest trick in the book & never fails.
You: 你是谁的？
Her: 我是你的
You: 我是你的谁？
Her: 宝贝or男朋友or老公
You: 那我要你给我一个你没给过任何人的证明给我你是真的！
Works all the time!

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Oldest trick in the book & never fails.
You: 你是谁的？
Her: 我是你的
You: 我是你的谁？
Her: 宝贝or男朋友or老公
You: 那我要你给我一个你没给过任何人的证明给我你是真的！
Works all the time!

Hahaha. This conversation sounds so damned familiar. Cheers bro.

[warbird]

Good afternoon to all samsters!

Originally Posted by chenzong

Indeed you are right. Who would have known that "religious" guy like me would one day find himself in this forum! Nothing lasts forever in this Universe, and people change.

Change is inevitable n we all hv to accept it.

Originally Posted by tamelover

what's wrong with this forum bro ? :confused

Nothing, haha.

Originally Posted by michkim2

Many thanks Bro WB for yr advice. I am a newbie to BY and have much to learn. I believe and probably know I am paying over market rate. I will dump my current gal from DC. Too skinny and A boobs, although she has a pretty face.

Other than physical body proportion and face, I agree with senior bros that their performance in bed is most important!

I am doing her raw after medical test but she doesn't want to try anal. Already kick up an issue without emotion! Although she offer having sex in car but done that and not interest. Just give her cold shoulder since yesterday and she is smsing me. Not going to response to her.

I believe she will come begging for me to take her back but no can do!
Interested to look for new stock. Any recommendation or ctc?

Hi bro michkim2,

Pls read the post by our true master, bro DUBJ aka Mr. chairman, below.

Recommendations? One man's meat is another man's poison.

It's strange that I know a few gals who r exceptionally pretty but hv A or A/B boobs, n they r all from Jiangsu!

Originally Posted by goodpartner

OMG... Lots of tips and lessons from this thread. Where have I been? LoL
Camp!..........

Recently about 2 month ago got to know this KTV girl in China Doll during one of the session. Tall, slender, B+ Cupper, very sweet looks. She was not sitting with me but took the chance to give me her# and say she likes me. Tested her by jokingly ask her to go hotel with a $1000 note but she rejected...

Fast forward till today, still have not bed her. WTF :|

However, she initiated SMS and call me; came out for movies, dinner, where I offer to pay for her time; she asked for same amount as bao-ing her in room. Reason being that she's here to "work" blah blah... (new here, kenna cheated, etc.) Invited me to visit her "work place" (pub) for drinks, where she works PT & got her work permit.

So far, as per TS's doctrine I like to think I'm in "control" being the one that "care less", leaving her always to contact me first. But I do always follow-up with some teasing like "You're only interested in $$$" (she replied YES candidly), and I'll say "let's get married and have kids" (in which she answered :are you sure?), and "must I pay her time to have dinner with her?" (where she answered: I'm funny), etc.

After sending her back, she'll always pause before alighting, bend forward and give me a light kiss on my face; still no lips contact. Not that she reject any, but I also play cool so far.

So that's the game I'm playing now. The tension that's slowly building up when being challenged to bed her is so exciting...

Would appreciate any tips from all the experts here

Hi bro goodpartner,

What is ur mission ? To ST or BY her or to KC her?

Always Be Closing!

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

For havelock pricing, a PRC running table from HH to SH non stop can make 10k a month easy.
But she'll be tired to death.
Like what the Guru WB said, your 6-7k quite generous liaozzz plus she still works and not your back and call.
As for the part where she doesn't want to leave her jie mei's, it's so that she has lots of space to maneuver and they can be her alibis and you have no grounds to control or challenge them.
In future, be STRONG and be FIRM.
6-7k a month terms and conditions are:
1) No Work
2) Stand by by a place rented by me for activation
I leave the rest to the other bros to teach you.

Hi Mr. Chairman,

You're right on.

However, few men hv ur expertise n sexual mojo n may need to pay a bit more.

In my experience, popular Havelock gals who dun work usually demand 10-12K or more a month, subject to negotiation.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Oldest trick in the book & never fails.
You: 你是谁的？
Her: 我是你的
You: 我是你的谁？
Her: 宝贝or男朋友or老公
You: 那我要你给我一个你没给过任何人的证明给我你是真的！
Works all the time!

Fantastic n practical advice that can be used immediately. Of course must be said w/ assertiveness n confidence n w/ the voice n body language to match.

