Fling at work with colleagues

[Hunkydunky]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

CB Gog, you forgot to mention. Many affairs start to be harmless, not until when one party wants more, more exclusive, or to become official.. That's when things get complicated.

My friend kana this trap. His small 3 is very clingy. He had a hard time staying away from her. And the small 3 keeps threatening to expose him.

U guys got any solutions to this?

[Hunkydunky]

Originally Posted by newbie22

Never eat and shit in the same place. I am working in a small company with 22 employees. I am one of the only 3 guys in the office. One of the guy is the founder and the other guy is an old uncle. I am in my early 30s and work out often. I ain't exactly the most handsome but not ugly either.

As the years went by and I became closeer to my colleagues, I have had strong signals from four of the ladies. When I say signal, I mean one of them outright tell me to my face "I am good at blowjob and it's been a while since I suck a dick. I swallow too.".

As tempting as it might sound, I hold on to never eat and shit in the same place very strongly. Why? Cos in my previous coy, I fucked a colleague and let's just say things went south and police was involved cos I dio complain sexual harassment. Eventually I was fired, but not charged, even when the sex was consensual. It's just too complicated. Don't do it bro.

Wow.. women seems to be quite vicious when come to this..

[Hunkydunky]

Originally Posted by upinkm

Fuckee my intern supervisor after internship.
Fucked my colleague from my dept who was a virgin.

How u did it?

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by Hunkydunky

My friend kana this trap. His small 3 is very clingy. He had a hard time staying away from her. And the small 3 keeps threatening to expose him.

U guys got any solutions to this?

Ask your friend, what his small 3 has about him that can be exposed? Chat history, sex vid or what?
She knows where he stays, his work place or what?
Anyway, no matter what, I assumed your friend is married thus has more at stake, he should assume the small 3 can cause more damages.
He needs to think how to manage her and gradually let her grows out of him, ie no longer like him to want to break up with him instead. He can start by doing something that she dislikes, eg praising all ladies appearance or figures.
The last thing he should do is to ask for a break up now. She will become ballistic.

[iRawyer]

Originally Posted by cannister

Thanks for sharing.

Agree with you.

[Hunkydunky]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Ask your friend, what his small 3 has about him that can be exposed? Chat history, sex vid or what?
She knows where he stays, his work place or what?
Anyway, no matter what, I assumed your friend is married thus has more at stake, he should assume the small 3 can cause more damages.
He needs to think how to manage her and gradually let her grows out of him, ie no longer like him to want to break up with him instead. He can start by doing something that she dislikes, eg praising all ladies appearance or figures.
The last thing he should do is to ask for a break up now. She will become ballistic.

What I understand from him is that the relationship has been there for some months. Over these time.. there are photos, chats history..and also information like work and home location being shared. Hence he's vulnerable to "attacks" by his small 3.

But if he go praise other women..do things that his small 3 dislikes.. wouldn't it trigger the attack from small 3?

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by Hunkydunky

What I understand from him is that the relationship has been there for some months. Over these time.. there are photos, chats history..and also information like work and home location being shared. Hence he's vulnerable to "attacks" by his small 3.

But if he go praise other women..do things that his small 3 dislikes.. wouldn't it trigger the attack from small 3?

He needs to manage it with care and caution.
In order for the small 3 wanting to be less obsessive, he can't push it as he has too much at stake.
Small 3 will always feel they are the victims as the r/s will definitely not have a good ending.
In life, there's no free lunch. It's only you pay first or later.

[Hunkydunky]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

He needs to manage it with care and caution.
In order for the small 3 wanting to be less obsessive, he can't push it as he has too much at stake.
Small 3 will always feel they are the victims as the r/s will definitely not have a good ending.
In life, there's no free lunch. It's only you pay first or later.

Eh.. the small 3 also having free meals and hotel rooms. Isn't that paid for by my friend already? And the relationship is both parties consent. 你情我愿...

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by Hunkydunky

Eh.. the small 3 also having free meals and hotel rooms. Isn't that paid for by my friend already? And the relationship is both parties consent. 你情我愿...

There's no right or wrong, only for themselves to decide. In case your friend has made some promises or has led her to think there's a future for them.
Meals and hotels are not part of the deal lah. Even if he has been showering her with gifts. All these are not the same like paying a fee that both agree as a commercial transaction.
That's the dilemma when the man wants GFE yet no string. Where got so good deal?

