How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[warbird]

Originally Posted by chuckydick

Life is very beautiful bro WB, what a great thread!

Tks, bro.

Life is beautiful!!

Originally Posted by SBMEDSUP

Bro WB always the best.

Thanks for sharing.

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

Tks, bro.

No, I'm happy to be average or even below average as long as I have the subconscious mental frame of a PRIZE.

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Bro WB, as the old saying, love is blind, it's even more blind when a man thought he's in love. I never doubt some of them may chance upon true love and happy ever after.
However, think about it, if the girl spent a lot of money, finally able to earn money in some night clubs, the men is married, would she expect to take fall in love with her? While she may call the man老公，and he called her 老婆，in her mobile phone, she might have many 老公.
I remember many years ago, met one from TAM, then had round with her, paid way below market, she reminded me it's a special rate cause she wouldn't want others to know. In te midst of the deed, a man called her, she told him she's alone at home.
I pity those guys who gave monthly allowance, even rent a nice apartment for the gal, thinking its an exclusive private toilet he found. The reality is, the gal could be using it as a public toilet.
So sad, but quite funny too!

Bro, tks for your insights.

Most men are clueless.

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What an auspicious day!!

Girls can only fall for a MAN who believes he is the PRIZE to the most attractive girls of his type (in his subconscious mind) and who has more POWER in the relationship. He has more POWER because he is the one who cares less. He knows he has higher social and sexual VALUE.

Most healthy and very chio heterosexual girls want to be submissive to a MAN. But most of them will NEVER find such a MAN.

Why? Because even a real life Don Juan, who has fucked and dumped hundreds of beautiful girls in the past, suddenly behaves like a scared little boy w/ scarcity mindset whenever he interacts w/ his 'dream girl' or 'special one.' He is very fearful of losing her. She is the PRIZE! And he has little power. God forbid, he is even submissive to her. Can you blame her for finding him repulsive?

It really doesn't matter who he is. He could be a real prince or king. Or the sexiest man alive, the most famous man alive, the strongest man alive, the most handsome man alive, the most intelligent man alive or the richest man alive. Or a real prince w/ all of the above attributes.

Almost ALL heterosexual girls/women in the world, from time immemorial, are searching for one kind of man, in their powerful subconscious minds. Sadly, most of them would fail in their search.

What kind of man? A MAN who believes he is the grand prize to all females and who has extremely masculine character traits. And THE most masculine character trait is absolute emotional and self-mastery.

I have never met such a MAN. Actually, having awesome emotional and self-mastery is more than good enough.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[EmpressQ]

Great share by bro warbird, hope to learn more from this thread

[AaronLeeKwok]

Bro warbird, nice thread !

[surv000]

Awesome thread! thanks for sharing

[warbird]

Originally Posted by AaronLeeKwok

Bro warbird, nice thread !

Originally Posted by EmpressQ

Great share by bro warbird, hope to learn more from this thread

Originally Posted by surv000

Awesome thread! thanks for sharing

Bros, tks for your posts.

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Good afternoon,

The biggest reason why bros I know are having problems getting the type of girls/women to fall for them is the fact that they treat them like the prize. These bros think they are NOT good enough, for a myriad of reasons, for the girls/women.

It's pathetic. No one can help them.

Here is a very old newsletter which I received in 2012 from Zach Browman.

How to deal with physical insecurities

"Hey Andy,

Today's question is about guys who feel
unattractive physically. But really, it's good
advice for anyone that has any physical
characteristic they're embarrassed about
or that they feel holds them back.

Everyone's got something about themselves
they'd like to change.

They want to be a little
taller, have more hair on their head or less
on their back, a bigger Johnson or a smaller
gut.

But as you'll see, your physical imperfections
don't matter NEARLY as much as what you think
of them.

Enjoy the mp3 or just read the transcript below.

You can download the MP3 here <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<

To your social success,

Zach

________________________

Transcription:

What Do You Tell A Student Who Feels He Is Physically Unattractive To Girls

I can’t say that physical attraction is
totally irrelevant for attracting women.

I think we all know that’s not exactly
true.

It’s much less important than most guys
think; much, much less important than
most guys think.

If you have a certain base level of
attractiveness, if you’re not, if you
don’t have something really wrong with
you, organically, then you’re going to
do okay.

You don’t need much.

In fact it’s much more important that
you have something I call status, which
I’ll talk about later, than that you
have physical attractiveness.

What’s usually holding a guy back is
that he thinks he’s unattractive and he
places a lot of importance on that.

And I’ll give you an example of what I
mean how this plays out.

I used to work as a matchmaker.

