A painful decision

[cablesnwires]

Originally Posted by Zen Sex

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Apparently there is no ROI but giving and giving to the undetermine dark hole that can never be filled.

Not really true, there is ROI, but in different form, and likely it is intangible. Typical example would be that he felt needed and that someone show concern for him (of course, this is superficial at most, but he doesn't want to know since he is already mired in the KC).

Originally Posted by Zen Sex

Anything related to relationship is something that once will give without an expection of any return. Likewise for any decision made, the outcome is face the reality.

Agreed with this, but how many of us really don't expect anything in return?

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by Zen Sex

Bro Slider_72, do agreed with you in some points however investment might not be suitable as an example here. Apparently there is no ROI but giving and giving to the undetermine dark hole that can never be filled.

Anything related to relationship is something that once will give without an expection of any return. Likewise for any decision made, the outcome is face the reality.

yr nick gt class man. hehehe. wat u and slider_72 said have their truth cos not all man react the same when KCed, depend on their personalities. some adventurous ones r willing to do many crazy things for the girl just to make her happy. some calculative ones will think of returns 1st then give. maybe u belongs to the adventurous type.

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by Zen Sex

Bro Slider_72, do agreed with you in some points however investment might not be suitable as an example here. Apparently there is no ROI but giving and giving to the undetermine dark hole that can never be filled.

Ahhhh... That is applicable for the newbies who don't know the rules of the game. They give thinking that there will be a ROI. There might be some intangible ROI in the form of getting the desired attention during that period of time but more often than not the investments would be wasted.

For the seasoned cheongsters who know the rules of the game, there would be calculated giving with a clear objective in mind. I am not a seasoned cheongster but I have witnessed how it is done. There is a ROI on the investment made.

Whether it is a dark hole or not, if you are in control, why worry? Using another analogy, if you are an oil company drilling for oil, you will have your geophysists and petroleum engineers conduct seismic surveys, well-logging data, etc before deciding where to drill a new well. After the well is drilled, you would place the Christmas tree over the wellhead to control the pressure.

Its all about knowledge and control, bro.

Originally Posted by colins

In that, I will say demand comes first. Demand that even oneself doesn't know. That's why I said your girl had already KCed you on the way back to her place. She knows something about you that perhaps you dun even know. And she has already tailored herself to your needs. The rest is up to you now, but remember she will always remain the girl in the world who somehow suits you. That, my friend, is a very very strong attraction.

Indeed a Honourable Member of the all-seeing and all-knowing Jedi Council. I frankly did not see how she started her KC on the way back that night. All I remembered was that I was starting to get a hangover and was desperate to get home and hit the sack.

I still have lots to learn.

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Using another analogy, if you are an oil company drilling for oil, you will have your geophysists and petroleum engineers conduct seismic surveys, well-logging data, etc before deciding where to drill a new well. After the well is drilled, you would place the Christmas tree over the wellhead to control the pressure.

Bro Slider_72, u beri steady ley, yesterday is lawyer, today become driller

[colins]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Indeed a Honourable Member of the all-seeing and all-knowing Jedi Council. I frankly did not see how she started her KC on the way back that night. All I remembered was that I was starting to get a hangover and was desperate to get home and hit the sack.

I still have lots to learn.

Cannot say this, I'm more for you-watch-my-back-I-watch-yours. Though I can't say this to jojogigi cos he watches arse. hahaha...juz kidding.

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by slider_72

I frankly did not see how she started her KC on the way back that night. All I remembered was that I was starting to get a hangover and was desperate to get home and hit the sack.

I still have lots to learn.

Still talking about the China Doll huh!!!

Seems like she did got your attention somehow.

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Still talking about the China Doll huh!!!

Seems like she did got your attention somehow.

Au contraire, mon ami. It is not Dalian Dolly that we are talking about here. It is she, comme une fleur, son nom est lis.

Translation : like a flower, her name is [insert name] No good to post her name so openly lah.

Merci beaucoup.

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Bro Slider_72, u beri steady ley, yesterday is lawyer, today become driller

No lah. I am still an Ah Beng.

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Au contraire, mon ami. It is not Dalian Dolly that we are talking about here. It is she, comme une fleur, son nom est lis.

Translation : like a flower, her name is [insert name] No good to post her name so openly lah.

Merci beaucoup.

I catch no Balls.........I can only blame myself for not studying hard enough when I am young....din take up third language, only know how to play marbles

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

I catch no Balls.........I can only blame myself for not studying hard enough when I am young....din take up third language, only know how to play marbles

Well, the ladies have always complimented me on being a cunning linguist. The way to a woman's heart is how a man works the gifts of the tongue.

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Well, the ladies have always complimented me on being a cunning linguist. The way to a woman's heart is how a man works the gifts of the tongue.

Pattern Liao Liao

Why are u still here posting, I tot you guys are activated to HFJ tonite!!!

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Pattern Liao Liao

Why are u still here posting, I tot you guys are activated to HFJ tonite!!!

Tell you already I am an Ah Beng but you don't believe so lim pei bo pian must chu pattern and pretend to be damn clever like scholar lor.

Tonight stand down lei. You cannot make it tio bo? Your fault we also kanna stand down lah. Next time go kopi you buy.

[EtherC]

You mean like oral sex? =p

Originally Posted by slider_72

Well, the ladies have always complimented me on being a cunning linguist. The way to a woman's heart is how a man works the gifts of the tongue.

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by EtherC

You mean like oral sex? =p

I don't know why they always get so excited whenever I lick my eyebrows.

[colins]

Originally Posted by slider_72

I don't know why they always get so excited whenever I lick my eyebrows.

Like that you dun need to hang flowers liao. Just stand in front of the stage and do your stunt. I think they will just fling themselves at you.