Confused gal

Hi,

I have problem seducing my husband. We have been married for not more than 2 years but he does not like to make luv to me, futhermore he has affairs behind my back.
I can say I am a not too bad looking chinese gal with seductive looks as there are men around who wanted me to be their lover but I have declined them ( By the way I am a pure Singaporean). Can any good men out there advise me what else can I do? I have tried sexy undergarments, nighty but still no use.
Since courtship we hardly have sex for more than 10 times so it is impossible that he is sick of me. When we do make luv, he cannot do it for long and I am a high sex drive kind of gal, its driving me crazy!! Appreciate it if you can give me some advise but pls don't tell me to look for you to satisfied my hunger for I really want to try pleasing him.

[jjlsk777]

Originally Posted by nikkie.candie

Hi,

I have problem seducing my husband. We have been married for not more than 2 years but he does not like to make luv to me, futhermore he has affairs behind my back.
I can say I am a not too bad looking chinese gal with seductive looks as there are men around who wanted me to be their lover but I have declined them ( By the way I am a pure Singaporean). Can any good men out there advise me what else can I do? I have tried sexy undergarments, nighty but still no use.
Since courtship we hardly have sex for more than 10 times so it is impossible that he is sick of me. When we do make luv, he cannot do it for long and I am a high sex drive kind of gal, its driving me crazy!! Appreciate it if you can give me some advise but pls don't tell me to look for you to satisfied my hunger for I really want to try pleasing him.

hi sis,
i think you had post in the wrong section of the forum.

maybe the senior bros can help to move the thread to the correct place.

[vodafoo]

you may consider experiencing different sex in different positions and places.

[dreadlord]

You may find 1 of the bro here to help you on your sexual urge. Just kidding...

[ishtarsg]

You should actually find out what type of girls your hubby is into actually and what makes you different from them. In that case you can know what your hubby is actually looking for

[akaza24]

Mabe u can go read up some books on how to improve couple sex lives and relationship, I believe a tour to the bookstore/library will able to nab u some resources

[xhardboiled]

Reminds me of a gd friend. Super chio D cupper who is a stunner and yet her husband hardly made love to her except the few times where she gt pregn and give birth. He was however fkg afew gf outside.

i think u shld talk to ur hubby. Sometimes its nt the SEDUCTION. It cld be somethg v basic. Get it sorted 1st and then hopefully he will get horny over u again.

[Glamorous]

I don't mind give you try your skills on me.
Then I can FR for you to review...

[SammyHulk]

My soundest advice is go look 4 professional help. U will need a competent counselor 4 ur confused predicament.

[utd4ever59]

Its all down to his head.Maybe he likes to make love to other women cos they can satisfy his fantasies like sucking his cock or even let him enter via the back hole or even cum in mouth for him.Have you ever done this to him before?Maybe he lets to lick and suck your vagina but you don't allow him.There are so many reasons and the only possibilty is that both of you are too shy to tell your fantasies to each other.Try watching a blue movie and see his reaction and then you start your actions.Or even better ,do it in the car park or stairscase ...anywhere and everywhere when you have the urge.Rape him if you must.

[SaintArc]

To Confused WiFe
is yr hubby younger than u ?
do u have children ?
y not go for a tour like honeymoon do u think it will be better and see more concerts go bk to courtship Days

msg me

[Raidster1]

i think is better to talk to him. he should know what he wants from you.




my 2 cents.

[hang37]

maybe u ask urself few qns
1) in first place why u two marry?
2) did u do anything wrong to him first?
3) any medical problem for him?

[antlau]

good day sis,

another possibility is that your husband may feel inferior or scared of unable to satisfy your needs (since you said you have a high sex drive), and thus prefer to avoid making love to you. Then he may go outside and use money to satisfy his own "feelings"...

the only advice is communication and seek professional help.

All the best and take care.

[DaveConnell78]

Hi,
Hoped it help u...
Maybe u sld try to kiss him 1st with more passion then touch his sensitive parts (not private) but other near it...sld think of doing it outside...maybe garden it will increased his sex drive if do outside...

If u try many ways just to get him high...and still no chance...then maybe "love" factors not around anymore as u know..."make love" means there's love factor not just pure sex only...gd luck