And so people would talk to me, they
tell me what they’re looking for in a
partner, and the agency that I worked
for would help them find somebody.

And I used to, you know, I meet with
men, I meet with women, and I remember a
few times women came in that were fairly
tall.

And they’d, I’d ask about what kind of
guy are they looking for and they’d
surprisingly say they were okay with
dating guys that were shorter than them.

And then I remember one of them said,
and I had this confirmed by other women;
one said, she’s like, “Yeah, I don’t
have a problem that are shorter than me,
as long as he doesn’t ask me not to wear
heels around him.

In other words, I don’t have a problem
with him being short...

HE has a problem with himself being
short, and that is what’s unattractive
to women; that’s what kills attraction
right there.

So you know, use shortness as an example
but, anything that you might be
physically, you know, physical drawback
when it comes to attracting women, it’s
much more important what your attitude
is towards it than the actual physical
trait itself.





Any comments or criticisms?

Have a great day!

Bro WB

[manimano]

Great thread, would like to learn more from bro WB

[warbird]

Originally Posted by manimano

Great thread, would like to learn more from bro WB

Tks, bro.

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Good afternoon,

"In other words, I don’t have a problem
with him being short...

HE has a problem with himself being
short, and that is what’s unattractive
to women; that’s what kills attraction
right there."

Yes, when a man thinks he is NOT good enough for his dream girl, for whatever reason, he is repulsive to her. The reason could even be trivial or ridiculous.

If he believes his dream girl will only be attracted to a fighter pilot or an American board certified neurosurgeon and he only has a PhD from MIT, he will feel very inadequate.

If he believes his girl would like to have a BF who is a billionaire n he only has a net worth of 500 million USD, he will feel very inferior.

If he believes his girl would only be attracted to an Ang Moh rockstar like Mick Jagger and he is not even an Ang Moh, he feel he will never be good enough.

If he believes she will only be attracted to a Mr Universe n he is just a regular body builder, he thinks he will never get her.

If he believes his superchio 18 SYT GF would like to have a very cute BF who is 19 yo n he is a lao chee ko pek, he will feel very insecure n inferior. How to capture her heart??

Or if he believes that his dream girl would only want to marry a real king or emperor and he is a common man, he will be very frustrated n angry.

Ironically, a real king might think that he was not good enough for a superchio SYT, like in the case of King Fuchai and Xi Shi. Little wonder he lost every thing to his slave Fan Li. Very tragic story.

I could give you another million examples.

However, if HE believes that HE is the grand prize to his dream girl, IN HIS SUBCONSCIOUS MIND，regardless of her preferences as in the above scenarios, the tables are turned.

A famous guru states that A Girl Thinks What You Think.

And now you know the SECRET and POWER of Positive Mental Frame.

Any comments or criticisms?

Cheers!

Bro WB

[repairman]

Would just like to do a quick sharing. For the past month, have been getting acquainted with a married woman. Had sex with her on a couple of occasion. However one issue is that she will always delete me on Wechat when something disturbs her, for example me saying the wrong thing or her seeing my family photos. So for the past few times, I had been apologizing to get her back. But the same thing happened today, and I was reminded of bro warbird's advice. It is difficult, but I think even though she has deleted me, I will just leave it as it is. Previously I had always been the one to initiate her to come back, but now will just see how it goes. If she doesn't come back, then it was probably never meant to be.

[hakone]

Originally Posted by repairman

Would just like to do a quick sharing. For the past month, have been getting acquainted with a married woman. Had sex with her on a couple of occasion. However one issue is that she will always delete me on Wechat when something disturbs her, for example me saying the wrong thing or her seeing my family photos. So for the past few times, I had been apologizing to get her back. But the same thing happened today, and I was reminded of bro warbird's advice. It is difficult, but I think even though she has deleted me, I will just leave it as it is. Previously I had always been the one to initiate her to come back, but now will just see how it goes. If she doesn't come back, then it was probably never meant to be.

Whatever comes let it comes.
Whatever stays let it stays.
Whatever goes let it goes.
Never beg for a relationship.

[songtao]

Originally Posted by hakone

Whatever comes let it comes.
Whatever stays let it stays.
Whatever goes let it goes.
Never beg for a relationship.

Well said bro. Fully agreed

[warbird]

Originally Posted by repairman

Would just like to do a quick sharing. For the past month, have been getting acquainted with a married woman. Had sex with her on a couple of occasion. However one issue is that she will always delete me on Wechat when something disturbs her, for example me saying the wrong thing or her seeing my family photos. So for the past few times, I had been apologizing to get her back. But the same thing happened today, and I was reminded of bro warbird's advice. It is difficult, but I think even though she has deleted me, I will just leave it as it is. Previously I had always been the one to initiate her to come back, but now will just see how it goes. If she doesn't come back, then it was probably never meant to be.

