Need a help(Serious Issue)

[colins]

Originally Posted by The_Rules

what???was that an ironic ??

Yes, just like the rest of it in this thread.

My only advice is, besides what's been written over and over again on the previous posts, put a few more years between now and your ideal state, and you will turn out fine with an upcoming brilliant future.

In the meantime, do a search for "pick-up artist" under google, and read all you can on how to pick up girls in all situations. Those should help a lot.

[hallehluya]

Oh come on, you are eager. Look you even started a thread to ask about getting girls.

Everyone wants a girl, it's nothing to be shy about. What I meant was, don't show your eagerness when you're trying to get a girl. Nothing turns a girl off more than a desperate man who just wants some pussy.

As many other people has said, you're still young. Only 18. Enjoy life lar.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

5 years is nothing, there are many pp here have no gf for 10 years and when they find one its the very best.

No chinese girls in your class? So you choice is really limited. Then get a malay gf first, not asking you to marry her but if you really end up with her either she denouce her religion or you take up hers. Malay girls are also very nice you know? Afterall you are living in Maysia so your choice is also quite limited unless you move to a town full of chinese girls or school with many chinese girls.

If you want HOT GIRLS then you must grow up first ok? Since you are well to do, not short of money and have a bright future then next time get a good job drive a good car work in big City or town with lotsa HOT GIRLS. I'm sure you can hook up a few.

So are you having school holiday?

im not livin in the kampung actually,there are a lot of chinese chicks in the town too.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by hallehluya

Oh come on, you are eager. Look you even started a thread to ask about getting girls.

Everyone wants a girl, it's nothing to be shy about. What I meant was, don't show your eagerness when you're trying to get a girl. Nothing turns a girl off more than a desperate man who just wants some pussy.

As many other people has said, you're still young. Only 18. Enjoy life lar.

im not that eager on getting girl,im more eager whether my look and my personal ability can get a hot chick a not.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

OIC..... But you want HOT GIRLS right? So are you having your school holidays?

thats right,and no,im not havin a school holidays.

[hallehluya]

Probably not. I think it's time to whip out the 'I have money' card.

Originally Posted by The_Rules

im not that eager on getting girl,im more eager whether my look and my personal ability can get a hot chick a not.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by hallehluya

Probably not. I think it's time to whip out the 'I have money' card.

i dont give a damn,yea,im rich,thats a fact,aint need to whip it out,cause your just jealous .

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Ok then... my final suggestion to you... inorder to ensure a higher chances of getting HOT GIRLS.

Be a good man with successful career, drive an expensive car and earn lots of money.

That will take you another few more year since you are only 18 years old Maysian student.

So what you need to do now most urgently is to go sleep, takecare of your health and beauty. If you think too much end up have brain cancer how? Want to get HOT GIRLS also no chance already.

Tomorrow wake up tell yourself by looking into the mirror confidently saying:

"I must grow up to be good man, rich and sucessful, so I can try n have all the HOT GIRLS I want"

Ok good night. Its not school holiday.

maybe i shouldn't think too much about gettin a hot girls ,and hell yea, your right,rich ,sucessful ,expensive cars,i can get them all by myself easily one day,which will turn into all of haters get jealous about my success .

[colins]

Thats right, and you also dun need to open a thread and ask people to judge your looks.

[hallehluya]

You ask a question and I answer it.

If it's not the answer you're looking for, why ask it in a forum? You can just go to the mirror and ask yourself, then tell yourself whatever you want to know.

Oh you're rich then? I already told you to get yourself a hot chick from GL. If you're pissed can get someone to settle scores with me since you're in a gang, and you're rich.

[shuaige84]

Originally Posted by The_Rules

^i know,bro,but i just wanna know whether my look is somewhere that below average or what ??and actually i came from a decent family which can afford a good rides,branded clothes and big house.And i also have a confidence on handle everything except hot chicks.I wanna know how to let them know that im rich ????by showing them my wallet ???also how to talk to them???i have no clue what i was goin to say everytime i talk with a girl,even thought i try hard to talk to them,i was speechless after a couple of talks.And which kind of place has a higher chances to get a girl ???club???pub???or shopping center.

bro i think u need to brush up on ur communication skills. like how to engage in a lively interesting talks with girls. its not easy to master. need practice and time... everyone not born to be eloquent..

if u are so particular abt looks and need ppl to gv u opinion on ur looks its best u seek opinion with plastic surgeon. they have more accurate judgement of beauty

[GTR34NurSpecII]

If having $$$ and expensive cars result in gettin you hot chicks, wat's the point of that?

Ya better off having mistress or visiting WLs.....

Least your feelings would not be cheated...

My 2 ringgets worth...

