A painful decision

[aakumu]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Bro Porscheclub.....you can consider to try negotiating with your two wifey about housing them under the same roof, just like Bro DYBJ. 'Crazy' idea it may seem but it works in Bro DYBJ's case.

Hi bro,
The Islam way can have 4 wifes if they all can get along, so maybe good for whoever can get the first wife approval.

My humble two cents.

[colins]

Originally Posted by HCKing

tats true. the targets can be different but the same old coin can be used over and over again, until the day he meets one lao jiao who has seen it all to counter him. one needs alot of understanding of his ownself and his strength and weaknesses to play the game. problem with talking is we often have the habit of just believing watever others says, no matter hw BS they r. try telling an ugly charbo she is SYT i believe she will also blush.

Ah...yes. Thats becos we always like to hear what we wanna hear. We always want people to say what we wanna hear too, thats why our pride makes us reliance on others. We become subjected to their whims and fancy. So when people want to confuse you, they tell you everything you want (pride), and you will give them everything they want (money). Fair trade to them. They dun kiam you anything afterwards.

[colins]

Originally Posted by aakumu

Hi bro,
The Islam way can have 4 wifes if they all can get along, so maybe good for whoever can get the first wife approval.

My humble two cents.

Bros, let's not talk about using religion as a means to get what we want. Seriously, its not really a club where you'll get some benefits after you joined them. Most of the muslims got one wife and they stay happily with their wife and family, if we can't, its not with our religion lo.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by colins

Ah...yes. Thats becos we always like to hear what we wanna hear. We always want people to say what we wanna hear too, thats why our pride makes us reliance on others. We become subjected to their whims and fancy. So when people want to confuse you, they tell you everything you want (pride), and you will give them everything they want (money). Fair trade to them. They dun kiam you anything afterwards.

i rem i once purposely make fun of an ugly girl by saying she chio after she go change her hairstyle and guess wat? she believes! hw can an ugly person becomes chio just by changing her hairstyle? same thing hw can a person becomes lovable just becos gt alot of $ to spend? but inside us we always want ppl to say we r good lah chio lah hunk lah rich lah and all the good things to make our ego feel good. frm wat i see those who tio kc until jialat deep inside them they r actually looking forward to be kced. it always take 2 hands to clap.

[colins]

Originally Posted by HCKing

.... frm wat i see those who tio kc until jialat deep inside them they r actually looking forward to be kced. it always take 2 hands to clap.

Exactly. This is the true sadness to all KC stories. So damn true that its scary to see how vulnerable we are.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by colins

Exactly. This is the true sadness to all KC stories. So damn true that its scary to see how vulnerable we are.

after reading some of the stories here, can understand hw u feel just like when u see a poor chap falls into a drain but u cant pull him out even though u tried yr best to help. bo pian when comes to commercial sex the same old saying is never wrong: ' when gt demand will have supply'

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by HCKing

after reading some of the stories here, can understand hw u feel just like when u see a poor chap falls into a drain but u cant pull him out even though u tried yr best to help. bo pian when comes to commercial sex the same old saying is never wrong: ' when gt demand will have supply'

Not true bro. This is like the drug trade. When there is supply, there will be demand. The Keynesian theory does not apply for this industry.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Not true bro. This is like the drug trade. When there is supply, there will be demand. The Keynesian theory does not apply for this industry.

think u misunderstood wat i said liao. wat i meant was when there is demand for KC there will be supply. demand for KC is natural but one should be looking for it at the right place. places like KTV, HC and GL etc. are no no.

[colins]

Guys, the need to be KCed doesn't reserve itself exclusively to the flesh trade. The industry is merely a catalyst where money can be an accelerator. Bro HCKing when you gave the example of an ugly girl wanting compliments on her new hairdo, this example can be applied on your own friends as well. People who openly display the 'need' to be KCed get his demand from everywhere, mostly at places where money is only indirectly concerned. For all you know, 90% of his friends are all like that and they would feed each other on every kopi session or dinner outings.