We should never be tentative n ask a gal's permission to do anything! But dun use brute force either!

Ths so much!

Originally Posted by slider_72

Hahaha. This conversation sounds so damned familiar. Cheers bro.

Isn't it great advice?

Cheers!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Hahaha. This conversation sounds so damned familiar. Cheers bro.

GONG XI FA CAI to you & you family bro.
Familiar used a billion times & still works you know hahaha
Oh, FYI, I gave your number to a bro who was seeking some PROFESSIONAL svs in your sector.
He'll call you and quote my name.
HUAT AH!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

ask her to go hotel with a $1000 note but she rejected...

Very thin line to ponder on here.
Good is:
She's not someone who will salivate & drop the whole world and can't wait to go to bed cos of the dollar note

Bad is:
To show you thus have the intention to imprint an impression that she's someone who works for money but won't sell her body for money.

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Fast forward till today, still have not bed her. WTF :

Well, if you truly enjoy her company and companionship, then i feel its ok to like go out for makan wif a friend.
But, BUT, if you're doing all these all these time cos you 拥抱希望 to shag her, bro bro, you have lost the battle already!

Originally Posted by goodpartner

However, she initiated SMS and call me; came out for movies, dinner, where I offer to pay for her time; she asked for same amount as bao-ing her in room. Reason being that she's here to "work" blah blah... (new here, kenna cheated, etc.) Invited me to visit her "work place" (pub) for drinks, where she works PT & got her work permit.

So far, as per TS's doctrine I like to think I'm in "control" being the one that "care less", leaving her always to contact me first. But I do always follow-up with some teasing like "You're only interested in $$$" (she replied YES candidly), and I'll say "let's get married and have kids" (in which she answered :are you sure?), and "must I pay her time to have dinner with her?" (where she answered: I'm funny), etc.

After sending her back, she'll always pause before alighting, bend forward and give me a light kiss on my face; still no lips contact. Not that she reject any, but I also play cool so far.

1stly, ask yourself what is the purpose of all these fiascoes and what do you wanna get out of it all.
If it's all for the above that i mentioned, i find it perfectly harmless and quite sweet n nice actually
But if you look at her as MEAT, aka a WL, I would have done this.
Knowing she'll lean over to give me a peck, I'd be waiting, when she leans over, I'll grab the neck draw her in n french her.
You'd be surprise how effective this works.
There is no way on earth she'll fight you off.
Remember, she'll most likely give in.
I said french not grope or dig hor lol
Once she gives in, hey, you have just moved past status quo status and dun have to waste all these time & $$$$ on guessing games.
It will be EXTREMELY soon before you bed her.
You think she dunno this?
PRCs are more liberal than us in the sex game bro.
If you allow her to cont, then, she is already pulling your dick like a leash bro.

Originally Posted by goodpartner

So that's the game I'm playing now. The tension that's slowly building up when being challenged to bed her is so exciting...

Would appreciate any tips from all the experts here

Remember, there are times to be a gentleman for obvious reasons and occasions where gentlemen also become predators.
Use these 2 faced approach and you'll be scoring fast or saved a huge amount of time and money.

Enjoy bro

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by warbird

Good afternoon to all samsters!Hi Mr. Chairman,

You're right on.

However, few men hv ur expertise n sexual mojo n may need to pay a bit more.

In my experience, popular Havelock gals who dun work usually demand 10-12K or more a month, subject to negotiation.

Dear Guru WB, it's only subject to negotiation if there's a WANT.
But if there's a take it or leave it attitude, the negotiation factor is already eliminated from the beginning thus putting only YOU in control.
Remember dun cut the whole forest for a tree?

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by tamelover

what's wrong with this forum bro ?

Nothing wrong with this forum for the "me" now. But this forum is indeed frowned upon by the religious types.

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

But if you look at her as MEAT, aka a WL, I would have done this.
Knowing she'll lean over to give me a peck, I'd be waiting, when she leans over, I'll grab the neck draw her in n french her.
You'd be surprise how effective this works.
There is no way on earth she'll fight you off.
Remember, she'll most likely give in.
I said french not grope or dig hor lol
Once she gives in, hey, you have just moved past status quo status and dun have to waste all these time & $$$$ on guessing games.
It will be EXTREMELY soon before you bed her.

This is very true, from my personal experience as well. Simply go for it, and close "the sale"!