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[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

- you are really penniless, means you really burn all your $$$, and make sure you dun hold any future jobs for a period of time after the divorce.

- your ex-wife is totally clueless of her rights and the legal process

morale of the story - never teach the VB too clever...if possible never bring them here...just go over to stay with them...

[V|ernar]

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

Huh??? You do this in Sinkapor or Wetnam????

Either location also not advisable, Sinkapor you will get slapped with spousal abuse or battery, in Wetnam you dunno what connections they have cos we are the foreigners, unless you have tons of $$$$ to throw at the local mafia or police to help you out so if not better not be so reckless......

The laws in Sinkapor already tweaked over so many years through experiences until almost all the loopholes are filled, the only way you can really avoid is that,

- you are really penniless, means you really burn all your $$$, and make sure you dun hold any future jobs for a period of time after the divorce.

- your ex-wife is totally clueless of her rights and the legal process

Cheerios......SS08 ^_^

i have my way ~ hehe ... and i slash the alimony to the lowest damage and 1 shot payment .. not those long term car installment .. and the car isnt drive by you .

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

Nope this is not possible, even though both are in the same filing process you need to attend the 1st few hearings to determine the divorce approval before proceeding to the alimony & maintenance claims, actually this can be explained using logical sense - if your divorce application are not even approved, how can the courts start to hear on the alimony claims as it is a post process???

Process wise, correct.
But i did mine together... agree on the cause of divorce and ANCILLARY MATTERS within 1 hearing

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

But I learnt 1 BIG thing this trip, never go Patts during the New Year unless its Chinese New Year, cos all the barfines go up nevermind, some outlets even forbid LT and only allow ST coupled with the tons of japs vying with you for the SYTs

no one vying with you for LB ma

[Honey Boon]

Originally Posted by jackbl

No use la... must report strength to the Band of chionging brothers

reported but realised most of you guys have left the group chat

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

Platoon...........sedi.......ya........

Senang diri

Report strength IC

Cheerios......SS08 ^_^

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

no one vying with you for LB ma

Doggie will if he was there

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

reported but realised most of you guys have left the group chat

Then u can report to the chat place... so near your house

[lasupkia]

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

Nope this is not possible, even though both are in the same filing process you need to attend the 1st few hearings to determine the divorce approval before proceeding to the alimony & maintenance claims, actually this can be explained using logical sense - if your divorce application are not even approved, how can the courts start to hear on the alimony claims as it is a post process???

Cheerios.......SS08 ^_^

There are still loopholes in Sinkapor. The bloodsucking lawyer can backdate the separation date. For approval of the divorce application, you don't have to attend any hearing. The lawyer will let you know the date to attend the court. If there's no objections from both parties to the claims then u only need to attend the family court once. After the judgement about 3 months and u will get the papers.

For those cases where one spouse cannot be located, it's most troublesome and need to wait 7 years. Happened to a friend who married a Sabah girl who disappeared.

It's best to negotiate any claims or alimony whatsoever before going to court as this will cut down on the costs and time.

[haojian]

Please teach me how to send her back without paying alimony or maybe just send her back without a divorce???
Her work permit expires on april. I suspect she wants to go home to meet her lover. what can I do to stop her from coming.....?

[volcano]

Originally Posted by haojian

I have sent the smses that i collected to certified vietnamese translators, will be getting the report tomorrow.

if i cant get custody of my babies, i may not get a divorce. just live as strangers with her until my babies grow up

wah....u send the sms to certified translators to do translation,how much did u pay....

there are already some semi certified instant translators here liao mah...but dun get mistaken,i am not one of them....

from my point of view,u shld go ahead with ur divorce case.its not that easy to stay under the same roof while treating each others as strangers.and it is not a good environment for ur kids to grow up in.

i personally think that the chances for her wanting to gain custody of the children is quite low if she is really having an affair.

but do really keep a cool head and think carefully before doing any actions.

best wishes to u....

[volcano]

Originally Posted by haojian

maybe just send her back without a divorce???

dun think that its a smart choice to do that.

u want to get urself 'stucked' in the married statues.....

and nobody knows wat will happen after 5-10 years.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by volcano

wah....u send the sms to certified translators to do translation,how much did u pay....

there are already some semi certified instant translators here liao mah...but dun get mistaken,i am not one of them....

Dun be mistaken, you are not one of the semi certified instant translators..... You are certified instant translator!!! I was told by some bro who went hcmc and know u there

[Thom07]

Originally Posted by Killer_c

Hanoi eh..? i will there too.. when u gg..?

by the way.. where is my fried chicken u hv promised me..??

Went and back. Very cold but cosy.

And your darling had eaten your fried chicken a long long time ago.

[Thom07]

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

No need to contemplate, dun say we never take care or think of u hor, we going Jakarta again in about 5 to 6 weeks time so faster go book tickets liao Already got 3 heads confirmed so include you 4 heads just rite for 1 taxi

Cheerios......SS08 ^_^

Remember to visit that place which I had told Zaryl previously.

[snipeshot08]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

morale of the story - never teach the VB too clever...if possible never bring them here...just go over to stay with them...

U different lah Tua Hong kor kor oi cause you kena Toto 1st prize mah so can stay there long term mah we this type orpit workers can only visit nia nia cannot stay there long term

Cheerios........SS08 ^_^