Sugars and spices

[NotMyRealName]

Hi, just want to write about my stories.
Married for over 2x7 (so perhaps double the itch), anyway gave in to the temptation of lust/want-to-have-gf-feeling/whatever, started with social escorts, then pros from online okt, and later to Geylang, went to Orchard Tower and Brix just to see what's the fuss about. Gone to Amsterdam, BKK, but have yet to visit the Dongguan or ChangPing/ChangAn place.

Back to the theme, it's about sugars and the spices that comes along with it.

[alan0338]

camp here ......

[studdyme]

camping for more!

[NotMyRealName]

Sorry, under moderation, so slowly it cums ;-)

Me, 42 yrs old then, puts an ad on a local ads posting site for a sugar babe, requesting for 20-23 yrs old and stating preferring local SG girl, offer monthly allowance and details to be discussed over email.

Over a period of more than a month, only a couple of girls tried email me, one or two are just curious girls asking if the ad is real. One SG and one Malaysian Chinese gal who are here in Singapore is interested. More of them later.

[NotMyRealName]

Firstly, the Malaysian Girl "F" is 21, 1.68, she is SPM (our A level equivalent) but result were average, she has worked as a part-time model and after finish SPM she did more than a year of full time modeling. She claimed that she had been offered to be Baoed by Malaysian businessman but never agreed.

F suddenly felt that modeling work is not long term, and wanted to do fashion design, so she came to Singapore. No relative here. She work full time in a 3* Hotel restaurant as waitress while applying to go into one of the Poly full time diploma course.

[NotMyRealName]

She thinks that she needed money for school fees, accommodation and expenses, and she claimed that she is lonely here as her familiar ground is Malaysia (she has not been to Singapore before) so a good boyfriend who take cares of her financial needs is what she wants. That is when she chanced upon my online advert and we chatted via email and then MSN.

We met one Saturday afternoon at a ice-cream cafe in the area of Novena. She has the model look, A/A+ size boobs, near my 1.76m height because she wear heals (3 inches), and looks above average.

She said this is her first time, so I was the one who brings up the topic of how much money to bao her, what's her background, going to study (nowadays, I don't ask so much question, I'm not looking for wife material, but that's a later topic), etc etc.

[NotMyRealName]

One question I remembered asking her if she will be exclusive, and she said do I mean I'll have more than one baoyee at a time? I said my question meant will she be exclusively mine only and she said she will be, but she will take up part time modelling job whenever her agency called for her.

I said ok. Little did I realise until later than she is hiding more than her part time modelling job from me.

So we began a month of bf-gf relationship, and I helped her find and move to a room which is closer to her Poly-of-choice while waiting for the acceptance by the Poly. But she got a rejection letter. She said why the Poly reject her, I asked her to call the school and she did, the reply was her results not good enough while the course attracts good candidates. I encouraged her to try the local popular arts and design institute and she did apply.

[NotMyRealName]

Meanwhile, sometime she can disappear without a single SMS. Later she will say that her modelling agency got her and a few other models onto a yacht and is part of the gig that she has to undertake, which is not strictly modelling work but to help entertain business guests of the model agency's boss.

Anyway, I was impatient that I did not get beyond hug and simple kisses, while she said she will want to ease into it because she has not have a bf for over a year. But I was dark mood after the sixth or seventh time where she only allow kiss at one night that we were at a ECP car park. I insisted to go to a hotel with short-term stay and she didn't reply. We drove to an area where there are a couple of hotels with short-term stay and she waited in the car while I get the room.

[NotMyRealName]

After sending her home, that night we sms each other and we reaffirm that we liked each other.

I found something about her online in facebook via google. She has three facebook profiles, one she uses to keep in touch with her old home town school mates and friend and quite innocent stuff. While the other two profiles are those she uses to be with friends she made after she gone modelling or just know from over the Internet.

She is not Internet savvy, and one of this FB profile, she asks if anyone knows of this certain rare collector item that normally man will collect.