[TBonez]

Sharing my experience...

Was kinda in a hanky panky relationship with a colleague during my low-time while dealing with my divorce. Maybe was weak mentally then and got involved with the colleague (let's just name her SW). We would have sex and she would also gladly swallow me when she had her period. However I can feel alot of colleagues eyes on us and I things had to stop when she told me she is considering divorcing her husband to be with me. She had also been unhappy with her married life. With my current mess, I definitely don't need another added mess. So I told her we need to stop and she need to to counselling for sake of her children.
We did have a one-off where she came to my house to drink and she blew me. Sometimes when she walked past my desk I can still see her stealing peeps at me. I'm sure if I'm gonna grab her, she will not hesitate to blow me anytime.

Another colleague that I'm currently "eyeing" is a new girl (lets call her CK) with the good girl vibe. And I recently noticed that she has at least a big C/ D cup from side view. Sometimes when our eyes met, she will give that impish grin or smile. Been thinking of asking her out alone for lunch, but being that I'm newly remarried, I doing my best to push that urge away.

[getyourtip]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

There's no right or wrong, only for themselves to decide. In case your friend has made some promises or has led her to think there's a future for them.
Meals and hotels are not part of the deal lah. Even if he has been showering her with gifts. All these are not the same like paying a fee that both agree as a commercial transaction.
That's the dilemma when the man wants GFE yet no string. Where got so good deal?

Agree with you.

[albertas]

Originally Posted by TBonez

Sharing my experience...

Was kinda in a hanky panky relationship with a colleague during my low-time while dealing with my divorce. Maybe was weak mentally then and got involved with the colleague (let's just name her SW). We would have sex and she would also gladly swallow me when she had her period. However I can feel alot of colleagues eyes on us and I things had to stop when she told me she is considering divorcing her husband to be with me. She had also been unhappy with her married life. With my current mess, I definitely don't need another added mess. So I told her we need to stop and she need to to counselling for sake of her children.
We did have a one-off where she came to my house to drink and she blew me. Sometimes when she walked past my desk I can still see her stealing peeps at me. I'm sure if I'm gonna grab her, she will not hesitate to blow me anytime.

Another colleague that I'm currently "eyeing" is a new girl (lets call her CK) with the good girl vibe. And I recently noticed that she has at least a big C/ D cup from side view. Sometimes when our eyes met, she will give that impish grin or smile. Been thinking of asking her out alone for lunch, but being that I'm newly remarried, I doing my best to push that urge away.

Thanks for sharing.

[atom_nova]

Originally Posted by TBonez

Sharing my experience...

Was kinda in a hanky panky relationship with a colleague during my low-time while dealing with my divorce. Maybe was weak mentally then and got involved with the colleague (let's just name her SW). We would have sex and she would also gladly swallow me when she had her period. However I can feel alot of colleagues eyes on us and I things had to stop when she told me she is considering divorcing her husband to be with me. She had also been unhappy with her married life. With my current mess, I definitely don't need another added mess. So I told her we need to stop and she need to to counselling for sake of her children.
We did have a one-off where she came to my house to drink and she blew me. Sometimes when she walked past my desk I can still see her stealing peeps at me. I'm sure if I'm gonna grab her, she will not hesitate to blow me anytime.

Another colleague that I'm currently "eyeing" is a new girl (lets call her CK) with the good girl vibe. And I recently noticed that she has at least a big C/ D cup from side view. Sometimes when our eyes met, she will give that impish grin or smile. Been thinking of asking her out alone for lunch, but being that I'm newly remarried, I doing my best to push that urge away.

Mai la bro, you just re-married, take it as a clean slate with your new milestone. Don't go back to having affair, bo hua one. Mentally very shag one, don't do that to yourself bro.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Hunkydunky

And the small 3 keeps threatening to expose him.

U guys got any solutions to this?

Which country is the small 3 from? I suppose your friend and his family are Singaporeans?

Years ago, a friend's mum had the same issue. Small 3 (from Malaysia) very clingy and refuses to leave her husband. Ended up she got a PI to follow her. She has a partime job and the PI took some photos and sent her details to MOM. Work permit got cancelled and the husband has no idea till today his wife is responsible for that