Should i carry on with him ?

[S.B.Y]

Maaf Sis (mbak) but aren't you here as well

Given the benefit if the doubt you chnaced upon SBF from your soon to be husband.

There will be many different views for many mas(bros) here

Go with your instincts and intelligence besause you know him better and "your" future depends on it .

Leave him or love him it's your call

Mas here can only advis

Pak P wish you all the best

[golden arrow]

You have a brian and a life of your own and you are asking a stupid question ....... Should i carry on with him ?
If you can't even understanding yourself than you are not fit to be loved.
Please do not feel offended, good advice will never sounds good.

[Suckmedry]

pls rmb this 江山易改，本性难移

[w00ters]

Judging from so many views from bros here asking u to leave ur husband to be are nuts to say that.i bet there are 50% or more married guys in here (those that ask u to dump ur guy) who go fark ard with FL and ARE they all ready to be DUMB by their wife or gf for a mere FL?
seriously i doubt so

In life there are many things not within our control.if u leave him now u might never find another guy like him in the next town ahead.and when u wana find him back in future BUT he might not be there for u already.although i am not condoning to his doings but the percentage of guys cheating outside behind wife or gf back is way beyond ur imagination.if not vice will not keep popping out even it was raided times and again.

Just hang on there and hopefully he will repent.all the best to you sis

[etct88]

Originally Posted by heartbreak

Thanks everyone for your good advice, i really appreciated that.. May god blessed all !

Wish you all the best! Really

You having come into this site could only make you lose 50% trust in the opposite sex..... your choice have been halved......

Move on, try someone whom you believe..............

[3Three]

Some bad news for you.

It is hotly debated by sociologists that it is unnatural for guys to have only one sexual partner due to some complicated words and stuff I cannot remember. Of course there are some that are able to stick to one after they get married. But that is only after they have already had all the fun or experience they wanted.

So are you willing to go on the chance that he has had his fill ?

[miniboy]

Originally Posted by heartbreak

I've been with him for 3yrs +,when we 1st started he's a two timers, he knew that girl before me.. i have forgiven him for the 1st time.
Half a yr later, i found out that he patronize prostitute. Confronted him, his reason is curious & he promised he wont do it again then i had forgiven him the 2nd times. . i've totally lost trust in him ..from then already 2yrs, in this 2 yrs he do put in effort to gain back my trust i can see the improvement in him too .. unfortunately last week, to my surprised i found out that he visited porn site ..a site which you can find new prositute arrival & hp no for you to call if you are interested (something like sammyboy)
... speechless & heartbroken when i saw that .. i really wanna noe why men would want to do such thing .. we are getting married in July this yr.. what should i do ?

he make mistakes u forgive
he make mistakes u forgive
he make mistakes u forgive
he make mistakes u forgive
he make mistakes u forgive
he make mistakes u forgive
he make mistakes u forgive
he make mistakes u forgive

till he 1 day change
when will the day be

[lermit98]

Heartbreak, my advice, for what its worth.

1. affairs or cheating is always 2 sided. something is always wrong between both parties, that's why affairs happen. men cheat for very very different reasons than women, but believe me WOMEN Cheat as much as men.

2. If you are looking for instant advice, GOOGLE "marital affairs", "why men cheat on woman", "why women cheat on men". Alot of useful answers can help with the pain right now

3. Pain is natural. Don't deny it... live through it..

4. Trust can be rebuilt. don't give up the relationship JUST BECAUSE THERE IS NO TRUST

5. However these are to me the deal breakers for the relationship

- he is a cruel man who wants to hurt you
- he is an insecure man who does not have confidence and will always cheat on you
- he is a selfish bastard who just wants to upgrade or have the best of all worlds (rich men are sometime like this one)
- he is not willing to be honest about his issues and learn.

If you believe that you can be honest with him about your issues and vice versa, this is the first step to healing the relationship.

Remember just because people are cheating does not mean the relationship will end.

The internet here is your friend - search for answers and they are there...

Hope that helps.