Need Some Serious Advice

[TheJackass]

Hi Bros,

Im new to sbf but has been active in cheonging for the past 2 years. Months back I met this VN lady and eventually fell for her after few bonking sessions. This is the first time in my life to be in love with someone of such background all because I broke my own rules (F and Go).

While she was in Spore, I actually asked her to stop working in such environment and indeed she stopped. We spent times together from evening to midnight for almost everyday (well cant be 100% sure whats she doing during day time since Im working). I even went extra miles to visit her in Vietnam and spent a day time with her family members.

She took my advice not to return to Spore but to wait for me in VN to marry her when Im financially ready (actually lied abt my actual income and savings in bank). Shes willing to wait for me but asked for $ to start a small biz in her country since after all no one is working in her family (Sum asked for is reasonable to me). The sum is of no issue to me but Im more concern abt her feeling towards me. Is she just eying for $, PR status or pure love?

Need some serious advice from seniors bros out there. Lastly sorry to all for my long grandmother's story and broken English.

[pewpew]

What does ur VN girl work as when u know her?

Is she worth it?

Are you Serious?

How big is the sum?

More specification might be better for other bros to understand the situation.

Lastly, are you prepared?

[silverblue]

Originally Posted by TheJackass

Hi Bros,

Im new to sbf but has been active in cheonging for the past 2 years. Months back I met this VN lady and eventually fell for her after few bonking sessions. This is the first time in my life to be in love with someone of such background all because I broke my own rules (F and Go).

While she was in Spore, I actually asked her to stop working in such environment and indeed she stopped. We spent times together from evening to midnight for almost everyday (well cant be 100% sure whats she doing during day time since Im working). I even went extra miles to visit her in Vietnam and spent a day time with her family members.

She took my advice not to return to Spore but to wait for me in VN to marry her when Im financially ready (actually lied abt my actual income and savings in bank). Shes willing to wait for me but asked for $ to start a small biz in her country since after all no one is working in her family (Sum asked for is reasonable to me). The sum is of no issue to me but Im more concern abt her feeling towards me. Is she just eying for $, PR status or pure love?

Need some serious advice from seniors bros out there. Lastly sorry to all for my long grandmother's story and broken English.

see the bolded part and your story itself already given you an answer. question is, will you accept the fact?

[mebirdie]

钱是可以买暂时的爱情
真爱是要时间来磨练的

There is no right or wrong. I do not know what is she and you up to as well.
Most important is that you must prepare to lose and it is not a heavy lesson. Do not blame her. You are the only one to blame and take it as a lesson.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by mebirdie

There is no right or wrong. I do not know what is she and you up to as well.
Most important is that you must prepare to lose and it is not a heavy lesson. Do not blame her. You are the only one to blame and take it as a lesson.

yes i do agree with what u said. It up to the person what he wanna do. We can advice alot and talk alot about good and bad things but in the end you are the one who decide or know what is good for u.

there are bros here who insult them but that doesnt mean their intention are not good. only some are...... like saying omg u marrying a whore...

Just ignore what they said. just focus on those advices that u need to think carefully before u commit.

cheers

[Oralcraz]

U r a big boy to make decision. No one can advise right or wrong, good or bad. Only advice to u is "think carefully and whatever u decide, DO NOT REGRET in future." As for asking for $$$, is normal. If not for $$$, she need to work as FL meh???

[etct88]

Originally Posted by TheJackass

Hi Bros,

Im new to sbf but has been active in cheonging for the past 2 years. Months back I met this VN lady and eventually fell for her after few bonking sessions. This is the first time in my life to be in love with someone of such background all because I broke my own rules (F and Go).

While she was in Spore, I actually asked her to stop working in such environment and indeed she stopped. We spent times together from evening to midnight for almost everyday (well cant be 100% sure whats she doing during day time since Im working). I even went extra miles to visit her in Vietnam and spent a day time with her family members.

She took my advice not to return to Spore but to wait for me in VN to marry her when Im financially ready (actually lied abt my actual income and savings in bank). Shes willing to wait for me but asked for $ to start a small biz in her country since after all no one is working in her family (Sum asked for is reasonable to me). The sum is of no issue to me but Im more concern abt her feeling towards me. Is she just eying for $, PR status or pure love?

Need some serious advice from seniors bros out there. Lastly sorry to all for my long grandmother's story and broken English.

Hi nephew!

u have PM....

ah pek....

[TheJackass]

Just to furnish more info to my first posting. I got to know her in Joo Chiat while I was having dinner with my friend months back. She asked for ard 3K to start up her biz in VN. So far have invested ard 4K during her two months stay in Spore and 0.5k on her when I was in Vietnam.

To be frank Im serious abt it but not mentally ready. She initialed to have our sessions raw, thinking back makes me worried abt health issues. Was told off by her that paying her at end of each bonking session makes me no diff from all her ex-customers. Maybe shes just one of the Red Star Award winner out there.

[colins]

You probably can't confirm anything until somebody else is willing to give her larger sum of money to start a bigger business. Eyeing your money yes, eyeing your PR yes, eyeing for pure love from you all yes. Question is, what ARE you eyeing for?

[FL Lover]

To TS, you mentioned to yor VN ger abt your finanical status and your earnings. She listens to you n returns to VN to wait for you but in returns, she needs you to send her $$ to start business....

My advise, if I were you, I will run to the nearest church or temple, wash my face with holy water or bless water and slap myself hard....

Another typical KC... Whats wrong with SBF nowadays.. Getting more n more pple get kced everyday...

Have you ever ask yourself.. What if she ask you for more $$ but this time rounds, $$ not enough. More excuses e.g. Renovations, No business but need $$ for rents, SHOP GET BURNT, FLOOD DAMAGED GOODS, COWS RUN INTO SHOPS, PARENTS KAPO ALL GOODS IN SHOP ETC ETC...

U already lying to VN ger abt your finanical status. Better stop now if you can before u sink deep

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

My advise, if I were you,

Should be "My ADVICE...".

"Advise" is a verb.

[abuja]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

Another typical KC... Whats wrong with SBF nowadays.. Getting more n more pple get kced everyday...

A better question to ask is what is wrong with Singapore girls nowadays regardless WL or not. How come bros don't kc with them and find foreign girls to KC instead.

[groo]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

...Another typical KC... Whats wrong with SBF nowadays.. Getting more n more pple get kced everyday......Have you ever ask yourself.. What if she ask you for more $$ but this time rounds, $$ not enough. More excuses e.g. Renovations, No business but need $$ for rents, SHOP GET BURNT, FLOOD DAMAGED GOODS, COWS RUN INTO SHOPS, PARENTS KAPO ALL GOODS IN SHOP ETC ETC......

Shows that SBF is attracting more and more members...

Anyway, once she asks for more money, that's the cue for the TS, isn't it?!?!!? Faster bail out lah, still wait with your head on the chopping board meh?!??!? Bwahahahahahahaha!!!

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by abuja

A better question to ask is what is wrong with Singapore girls nowadays regardless WL or not. How come bros don't kc with them and find foreign girls to KC instead.

this one ah.........well 4 a better understanding pls try dating both and i am sure u will knw the answer yrself.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by groo

Shows that SBF is attracting more and more members...

Anyway, once she asks for more money, that's the cue for the TS, isn't it?!?!!? Faster bail out lah, still wait with your head on the chopping board meh?!??!? Bwahahahahahahaha!!!

hahahaha but problem is by the time the magic word is out, the guy already gong gong liao and will be more than willing to give her watever she asks 4 to 'prove his love' for her. chop!