It is worth forsake everything in singapore and join her in china to start a new life

[cablesnwires]

Originally Posted by speedyboy

Like what u say china ger are NO HORSE RUN.
i used to like thai girl during my early 20s but i can easily get over it due to language barrier.

Hope i able to wake up asap. Lost money is ok but cannot lose yourself...i still got a long way to go

I cannot advise you which way to go, but rather listen to logic is better than listening to feelings. Regardless of whether it is love or career or investment, logic is always the best choice.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

There's only 1 way to cure a drug addiction....that's cold turkey...tested and proven and used worldwide
This is no different!
To solve a problem, only use brain, heart must die!
To apply heart and mind to solve a problem will only make a rojak meal!

Some pain are worth going thru, for short term pain equals long time happiness and mental/spiritual peace
But to avoid going thru this pain, you will only achieve long term pain and suffering mentally/heart & spiritual
逃避就是后悔的开始
面对就是幸福的开始

There's no your way or my way in this, only right way or wrong way.
Good Luck!

[Hulunbeier]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

There's only 1 way to cure a drug addiction....that's cold turkey...tested and proven and used worldwide
This is no different!
To solve a problem, only use brain, heart must die!
To apply heart and mind to solve a problem will only make a rojak meal!

Some pain are worth going thru, for short term pain equals long time happiness and mental/spiritual peace
But to avoid going thru this pain, you will only achieve long term pain and suffering mentally/heart & spiritual
逃避就是后悔的开始
面对就是幸福的开始

There's no your way or my way in this, only right way or wrong way.
Good Luck!

Hi Bro

wau...applause...u really solid leh!

Honestly I love smoking cigs cause I started at 17...after so so many years I still enjoyed until one fine day this nurse came to check my heart and said u smoker so u need stent. She did not read my med records.

After check out, I quit. Cold Turkey, it did not work for me 3 times!

Just like the KTV chicks who touched me n said how come u no stand, I told them I needed Viagra! Only the smart one tell me, will stand only I like that pax. So far only one horse made me half stand! But leaving her soon cause sad toy stories.

Lucky I onli 2 angels...this 3rd one almost made it but my high expectations also wear her off.

Your final words are solace.

Now not to let any chicks kiss my lips cause so many many years they said only those the babes like then kiss lips. I see quite true leh...my PRC gal friend in PRC...next this new horse...kiss me several times after seated w her on third time, french kiss, beer passing kisses and the romance goes on!


So no lip kissing from babes anymore...otherwise send wrong signals to the wrong horses!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Hulunbeier

Now not to let any chicks kiss my lips cause so many many years they said only those the babes like then kiss lips. I see quite true leh...my PRC gal friend in PRC...next this new horse...kiss me several times after seated w her on third time, french kiss, beer passing kisses and the romance goes on!


So no lip kissing from babes anymore...otherwise send wrong signals to the wrong horses!

I'd rather you send them the wrong signals and they receive it then they send the wrong ones to you and you receive it bro.
Like i always preach, why be a victim when you can be a victor at this game???

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

I'd rather you send them the wrong signals and they receive it then they send the wrong ones to you and you receive it bro.
Like i always preach, why be a victim when you can be a victor at this game???

nt easy to be always a victor. self control is something hard to achieved. takes betting 4 example, most can say no worries small bet only will stop when stakes get too high but once enter the game hw many can still control themselves?
TS if u r unable to let go i think u should maintain current status and see hw things go. moving out of the country and settling down with her in a new land is a heavy bet. if yr financial means nt strong enough it's better to maintain current status, if she is serious with u i think she should also try pick up some new skills, find a new job and start earning $ for the sake of both of yr future.

[speedyboy]

Originally Posted by glooper83

I remember you n dybj telling me to focus on career first, girls comes later. But thinking didn't help. I just bonked myself silly till i realised that what i had for her wasn't love and there were so much more better girls out there. For this i have to thank a SG fl for restoring the faith in me, and also giving me a very good time.

I mean when i thought about going to china, i had come across an ad for an mnc hiring positions for China. Its not entirely a baseless idea that i would like to go china and find work. But its also true that i may not get hired too..

In any case, its over. China mei meis all look good no doubt, but once inside and getting naked, you see the push up bra the heavy make up. All deceit and lies from the very beginning! lols..

maybe i should like u find one SG fl to satisy my sexual desire

[speedyboy]

Originally Posted by glooper83

I do not have a career because of the stupid financial meltdown that made my options dwindle. Now i am left with jobs that i do not have an interest for. However, it is also true that i am still searching for what i can foresee myself doing 10-20 years down the road. Its damn tough la... plus the stupid meltdown, i am left with just hantam-ing and see what i can get.

Bro glooper....hope u able to find ideal job soon.
There are ppl out there slog for the whole life also cannot find their ideal job.