[NotMyRealName]

My interest was piqued and I search further on it and without divulging how I got the info, I learnt that she actually has another man whom she proclaimed to love very much for more than a year (while she has only been here a three months). He is very rich, comes from Malaysia, but has family and lives in condo in the Orchard. Apparently, she is two timing. And she owns up to it when I confronted her with the other guy's photo which I got from google search.

She said she wouldn't want to expose that guy's relationship with her and she loves that guy. I didn't know what else to say beside saying it's over between us. It lasted exactly a month.

With hindsight, I thanked my Internet knowledge and the lucky chance that the girl's lack of personal information security let me finds out about her two-timing sooner than later.

That's when I started to stay away from models for potential baoyee, a phobia that I have never got over.

[NotMyRealName]

I'll try to do a lessons learnt that goes with each gal.

I'm the budget limited type, at that time, I look for gal under 2K/month arrangement.

With this Malaysian Chinese gal, she is deceitful, and try to sell herself to be worth more. But modelling also high expenses because they are exposed to the glamour or parties/functions that they attended.

Anyway, another gal enter the picture, and this local gal is 21 yrs old from a local uni, final year undergrad in biz mgmt.

[NotMyRealName]

S, the local gal, stays in the Jurong West area, and studies in Clementi. Comes from single parent (father passed away in work accident a few years back) and she has an older sister who works but seldom gives money to help with family expenses. Mother works as food store and always tired.

She needed money for school fees and daily expenses. So she reply to my ad and we chatted on line. Initially she is looking to work as a WL via Internet on her own but after I said the ad is for sugarbabe she said it's even better, so we arranged to meet for the first time at a quiet pub.

She is slightly better than average looking, a little shy at first, and a little meaty (but not fat) which I find cute in a way. 1.63 ish height, C size boobs.

She finds that I'm okay and I too about her. We agreed on the monthly allowance.

[NotMyRealName]

Interestingly, saw a cafe at Alexandra Retail Centre today called Sugar N Spice.

[NotMyRealName]

Little did I realise until later in the process that local gal is not suitable, at least to me, to be a baoyee/sugarbabe. I'll share my analysis later.

She is undergoing final year of her studies, but free most weekdays night, and I meet her a couple of times a week, usually to have a meal or to catch a movie, first couple of weeks to get to know her.

She is sexperienced, having had 2 to 3 boyfriends. But, my work then is busy, forcing me to have little time before 8pm, but she can only stay out until 11pm or so. This I think, is the crux of problem of local gal. Reason being: until they are married, they stay with parent/s and siblings, and going home late is not usually accepted. The other major problem is local gal has larger social circle and many interests that get their attention than most foreigners here. So, meeting time is squeezed and always rush to meet her and then send her back.

This is worse when she hits the exam prep/actual exam period. Because she is average student, well at least she is focused ;-) that she dedicate most of her time and ask for my understanding to allow her for 4 weeks to fully prepare and then take her exam. I said if I need to see her, she at least try to make one of the night to meet me. But several attempts and it clashed with her study time with classmates to prepare for her exam came to a head.

Given the limited time to see her, and she failed one subject in her exam and thus will repeat, I think I've enough of difficulty to co-ordinate her schedule with my availability and call it end.

Fortunately, my 3rd time attempt to get a baoyee proved to be the best (or second best if the current one proves to be better in more ways than one).

p.s. although I need very little motivation to re-tell my experiences, a little encouragement is much appreciated.

[NotMyRealName]

WF is a PRC working as an junior executive in a US MNC. She is on 2-yrs work permit and had just renewed it.

She saw my ad and initiated email and subsequently MSN me to chat.

Her English is haltingly passable, and I learnt hanyu pinyin and enhance my proficiency of Chinese language because of her.

She came from JiangSu YangZhou, 22 yrs old, short at 1.59m, slim, high school grad, A+ boobs. She was shy at the initial stage of getting to know her, but her gfe grows very strong and it was the most heart-wrenching for us to part after a 16 months period together.

I remember meeting her the first time in a hong kong style cafe.