Bro, tks.

You're absolutely right.

Don't initiate contact w/ her.

Originally Posted by hakone

Whatever comes let it comes.
Whatever stays let it stays.
Whatever goes let it goes.
Never beg for a relationship.

Bro, well said.

You're the prize.

Originally Posted by songtao

Well said bro. Fully agreed

Yes.

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Good afternoon,

Many men seem to be afraid of competition, whether it's biz, jobs, professions or women.

Very negative mental frame.

Instead, we should love competition. The more the better. Why? It gives meaning to 'success.' Otherwise, life is meaningless.

I also like to be the 'apparent' underdog. It compels me to work smarter and harder. And it gives even more meaning to 'success.'

We should also embrace change. There is no status quo in our known universe. Everything is constantly changing. Many people on top are afraid of change. They are insecure, needy and fearful. Very sad.

Supposing your very beautiful wife/LP/mistress/GF tells u that she is going to meet her high school sweetheart for lunch or she is going out w/ a young, handsome and rich man, you should smile n wish her a wonderful time.

She will be very impressed w/ your absolute confidence and self mastery. She knows she will NEVER meet another real MAN like you.

It's your golden chance to show her who is a real MAN n who is the little boy.

She knows instinctively that most men would get very jealous and insecure. And if you do, game over. That is the beginning of the end of your relationship w/ her. It doesn't matter if you have been w/ her 10 days or 10 years.

Never forget, not even for a split second, that you're the grand PRIZE.

You must behave as if 1,000 very chio and high quality girls of your type are calling you and wanting to fuck you everyday...

Your biggest problem is choosing which one of the girls to fuck today.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[repairman]

I would say my actions did not match what I posted. I still initiated contact with her. And with such a weak mental frame, I would say that gives her another chance to find fault and ask for a breakup. Indeed it just happened. This time round I will probably just leave it and work on my mental frames. It is really much harder than I thought it will be. Cheers for those guys who have such strong mental frames and mindset.

[sohbuckkong]

You are a great inspiration bro.
Yes , hypothetically if one start to scold the girl that you hope to fuck, you will be surprise eventually she will gladly open her cheebye and let you fuck and she will want you to fuck her deeply into her cheebye too.

Never be her yes man, you will lose her.
Never be careful with yr words when communicating.
Don't be too gentlemen, be buaya sometimes too.
Of course to hook her, one must be generous too. Women are all bitchy by nature.

Originally Posted by warbird

Bro, tks.

You're absolutely right.

Don't initiate contact w/ her.



Bro, well said.

You're the prize........ of competition, whether it's biz, jobs, professions or women.

Very negative mental frame.. Many people on top are afraid of change. They are insecure, needy and fearful. Very sad.

Supposing your very beautiful wife/LP/mistress/GF tells u that she is going to meet her high school sweetheart for lunch or she is going out w/ a young, handsome and rich man, you should smile n wish her a wonderful time.

She will be very impressed w/ your absolute confidence and self mastery. She knows she will NEVER meet another real MAN like you.

It's your golden chance to show her who is a real MAN n who is the little boy.

She knows instinctively that most men would get very jealous and insecure. And if you do, game over. That is the beginning of the end of your relationship w/ her. It doesn't matter if you have been w/ her 10 days or 10 years.

Never forget, not even for a split second, that you're the grand PRIZE.

You must behave as if 1,000 very chio and high quality girls of your type are calling you and wanting to fuck you everyday...

Your biggest problem is choosing which one of the girls to fuck today.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[junior_cannibal]

One other way is, if bro Warbird, allows me to add on, is to simultaneously develop several relationships, be it just makan, drinking kaki or FBs. So that when you have more alternatives for different moods and purposes each day.
The last thing you want, is to have the purpose written all over your face that you just want a quickie with the gal, unless you are a super handsome, 6 pack dude. There again, most gals wouldn't really want to be bedded by a Casanova, neither do they want a nerd. One thing for sure, they must not find you disgusting or cheap.

[PuChoi]

Originally Posted by sohbuckkong

You are a great inspiration bro.
Yes , hypothetically if one start to scold the girl that you hope to fuck, you will be surprise eventually she will gladly open her cheebye and let you fuck and she will want you to fuck her deeply into her cheebye too.

Never be her yes man, you will lose her.
Never be careful with yr words when communicating.
Don't be too gentlemen, be buaya sometimes too.
Of course to hook her, one must be generous too. Women are all bitchy by nature.

Fully agreed bro, never give in to them too much, maybe one out of ten times