A painful decision

[jojogigi]

Originally Posted by colins

Cannot say this, I'm more for you-watch-my-back-I-watch-yours. Though I can't say this to jojogigi cos he watches arse. hahaha...juz kidding.

i only watch do you bj's and no 68's arse... hohoho

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Tonight stand down lei. You cannot make it tio bo? Your fault we also kanna stand down lah. Next time go kopi you buy.

Lim Kopi eat prata I buy no prob lah, if Lim Beer at cheapo KTV also can, but hor Qiu Jiu at HFJ....that type Xiao Ti can't help liao, bcos me also Ah Seng bo study.....work like hell also earn peanuts onli....you Bros patronise kind of Joints, one nite spending like my one years no eat no spend income like tat.

Hiaz....HFJ, I can only smell but cant see no touch lah, touch liao I sell my virgin Kar Chng also not enough.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Lim Kopi eat prata I buy no prob lah, if Lim Beer at cheapo KTV also can, but hor Qiu Jiu at HFJ....that type Xiao Ti can't help liao, bcos me also Ah Seng bo study.....work like hell also earn peanuts onli....you Bros patronise kind of Joints, one nite spending like my one years no eat no spend income like tat.

Hiaz....HFJ, I can only smell but cant see no touch lah, touch liao I sell my virgin Kar Chng also not enough.

Remember wat u say, there's a kopi session tonight, so you got more than 12hours to prepare liaozzzzzzzzz
C U then.

[Zen Sex]

Originally Posted by cablesnwires

Not really true, there is ROI, but in different form, and likely it is intangible.

If the person think it is an investment and expect ROI, then the preception is totally wrong. Human is not product, if it does then the relationship is fake and the so call ROI is also fake.

[Zen Sex]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Its all about knowledge and control, bro.

Yupe however when the feeling come, it blind their preception and no seeing the reality. That is human and especially man with full of LOVE.

[tokkon1]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

It's all hunky dory now but once you've lived with her for a few years, you'll find they're all the same.

Hi boss,

Your one liner, its so funny. It always makes me laugh.

Seems like nothing's sacred to you.

[angelinekoh16]

hi porscheclub,

it have been very long since you last post a reply on this thread..i readed your story.. can`t help thinking that you might be my husband.. but some story of your seem not quite same with my husband.. but our story is about the same.

so who have you choosed? your wife or your gf? do you mind sharing?

[ju3t4fun]

Hi Porscheclud

I am in the same boat and it is actually difficult to make a decision. Whatever decision, one of them will be hurt. Also, going back to your wife may not be the same again, can she forgive and forget?

[angelinekoh16]

hi ju3t4fun,

ya it is hard to forgive and forget.. but with lot of love give to your wife.. she will forgive and forget for the sake of the child. if u have one. also u need to tell ur wife what u don`t like about her.. i believe if she love u and the child, she will change for the better.

i am reading this fourm to learn.. to learn how to have a better sex life and also hope to win him back. i hope he could give me a chance.

[shanshen]

Bro TS

have u ever consider to check the ba zhi to find out if both of you are compatible..( refer to u and yr gf, or u and yr wife ).

i have attended coure on this; if your dob and your gf dob (must be the "english version" as in china, different province uses different method, some use the "lunar date") has sets of 2&7 or 7&2


1 set of 2&7 or 7&2 - both of u are compatible
2 sets - third parties (can in inlaws or gf) interfering and may leads
to problem in relationships
3 sets - strong compatibility and third parties not able to rock it
4 sets - its a marriage made in heaven
5 sets - diasaters in the relationship...
no sets of it - not compatibe, just attraction which which the love will not last long..

also if the ladies has 2&7 or 7&2 with a 9 as its root number, this lady has very high chance to be someone mistress or living a life like a mistress...(meaning enjoying life to without having to work)

I am not a fortune teller but this couse i attended, helps me to understand myself better...

[ju3t4fun]

Hi Angeline

I don't how to tell her, each time I brought up the issue, she will said that I think very negative of her. Anyway it long story.

I think it is not just sex that you can win him back. The different between a PRC and a SGP gal is the the former still believe man is superior than woman and don't mind to be the little woman(小女人，whereby the SGP gal want equality. It not wrong to demand for equality (my six cents) but man is still man, they still want to be in commanding position.

[ING ING]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

Well, bros. My time has come. Not too sure if this is a poll, a story or asking for comments. For months, I suffered & tormented for I fell in love with another women. She's all that any men would ever wanted. She's a dozen years younger, talented, good cook, takes care of me tenderly like a nurse, has a kind heart & loves kids. She is beautiful, a gem among the field & an attraction in parties. Most importantly, she loves me dearly. Sex is unbelievable but I've reached a point where it's not the must have and lived without it for more than a year.

Bro, my advice would be make a decision after you SERIOUSLY thought thru. You dun want to live your life with regrets later.

[ING ING]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

I will choose the family and children, a Man regardless, must take up the responsibilities which he have started, and even if he carrys with 遗憾 / regrets to his grave.....so be it.

In today world, you can have another new family with the kids. I have a friend who I see his marriage(10 yrs) should last long. But then his wife and him divorce in the shortest time. Guess the feeling has gone and his wife do not want to continue the lifestyle for whole life.

[ToxicHex]

Quote "She's a dozen years younger, talented, good cook, takes care of me tenderly like a nurse, has a kind heart & loves kids. She is beautiful, a gem among the field & an attraction in parties. Most importantly, she loves me dearly. Sex is unbelievable"

Bro, sorry to be straight, but when i look at this, it seems superficial..bcos of how she carries herself it excites you. Just a few kind words:

1) She hot, well she's young too. Little girls are like lollipops always the sweetest...but why do u feel this way?

Ans: U've been in the marriage too long, e romance has sizzled. U noe that n u wan smthing more...the fun u had w gfs, the young days of excitement. She makes u feel like the man...(Of cos la, cos we are more matured, more financially capable & as a gf we dun have to commit like we haf to in marriage). So now you feel like u have wings.

But think, ur wife who stood by u through times when u didn;t haf a good life. Is she that bad? Try to recall the good old days...cos u will only feel it when u leave the marriage. Now, ur view wil be clouded for sure.

One day, when ur romance with this young girl dies out...u will think abt ur wife. Questions like "Y i couldn be more discipline", "y i let my kids down", all the what ifs, maybes would surface. Think of the days when u dated ur wife, when she watched u when u were sick, hw she brought up the kids. If she is f up all the while...den choose the new girl. If she does everything for u, for the family..think twice & wisely. Dun be biased when thinking.

We man are easily swayed...always distracted and give our selves all the defensive reasons as if we know how to love. But do we? Here we are at SBF lookin for fun...to perk our lives...discreet fine. But to ruin not just ur life but ur kid's, ur wife's and also ur young gf's.....

What's love? A lifetime of commitment thru thick n thin, the wedding vows...i cudn do it. But many a times we look back...is the grass really greener? Do we wan greener pastures? if this is wat we wan...then y settle now in the first place?

There is no right or wrong. Most importantly, WE as man must always be happy. We like to be THE MAN. But solve this issue well...minimise the pain. I hope ur decision will be a gd one...

Godspeed buddy.

[Megatronzombie]

Originally Posted by angelinekoh16

hi porscheclub,

it have been very long since you last post a reply on this thread..i readed your story.. can`t help thinking that you might be my husband.. but some story of your seem not quite same with my husband.. but our story is about the same.

so who have you choosed? your wife or your gf? do you mind sharing?

Godspeed, Angeline. Hope you managed to save your marriage. There's too many divorces going on right now..

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by the way...

its 'read' not 'readed'