I like to share some understandings re how gals grade attractiveness of men? OK, other than money which is an aphrodisiac to them, especially PRC MMs.
We men r most attracted to a gal's looks n figure. It actually occurs at the subconscious level n we can't help being attracted to a very chio n sexy SYT. No conscious effort can nullify this strong primal urge. That is the reason why gals spend so much money on cosmetics, dresses n plastic surgery.
According to my guru's "secret treatise" the biggest mistake many men make is to assume, foolishly n incorrectly, that gals r also primarily attracted to a man's looks n figure. Nothing could be further from the truth!
Gals r most attracted to a man's rank on the male dominance scale. That's right! This attraction also occurs primarily at the subconscious level n it's hardwired in her lower brains by her genetic code! She may not even be aware of this n she certainly can't help herself!! ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE FOR HER!!
It's all in the ATTITUDE, DUDE.
Therefore, we should project the body language, grooming n attitude of a high status, dominant male. And the good news is that if we dun hv it we can fake it by imitating the attributes of such a male. Just like KTV gals who use makeup, pushup bras, revealing dresses n high heels to greatly enhance her looks...we need to level the playing field, hahaha.
As for a man's appearance, it accounts for perhaps 30% of the attraction calculus. It's not the looks per se, but a man's overall health, cleanliness n grooming etc. which r of greater importance...
Thx for reading n good day!!
Bro WB
Great write-up above.
Fully agreed with you that women often said the reverse of what they want or intent.
Guys attracted to chio gals and their front lamps. If the lamps are sparkling bright then many guys will be flying in and out. Similar to flies so happy to find shit.
I learned recently from friends that many men willing open their wallets just for chio gal even to the stage like name your price. This dangerous game will lead to downfall of many guys.
We should always proceed with cautions.
I m sure in your later posts you will address this dilemma of using money to buy love.
I like to share some understandings re how gals grade attractiveness of men? OK, other than money which is an aphrodisiac to them, especially PRC MMs.
We men r most attracted to a gal's looks n figure. It actually occurs at the subconscious level n we can't help being attracted to a very chio n sexy SYT. No conscious effort can nullify this strong primal urge. That is the reason why gals spend so much money on cosmetics, dresses n plastic surgery.
According to my guru's "secret treatise" the biggest mistake many men make is to assume, foolishly n incorrectly, that gals r also primarily attracted to a man's looks n figure. Nothing could be further from the truth!
Gals r most attracted to a man's rank on the male dominance scale. That's right! This attraction also occurs primarily at the subconscious level n it's hardwired in her lower brains by her genetic code! She may not even be aware of this n she certainly can't help herself!! ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE FOR HER!!
It's all in the ATTITUDE, DUDE.
Therefore, we should project the body language, grooming n attitude of a high status, dominant male. And the good news is that if we dun hv it we can fake it by imitating the attributes of such a male. Just like KTV gals who use makeup, pushup bras, revealing dresses n high heels to greatly enhance her looks...we need to level the playing field, hahaha.
As for a man's appearance, it accounts for perhaps 30% of the attraction calculus. It's not the looks per se, but a man's overall health, cleanliness n grooming etc. which r of greater importance...
Thx for reading n good day!!
Bro WB well said and good advice given. Will check this thread regularly for more tips to improve myself
Today we have 5 terrific tips from David D's great book: Attraction Isn't a Choice.
Enjoy...
Tip No. 1:
On what women want...
"My point is that there's a HUGE difference between what women say they want and what women are attracted to. Women have many conflicting drives going on inside. And in many cases women RESPOND to completely illogical things – which are often very different than what they say that they want."
My comments: You should ignore what women say they WANT and instead focus on what women RESPOND to. These are not the same things.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
Great of you to share such good theory. Although the meaning is gross but meant hell of lot to guys who dun understand woman.
Yes, particularly woman say they don't like but actually their mind and heart said like.
Example -
When bf give present and they simply love it but in fact woman was hoping to get another better present.
Or if bf ask gf to choose the gf will choose a cheaper diamond ring but in fact actually wanted a more expensive diamond ring but worried bf may think she was greedy.
Good morning to all samsters,
Many thanks to all those who hv posted here from Day One.
What an auspicious day!!!
Will try to reply to some of the posts.
5 Terrific Tips to Attract Beautiful Women
Tip No. 2
On getting her approval...
"And here's an interesting insight that came to me in a blinding flash of the obvious: If a woman is working hard to get and/or to keep your approval, then it really doesn't matter if you have hers. A person can't focus on too many things at once and trying to get a person's approval is very distracting. While she's trying to get your approval, she'll be too distracted to disapprove of you."
My comments: Read this one over and over again until you get what David is saying. This is a very important point.
Don't chase girls/women. Must initiate contact. Express your desire for her feminine beauty and sexy body. But, reveal your "I don't need her" attitude...maintain this attitude whether you hv been w/ her 30 minutes or 30 years. Give her some validation and approval from time to time, but never completely. You're the ethernal prize! That is how you make her stay in love w/ you forever.
Good morning to all samsters,
Many thanks to all those who hv posted here from Day One.
What an auspicious day!!!
Will try to reply to some of the posts.
5 Terrific Tips to Attract Beautiful Women
Tip No. 2
On getting her approval...