Its with the person himself. Wherever he goes, he get KCed. If he starts to look around him with opened eyes one day, he'll notice that people around him 'pamper' him that way, for their selfish gain or not depends on their intention, but still the person is very open to attack. All he need is to meet a girl with intention on his possessions.

[wolfgang999]

We might not love the person we marry, or might never get to marry the person we love.

such is the sad truth of life.. we just have to see through the decision made and be responsbile for it.

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by HCKing

think u misunderstood wat i said liao. wat i meant was when there is demand for KC there will be supply. demand for KC is natural but one should be looking for it at the right place. places like KTV, HC and GL etc. are no no.

Not exactly. My theory is as follow;

A guy may not be looking for KC (ie no demand) but the WL may come on to him (ie supply is present). The WL creates the 希望, and in these circumstances most guys would succumb and go for it (ie supply creates the demand).

I would agree if there is a need for love and affection from a member of the opposite sex, the guy should not be looking for it amongst the pratitioner of the flesh trade. That is asking for trouble. Most times the bros who get involved in KC problems with members of this profession are mired in it not because they are looking for it but because the girls made themselves available. The high hand ones would play cock teaser first but give a sufficient dosage of 希望 in order to ensnare the guy.

With every rule, there is an exception to the rule. The exception would be those who intentionally go looking for for KC with the WLs probably because they are facing some emotional crisis like a failed relationship and thus on the rebound.

And unlike the usual economics theory of price being determined by the confluence of supply and demand, in this case, the demand is more like a bell curve. Low demand at the start and increasing demand as the girl ply him with more supply of KC. The eventual price would be determined by the apex of the bell curve when the guy is totally screwed. After that, he realises his folly and the demand starts to diminish regardless of the availability of supply.

Once demand starts to diminish, the supply will simply shift to another emerging market.

So I am glad the BOSS created this section. Over here, we have a free exchange of information. We get to hear of how others got into shit and the advice from the Honourable Members of the Jedi Council.

With better market information, hopefully the bros here would be able to use these information to hedge their risks. We start to see how this market operates. Over time, perhaps the seasoned ones will be able to tell whether to long on a particular WL and to short another WL. The more experienced ones will also start having a portfolio of investments and instead of being KCed, the senior investors will do the KCing. The KCing can even be done on a team level against a group of girls. For want of a better analogy, I would describe this as similar to IRS (interest rate swaps).

Unfortunately most bros are like the old uncles who bought into the Minibonds without knowing what are structured investments all about, who have never even heard of the term collateral debt obligations. These are the people who will get burnt.

The seasoned bros who see the whole picture are like the institutional investors. No amount of supply can influence their demand. The seasoned bros would be able to calculate the arbitrage and go in for the kill as and when a suitable opportunity arise.

Therefore I think it will be inevitable that there will be more and more bros getting KCed and getting burnt in the process because that is how this market is structured.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by colins

Guys, the need to be KCed doesn't reserve itself exclusively to the flesh trade. The industry is merely a catalyst where money can be an accelerator. Bro HCKing when you gave the example of an ugly girl wanting compliments on her new hairdo, this example can be applied on your own friends as well. People who openly display the 'need' to be KCed get his demand from everywhere, mostly at places where money is only indirectly concerned. For all you know, 90% of his friends are all like that and they would feed each other on every kopi session or dinner outings.

Its with the person himself. Wherever he goes, he get KCed. If he starts to look around him with opened eyes one day, he'll notice that people around him 'pamper' him that way, for their selfish gain or not depends on their intention, but still the person is very open to attack. All he need is to meet a girl with intention on his possessions.

yup the supply can come frm anywhere anytime. the ugly girl can be KCed by any bastards who recognise her weakness. i have also seen and heard guys willing to be cai tao for their steadies anytime. hmmm issit becoming a norm nwadays liao? no cai tao = no girl?

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Not exactly. My theory is as follow;

A guy may not be looking for KC (ie no demand) but the WL may come on to him (ie supply is present). The WL creates the 希望, and in these circumstances most guys would succumb and go for it (ie supply creates the demand).

