Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[MichaelWinn]

Originally Posted by bondage

Aiya, don't be so hard on ourselves leh.

If she can't help looking up to us/me, then so be it.

Keep changing girls....dun stick to one ml....you will get into emotional and financial trouble later...uncle old man already...i been thru all these kc shit lol

[bondage]

Originally Posted by MichaelWinn

Keep changing girls....dun stick to one ml....you will get into emotional and financial trouble later...uncle old man already...i been thru all these kc shit lol

Fully agree. Enjoy while it lasts on a per girl basis. Non exclusive.

It's still a transaction. No extra money or IOU or UOM.

[sbwow]

Just Pay/Fuck/Go , treat it like dumping an old girl for a new one.

It's exactly the same mentality when ppl use dating apps.
Always on the lookout for new face and trying fresh ones

[Apollo]

Originally Posted by afterburn

But then the fact that we are visiting the ML, already make us all indecent. Fail.

bro disagree, visiting ML is decent action, nothing indecent lai

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by afterburn

Conversely, the ML is also looking for somebody with decent values, not just using her for sex

But then the fact that we are visiting the ML, already make us all indecent. Fail.

It's precisely the values that one upholds gets exploited by the ML.

The topic of decent or indecent can really spark a debate.

indecent meaning - not conforming with generally accepted standards of behaviour, especially in relation to sexual matters.

What is generally accepted standards of behaviour? Or is everyone brainwashed right from the earlier ancestors to do it this way?

From what I understand is if you signed the legal documents for marriage. You can be sued for infidelity/adultery which makes it indecent.
But if someone is single or spouse is no longer around, this rule does not apply.

[JasonPeh]

ML is too smart esp VN boo. They know how to tackle men's weaknesses with all kind of sad stories very well. What senior bros said are correct , dont get emotional . They are here to make as much money as they can , no time to love.

[Willamshakspear]

It is a question of morality.

Should a Human who is married commit adultery? When found out by a spouse, it will hurt him/her for sure, and even kids whom are taught since young on issues of monogamy & morality, confusing them especially in their formative years.

But deeper issues surround why a Human would commit adultery, which are rarely spoken to resolve- inadequacies, ignorance, sex drive, inferiority complex, etc - mostly a breakdown in communication between couples.

Is adultery condoned? Definitely not in societies due the harm that is done to sacred marriage vows, to each other & to kids. Rather than breaking up & divorce, couples should start to communicate with each, to find compromises, settle expectations & resolve issues to build up better relationships for life.

Visitation to ML or any girl in the nitelife industry are mostly one night flings. For pragmatic Singaporean males, either the emotional or drainage of financial strains will make them wake up to the realities of what such industry is about. It is seldom about love. It's only a transaction - monetary reward for service provided, nothing more, unlike marriage vows which are for life, built up between couples over years thru thick and thin enough to get married, which lack of communication is often the course for break ups.

As for singles, all Human have hormones which explained their needs for attention & affection, & even sex drives. Rather than to allow such needs supersede their attention to daily life such as jobs, career, & their future, visits to women who provide such service will release their pent up sexual fantasies, so long as no one is harmed & financially sustainable, & after that with an ability to focus back on family, jobs & future.

If there is no legalize outlet, Humans with sexual needs may turn to harming innocent others.

Ancient civilizations which we descended from realized such evident truths, & instead of brothels, they created temple girls to offer such services. It is often said that the 2nd oldest profession in our civilization is prostitution. But in this modern age, may no female be forced into such trade & the harshest punishment be heap upon traffickers

[marcus77]

It a mind game either u win them or they win you

[Willamshakspear]

In Spore which is governed by Rule of Law, & an affluent educated society, most females from neighboring countries flock here to make a living on their free will.

To those uninitiated or ignorant of this billion dollar industry, a ML, FL, etc operator earns between $7,000/mth for a girl with average looks to $20,000 a month for those in high end establishments. It is certainly a far cry from their miserable US$400 a month salary in their home country.

However, they have short shelf life - by their early 30s, their looks will fade & will have smaller support circles. But if she is thrifty, she would had made an average S$1 million over that 10yr period, from age20 to 30

Spore is a middle class society, with most earning between avg $3000 to $5000 a month. Thus if one intends to foolishly support those girls - their monthly salary alone will outstrip you, nor will they ever be satisfied to give up their salaries to fall in love with you.

Like all Humans, they do have emotional needs. However, one will have to have deep pockets-above her salary, to fulfill such needs, & may not even be a guarantee that she will give up her lifestyle as she had since young & been deprived in their home country, had been trained, molded & saw the materialism & security that high financial earnings can bring, & even blind others over morality issues.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by Willamshakspear

In Spore which is governed by Rule of Law, & an affluent educated society, most females from neighboring countries flock here to make a living on their free will.

To those uninitiated or ignorant of this billion dollar industry, a ML, FL, etc operator earns between $7,000/mth for a girl with average looks to $20,000 a month for those in high end establishments. It is certainly a far cry from their miserable US$400 a month salary in their home country.

However, they have short shelf life - by their early 30s, their looks will fade & will have smaller support circles. But if she is thrifty, she would had made an average S$1 million over that 10yr period, from age20 to 30

Spore is a middle class society, with most earning between avg $3000 to $5000 a month. Thus if one intends to foolishly support those girls - their monthly salary alone will outstrip you, nor will they ever be satisfied to give up their salaries to fall in love with you.

Like all Humans, they do have emotional needs. However, one will have to have deep pockets-above her salary, to fulfill such needs, & may not even be a guarantee that she will give up her lifestyle as she had since young & been deprived in their home country, had been trained, molded & saw the materialism & security that high financial earnings can bring, & even blind others over morality issues.

Totally agree with bolded points. Too bad cant upz anymore

[Willamshakspear]

Most of those girls in this industry have emotional needs but are trained to say meaningless 'I love you'. It is not you, but Yusoff Ishak that they loved. And some guys fall for it thoughtlessly, while some may think they are only one night stands.

However, make no mistakes - it is You that is the One Night Stand to them with their command of huge supporters to choose from & earnings, to fill any Temporary emotional weakness they might have, & thrown away when the needs are fulfilled. They are only in this industry for money alone, for their own survival.

[MichaelWinn]

Originally Posted by Willamshakspear

Most of those girls in this industry have emotional needs but are trained to say meaningless 'I love you'. It is not you, but Yusoff Ishak that they loved. And some guys fall for it thoughtlessly, while some may think they are only one night stands.

However, make no mistakes - it is You that is the One Night Stand to them with their command of huge supporters to choose from & earnings, to fill any Temporary emotional weakness they might have, & thrown away when the needs are fulfilled. They are only in this industry for money alone, for their own survival.

yes well said most of them marry young in their home country have kids then divorced then they come to singapore to earn fast cash, make no mistake we are just their atm machines or tools lol,,,, those who are young and inexperienced punters most likely will fall for their kc traps lol

[MichaelWinn]

Originally Posted by marcus77

It a mind game either u win them or they win you

if you keep changing girls and never stick to one then you are the winner,,,if you stick to one ml then she will know all your weak points over a period of time,, i have been there done it before lol

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by MichaelWinn

if you keep changing girls and never stick to one then you are the winner,,,if you stick to one ml then she will know all your weak points over a period of time,, i have been there done it before lol

The MLs/FLs will do less of the massage/fuck over time, but more of the KC.

Lessens the overall satisfaction. Best to try new good ones.

[bondage]

Plenty of compelling words here.

Better to also have an exit plan to preempt this expensive hobby destroying future retirement plans.