[speedyboy]

Originally Posted by HCKing

hahaha i dont think u r a clone lah u should be that jojogigi who was zapped into moderation and stopped posting since then. if i were u i will also do the same. wat 4 need to post and wait for yr post to pop up only 1 day later sian buay.
gt a feeling i will need to create a new nick soon too....

how come out of the blue mention this jojogigi...long time never heard from him...like his vanish into thin air

[speedyboy]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

There's only 1 way to cure a drug addiction....that's cold turkey...tested and proven and used worldwide
This is no different!
To solve a problem, only use brain, heart must die!
To apply heart and mind to solve a problem will only make a rojak meal!

Some pain are worth going thru, for short term pain equals long time happiness and mental/spiritual peace
But to avoid going thru this pain, you will only achieve long term pain and suffering mentally/heart & spiritual
逃避就是后悔的开始
面对就是幸福的开始

There's no your way or my way in this, only right way or wrong way.
Good Luck!

I dunno but i think i a sex addict....what is best cure for this?

[speedyboy]

Originally Posted by HCKing

nt easy to be always a victor. self control is something hard to achieved. takes betting 4 example, most can say no worries small bet only will stop when stakes get too high but once enter the game hw many can still control themselves?
TS if u r unable to let go i think u should maintain current status and see hw things go. moving out of the country and settling down with her in a new land is a heavy bet. if yr financial means nt strong enough it's better to maintain current status, if she is serious with u i think she should also try pick up some new skills, find a new job and start earning $ for the sake of both of yr future.

my self control is very weak....whenever i go ktv...i cant get a hj or unable to satisy my desire...i will call this current gal...if she cannot make it...i will dabao one girl back from ktv.

[CheongVic]

Originally Posted by speedyboy

Forsake singapore and join her in china also came into my thought....but then how to start with it...i know nothing about doing bussiness unless i like other expat working in china by teaching english which is not my type of tea.

So wonder any bro over here, did any of you guys forsake everything in sg and start a new life in china?

Bro,

There is a saying: lookin for love in the wrong places.

Another goes 欢场无真爱.

Or so you think you found the love of your life, try going back wif her with nothing, and see if you think otherwise.

Get real man. There are here in SG to make $$, if they want to get involved, they might as well find someone who is loaded with cash.

WAKE UP YOUR IDEA...

[DO_I_BJ]

Originally Posted by speedyboy

my self control is very weak....whenever i go ktv...i cant get a hj or unable to satisy my desire...i will call this current gal...if she cannot make it...i will dabao one girl back from ktv.

I teach u how to safe money $200++.... use ur hand.. stroke ur didi until vomit white blood. Still horny... stroke until no horny.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by glooper83

2.) Bro collins, your advice seems spot on as usual. Maybe can advice me on my career.

Should be "Maybe you can ADVISE me on my career.".

"Advice" is a noun.

[Hulunbeier]

Originally Posted by CheongVic

Bro,

There is a saying: lookin for love in the wrong places.

Another goes 欢场无真爱.

Or so you think you found the love of your life, try going back wif her with nothing, and see if you think otherwise.

Get real man. There are here in SG to make $$, if they want to get involved, they might as well find someone who is loaded with cash.

WAKE UP YOUR IDEA...

I am just giving example of not love.

Spoke to my horse this morning....horse fcking hardworking until we have no time to communicate let alone seeing genitals! I told her good carry on the hardwork and earn dollars from the men you whisper soft love. I offered her a good oppune to work together when in China...my horse thought otherwise...think I smoked her...I told her she had that right to doubt me but at least come on out and communicate instead of making $500 per 12 hrs for the next 10 days and go back ...then come back..then go Stand Street 3 years later! I told her that and even told her why not take up England and worked in US Chinatown and make U$ then later US Citizen....Told her to work hard with her group of sisters and just waste that 2 years SG...hopping from KTV to KTV....gosh she worked 12 hrs shift. Started at 2pm end at 2am.

U see here I am not talking even abt love...abt opportunity offering to the new horse cause my residential horse need to retire liao. Residential PRC horse so skilful and new horse needed to master some basic toasting skills...yet stupid horse when asked her to toast my best friend laugh until go office and still give me that cynical smile!

I even checked with another good friend on this new horse...he said ...old liao...can choose 26 yo one? Sometimes 26 a bit wilful and made me shy shy. Wanna choose a new horse soon. I hope this yet to talent scout new horse must come from North...dun want Shanghai. Can hold both posture and glass well...and not give the USA toast...brother Gan Bei ba! Nabe!

[nacho]

TS, nobody knows the ground better than you do.

Do your sums correctly and spend sometime in China doing what you want to do when with her, like starting a biz or working in MNC. This will give a real feel of what will happen to you in the longer term. Don't blur blur go in and come out with nothing left.