I would agree if there is a need for love and affection from a member of the opposite sex, the guy should not be looking for it amongst the pratitioner of the flesh trade. That is asking for trouble. Most times the bros who get involved in KC problems with members of this profession are mired in it not because they are looking for it but because the girls made themselves available. The high hand ones would play cock teaser first but give a sufficient dosage of 希望 in order to ensnare the guy.

With every rule, there is an exception to the rule. The exception would be those who intentionally go looking for for KC with the WLs probably because they are facing some emotional crisis like a failed relationship and thus on the rebound.

And unlike the usual economics theory of price being determined by the confluence of supply and demand, in this case, the demand is more like a bell curve. Low demand at the start and increasing demand as the girl ply him with more supply of KC. The eventual price would be determined by the apex of the bell curve when the guy is totally screwed. After that, he realises his folly and the demand starts to diminish regardless of the availability of supply.

Once demand starts to diminish, the supply will simply shift to another emerging market.

So I am glad the BOSS created this section. Over here, we have a free exchange of information. We get to hear of how others got into shit and the advice from the Honourable Members of the Jedi Council.

With better market information, hopefully the bros here would be able to use these information to hedge their risks. We start to see how this market operates. Over time, perhaps the seasoned ones will be able to tell whether to long on a particular WL and to short another WL. The more experienced ones will also start having a portfolio of investments and instead of being KCed, the senior investors will do the KCing. The KCing can even be done on a team level against a group of girls. For want of a better analogy, I would describe this as similar to IRS (interest rate swaps).

Unfortunately most bros are like the old uncles who bought into the Minibonds without knowing what are structured investments all about, who have never even heard of the term collateral debt obligations. These are the people who will get burnt.

The seasoned bros who see the whole picture are like the institutional investors. No amount of supply can influence their demand. The seasoned bros would be able to calculate the arbitrage and go in for the kill as and when a suitable opportunity arise.

Therefore I think it will be inevitable that there will be more and more bros getting KCed and getting burnt in the process because that is how this market is structured.

SIBEH CHIM MAN!!! 甘拜下风

[Zen Sex]

Bro Slider_72, do agreed with you in some points however investment might not be suitable as an example here. Apparently there is no ROI but giving and giving to the undetermine dark hole that can never be filled.

Anything related to relationship is something that once will give without an expection of any return. Likewise for any decision made, the outcome is face the reality.

[colins]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Not exactly. My theory is as follow;

A guy may not be looking for KC (ie no demand) but the WL may come on to him (ie supply is present). The WL creates the 希望, and in these circumstances most guys would succumb and go for it (ie supply creates the demand).

I would agree if there is a need for love and affection from a member of the opposite sex, the guy should not be looking for it amongst the pratitioner of the flesh trade. That is asking for trouble. Most times the bros who get involved in KC problems with members of this profession are mired in it not because they are looking for it but because the girls made themselves available. The high hand ones would play cock teaser first but give a sufficient dosage of 希望 in order to ensnare the guy.

With every rule, there is an exception to the rule. The exception would be those who intentionally go looking for for KC with the WLs probably because they are facing some emotional crisis like a failed relationship and thus on the rebound.

Wah bro, a lot of technical terms. hahaha.... can only answer to the first part.

When a WL create a hope (希望), she has to read you like a book first. She needs to know what you lack what you want in life that you can't get, then hint to you that what you can get is with her. She then show you her strong points accordingly and tailor make herself to your 'demand', but never give it to you. That is why every girl appears differently to every man, and only the super highhand can appear the same (cos she consistently go after one type of men, successful ones).

In that, I will say demand comes first. Demand that even oneself doesn't know. That's why I said your girl had already KCed you on the way back to her place. She knows something about you that perhaps you dun even know. And she has already tailored herself to your needs. The rest is up to you now, but remember she will always remain the girl in the world who somehow suits you. That, my friend, is a very very strong attraction.