TCSS thread "My favourite MASSAGE girls"

[SMRTLTD]

Originally Posted by Show Stopper

When a person does too much hj, the sensitivity of his dick will be reduced significantly. Unless he behaves like the porn actors who have to ram hard and fast to increase the stimulation and sensitivity of his dick, if not he will have difficulty in cumming when the ML uses slow pace and only up & down hj movements.

He has to look for ML with gd sensual skill and 5G roaming and maybe go for bbbj with CIM first and slowly switch to bbbj and cum in hj.

Exactly.. Is all about re-calibrating your brain to the human touch, especially from the fairer sex..

The “death grip” issue is a common problem and can only be solved if one stops PCC-ing for a few weeks, and after that is all about doing it in moderation..

At the end of the day, a kkj is supposed to be sliding in and out of a vag, and not by your own hands..

[angusmackenzie]

Originally Posted by Btbh

It’s prob cause your grip is also way tighter than a pussy. Just stop jacking off for 2 months and you’ll be back to normal

Yup, old habits die hard though, I hope I can stay "clean" over the next couple of weeks.

[SMRTLTD]

Originally Posted by angusmackenzie

I'll be very thankful if I can be back to normal in 2 weeks. From what I read online, it takes around 2-3 months to "reset". I've stopped PCCing and watching any media that may edge or make me want to PCC. I only allow myself to release via female contact.

As for the CIM part, one ML that did BJ for me commented that her mouth would cramp first since I took so long to shoot, finished with a HJ

If 2 weeks don’t work for u, slowly increase the duration as u see fit lor..

All the best in your journey.. The initial stages will be quite difficult as u will go through the “cold turkey” period, but once u clear that hurdle everything else should be smooth-sailing..

Do report back here next month to see if it works..

[angusmackenzie]

Originally Posted by samunouno

feel for u bro. i think you are on the right track though. try to quit porn totally. i think continue to rtm the ML that can help u come well, maybe visit once or twice a week. see if can unlock so that u can naturally transit into fj (if it is possible). i don’t believe this will be solved so easily in just 2 weeks. i’m no sex therapist, but i think it will be a good idea to see one. there are also now many vids from such therapists on tik tok. many promote what u are trying to do now. but just see one to get good and proper advice once and for all.

Yeah, thanks for your advice, I'll see how it goes first by going "cold turkey" and RTMing MLs that I've built some rapport with.

[angusmackenzie]

Originally Posted by SMRTLTD

If 2 weeks don’t work for u, slowly increase the duration as u see fit lor..

All the best in your journey.. The initial stages will be quite difficult as u will go through the “cold turkey” period, but once u clear that hurdle everything else should be smooth-sailing..

Do report back here next month to see if it works..

Thanks! I believe you'll see the gradual improvements I made in my future FRs

[samunouno]

Originally Posted by angusmackenzie

Yeah, thanks for you advice, I'll see how it goes first by going "cold turkey" and RTMing MLs that I've built some rapport with.

do share your progress with all. i actually think your problem is not unique. i think there are many younger gen bros here who face the same problem. access to porn and settled with hand has become so much easier than chasing a girl to screw. can’t imagine when metaverse come then how sia. what u are doing is easier said than done. it also takes courage to say this out. and i think it will only help. sincerely wish the best for u!

[angusmackenzie]

Originally Posted by samunouno

do share your progress with all. i actually think your problem is not unique. i think there are many younger gen bros here who face the same problem. access to porn and settled with hand has become so much easier than chasing a girl to screw. can’t imagine when metaverse come then how sia. what u are doing is easier said than done. it also takes courage to say this out. and i think it will only help. sincerely wish the best for u!

Yeah sure, hopefully by sharing my progress I can help others who are also facing the same problem but didn't share or voice out. I contemplated whether I should share my condition here, but this is something that you wouldn't usually discuss with your family members or close friends, so I thought of sharing here to get some advice and support.

Alright, enough about me, let's go back to sharing FRs

[SMRTLTD]

Originally Posted by angusmackenzie

Thanks! I believe you'll see the gradual improvements I made in my future FRs

If u think about having any cheat days during that period, absolutely do not succumb to it lol..

U will only undo your hard work and progress, and the day counter will have to be reset to day 1 on the next day..

[bondage]

Originally Posted by angusmackenzie

It's not a good thing though, some MLs complained that their hands were tired from jacking me off but I still didn't cum. Sometimes I have to do it myself else the session will go into overtime.

The reason I can last so long without cumming is because I used to jack off to porn excessively. Now my brain is wired in such a way that I can only cum by my own hands while watching porn, so it's difficult for others to make me cum during sensual.

I have since stopped watching porn and masturbating recently, only relying on MLs for release. It could take several months to rewire my brain so that I'm normal again, but I'm determined to do it.

Train yourself to listen to your brother and climax when he tells you to.

[angusmackenzie]

Originally Posted by bondage

Train yourself to listen to your brother and climax when he tells you to.

Interestingly, when the ML is stimulating me, I can't cum unless I flick a mental switch. Even then, I'll still take a couple of minutes before I cum. If I don't flick the switch, I'll still cum eventually when little bro buay tahan, but it'll take much longer

When I'm PCCing, I can control exactly when to shoot

[heartykid]

Was in the east and near the JC area so last min look around. Cherie replied quite quickly and easy to book.

https://sglonelyguy-11.com/cherie-massage/

Location is good for drivers. Lots of roadside parking. Foot soldier not too sure.
Body: definitely not E cup.
Massage : NA. Straight to sensual after bath tgt.
Service : was really good thou. Very accommodating and hardworking. Total played tgt around 40 to 45 mins before I erupted in her hands. Shiok.
RTM: maybe when I'm in the area and in need.

[bondage]

Originally Posted by angusmackenzie

Interestingly, when the ML is stimulating me, I can't cum unless I flick a mental switch. Even then, I'll still take a couple of minutes before I cum. If I don't flick the switch, I'll still cum eventually when little bro buay tahan, but it'll take much longer

When I'm PCCing, I can control exactly when to shoot

I would suggest that a large part has to do with the interaction between both parties. Ideally both are relaxed and the inter play builds up. Especially if you can tell her how you want it and she has the touch. Rough HJ is not always workable. Like the bro said, the penis is meant to be inside the pussy and when pussy contracts or grips etc. That's why the ML uses oil fake FJ etc etc to simulate.

But in commercial setting, it's not always the case of smooth natural or spontaneous build up etc. When she is able to convince you like you are her lover and husband, the mental switch would be powerful.

I get that when she makes me climax thru her efforts and she tells me she wanted to tell herself that I'm her lover and husband.

[helpmefast]

I think I'll try AnAn for gfe+cim ML next few days bah, hope she's great hahaha...

Or if y'all got recommendations 😅

[angusmackenzie]

Originally Posted by bondage

I would suggest that a large part has to do with the interaction between both parties. Ideally both are relaxed and the inter play builds up.

Bro, I think you hit the nail on the head! I love to French to feel more intimate and involved, but none of the MLs I visited allow it, so there's this gap in intimacy which prevented me from reaching a higher sensual level and that may the reason for the delay in response.

[Show Stopper]

She is a gd choice for sensual. My dick will turn soft if the ML/FL turns me off with poor hygiene, bad attitude or a lot of restrictions. A stuffy and warm environment also turns me off. MLs with high playability, high gfe (frenching and dirty talks) and 5G roaming will make my dick rock hard and cum fast. I can feel the difference clearly as my heart will be beating fast when being stimulated.