"And here's an interesting insight that came to me in a blinding flash of the obvious: If a woman is working hard to get and/or to keep your approval, then it really doesn't matter if you have hers. A person can't focus on too many things at once and trying to get a person's approval is very distracting. While she's trying to get your approval, she'll be too distracted to disapprove of you."
My comments: Read this one over and over again until you get what David is saying. This is a very important point.
Don't chase girls/women. Must initiate contact. Express your desire for her feminine beauty and sexy body. But, reveal your "I don't need her" attitude...maintain this attitude whether you hv been w/ her 30 minutes or 30 years. Give her some validation and approval from time to time, but never completely. You're the ethernal prize! That is how you make her stay in love w/ you forever.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB,
Another superb lesson.
Yes, move on is the key word here when a gal trying to approve you. There are abundance of gals out there waiting for you to approve. Do not waste time on one while she taking her own sweet time.
You mean the new V10 R8? That is a quite car! But I rather go in a chauffeur-driven Merc S class.
I dun need a R8 to impress anyone. I rather use the money to lease a Lincoln stretcccchhhhhed limo equipped w/ a water bed n hv a foursome w/ 3 chio SYTs inside. Better yet, get a suite at the Shangri-La n spend the night w/ the 3 gals. I would also fly my personal American board-certified cardiologist from Gotham City to be w/ me, on standby, just in case the heart of this old chi ko pek can't take the extreme stress, hahahaha.
BTW, for short-term BY of a month or so, I really dun care at all abt the gal's intellect, hahaha. It only matters in a longer-term RS.
Just a Gucci n then 4k or less a month?? You mean for 12K a month, I can Bao 3 of them? Could u intro some of ur chio frens to me?? Tell them I seldom use my US platinum cards here, even for purchases of several Ks, but I pay cold hard $$$ instead.
Why dun I pick u up one day n we go to Dragonfly together. Pls let me know when it's a good time for u. You may SMS or PM me.
Thx so much for ur concern, but my back is perfectly fine now, hehehe.
With best regards,
Bro warbird
Bro WB
I enjoyed your exchange with bro above.The forum was lively and interesting.
Your argument makes alot of sense and the other bro was just a showboat trying to act rich.
Actually it doesn't matter much the process but what matters is the end result.
Will continue to read more and hopefully I can pickup tips here.
I can confirm unequivocally that bro DYBJ is telling the truth. As I said, it's his charisma that attracts all the good things in life...I'm trying hard to get a whiff of that...
My advice for u is to develop the right attitude n personality first n good things will follow naturally...
BTW, I'm gratified to see such active participation in this thread.
Let me digress a bit. I like to talk abt picking up KTV gals INSIDE KTVs. What?? Many bros go to KTVs n then wait for mummies to bring gals to the rm for viewing. That is a major mistake. Why? The attractive gals r often picked or booked early n u dun get to see them in ur rm.
So I always go to TAM around 6 PM n spend 20-30 minutes, looking at everyone of the 60-80 gals standing in the corridor or sitting in the little rm. My advice is dun be paiseh, go n mingle w/ the gals. Be very relaxed n confident, smile n chat w/ the gals u like. Crack a joke. Be very comfortable in ur own skin, after all, you're the master n the gals r ur sex slaves...hahaha.
The only other place one could see so many chio gals was at L8/Talma Rd in the good old days.
Thx for reading n hv a great day!!
Bro,
I agreed with you that correct attitude is a must here.
If there are gals around in ktv must always not be shy and mingle with them. If possible get all their contact numbers. Make no mistakes that they here to earn so just share a joke with them.
Mummy always have some good special client who will reserves the best gals for best clients. So if guy walk in to any ktv then only those who have no clients will get to be selected.
Problem with guys today is they have not experience much of the night life.
I agreed with you that correct attitude is a must here.
If there are gals around in ktv must always not be shy and mingle with them. If possible get all their contact numbers. Make no mistakes that they here to earn so just share a joke with them.
Mummy always have some good special client who will reserves the best gals for best clients. So if guy walk in to any ktv then only those who have no clients will get to be selected.
Problem with guys today is they have not experience much of the night life.
If I can get ST from a KTV gal or any gal, I'll NEVER BY her. If a gal flatly rejects my initial ST offer, I'll up n up the ante to test her. If the answer is still NO, she has passed my test! I'll then try to KC her...after a couple of wks, I'll make a proposal to take care of her or ask her to accompany me to HK or Tokyo, hahaha. It usually works, perhaps 9 out of 10 times.
Unfortunately, I seem to enjoy the process of finding, chasing n negotiating w/ these chio gals more than the actual BY or sex. The problem is that, as soon as the gals hv agreed to my terms, my urge suddenly plummets by at least 50%. And after a few "love making sessions," my interest would invariably drop by another 50%! Now they can take it or leave it. Fast forward to a month later, I probably couldn't run fast enough, hahaha.
For ur info, at a high end KTV such as TAM, the going rate is $300 for ST n 500 for overnite, subject to negotiation of course.
Cheers!!
Bro Warbird
Thanks for starting a lively thread. I was so excited reading your exchange with bros Loving_Dickhead and DO_YOU_BJ.
With reference to the above post, guys always will like to go after the meat that gets away. To the gals that agreed within short time then after teh fun the anxieties and eagerness dies off. For my case, I lost interest completely.
Agreed that the process is fun and exciting. Trying to anticipate her response and body language also happy.
I understand bro is keen to try to hook the gal of your type and trying to see if your methodology works.