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Old 19-10-2019, 11:44 AM
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

When our mind want sex, and wife is not giving, its definitely not healthy and not helping cause we cant concentrate on our work. Guys do need to de stress and wives just does not seem to understand.

Wives like to shop online, which I don't understand also, but I know it is a need. So if we can understand them, why cant they understand us?

Anyway, you need to have a open discussion with your wife, else, things will just get worse
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

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How your wife put on 20+ kilos, bad sex and yet still had affair / SD? That does not compute ...
Because some men will fuck anything.
She was greedy for money...
She'll believe promises other men make...
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Old 19-10-2019, 11:16 PM
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How your wife put on 20+ kilos, bad sex and yet still had affair / SD? That does not compute ...
Maybe the SD like Bigger size ladies?
Everyone got their own preference and their own cup of tea i guess.
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Old 20-10-2019, 02:50 AM
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Kinda disagree with this point.
Of coz we men can think of hundreds of reason/excuse to justify the reason for eating out. But having sex with a 3rd party with or without money or feeling involved is cheating.
A more simplified scenario is can you accept your wife fucking another man if she pays. Do you consider that as betrayal/cheating?

Anagin, I do not object to eating out. But what kept me away from it is the same concern TS had, STD.
There's many kind, but not all can be prevented by condoms.
I understand your points.

Yes, I could have said >
No sex/ Sex really dwindled, just endure it, respect the wife's decision,
that's what a good husband should do.
DIY/Mastb or better yet exercise to relief the stress.

"... wife fucking another man if she pays... "
> Yes, I don't deny there are women who do that too,

Then again, it is known that sexual desire is typically higher in men than in women, with testosterone thought to account for this difference as well as within-sex variation in desire in both women and men.

Condom.
> To trust them or not, research and you decide.

Suggestions brought up this topic:
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1. Husband and wife should have a good talk to resolve the situation.
2. Be a good spouse and endure/continue with the no sex life.
3. Go separate ways and live a new life.
4. Pay or No Pay 3rd party for sex.
etc...

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion
and I wish everyone all the best and good health.

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Old 20-10-2019, 07:00 AM
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

We should setup a married bman club that has the same fate. Married man is different from other group. They don't have much freedom yet married man are more understanding
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Old 20-10-2019, 10:59 AM
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

many thanks to bros for sharing. we guys should have a group chat to ttss, to relieve some tension in us..

dear ts, just my 2 cents, if you venture to GL or anywhere, pls fxxk and go. many have high KC power to burn hole in our wallets. i did not take this advise and pay for my mistakes.. my whole wallet got burned, damn fxxking dong dong..

just my suggestion, don't burn me.
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Old 20-10-2019, 12:05 PM
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

It only gets worse from here on
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Old 20-10-2019, 03:11 PM
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

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not an uncommon problem TS.
if scared STD, maybe just go for hj svc with those MLs
Alternatively can bj
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Old 22-10-2019, 02:36 AM
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

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so recently a year ago when my second kid came along, sex really dwindled to once or twice a month and I am starting to feel damn super frickin sian. its always so tiring, no time to wash the dishes etc... where got time for sex?

lagi Best is I everyday chiong sales for the family, my wife self snook and say things like "afraid i will go fool around outside because i am always on the go since she cannot give me sex".. which really pisses me off to hear this, because i did not fool around.

both of us are working, and i have been using apps previously but realised the ROI is super not worth and the time and effort taken is really super dang long. until a friend intro about GL and FL and all, that its safe (GL).. have not tried GL yet, but super urge to do so.

once she caught me surfing some porn and it became a big hoohaa gotta deal with much drama.. she cry and all..

went for MLs twice only and on the second time i fucked her and was super worried the next few weeks. worried about passing std to kids especially.

anyway, any bros here same situation as me?

how do u cope?

my reasoning is that, if wife cant give, i pay for a GL service, its not cheating isnt it? and I am super sex addicted.. daily think about it.. go to office see so many OLs and ladies but can only see, lol. tried most ways except GL for now and really wanna explore more.. the other only thing that is holding me back is the fear of STDs.

really is 生不如死 now....
TS, Instead of crying, your wife should realize that it was all her fault for neglecting your inner needs.
Some faithful men being sexually deprived by their wives for months/years will have chronic health problems in later life. Think my guy’s ED and chronic health issues are caused by his wife who doesn’t give him regular sex after marriage. I pity him quietly daily. How wish he could open up to me about this issue.
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Old 22-10-2019, 02:39 AM
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

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I understand your points.

Yes, I could have said >
No sex/ Sex really dwindled, just endure it, respect the wife's decision,
that's what a good husband should do.
DIY/Mastb or better yet exercise to relief the stress.

"... wife fucking another man if she pays... "
> Yes, I don't deny there are women who do that too,

Then again, it is known that sexual desire is typically higher in men than in women, with testosterone thought to account for this difference as well as within-sex variation in desire in both women and men.

Condom.
> To trust them or not, research and you decide.

Suggestions brought up this topic:
----------------------------------------
1. Husband and wife should have a good talk to resolve the situation.
2. Be a good spouse and endure/continue with the no sex life.
3. Go separate ways and live a new life.
4. Pay or No Pay 3rd party for sex.
etc...

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion
and I wish everyone all the best and good health.
Think #2 is a bad idea as it might give husbands chronic health problems
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Old 22-10-2019, 08:25 AM
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

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many thanks to bros for sharing. we guys should have a group chat to ttss, to relieve some tension in us..

dear ts, just my 2 cents, if you venture to GL or anywhere, pls fxxk and go. many have high KC power to burn hole in our wallets. i did not take this advise and pay for my mistakes.. my whole wallet got burned, damn fxxking dong dong..

just my suggestion, don't burn me.
thanks for this suggestion bro, the ML I went to a few weeks ago GFE quite high, my friend say the KC game is strong scared my heart will wander off lol... but I kinda knew that was coming (after the research here in this forum) so wasnt really affected by it.

But who knows? if venture out in future may be burned but will always remember your advice bro!
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Old 22-10-2019, 08:30 AM
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

many many thanks for the responses here! I was quite surprised with the concerns and advices poured back here.. thanks a lot.

I have came to a few conclusions and I think moving forward, life is good and exciting.

eating out will help to reduce stress. it is transactional and there is no KC involved. No KC, no affair, no problem.

feel better now in the sense that I am not an ultimate sinner if i eat out, lol.

just a question, would you kiss your kids after the deeds outside? I still feel a little bad now.
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

Don't think too much. Just enjoy
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Re: Married for 5 years, but sex is getting very much lesser

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Think #2 is a bad idea as it might give husbands chronic health problems
Wow Sis ! Profound ! I think you refer to prostrate cancer. We guys must release every other day or else choke up.. no washing machine, then gotta hand-wash.. ha ha..
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