[jiro08]

its better for your gf/wife to like your character / personality rather than like your money / looks. So its better to enhance your inner beauty surely there will be nice girls out there notice you one

just my 2cents worth

[EtherC]

1. You are a big whiny baby. Quit whining about how you look?
2. Its not how you look its just that you have the mentality of a loser.
3. Enrol in a business course or some other course where there are loads of girls. If you're surrounded by them day in day out you will have the confidence to talk to them eventually.
4. Have some cool hobbies. Not what is cool for you but what girls think is cool. Like adventure sports: rock climbing, scuba diving, ab sailing, canoeing etc. Things you can teach a girl.
5.If you're smart (which I don't think you are) you should try to top the class and tutor them.
6. If I see one more whiny post from you again. I'll zap you. AGAIN & AGAIN!

[l337House]

I question your judgement to ask questions like this on a forum dedicated to people out to pay for sex. This isn't a PUA (pickup artist) forum, neither is this a self-help forum. But I'm sympathetic to you, so I'll help you out a bit

18 was right about the time I was worried I won't ever get laid because I was overweight, I was Chinese (in the American School), and I was heading back to the US. However, once I got there, I realized that it just wasn't about the looks. Some of these guys are right; the most butt ugly Jew in the US probably snagged the hot chicks all the time. Why? Money. Women are attracted to wealth. I'm not saying you should just go up to a chick and say, "Hi, I'm fat but rich...", but that money gave the Jew a great boost of confidence, because he was rich and he knew it.

Then, after I knew I wasn't about to win the Powerball (US version of your 4D, and yes, in my ignorance, I played for a few times), I decided that there had to be something else. Living in LA, you see hot people all the time. Good looking white guys, good looking black guys, good looking yellow guys, good looking brown guys. Even the majority of chicks were hotter once you entered L.A. County. So maybe I thought if I looked better, it'd all come to me like flies to shit. I got a gym membership, went on Atkins, lost a bunch of weight. It worked a bit. I looked better, I felt more confident about myself, and more girls talked to you. But then, I couldn't close the deal! I knew I talked to more girls. I had a bunch of girl-friends (not girlfriends) that I hung out with, etc. But I just didn't play my cards right. So where do I go from there? I handled looking better, I got some self confidence, and I'm a slick talker, but I couldn't close the deal. One fateful day, I stumbled across a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss. Some of the people in this community might have heard of it.

After I read "The Game", everything changed. I didn't put my weight back on, but I knew that I found a great resource. Being able to really communicate your interest and generate attraction was one of those things that few men instinctively knew. I scrapped together as much about the PUA community as I could to learn the methods that great PUAs and PUG (pickup gurus) were using to great success. I learned them rote, memorized them, and then.....

I realized that the real key was being able to talk to girls, being smooth, and knowing how to build attraction. I fell on my face a couple times, I embarrassed the hell out of myself a lot. I stammered, spilled my drink, and retreated to the bathroom in shame. I would walk up, try to talk to girls, and made friends. But I didn't make no lovers. After much practice, trial, and especially error, I started to get the hang of it. One success shocked me.....a one night stand, and I'm an Asian dude! WOW....It changed my life.

But after the 2nd, the 3rd, the 4th, and all that, nothing much about my looks have changed. I'm not famous, I'm not good looking. But I can talk smooth, I feel confident about myself, and I strive to improve my game. Just because you've got money doesn't mean anything. You're looking for some sort of acceptance from a girl who will like you for you, and not your wallet. So maybe you should think about what you really really want. You want a good looking girl? You want to get laid? You want a hooker? Or you want to change your image?

You can't get it all at the same time, but you can certainly set your ducks up in a row. Do what you can first, like work out, lose weight, and change that mother-trucking hairdo. Once you look better, you'll feel better about yourself. Once you feel better, you'll do better with the girls. You might be a smooth talker now, but you can't do it around girls because your insecurities keep popping up in your head. Take a few shots of liquid courage (booze of choice) and talk to girls. Talk to guys. Talk to strangers. Old. Young. You'll learn how to interact with people. And then you can start learning about gaming. What to say, when to say it. How to build attraction. How to carry yourself.

But yea, it'll take awhile. You're better off studying a lot now, since you Singaporeans love yourself a good education. Work out in the meantime. Jerk off to relieve stress. Run 2 or 3 miles a day. Stop eating junk food. Before you know it, you'll be 20 and you'll be looking much better than your 18 year old self. And during this time, go out. Don't sit and hang out at some arcade. Go to a club. See how the guys that are bringing home the pussy interact with girls. See how they dress. See how they carry themselves. You're honestly just a really insecure kid. You can overcome this crap if you just set your mind to it.

And honestly, you expect to get good advice from people who pay for sex?

Dude......I mean, come on......

As a matter of fact, I'm willing to bet there's plenty of guys out there who are on this forum that can't pick up a girl to save their life without a fifty dollar bill.